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"Would be interesting to hear people's views on this one. 'Why do lots of women wear flat shoes on holiday'? At first, one could be forgiven for thinking they are relaxing on holiday having a nice stroll along the beach front and around the shops, flats are comfortable. Totally get it. Then you arrive back at your hotel/apartment and you're getting ready for a night on the town (or even just a pleasant evening meal) and it's flat shoes again! Where's the lovely sexy heels ladies? You're on holiday! You spend time getting tanned before you go away (don't get that either, kind of defeats the purpose of going away to get a tan) hitting the gym to look good, getting your nails and hair done, all very nice and much appreciated. But then it's off to the shops for flat shoes and bloody flowery dresses. There's young women out there that from behind who could be mistaken for a coach load of blue rinse grannies. My Mrs always makes an effort and buys lovely dresses and heels (admittedly she wears flats by day, never at night) and really goes all out to look beautiful, as she always does to be honest. I try and return serve and buy nice shirts and trousers, good shoes, and if I do feel the need to wear shorts and flip flops at night, they'll most definitely be dress ones. Ultimately, I just don't get why some people work hard and pay thousands (sometimes tens of thousands) to go away, look lovely, then fuck it all up every night with shit shoes, shit dresses by looking like a flock of penguins marching into a club or restaurant. Please tell me there's still some British women out there who wear nice heels and dresses on holiday?" I wear lovely dresses and lovely shoes and can look nice thankyou. If I choose not to wear heels you think that makes me cheap ?? My god how condescending | |||
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"I suspect that these women who dress in a way that displeases you might well be dressing in a way that pleases them." 
Totally agree. These days women like to dress to please themselves in whatever they feel comfortable in  | |||
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"I don't usually bother taking any heels on holiday. They take up too much room in my suitcase, my feet swell up in the heat so they rub and I want to be able to wander around and explore without worrying about whether my feet are going to hurt." We probably have different ideas about what we go on holiday for,to the OP. | |||
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 but, we all should wear what we are comfy in | |||
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"When I went on hols with a female friend she did not pack one pair of heels. Promenades.. decking...cobbled paths.. sandy walks along the beach in the evenings is not really a place for heels she said. May have changed if we did a different type of holiday but not for beach hols." | |||
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"I don't usually bother taking any heels on holiday. They take up too much room in my suitcase, my feet swell up in the heat so they rub and I want to be able to wander around and explore without worrying about whether my feet are going to hurt. We probably have different ideas about what we go on holiday for,to the OP. " Looking at their holiday photos I think you're right. | |||
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"Would be interesting to hear people's views on this one. 'Why do lots of women wear flat shoes on holiday'? At first, one could be forgiven for thinking they are relaxing on holiday having a nice stroll along the beach front and around the shops, flats are comfortable. Totally get it. Then you arrive back at your hotel/apartment and you're getting ready for a night on the town (or even just a pleasant evening meal) and it's flat shoes again! Where's the lovely sexy heels ladies? You're on holiday! You spend time getting tanned before you go away (don't get that either, kind of defeats the purpose of going away to get a tan) hitting the gym to look good, getting your nails and hair done, all very nice and much appreciated. But then it's off to the shops for flat shoes and bloody flowery dresses. There's young women out there that from behind who could be mistaken for a coach load of blue rinse grannies. My Mrs always makes an effort and buys lovely dresses and heels (admittedly she wears flats by day, never at night) and really goes all out to look beautiful, as she always does to be honest. I try and return serve and buy nice shirts and trousers, good shoes, and if I do feel the need to wear shorts and flip flops at night, they'll most definitely be dress ones. Ultimately, I just don't get why some people work hard and pay thousands (sometimes tens of thousands) to go away, look lovely, then fuck it all up every night with shit shoes, shit dresses by looking like a flock of penguins marching into a club or restaurant. Please tell me there's still some British women out there who wear nice heels and dresses on holiday?" I'm Too old for "LOOK AT ME I'M FUCKABLE" now I've done all that high wearing shoe stuff in My Teens and in My Twenties when I went Night Clubs Year's Ago. | |||
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"I suspect that these women who dress in a way that displeases you might well be dressing in a way that pleases them." | |||
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"Flat Primark shoes and matching dresses it is then lol" Probably Matalan flipflops tbh. I don't make a lot of money and I have to really work and save hard to afford the holidays I like. Would rather spend a few hundred quid on the holiday itself than some stilettos so that some random guy thought I looked presentable. | |||
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"Flat Primark shoes and matching dresses it is then lol" Not necessarily. I wear heels at home and on holiday, I love them, I think they look great. The responses you're getting are because you've tried to flatter one woman by insulting others, that never goes down well and because you've implied that your version of beauty is the only one that never goes down well either. The lady in your pictures looks gorgeous but women in flat shoes look gorgeous too but maybe just not to you. Nothing wrong with Primark shoes but flats are available elsewhere too  | |||
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"Flat Primark shoes and matching dresses it is then lol" Nothing wrong with that... | |||
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"Would be interesting to hear people's views on this one. 'Why do lots of women wear flat shoes on holiday'? At first, one could be forgiven for thinking they are relaxing on holiday having a nice stroll along the beach front and around the shops, flats are comfortable. Totally get it. Then you arrive back at your hotel/apartment and you're getting ready for a night on the town (or even just a pleasant evening meal) and it's flat shoes again! Where's the lovely sexy heels ladies? You're on holiday! You spend time getting tanned before you go away (don't get that either, kind of defeats the purpose of going away to get a tan) hitting the gym to look good, getting your nails and hair done, all very nice and much appreciated. But then it's off to the shops for flat shoes and bloody flowery dresses. There's young women out there that from behind who could be mistaken for a coach load of blue rinse grannies. My Mrs always makes an effort and buys lovely dresses and heels (admittedly she wears flats by day, never at night) and really goes all out to look beautiful, as she always does to be honest. I try and return serve and buy nice shirts and trousers, good shoes, and if I do feel the need to wear shorts and flip flops at night, they'll most definitely be dress ones. Ultimately, I just don't get why some people work hard and pay thousands (sometimes tens of thousands) to go away, look lovely, then fuck it all up every night with shit shoes, shit dresses by looking like a flock of penguins marching into a club or restaurant. Please tell me there's still some British women out there who wear nice heels and dresses on holiday?" You try wearing them in the heat and agree with all non wearing heels comments we dress to please ourselves it's called liberation | |||
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"Flat Primark shoes and matching dresses it is then lol" I have primark flip flops and kurt Geiger heels quite a few infact but I'm not a snob. And I buy my pjs from primark omg call the fashion police | |||
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"Flat Primark shoes and matching dresses it is then lol" Primark? No, they never fit right on my boobs. My latest flowery dress is from Hell Bunny if you were after shopping advice. And flat shoes are available in many shops; my favourite holiday ones are little bejeweled gladiator sandals I think I got in Dorothy Perkins. | |||
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"Flat Primark shoes and matching dresses it is then lol" I look awesome in Primark so sure | |||
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"Flat Primark shoes and matching dresses it is then lol" Nothing wrong with a bit of Primarni 
Personally I think short dresses and heels can look out of place but it depends on the individual.
