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My wife is on her first solo meet
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So tonight I'm home alone with our little one and my wife is out with her friend with benefit overnight in a hotel for the first time ever. We have only recently decided to go down the path of meeting others as well as having each other. I'm sat here rather turned on at the thought of what they are getting up to.
Any other guys like the idea of their partner with someone else? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Abit strange how your married but a single profile.. I smell a rat !!"
Did you read his profile ? Also plenty of married ladies have single separate profiles as well as joint ones |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Abit strange how your married but a single profile.. I smell a rat !!"
If you manage to read the first paragraph you will see the name of our joint profile. I can also give you the name of her solo profile if it helps keep the rat catcher away? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I fully understand the stigma attached to married men's solo accounts on fab but I do feel I've made it clear enough that I am not doing to the dirty. Unless you feel that I can do more? |
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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago
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"I fully understand the stigma attached to married men's solo accounts on fab but I do feel I've made it clear enough that I am not doing to the dirty. Unless you feel that I can do more?"
Hands up I didn't read so I apologise as I know I got it wrong !! |
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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago
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"Abit strange how your married but a single profile.. I smell a rat !!
I'm married but this is a single profile. What rat do you smell here, or is it only male rats that give off this aroma?"
I think I will have to NOT read things properly more often I've never has so many responses to a post all be it incorrect !! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I fully understand the stigma attached to married men's solo accounts on fab but I do feel I've made it clear enough that I am not doing to the dirty. Unless you feel that I can do more?
Hands up I didn't read so I apologise as I know I got it wrong !! "
No real harm done so don't worry about it.
Would be nice to get back on topic though |
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My wife quite often goes out meeting alone. I love it.
She never has and never would do an over night meet alone though. She likes coming home to me afterwards and telling me about all the things she got up to. |
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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago
birmingham |
"I fully understand the stigma attached to married men's solo accounts on fab but I do feel I've made it clear enough that I am not doing to the dirty. Unless you feel that I can do more?
Hands up I didn't read so I apologise as I know I got it wrong !!
No real harm done so don't worry about it.
Would be nice to get back on topic though "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Abit strange how your married but a single profile.. I smell a rat !!
If you manage to read the first paragraph you will see the name of our joint profile. I can also give you the name of her solo profile if it helps keep the rat catcher away?"
Never a dull day when you have to justify yourself to strangers eh?! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My wife quite often goes out meeting alone. I love it.
She never has and never would do an over night meet alone though. She likes coming home to me afterwards and telling me about all the things she got up to. "
Ah yeah, well I think of it were anyone different to who she is with she would be coming home but this guy isn't a stranger to her and I trust him. I'm getting ready all of the details in the morning along with some photos |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Abit strange how your married but a single profile.. I smell a rat !!
If you manage to read the first paragraph you will see the name of our joint profile. I can also give you the name of her solo profile if it helps keep the rat catcher away?
Never a dull day when you have to justify yourself to strangers eh?! "
The misunderstanding has been cleared up now |
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"My wife quite often goes out meeting alone. I love it.
She never has and never would do an over night meet alone though. She likes coming home to me afterwards and telling me about all the things she got up to.
Ah yeah, well I think of it were anyone different to who she is with she would be coming home but this guy isn't a stranger to her and I trust him. I'm getting ready all of the details in the morning along with some photos "
See in my mind it not a fuck it's a date/sleepover with chatting and spooning
Each to there own but no for me
Angie gets asked a lot to stay over night but just don't think it right for us |
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"My wife quite often goes out meeting alone. I love it.
She never has and never would do an over night meet alone though. She likes coming home to me afterwards and telling me about all the things she got up to.
Ah yeah, well I think of it were anyone different to who she is with she would be coming home but this guy isn't a stranger to her and I trust him. I'm getting ready all of the details in the morning along with some photos
See in my mind it not a fuck it's a date/sleepover with chatting and spooning
Each to there own but no for me
Angie gets asked a lot to stay over night but just don't think it right for us "
Same reason as us. The whole falling asleep with someone etc takes it to a level above just fucking someone for fun. Too personal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So tonight I'm home alone with our little one and my wife is out with her friend with benefit overnight in a hotel for the first time ever. We have only recently decided to go down the path of meeting others as well as having each other. I'm sat here rather turned on at the thought of what they are getting up to.
