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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I believe it's a bit of a taboo Anal! because everyone who enjoys it has different experiences from it, I was wondering how many Women just keep it for themselves and partner and who enjoys it on a meet with others??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've certainly experienced ladies who like anal of the first meet so they are out there.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I believe it's a bit of a taboo Anal! because everyone who enjoys it has different experiences from it, I was wondering how many Women just keep it for themselves and partner and who enjoys it on a meet with others??"

I don't mind giving anal on a first meet if you're prepared for it...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No chance. You need to know my body before you're trusted with that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I did it on nearly every first meet until recently, I have now put on my profile that I don't do anal. I got bored of being asked " get on your knees I want to fk your ass" Also I don't enjoy it with big or thick cocks, the men don't use lube. I only do it with FWB now.x

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By *emplarWarriorMan over a year ago

Nottingham

I don't mind giving anal on a first meet if you're prepared for it...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Seriously no lube

!! I know some that do anal on first meet!! It still amazes me that some are so comfortable with it, Plus I hear some prefer it to vaginal sex because they get stronger orgasms. But i'm yet to meet one who does.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman over a year ago
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My Own Little World

I have done in the past with a select few, but not anymore.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have had anal sex with a few ladies but very rarely on first meets it's all about if they are comfortable with u

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

as long as the top is experienced and attentive to the bottoms needs ...its fine .....plenty lube and gentle loving xxx

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple over a year ago

Halifax

We keep it just for ourselves, even if we didnt i wouldn't first meet aa i think there has to be some trust built up.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Why is it some Women have done it then decided no more?? Is it because men's perception of anal sex is from porn movies, So they think they can just ram it straight in there??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why is it some Women have done it then decided no more?? Is it because men's perception of anal sex is from porn movies, So they think they can just ram it straight in there?? "

Yep!

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman over a year ago
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My Own Little World

"Why is it some Women have done it then decided no more?? Is it because men's perception of anal sex is from porn movies, So they think they can just ram it straight in there?? "

Yes.

It fucking hurts if he doesn't take the time to start off gently or allow me to take the lead.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why is it some Women have done it then decided no more?? Is it because men's perception of anal sex is from porn movies, So they think they can just ram it straight in there??

Yes.

It fucking hurts if he doesn't take the time to start off gently or allow me to take the lead."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My gf loves anal just as long as she got another cock to suck at the same time and a girl to finger her and lick her at same time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have done before, but it must have been discussed in advance.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We keep it for ourselves

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never done it with a meet and never will keep that for hubby

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By *olden RatioWoman over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

"Why is it some Women have done it then decided no more?? Is it because men's perception of anal sex is from porn movies, So they think they can just ram it straight in there?? "

Basically, yes. There really are some who are gullible enough to think that they can sling it up, no lube, and go hell for leather.

Why on earth should I have to suffer a blown-out arsehole for a week because some dude doesn't stop to think about how it *actually* works?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why is it some Women have done it then decided no more?? Is it because men's perception of anal sex is from porn movies, So they think they can just ram it straight in there?? "

Why blame porn! Maybe the men are just stupid!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If anyone is willing to help out a first timer, give me a shout. Ive never been allowed to do it with any of my partners and would love to know what its like and how it differs to normal sex.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No chance. You need to know my body before you're trusted with that. "

this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think it's bad to have anal on a first meet. The sex is has to be safe anyway so anal is all good xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why is it some Women have done it then decided no more?? Is it because men's perception of anal sex is from porn movies, So they think they can just ram it straight in there?? "

Absolutely. Some men don't have a clue!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wife loves anal but only with men she trusts for reasons said above.

Think if any guy just "rammed it home without lube and went hell for leather" while i was there he wouldnt remain concious for very long

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

nobody gets my arse ............ever

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By *mumaWoman over a year ago

Livingston

wouldn't do it on a first meet, cos that's a social one. Dinnae really fancy getting my erse out in public and getting barred from my local hotel...

Joking aside, anal is something I will do, but only when the trust has been built up

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By *eavenscentitCouple over a year ago

barnstaple

Bend over boys; My strap on is coming into ya

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why is it some Women have done it then decided no more?? Is it because men's perception of anal sex is from porn movies, So they think they can just ram it straight in there??

Basically, yes. There really are some who are gullible enough to think that they can sling it up, no lube, and go hell for leather.

Why on earth should I have to suffer a blown-out arsehole for a week because some dude doesn't stop to think about how it *actually* works?"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Will do it ,have done it was with a lady that would only do it that way as she liked it and her fella wouldn't do it as he hated the idea of it, but guys lube and more lube

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I expect anal as part of a social!

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By *avrick15Man over a year ago

glasgow

Any sexual adventure should only be done for mutual satisfaction and guys have a responsibility to listen to the lady's instruction

Let's face it's not an everyday avenue

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By *avrick15Man over a year ago

glasgow

I expect anal as part of a social!"

Ha ha high expectations bud

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By *ogliexCouple over a year ago

london

Why not....if it is hard,strong man off course!

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By *eovilcouple76Couple over a year ago

yeovil

"Never done it with a meet and never will keep that for hubby "

Exactly the same here.

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By *sagent81Man over a year ago

Leeds

If there is no watersports, fisting and anal while wearing gimp masks I consider it boring and we won't be meeting again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I expect anal as part of a social!"

You have to go to Starbucks for that; it's frowned upon in Costa

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

We have done anal on a 1st meet. If it feels right then why not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've done it, just depends on the guy and how the meet goes. I always seem to be the lads first so these days I'll only do it if you've done it before.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No chance on a first meet. I'm fussy what cock gets to slap my arse!

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By *hiterabbit69Man over a year ago

Romford

IF the lady doesnt want to tickle my g-spot why the hell should I tickle hers :D

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By *ulfilthmentMan over a year ago

Just around the corner

I've only done it on first meet with a girl once. She explained that she particularly enjoyed it, so I was happy to help. I let her take the lead until we were both comfortable, and we both enjoyed it a lot.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have had first meets where ive given fems anal, but never insisted just mutually agreed and of course very gently to start with.

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By *ice guy 44Man over a year ago

wrexham

My first meet off here was met in pub within 10 min she said fk my arrs so i did yes they are out there

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By *xotic indianCouple over a year ago

leicester

We only do it if it's mutual with both ladies If the couple we are playing are into anal Lube condom and gentleness very important It can be fun with the right couple

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Anal on a first meet can go one of 2 ways...either really well or awful. Which one will usually depend on a combination of the ladies willingness and comfort with the male and the males skill and experience with it..anal isn't the same as vaginal and it can take a little time to get things going well. Other factors can include prep time for the lady prior to the meet (though not always) as well as graduated anal foreplay..

Never ever do the 'whoops, sorry move!'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am pretty relaxed about it as long as the guy knows what he is doing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not often....but it does happen! I prefer meeting at mine as I know I have the required lube....in case it is what they want.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've certainly experienced ladies who like anal of the first meet so they are out there."

This. It all depends on the approach you take and trust that'd been established. ..then dont forget the arousal. Some like it ...some love it...some dont...some won't. Happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Definitely keep that for hubby only