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"I don't usually bother taking any heels on holiday. They take up too much room in my suitcase, my feet swell up in the heat so they rub and I want to be able to wander around and explore without worrying about whether my feet are going to hurt. We probably have different ideas about what we go on holiday for,to the OP. Looking at their holiday photos I think you're right." I didn't think you were allowed to get personal on forums about people's photos. Maybe I'm wrong | |||
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"Who is Fiona ? "My sister actually but I don't think she's on here | |||
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"I don't usually bother taking any heels on holiday. They take up too much room in my suitcase, my feet swell up in the heat so they rub and I want to be able to wander around and explore without worrying about whether my feet are going to hurt. We probably have different ideas about what we go on holiday for,to the OP. Looking at their holiday photos I think you're right. I didn't think you were allowed to get personal on forums about people's photos. Maybe I'm wrong " Thanks, I'm sure I'll be suitably reprimanded if that's the case. But it wasn't a comment on whether they were good or bad, so I wouldn't seem it "getting personal" - just an observation of difference. | |||
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"Flat Primark shoes and matching dresses it is then lol" Nope. I have far too much stuff going on here (and no funds) to even think about going on holiday but if I did I wouldn't be thinking about anyone else but myself! | |||
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"I suspect that these women who dress in a way that displeases you might well be dressing in a way that pleases them." Of course, clothes make people x | |||
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"Flat Primark shoes and matching dresses it is then lol Nothing wrong with that..." Absolutely, each to their own x | |||
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"I suspect that these women who dress in a way that displeases you might well be dressing in a way that pleases them. Of course, clothes make people x" Bullshit!!! People make people! If you really just judge people on their clothes then youre really missing out on life. | |||
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"I suspect that these women who dress in a way that displeases you might well be dressing in a way that pleases them. Of course, clothes make people x" I disagree, people make clothes in my opinion. I do agree that we all make judgements based on first impressions, I know I do anyway. For example I recently met an MP in a professional capacity and didn't recognise her at first because she was dressed in jeans and I didn't expect to see an on-duty MP dressed like that but the jeans are a reflection of her personality not the other way round. | |||
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"Italian, Spanish, German and the Irish like to wear heels on an evening. Perhaps it's a British thing." Have you done a survey | |||
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"Italian, Spanish, German and the Irish like to wear heels on an evening. Perhaps it's a British thing." I disagree actually, I've found Spanish and German people in the places I've been on holiday recently were much more likely to be dressed casually in the evenings. It was the Brits getting tarted up. | |||
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"Italian, Spanish, German and the Irish like to wear heels on an evening. Perhaps it's a British thing. I disagree actually, I've found Spanish and German people in the places I've been on holiday recently were much more likely to be dressed casually in the evenings. It was the Brits getting tarted up." Me too,I don't remember seeing any Spanish women wearing heels | |||
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"Italian, Spanish, German and the Irish like to wear heels on an evening. Perhaps it's a British thing." Always remember there's always someone better off than yourself that may look down on how you or your gf dress or where you shop. So I take it haute couture and louboutins are what you both wear? Must be lovely up there on your horse | |||
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"Italian, Spanish, German and the Irish like to wear heels on an evening. Perhaps it's a British thing. Always remember there's always someone better off than yourself that may look down on how you or your gf dress or where you shop. So I take it haute couture and louboutins are what you both wear? Must be lovely up there on your horse " It's not about money it's about class. I have a pair of flat sandals and flat boots that probably cost more than a small car but that doesn't make me classy or better than anyone else just like wearing heels dosent make you attractive | |||
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"Italian, Spanish, German and the Irish like to wear heels on an evening. Perhaps it's a British thing. Always remember there's always someone better off than yourself that may look down on how you or your gf dress or where you shop. So I take it haute couture and louboutins are what you both wear? Must be lovely up there on your horse " High horse riding seems like something far better suited to flat shoes... | |||
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"Italian, Spanish, German and the Irish like to wear heels on an evening. Perhaps it's a British thing. Always remember there's always someone better off than yourself that may look down on how you or your gf dress or where you shop. So I take it haute couture and louboutins are what you both wear? Must be lovely up there on your horse It's not about money it's about class. I have a pair of flat sandals and flat boots that probably cost more than a small car but that doesn't make me classy or better than anyone else just like wearing heels dosent make you attractive " You have flat sandles that cost about 6 grand! | |||
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"Italian, Spanish, German and the Irish like to wear heels on an evening. Perhaps it's a British thing. Always remember there's always someone better off than yourself that may look down on how you or your gf dress or where you shop. So I take it haute couture and louboutins are what you both wear? Must be lovely up there on your horse It's not about money it's about class. I have a pair of flat sandals and flat boots that probably cost more than a small car but that doesn't make me classy or better than anyone else just like wearing heels dosent make you attractive You have flat sandles that cost about 6 grand! "Ok not a new car but that wasn't my point | |||
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"Italian, Spanish, German and the Irish like to wear heels on an evening. Perhaps it's a British thing. Always remember there's always someone better off than yourself that may look down on how you or your gf dress or where you shop. So I take it haute couture and louboutins are what you both wear? Must be lovely up there on your horse High horse riding seems like something far better suited to flat shoes..." Hahaha!! Amen to that! | |||
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"Italian, Spanish, German and the Irish like to wear heels on an evening. Perhaps it's a British thing." Now there is a universal sweeping statement that is just plain wrong . . . It's always bad form to try to prove a point by making up an unsustainable or dubious statement of fact. | |||