Any other guys like the idea of their partner with someone else? "
Sounds great. Would love to know how it goes! |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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I am part of married couple on here and we both have single profiles too for exactly that ..added the solo meet a good few years ago.. we also meet as a cpl and have never looked back ...best of both worlds for us i know its not to everyones taste but works for us |
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My hubby loves the thought of me and another man. (Or women, but mainly men). He had told me to go out and shag who I like. As long as I tell him in detail and pictures if I can. But watching me in person is the thing he most wants to do. And he has a few times. I'm not the sort of person to cheat. I feel a little like I'm betraying him. But I'm slowly getting my head around it. I'm so worried that I will do it and he will flip out when I tell him. Although he assures me and encourages me. We have a great relationship. I don't know why I feel like this. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My hubby loves the thought of me and another man. (Or women, but mainly men). He had told me to go out and shag who I like. As long as I tell him in detail and pictures if I can. But watching me in person is the thing he most wants to do. And he has a few times. I'm not the sort of person to cheat. I feel a little like I'm betraying him. But I'm slowly getting my head around it. I'm so worried that I will do it and he will flip out when I tell him. Although he assures me and encourages me. We have a great relationship. I don't know why I feel like this. "
That is very similar to how we are approaching this. We are working up to me watching and my wife is getting used to what's happening. I'm sure wth time you will more at ease with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thanks op we ve tried hotwifing once however from our couples profile we ve not really attracted many offers we ll try a single female profile just make things clear |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thanks op we ve tried hotwifing once however from our couples profile we ve not really attracted many offers we ll try a single female profile just make things clear "
A single female profile will help you no end I am sure
I'm struggling as I expected with my single males profile haha. We will be moving forward with the couples one though so I'm not at a total loss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks op we ve tried hotwifing once however from our couples profile we ve not really attracted many offers we ll try a single female profile just make things clear "
We have one of each. But things still aren't easy. |
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OP fortunate to be on the other side of this. Met a lovely couple, met th together, now we are arranging a date for me and her. Its a real turn on knowing she'll be telling him what we got up too.
I think its going to be a lot of fun, made a few different plans together.
Hope she loves telling you all about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks op we ve tried hotwifing once however from our couples profile we ve not really attracted many offers we ll try a single female profile just make things clear
We have one of each. But things still aren't easy." We ve just realised that we wont appear in single mens search if they don't search for couples |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My wife quite often goes out meeting alone. I love it.
She never has and never would do an over night meet alone though. She likes coming home to me afterwards and telling me about all the things she got up to.
Ah yeah, well I think of it were anyone different to who she is with she would be coming home but this guy isn't a stranger to her and I trust him. I'm getting ready all of the details in the morning along with some photos
See in my mind it not a fuck it's a date/sleepover with chatting and spooning
Each to there own but no for me
Angie gets asked a lot to stay over night but just don't think it right for us
Same reason as us. The whole falling asleep with someone etc takes it to a level above just fucking someone for fun. Too personal. "
I did overnights/dates with a married guy.....it went really wrong as feelings got involved....when a married guy tells you he loves you!!!! Problem was that I was in love with him....it was a mess. So my take on it is, take care and please be careful x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Abit strange how your married but a single profile.. I smell a rat !!
I smell a twat! Check and read before accusing people"
Dude!! Read the thread. It was all sorted! |
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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago
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"Abit strange how your married but a single profile.. I smell a rat !!
I smell a twat! Check and read before accusing people"
Your about 10 hrs too late the only twat here is you !!! Op already said misunderstanding been cleared so maybe you should try reading
But you probably won't be as humble as me and apologise for not reading the full profile and admitting to being wrong !!!! |
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By *rufflesCouple
over a year ago
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"My hubby loves the thought of me and another man. (Or women, but mainly men). He had told me to go out and shag who I like. As long as I tell him in detail and pictures if I can. But watching me in person is the thing he most wants to do. And he has a few times. I'm not the sort of person to cheat. I feel a little like I'm betraying him. But I'm slowly getting my head around it. I'm so worried that I will do it and he will flip out when I tell him. Although he assures me and encourages me. We have a great relationship. I don't know why I feel like this. "
Very similar to us. First time was when we arranged an o/n meet in a hotel. After a nice meal out we all enjoyed our usual MMF threesome. Despite many previous requests, out of the blue she suggested me spending the night alone in our room...and off they went to his room. I was both pleased and disappointed when she returned an hour or so later. Says she enjoyed having him to herself but also felt bad about leaving me on my own. However, since then she has spent many nights alone with him and I just love it when she gets back into bed with me the next morning...our sex is amazing as she talks me through what they have been up to!! Says she has had one or two strange looks from the cleaning girls though! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So how did it go OP? "
She loved it. He actually made her squirt (not through penetration) which hasn't happened before...
