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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know we are all very diffrent here but have you come across some weird swinging rules ? we have like dont kiss in places. He full swaps but she dont ... only have sex in the Car. Dont meet hotel or home or clubs . My list could go on . What have you come across.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was with my ex we were approached by a couple looking for a 4sum. They said that she would be expected to play with both of them where as my role would be limitted to playing with her and having no contact with either of them. I suggested that this wasnt really our take of a 4sum and what they were basically suggesting was inviting a 3sum and offering me the opportunity to watch.
They didnt agree with this at all and insited that many couples were happy to play by these rules... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if they need rules they not prober swingers, you need to just go with the flow, just relax and enjoy more peeps the better, good swinging session must be like heaven |
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"if they need rules they not prober swingers, you need to just go with the flow, just relax and enjoy more peeps the better, good swinging session must be like heaven"
What a load of bollocks. Nearly everyone has rules of some sort |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most people have some sort of boundaries or rules that they play by
If the amount of rules overide the anount of pleasure you may get then I would'nt bother even going there,Id be on edge all night and would never be able to relax and enjoy myself  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After the initial person to person attraction, the "match rules" will always dictate whether or not you get it on or give it a swerve 
Always respect the other persons views. You don't have to agree with them, you can just as easily walk away.
A pet hate of mine is when a couple write to us, everything seems fine and dandy, we arrange to meet, then they produce the rule book which is longer than their profile.
So if everyone put their do's and don'ts on their profile we'd all know where we stood, right from the off |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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Everyone has their boundaries/rules....
But the one thing I hated most when I was swinging as a couple, was one couple telling us what we could and couldnt do....
Tell me your rules and I will happily abide by them...but dont start telling me what I can an cant do!!!
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Rules, spec, boundaries, likes/dislikes, standards...we all have them and have them because they are what WE are comfortable with.
Nothing wrong with knowing what you want so long as you meet compatible people and you know where you stand with each other....It's good to talk  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always enquire prior to a meet what are the absolutely NO's as it can be awkward and everyone to their own in that respect.
I cannot judge as there are some things i do not personally do but I would say the main thing I get is the NO kissing, which is fine but it does sort of get me going but can find other ways but not as powerful as this one.
I've had a woman only giving a bj with a condom on, a new experience to be honest but am up for new challenges !!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I dont think you can say any other peoples rules are weird they have them for a reason and should be respected  "
one couple there thing was sports Socks thay both liked them on there feet at all times ...... i did think that was a little strange .Made me think there was somthing wrong ... |
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My pet hate is the rule you don't know is coming until you've been caught out. One example is when you are playing in the "all-in-orgy" at a party, only to find that after getting aroused to the point of explosion, you rip open the condom wrapper only to find that the woman you are playing with (and her hubbie, wherever he is in the tangle of bodies) is "ultimate own partner only"
All is well if you know in advance, but getting caught on the hop is rather, er, "frustrating".  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The weirdest one I encountered was when chatting via email with a couple I was planning on meeting and they told me 'you can't make too much noise when you come in case it wakes the baby up'!!
Suffice to say I declined the invitation to join them at theirs that night! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We only have one and that is safe sex all the way - surprised how many claim this and then try to pressure into not using condoms... We keep this special to us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I remember when i was with the ex we had a 'couple' contact us, was the male half and he mailed us saying nice pics we'd like to meet but my mrs never does first meets with me, she likes me to go meet and play with the couple first them if you nice and we get on she will come play on the second meet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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oh forgot to add strangely enough this 'couples' profile had loads of verirications from people saying how nice this ghuy was and couldnt wait to meet them as a couple but not a single one where anyone verified meeting them both
Im just amazed at how many people fell for that line lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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And other week had post of this couple saying thay only had sex in the car with other people . I mailed back saying maybe thay could come here one night if thay had family or hotel ..... thay said no ... it turns them on having sex in there lovely car thats there thing ...... strange i hope seat covers as i am a gusher .. lol |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I remember when i was with the ex we had a 'couple' contact us, was the male half and he mailed us saying nice pics we'd like to meet but my mrs never does first meets with me, she likes me to go meet and play with the couple first them if you nice and we get on she will come play on the second meet "
Single man alert single man alert !!! |
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My minimum rules follow for reference:
1 I will be addressed as The Grand Imperial Wizard of Swing at all times.
2 All participants must wear either a pith helmet, tricorn or a fedora at all times.
3 No eye contact at all.
4 All women shall wear fluffy pink slippers on first contact.
5 The male genitalia shall be referred to as Richard at all times.
6 The female genitalia shall be referred to as tippitwitchet at all times.
7 I shall be provide with a large bottle of Babycham, a giant bag of peanut M&M's and a family sized bag of cheesy Wotsits upon arrival.
8 The meet will last exactly 7 minutes.
9 I will be gifted with a party bag containing various sweets, party toys and a slice of chocolate cake after the meet.
I like to keep things simple.
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"My minimum rules follow for reference:
1 I will be addressed as The Grand Imperial Wizard of Swing at all times.
2 All participants must wear either a pith helmet, tricorn or a fedora at all times.
3 No eye contact at all.
4 All women shall wear fluffy pink slippers on first contact.
5 The male genitalia shall be referred to as Richard at all times.
6 The female genitalia shall be referred to as tippitwitchet at all times.
7 I shall be provide with a large bottle of Babycham, a giant bag of peanut M&M's and a family sized bag of cheesy Wotsits upon arrival.
8 The meet will last exactly 7 minutes.
9 I will be gifted with a party bag containing various sweets, party toys and a slice of chocolate cake after the meet.
I like to keep things simple.
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Number 4 is just going too far  |
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