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"On our swinging holidays, I do like to wear heels and sexy dresses in the evening, but then we are mainly in a club, so not teetering about too much! But on our non swinging holidays in Greece, then more casual and heels are tricky in some of the little Greek streets but, we all should wear what we are comfy in "Very true, I spend a lot of time in Greece with work at the moment (mainly on the Islands) and go out most nights. There's plenty of places for ladies with heels that are entirely acessible. Nice to read you make an effort though. Good for you | |||
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"On our swinging holidays, I do like to wear heels and sexy dresses in the evening, but then we are mainly in a club, so not teetering about too much! But on our non swinging holidays in Greece, then more casual and heels are tricky in some of the little Greek streets but, we all should wear what we are comfy in
Very true, I spend a lot of time in Greece with work at the moment (mainly on the Islands) and go out most nights. There's plenty of places for ladies with heels that are entirely acessible. Nice to read you make an effort though. Good for you "So any woman who doesn't wear heels or sexy dress are not making an effort ? Read my posts above OP | |||
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"On our swinging holidays, I do like to wear heels and sexy dresses in the evening, but then we are mainly in a club, so not teetering about too much! But on our non swinging holidays in Greece, then more casual and heels are tricky in some of the little Greek streets but, we all should wear what we are comfy in
Very true, I spend a lot of time in Greece with work at the moment (mainly on the Islands) and go out most nights. There's plenty of places for ladies with heels that are entirely acessible. Nice to read you make an effort though. Good for you
So any woman who doesn't wear heels or sexy dress are not making an effort ? Read my posts above OP "Nice attempt, but kindly refrain from force feeding your words into my mouth please. Sometimes it's nice just to accept a compliment without reading too much into it. If you'd take the time to read my original post, you'd learn that I do appreciate all the effort my woman goes to as well as above what's clearly the norm! The reason I've posted is as a direct result of the flabbergasting number of winks, raised glasses and hilarious number of blokes that get elbowed in the ribs by their Mrs for staring at mine. | |||
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"i think if youve got away on holiday with your partner away from all other distractions its nice to make the effort for each other, otherwise why did you go away together in the first place..yes flats on the beach or lounging fair enough but being taken out in the evening just the two of you..id make the effort..." Hallelujah Suzy! You're the second one I've seen so far around here! Good for you. Us chaps really do appreciate it. I think it makes the holiday more exciting, more memorable and let's face it, holiday snaps look awesome with the odd pair of heels here or there | |||
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"Would be interesting to hear people's views on this one. 'Why do lots of women wear flat shoes on holiday'? At first, one could be forgiven for thinking they are relaxing on holiday having a nice stroll along the beach front and around the shops, flats are comfortable. Totally get it. Then you arrive back at your hotel/apartment and you're getting ready for a night on the town (or even just a pleasant evening meal) and it's flat shoes again! Where's the lovely sexy heels ladies? You're on holiday! You spend time getting tanned before you go away (don't get that either, kind of defeats the purpose of going away to get a tan) hitting the gym to look good, getting your nails and hair done, all very nice and much appreciated. But then it's off to the shops for flat shoes and bloody flowery dresses. There's young women out there that from behind who could be mistaken for a coach load of blue rinse grannies. My Mrs always makes an effort and buys lovely dresses and heels (admittedly she wears flats by day, never at night) and really goes all out to look beautiful, as she always does to be honest. I try and return serve and buy nice shirts and trousers, good shoes, and if I do feel the need to wear shorts and flip flops at night, they'll most definitely be dress ones. Ultimately, I just don't get why some people work hard and pay thousands (sometimes tens of thousands) to go away, look lovely, then fuck it all up every night with shit shoes, shit dresses by looking like a flock of penguins marching into a club or restaurant. Please tell me there's still some British women out there who wear nice heels and dresses on holiday?" Why waste your time judging other people? I'm sure you wouldnt like them judging you? Each to there own surely .... | |||
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"I don't understand why flats = doesn't make an effort? When did that become the norm? Is this an older generation thing? " It takes me ages to find a decent pair of flat shoes for a wedding or night out. | |||
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"i think if youve got away on holiday with your partner away from all other distractions its nice to make the effort for each other, otherwise why did you go away together in the first place..yes flats on the beach or lounging fair enough but being taken out in the evening just the two of you..id make the effort... Hallelujah Suzy! You're the second one I've seen so far around here! Good for you. Us chaps really do appreciate it. I think it makes the holiday more exciting, more memorable and let's face it, holiday snaps look awesome with the odd pair of heels here or there "i personally would want to be at it, like rabbits the whole holiday to stoking his desire would be my main objective..why wouldnt it?? quality time with your significant other is really important, you shouldnt take people for granted x | |||
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"I almost never wear heels... flip flops and flats all the way here and I don't give a flying fook if most people think that isn't sexy... at my age I dress for my comfort lol" Almost never wearing heels implies you sometimes do. And that's the point I've tried to make. No ones suggesting either that it's what 'everyone' thinks. I guess I'm just old fashioned and expect that if I'm making all the effort I can, then so should my partner. If yours doesn't, then carrying on dressing for comfort. Sounds like you've nowt to lose. | |||
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"I don't understand why flats = doesn't make an effort? When did that become the norm? Is this an older generation thing? " no its not...as I've got older my centre of gravity has shifted so you wouldn't see me in heels anyway, quite apart from the fact I don't wish to stick out like a sore thumb! | |||
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"i think if youve got away on holiday with your partner away from all other distractions its nice to make the effort for each other, otherwise why did you go away together in the first place..yes flats on the beach or lounging fair enough but being taken out in the evening just the two of you..id make the effort..." I went away with my partner to Lanzarote. We had single beds. I could have been dressed in a designer dress and heels and he wouldn't have been impressed; in fact,he would have been pissed off that I couldn't walk up the hill to the apartment every evening,as I struggled to do it in flat shoes. Putting a pair of heels on isn't making an effort to me. It's just pandering to a man's whims. If I want to wear them because I like how they feel I will,but not on holiday where I'm supposed to be relaxing. | |||