I loved being told all about it and seeing the couple of photos that were taken (they know to take more next time haha). It's definitely going to happen again as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hope one day if/when I'm in another serious relationship we can do this, not just me him also. I ultimately would love to have a husband partner to swing with and be involved in the BDSM community. I'd love that.
Hence why I'm single as every man I've met we've been on a different level and I don't want that x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So how did it go OP?
She loved it. He actually made her squirt (not through penetration) which hasn't happened before...
I loved being told all about it and seeing the couple of photos that were taken (they know to take more next time haha). It's definitely going to happen again as well "
Go enjoy yourselves now |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I hope one day if/when I'm in another serious relationship we can do this, not just me him also. I ultimately would love to have a husband partner to swing with and be involved in the BDSM community. I'd love that.
Hence why I'm single as every man I've met we've been on a different level and I don't want that x"
The plan is for me to be able to do this as well. Just it's obviously a lot harder for a guy to sort it out.
I'm sure you will find the right guy for you one day though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hope one day if/when I'm in another serious relationship we can do this, not just me him also. I ultimately would love to have a husband partner to swing with and be involved in the BDSM community. I'd love that.
Hence why I'm single as every man I've met we've been on a different level and I don't want that x
The plan is for me to be able to do this as well. Just it's obviously a lot harder for a guy to sort it out.
I'm sure you will find the right guy for you one day though "
I think there's more chance of the pope becoming Church of England. But I can dream hey xx |
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We have enjoyed similer scenerios a few time but not an overnight stay, dropping her off at a local hotel and then waiting for a call to collect her 'whenever she decides' is a huge turn on. She trusts me enough to know she can tell me everything they got up to and my reward is always giving her pussy the final fill of the night;. |
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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago
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Your a lucky man.. wish I could find a lady that would see other guys..
My only word of caution is that she will get meets when ever she wants and you wont get any... !!
That's a perfect scenario for me but not sure if you realise that.
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Mrs Fox is meeting her fuck buddy this Thursday an hour so before I get home from work and join in. It's a massive turn on for both of us, the only stipulation is that she sends photo updates of her activities |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Jools has her own profile.
She has had a few solo meets now, but I don't think I could cope with an overnight stay,i wouldn't be able to sleep adrenaline running through my veins.
But she did spend five hours in a hotel with a guy a month or two ago. |
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"Jools has her own profile.
She has had a few solo meets now, but I don't think I could cope with an overnight stay,i wouldn't be able to sleep adrenaline running through my veins.
But she did spend five hours in a hotel with a guy a month or two ago. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So how did it go OP?
She loved it. He actually made her squirt (not through penetration) which hasn't happened before...
I loved being told all about it and seeing the couple of photos that were taken (they know to take more next time haha). It's definitely going to happen again as well "
Sounds like you both had a great time. I am happy to apply my "squirting technique" and skills should you and Bee be interested in her coming to play with me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Abit strange how your married but a single profile.. I smell a rat !!
I smell a twat! Check and read before accusing peopleThey have apologised "
He should heed his own advice! |
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"So how did it go OP?
She loved it. He actually made her squirt (not through penetration) which hasn't happened before...
I loved being told all about it and seeing the couple of photos that were taken (they know to take more next time haha). It's definitely going to happen again as well "
Fairly similar experience here. He's always going to take better pics - and more. Think maybe i should send him on a photography course ! I do enjoy the two videos though and always get turned on thinking about it happening again. Started about 4 years ago - only using the one guy and only 1 all nighter so far ... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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She's known the guy for a long time but only recently gotten sexual with him as it was purely a friendship. It's that friendship and trust that led to an overnight. It wouldn't have happened with a fairly new person if that makes sense?
And as for me sleeping that night... I didn't get much haha. My mind was wondering off constantly (in a good way) |
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"She's known the guy for a long time but only recently gotten sexual with him as it was purely a friendship. It's that friendship and trust that led to an overnight. It wouldn't have happened with a fairly new person if that makes sense?
And as for me sleeping that night... I didn't get much haha. My mind was wondering off constantly (in a good way) "
Same here - longed for her to come home. Slightly disappointed when i rang at 9.40ish and they were fucking again - so that she could return home dirty ! Now i love a dirty wife but i was up early waiting for her to return. |
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