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"I don't understand why flats = doesn't make an effort? When did that become the norm? Is this an older generation thing? no its not...as I've got older my centre of gravity has shifted so you wouldn't see me in heels anyway, quite apart from the fact I don't wish to stick out like a sore thumb!" I suppose I just meant among younger people heels isn't seen as such a "thing" now. If you look at, for example, the Instagram feeds of the young and rich and beautiful, they tend to not be tottering around in court shoes. No heels meaning a lack of effort, or inelegance, is an incredibly old fashioned attitude. | |||
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"I don't understand why flats = doesn't make an effort? When did that become the norm? Is this an older generation thing? " I think it must be as I'm struggling to understand. My nan probably has this view point also | |||
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"i think if youve got away on holiday with your partner away from all other distractions its nice to make the effort for each other, otherwise why did you go away together in the first place..yes flats on the beach or lounging fair enough but being taken out in the evening just the two of you..id make the effort... I went away with my partner to Lanzarote. We had single beds. I could have been dressed in a designer dress and heels and he wouldn't have been impressed; in fact,he would have been pissed off that I couldn't walk up the hill to the apartment every evening,as I struggled to do it in flat shoes. Putting a pair of heels on isn't making an effort to me. It's just pandering to a man's whims. If I want to wear them because I like how they feel I will,but not on holiday where I'm supposed to be relaxing. " thats where we differ i like pandering to a mans whims...im no feminist, i like happy people around me, especially those i proclaim to love.. | |||
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"I almost never wear heels... flip flops and flats all the way here and I don't give a flying fook if most people think that isn't sexy... at my age I dress for my comfort lol Almost never wearing heels implies you sometimes do. And that's the point I've tried to make. No ones suggesting either that it's what 'everyone' thinks. I guess I'm just old fashioned and expect that if I'm making all the effort I can, then so should my partner. If yours doesn't, then carrying on dressing for comfort. Sounds like you've nowt to lose." with a 35'' inside leg I don't really need to elongate them any more | |||
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"What a crock of shite! I usually holiday in the Greek Islands during the summer hols, tottering around in a pair of heels dressed upto the nines would not only me look like a complete tit but would be impratical & unsafe. If I was holidaying in a 5* all inclusive resort where I only had to walk down from my room to the restaurant & bars then heels would make an appearance. Only crock of shite round here Roxie is your iq! Read it again Einstein and you'll see (Eureka moment for you) that I was merely referring to the evening and moreover, the 'meal' bit. If you have to totter and consider them unsafe, then might I suggest you work a bit harder and buy a decent pair and put some practice in! "Us older women with dodgy knees would struggle in designer heels. Plus,some women don't suddenly turn into a hot,bodied woman just because they wear heels and a ln lbd. Can't make a silk purse out of a sow's ear. | |||
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"i think if youve got away on holiday with your partner away from all other distractions its nice to make the effort for each other, otherwise why did you go away together in the first place..yes flats on the beach or lounging fair enough but being taken out in the evening just the two of you..id make the effort... I went away with my partner to Lanzarote. We had single beds. I could have been dressed in a designer dress and heels and he wouldn't have been impressed; in fact,he would have been pissed off that I couldn't walk up the hill to the apartment every evening,as I struggled to do it in flat shoes. Putting a pair of heels on isn't making an effort to me. It's just pandering to a man's whims. If I want to wear them because I like how they feel I will,but not on holiday where I'm supposed to be relaxing. thats where we differ i like pandering to a mans whims...im no feminist, i like happy people around me, especially those i proclaim to love.." I'm not sure I could love someone who felt that the way I could demonstrate my love for him was dressing in ill advised mini dresses and mid 90s court shoes in a hot climate. | |||
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"i think if youve got away on holiday with your partner away from all other distractions its nice to make the effort for each other, otherwise why did you go away together in the first place..yes flats on the beach or lounging fair enough but being taken out in the evening just the two of you..id make the effort... I went away with my partner to Lanzarote. We had single beds. I could have been dressed in a designer dress and heels and he wouldn't have been impressed; in fact,he would have been pissed off that I couldn't walk up the hill to the apartment every evening,as I struggled to do it in flat shoes. Putting a pair of heels on isn't making an effort to me. It's just pandering to a man's whims. If I want to wear them because I like how they feel I will,but not on holiday where I'm supposed to be relaxing. thats where we differ i like pandering to a mans whims...im no feminist, i like happy people around me, especially those i proclaim to love.." I do too, but not on holiday. I've only ever been with my husband twice on our own,and we were having a much needed rest. No sex,just eat,sleep and read. I'm old now,so heels are only for the bedroom or I'll cripple myself. | |||
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"i think if youve got away on holiday with your partner away from all other distractions its nice to make the effort for each other, otherwise why did you go away together in the first place..yes flats on the beach or lounging fair enough but being taken out in the evening just the two of you..id make the effort... I went away with my partner to Lanzarote. We had single beds. I could have been dressed in a designer dress and heels and he wouldn't have been impressed; in fact,he would have been pissed off that I couldn't walk up the hill to the apartment every evening,as I struggled to do it in flat shoes. Putting a pair of heels on isn't making an effort to me. It's just pandering to a man's whims. If I want to wear them because I like how they feel I will,but not on holiday where I'm supposed to be relaxing. thats where we differ i like pandering to a mans whims...im no feminist, i like happy people around me, especially those i proclaim to love.. I'm not sure I could love someone who felt that the way I could demonstrate my love for him was dressing in ill advised mini dresses and mid 90s court shoes in a hot climate." i love being told to dress up im a total tomboy most of the time..its good for me to be encouraged to dress up, look nice and to be womanly..if that in turen sparks his lust and desire than thats cool by me..'dont mind men' really are insipid..and dont inspire me at all | |||
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"I don't understand why flats = doesn't make an effort? When did that become the norm? Is this an older generation thing? no its not...as I've got older my centre of gravity has shifted so you wouldn't see me in heels anyway, quite apart from the fact I don't wish to stick out like a sore thumb! I suppose I just meant among younger people heels isn't seen as such a "thing" now. If you look at, for example, the Instagram feeds of the young and rich and beautiful, they tend to not be tottering around in court shoes. No heels meaning a lack of effort, or inelegance, is an incredibly old fashioned attitude. " Well there's a sweeping statement if ever I saw one. Having access to Twitter firehouse and all of instagrams feeds as well as shmoozing with all the celebs,...and you're on fab? Why not! Never suggested that heels had to be worn for the duration, merely just on the odd occasion as suggested in my post. I've a few wealthy clients of my own and dined with more than a few people off the telly and the odd one off the big screen so to speak. Understand this, not one of them (females anyway) wore flat shoes. Then again, unlike you, I don't know them all, so what would I know | |||
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"i think if youve got away on holiday with your partner away from all other distractions its nice to make the effort for each other, otherwise why did you go away together in the first place..yes flats on the beach or lounging fair enough but being taken out in the evening just the two of you..id make the effort... I went away with my partner to Lanzarote. We had single beds. I could have been dressed in a designer dress and heels and he wouldn't have been impressed; in fact,he would have been pissed off that I couldn't walk up the hill to the apartment every evening,as I struggled to do it in flat shoes. Putting a pair of heels on isn't making an effort to me. It's just pandering to a man's whims. If I want to wear them because I like how they feel I will,but not on holiday where I'm supposed to be relaxing. thats where we differ i like pandering to a mans whims...im no feminist, i like happy people around me, especially those i proclaim to love.. I'm not sure I could love someone who felt that the way I could demonstrate my love for him was dressing in ill advised mini dresses and mid 90s court shoes in a hot climate." I hated court shoes in the 90's ,I wouldn't wear them now. They were around in the 80s too I think,such a long time ago. | |||
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"Just recently off our hols and Mrs N wore flowing, summery dresses, flats and occasionaly wedges, it seemed (imo) to match the weather, the surroundings and the general holiday ambience. Tbh if she'd have worn some high heels I'd have probably thought they were a little out of place considering what we were doing but ultimately that decision is up to her, glad we think alike.
It is indeed but my post never referred to high heels, mainly heels, and it certainly made no references to wearing them for elongated periods of time.
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"I wear nice dresses on holiday,you can bugger off if I'm trotting about wearing heels though. I have some that have a wedge so not completely flat,but I go for comfort on holiday." Read it again, wasn't suggesting they ought to be worn for the duration. Merely for the odd meal out. It's all about reading and comprehension dear. | |||
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"i think if youve got away on holiday with your partner away from all other distractions its nice to make the effort for each other, otherwise why did you go away together in the first place..yes flats on the beach or lounging fair enough but being taken out in the evening just the two of you..id make the effort... I went away with my partner to Lanzarote. We had single beds. I could have been dressed in a designer dress and heels and he wouldn't have been impressed; in fact,he would have been pissed off that I couldn't walk up the hill to the apartment every evening,as I struggled to do it in flat shoes. Putting a pair of heels on isn't making an effort to me. It's just pandering to a man's whims. If I want to wear them because I like how they feel I will,but not on holiday where I'm supposed to be relaxing. thats where we differ i like pandering to a mans whims...im no feminist, i like happy people around me, especially those i proclaim to love.. I do too, but not on holiday. I've only ever been with my husband twice on our own,and we were having a much needed rest. No sex,just eat,sleep and read. I'm old now,so heels are only for the bedroom or I'll cripple myself. you went on holiday to not have sex???..oh my god..who are you??? do you actually feel alive on this planet..what they hell were you doing together if you didnt want to rip each others clothes off constantly? the mind f'ing boggles "Our relationship wasn't built on lust or sex. He wasn't the ripping clothes off kind of man anyway. | |||
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"I don't understand why flats = doesn't make an effort? When did that become the norm? Is this an older generation thing? no its not...as I've got older my centre of gravity has shifted so you wouldn't see me in heels anyway, quite apart from the fact I don't wish to stick out like a sore thumb! I suppose I just meant among younger people heels isn't seen as such a "thing" now. If you look at, for example, the Instagram feeds of the young and rich and beautiful, they tend to not be tottering around in court shoes. No heels meaning a lack of effort, or inelegance, is an incredibly old fashioned attitude. Well there's a sweeping statement if ever I saw one. Having access to Twitter firehouse and all of instagrams feeds as well as shmoozing with all the celebs,...and you're on fab? Why not! Never suggested that heels had to be worn for the duration, merely just on the odd occasion as suggested in my post. I've a few wealthy clients of my own and dined with more than a few people off the telly and the odd one off the big screen so to speak. Understand this, not one of them (females anyway) wore flat shoes. Then again, unlike you, I don't know them all, so what would I know "its very obvious you are adept at twisting what people say on here in order to get a very weak point across.. I get that you like to dress to impress when on a night out with your fella, whether here or abroad, but its also obvious that most people are comfortable in flats .... we don't have to agree with you, or each other but we would like a little respect for our own views, without them being twisted by you just so you can score points ...is that not too much to ask? | |||
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"I don't understand why flats = doesn't make an effort? When did that become the norm? Is this an older generation thing? no its not...as I've got older my centre of gravity has shifted so you wouldn't see me in heels anyway, quite apart from the fact I don't wish to stick out like a sore thumb! I suppose I just meant among younger people heels isn't seen as such a "thing" now. If you look at, for example, the Instagram feeds of the young and rich and beautiful, they tend to not be tottering around in court shoes. No heels meaning a lack of effort, or inelegance, is an incredibly old fashioned attitude. Well there's a sweeping statement if ever I saw one. Having access to Twitter firehouse and all of instagrams feeds as well as shmoozing with all the celebs,...and you're on fab? Why not! Never suggested that heels had to be worn for the duration, merely just on the odd occasion as suggested in my post. I've a few wealthy clients of my own and dined with more than a few people off the telly and the odd one off the big screen so to speak. Understand this, not one of them (females anyway) wore flat shoes. Then again, unlike you, I don't know them all, so what would I know
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"I would never ask Flik to dress in a certain way as that is her choice and as long as she is happy that's fine by me.....and to be fair, she would look beautiful dressed in a sack. Paul." How lovely !!! | |||
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"i think if youve got away on holiday with your partner away from all other distractions its nice to make the effort for each other, otherwise why did you go away together in the first place..yes flats on the beach or lounging fair enough but being taken out in the evening just the two of you..id make the effort... I went away with my partner to Lanzarote. We had single beds. I could have been dressed in a designer dress and heels and he wouldn't have been impressed; in fact,he would have been pissed off that I couldn't walk up the hill to the apartment every evening,as I struggled to do it in flat shoes. Putting a pair of heels on isn't making an effort to me. It's just pandering to a man's whims. If I want to wear them because I like how they feel I will,but not on holiday where I'm supposed to be relaxing. thats where we differ i like pandering to a mans whims...im no feminist, i like happy people around me, especially those i proclaim to love.. I'm not sure I could love someone who felt that the way I could demonstrate my love for him was dressing in ill advised mini dresses and mid 90s court shoes in a hot climate.i love being told to dress up im a total tomboy most of the time..its good for me to be encouraged to dress up, look nice and to be womanly..if that in turen sparks his lust and desire than thats cool by me..'dont mind men' really are insipid..and dont inspire me at all" I don't like insipid 'don't mind' men, either. I just like men with taste. | |||
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"I don't understand why flats = doesn't make an effort? When did that become the norm? Is this an older generation thing? no its not...as I've got older my centre of gravity has shifted so you wouldn't see me in heels anyway, quite apart from the fact I don't wish to stick out like a sore thumb! I suppose I just meant among younger people heels isn't seen as such a "thing" now. If you look at, for example, the Instagram feeds of the young and rich and beautiful, they tend to not be tottering around in court shoes. No heels meaning a lack of effort, or inelegance, is an incredibly old fashioned attitude. Well there's a sweeping statement if ever I saw one. Having access to Twitter firehouse and all of instagrams feeds as well as shmoozing with all the celebs,...and you're on fab? Why not! Never suggested that heels had to be worn for the duration, merely just on the odd occasion as suggested in my post. I've a few wealthy clients of my own and dined with more than a few people off the telly and the odd one off the big screen so to speak. Understand this, not one of them (females anyway) wore flat shoes. Then again, unlike you, I don't know them all, so what would I know "I hate to be the one to break it to you but just because someone's on 'telly' doesn't mean they've got any class. There's a lot to be said for subtly... I dare say that's not something you would understand op  | |||
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"i think if youve got away on holiday with your partner away from all other distractions its nice to make the effort for each other, otherwise why did you go away together in the first place..yes flats on the beach or lounging fair enough but being taken out in the evening just the two of you..id make the effort... I went away with my partner to Lanzarote. We had single beds. I could have been dressed in a designer dress and heels and he wouldn't have been impressed; in fact,he would have been pissed off that I couldn't walk up the hill to the apartment every evening,as I struggled to do it in flat shoes. Putting a pair of heels on isn't making an effort to me. It's just pandering to a man's whims. If I want to wear them because I like how they feel I will,but not on holiday where I'm supposed to be relaxing. thats where we differ i like pandering to a mans whims...im no feminist, i like happy people around me, especially those i proclaim to love.. I do too, but not on holiday. I've only ever been with my husband twice on our own,and we were having a much needed rest. No sex,just eat,sleep and read. I'm old now,so heels are only for the bedroom or I'll cripple myself. you went on holiday to not have sex???..oh my god..who are you??? do you actually feel alive on this planet..what they hell were you doing together if you didnt want to rip each others clothes off constantly? the mind f'ing boggles
Our relationship wasn't built on lust or sex. He wasn't the ripping clothes off kind of man anyway. "i only choose to marry men i want to rip their clothes off for years.. i didn't realise people married for any other reason x | |||
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"i think if youve got away on holiday with your partner away from all other distractions its nice to make the effort for each other, otherwise why did you go away together in the first place..yes flats on the beach or lounging fair enough but being taken out in the evening just the two of you..id make the effort... I went away with my partner to Lanzarote. We had single beds. I could have been dressed in a designer dress and heels and he wouldn't have been impressed; in fact,he would have been pissed off that I couldn't walk up the hill to the apartment every evening,as I struggled to do it in flat shoes. Putting a pair of heels on isn't making an effort to me. It's just pandering to a man's whims. If I want to wear them because I like how they feel I will,but not on holiday where I'm supposed to be relaxing. thats where we differ i like pandering to a mans whims...im no feminist, i like happy people around me, especially those i proclaim to love.. I do too, but not on holiday. I've only ever been with my husband twice on our own,and we were having a much needed rest. No sex,just eat,sleep and read. I'm old now,so heels are only for the bedroom or I'll cripple myself. you went on holiday to not have sex???..oh my god..who are you??? do you actually feel alive on this planet..what they hell were you doing together if you didnt want to rip each others clothes off constantly? the mind f'ing boggles
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"I don't understand why flats = doesn't make an effort? When did that become the norm? Is this an older generation thing? " Nor can I! Slobby women for heaven's sake throw those flat or wedge shoes and nice sandles away so we can please this one person and put some bloody heel's on have some self respect we're here to please men! Women know your place,yes I know he may be wearing his shorts and flipflops in the evening,but they're posh one's right! | |||
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"i think if youve got away on holiday with your partner away from all other distractions its nice to make the effort for each other, otherwise why did you go away together in the first place..yes flats on the beach or lounging fair enough but being taken out in the evening just the two of you..id make the effort... I went away with my partner to Lanzarote. We had single beds. I could have been dressed in a designer dress and heels and he wouldn't have been impressed; in fact,he would have been pissed off that I couldn't walk up the hill to the apartment every evening,as I struggled to do it in flat shoes. Putting a pair of heels on isn't making an effort to me. It's just pandering to a man's whims. If I want to wear them because I like how they feel I will,but not on holiday where I'm supposed to be relaxing. thats where we differ i like pandering to a mans whims...im no feminist, i like happy people around me, especially those i proclaim to love.. I do too, but not on holiday. I've only ever been with my husband twice on our own,and we were having a much needed rest. No sex,just eat,sleep and read. I'm old now,so heels are only for the bedroom or I'll cripple myself. you went on holiday to not have sex???..oh my god..who are you??? do you actually feel alive on this planet..what they hell were you doing together if you didnt want to rip each others clothes off constantly? the mind f'ing boggles
Our relationship wasn't built on lust or sex. He wasn't the ripping clothes off kind of man anyway. i only choose to marry men i want to rip their clothes off for years.. i didn't realise people married for any other reason x
If only people would learn to read. Wearing heels for a meal out is no big deal and shouldn't be an effort. Fears of being branded a feminist or being crippled by heels (don't buy shit ones) are ridiculous. Pander all you like, it's your prerogative, just as it is mine to suggest that wearing heels for 2 hours out of a 336 hour holiday ought not to be such a chore."do what you want i couldnt give a rats arse..yes ill do what i want..dont give a rats arse about me either..i dont want to read the whole damn thread i commented..end of..its sunday,go get laid in your flats or heels or whatever you want..i dont give a monkeys... | |||
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"I don't understand why flats = doesn't make an effort? When did that become the norm? Is this an older generation thing? no its not...as I've got older my centre of gravity has shifted so you wouldn't see me in heels anyway, quite apart from the fact I don't wish to stick out like a sore thumb! I suppose I just meant among younger people heels isn't seen as such a "thing" now. If you look at, for example, the Instagram feeds of the young and rich and beautiful, they tend to not be tottering around in court shoes. No heels meaning a lack of effort, or inelegance, is an incredibly old fashioned attitude. Well there's a sweeping statement if ever I saw one. Having access to Twitter firehouse and all of instagrams feeds as well as shmoozing with all the celebs,...and you're on fab? Why not! Never suggested that heels had to be worn for the duration, merely just on the odd occasion as suggested in my post. I've a few wealthy clients of my own and dined with more than a few people off the telly and the odd one off the big screen so to speak. Understand this, not one of them (females anyway) wore flat shoes. Then again, unlike you, I don't know them all, so what would I know
its very obvious you are adept at twisting what people say on here in order to get a very weak point across..
I get that you like to dress to impress when on a night out with your fella, whether here or abroad, but its also obvious that most people are comfortable in flats ....
we don't have to agree with you, or each other but we would like a little respect for our own views, without them being twisted by you just so you can score points ...is that not too much to ask?
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"As a naturist couple we try to go where dressing up is the last thing on anyone's mind plus we both love the relaxed look. Paul doesn't own a pair of trousers and I prefer to wear flat shoes/sandals all the time regardless of whether on holiday or not." why do you live too far away fellow naturist here - bare foot if i can (heels hurt my bad back anyway ) - | |||
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"I don't understand why flats = doesn't make an effort? When did that become the norm? Is this an older generation thing? no its not...as I've got older my centre of gravity has shifted so you wouldn't see me in heels anyway, quite apart from the fact I don't wish to stick out like a sore thumb! I suppose I just meant among younger people heels isn't seen as such a "thing" now. If you look at, for example, the Instagram feeds of the young and rich and beautiful, they tend to not be tottering around in court shoes. No heels meaning a lack of effort, or inelegance, is an incredibly old fashioned attitude. Well there's a sweeping statement if ever I saw one. Having access to Twitter firehouse and all of instagrams feeds as well as shmoozing with all the celebs,...and you're on fab? Why not! Never suggested that heels had to be worn for the duration, merely just on the odd occasion as suggested in my post. I've a few wealthy clients of my own and dined with more than a few people off the telly and the odd one off the big screen so to speak. Understand this, not one of them (females anyway) wore flat shoes. Then again, unlike you, I don't know them all, so what would I know
its very obvious you are adept at twisting what people say on here in order to get a very weak point across..
I get that you like to dress to impress when on a night out with your fella, whether here or abroad, but its also obvious that most people are comfortable in flats ....
we don't have to agree with you, or each other but we would like a little respect for our own views, without them being twisted by you just so you can score points ...is that not too much to ask?
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"Well this thread was fucking hilarious
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"Well this thread was fucking hilarious
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"If only people would learn to read. Wearing heels for a meal out is no big deal and shouldn't be an effort. Fears of being branded a feminist or being crippled by heels (don't buy shit ones) are ridiculous. Pander all you like, it's your prerogative, just as it is mine to suggest that wearing heels for 2 hours out of a 336 hour holiday ought not to be such a chore." I did read what you put and I still think it's unreasonable to try and push what you want on other people. However much of a non-chore you think it is. Why not enjoy your holiday and stop worrying about what women are wearing on their feet | |||
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"What I don't understand is if your wife wears heels for you, why are you spending your holiday looking at what other women wear? Surely you should be paying attention to her only? I'm surprised she doesn't give you a few digs in the ribs "Fyi, it's my Mrs that pointed it out lol. If you've never given other people even a cursory glance when you're out, says a lot about you. It's only natural to look around, smile, pay compliments (when they're due). | |||
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"You would hate my dress sense op as those flowery dresses and sandals you talk of are my day to day wear. I love vintage 1950s pin up style and classic clothes I prefer to look classy than slutty. " Yes I agree slutty isn't a good look. Or when you see some woman squeezed into a dress that's obviously to small for them. But some would class that as dressing sexy hey. Everyone has different opinions different strokes and all that | |||
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"Would be interesting to hear people's views on this one. 'Why do lots of women wear flat shoes on holiday'? At first, one could be forgiven for thinking they are relaxing on holiday having a nice stroll along the beach front and around the shops, flats are comfortable. Totally get it. Then you arrive back at your hotel/apartment and you're getting ready for a night on the town (or even just a pleasant evening meal) and it's flat shoes again! Where's the lovely sexy heels ladies? You're on holiday! You spend time getting tanned before you go away (don't get that either, kind of defeats the purpose of going away to get a tan) hitting the gym to look good, getting your nails and hair done, all very nice and much appreciated. But then it's off to the shops for flat shoes and bloody flowery dresses. There's young women out there that from behind who could be mistaken for a coach load of blue rinse grannies. My Mrs always makes an effort and buys lovely dresses and heels (admittedly she wears flats by day, never at night) and really goes all out to look beautiful, as she always does to be honest. I try and return serve and buy nice shirts and trousers, good shoes, and if I do feel the need to wear shorts and flip flops at night, they'll most definitely be dress ones. Ultimately, I just don't get why some people work hard and pay thousands (sometimes tens of thousands) to go away, look lovely, then fuck it all up every night with shit shoes, shit dresses by looking like a flock of penguins marching into a club or restaurant. Please tell me there's still some British women out there who wear nice heels and dresses on holiday?" I like Jesus sandals with lederhosen's, despicable me shirt and bright pink braces. You should wear them all the time on holiday OP. | |||
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"The problem some of us women have is towering over men,when we wear heels. " You just can't beat a beautifully dressed woman in a pair of heels. | |||
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"The problem some of us women have is towering over men,when we wear heels. You just can't beat a beautifully dressed woman in a pair of heels." Define beautifully dressed OP? And define beauty? Any old heels hey plastic cheap ones? Very classy but aslong as they are heels that's ok is it?? | |||
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"By the look of your photos Im wondering where you go on holiday? Maybe an all inclusive at a building site in Syria?? Nice heals though
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"By the look of your photos Im wondering where you go on holiday? Maybe an all inclusive at a building site in Syria?? Nice heals though
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"The problem some of us women have is towering over men,when we wear heels. You just can't beat a beautifully dressed woman in a pair of heels." I'll ignore the earlier IQ jibe at me. It's all subjective. I think a beautiful women is just that, beautiful, regardless of her clothing. | |||
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"The problem some of us women have is towering over men,when we wear heels. You just can't beat a beautifully dressed woman in a pair of heels." What clothes do you find beautiful then if flowery dresses aren't? | |||
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"The problem some of us women have is towering over men,when we wear heels. You just can't beat a beautifully dressed woman in a pair of heels. I'll ignore the earlier IQ jibe at me. It's all subjective. I think a beautiful women is just that, beautiful, regardless of her clothing." Agree entirely. Never suggested for one minute that it made a flat shoe wearing woman any less beautiful. If it's flat shoes, it's flat shoes, but we sure don't get the impression that a good pair of heels aren't a welcome sight from the majority of the chaps they're with. Salut x | |||
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"The problem some of us women have is towering over men,when we wear heels. You just can't beat a beautifully dressed woman in a pair of heels. What clothes do you find beautiful then if flowery dresses aren't?" I asked that question above but got no reply. I said for him to define beautifully dressed | |||
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"The problem some of us women have is towering over men,when we wear heels. You just can't beat a beautifully dressed woman in a pair of heels. I'll ignore the earlier IQ jibe at me. It's all subjective. I think a beautiful women is just that, beautiful, regardless of her clothing. Agree entirely. Never suggested for one minute that it made a flat shoe wearing woman any less beautiful. If it's flat shoes, it's flat shoes, but we sure don't get the impression that a good pair of heels aren't a welcome sight from the majority of the chaps they're with. Salut x" I'd welcome a mans perspective on this, maybe I'm completely out of touch...... | |||
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"The problem some of us women have is towering over men,when we wear heels. You just can't beat a beautifully dressed woman in a pair of heels. I'll ignore the earlier IQ jibe at me. It's all subjective. I think a beautiful women is just that, beautiful, regardless of her clothing. Agree entirely. Never suggested for one minute that it made a flat shoe wearing woman any less beautiful. If it's flat shoes, it's flat shoes, but we sure don't get the impression that a good pair of heels aren't a welcome sight from the majority of the chaps they're with. Salut x I'd welcome a mans perspective on this, maybe I'm completely out of touch......" From my perspective (Paul) I probably wouldn't even notice what shoes someone was wearing...Im more interested in the person. | |||
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"The problem some of us women have is towering over men,when we wear heels. You just can't beat a beautifully dressed woman in a pair of heels. I'll ignore the earlier IQ jibe at me. It's all subjective. I think a beautiful women is just that, beautiful, regardless of her clothing. Agree entirely. Never suggested for one minute that it made a flat shoe wearing woman any less beautiful. If it's flat shoes, it's flat shoes, but we sure don't get the impression that a good pair of heels aren't a welcome sight from the majority of the chaps they're with. Salut x I'd welcome a mans perspective on this, maybe I'm completely out of touch...... From my perspective (Paul) I probably wouldn't even notice what shoes someone was wearing...Im more interested in the person." | |||
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"Heels don't necessarily equal classiness. My partner looks classy in heels, when she chooses to wear them, in my opinion. Other women can look cheap, same goes for flats, it's more about the woman than the shoes. I love heels generally, but tbh the pics of your lady don't do it for me op. Just my personal preference. " | |||
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"What a crock of shite! I usually holiday in the Greek Islands during the summer hols, tottering around in a pair of heels dressed upto the nines would not only me look like a complete tit but would be impratical & unsafe. ." Yup and I am afraid many women I see out of a night teetering around on ludicrously high heels look ridiculous, and frankly rather cheap to be honest. I used to wear high heels when I was young and foolish, luckily not enough to damage my feet or back, but nothing I could not walk normally and dance in!!! | |||
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"What a crock of shite! I usually holiday in the Greek Islands during the summer hols, tottering around in a pair of heels dressed upto the nines would not only me look like a complete tit but would be impratical & unsafe. . Yup and I am afraid many women I see out of a night teetering around on ludicrously high heels look ridiculous, and frankly rather cheap to be honest. I used to wear high heels when I was young and foolish, luckily not enough to damage my feet or back, but nothing I could not walk normally and dance in!!!" Haa yes, i'd probably nudge my partner and tell him to look at some of these women for a giggle because they can look rather ridiculous and out of place. Note i said some, not all | |||
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"By the look of your photos Im wondering where you go on holiday? Maybe an all inclusive at a building site in Syria?? "
I guess the thing that hacks me off is the suggestion that someone wearing flat shoes is not 'making the effort', rather than someone who has made an entirely appropriate choice, just has different taste from the OP.
I agree that on holiday in a hot climate being comfortable is pretty much the priority, and I hope I never holiday with any man who thinks otherwise. | |||
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