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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"nope..did it once in my teens..never again with conscious choice..why?, cos i dont want to be rem#embered as anyone's first..."
Isnt it good to be unforgettable for someone? |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"nope..did it once in my teens..never again with conscious choice..why?, cos i dont want to be rem#embered as anyone's first...
Isnt it good to be unforgettable for someone?"
no its awful... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"nope..did it once in my teens..never again with conscious choice..why?, cos i dont want to be rem#embered as anyone's first...
Isnt it good to be unforgettable for someone?no its awful..."
Why is that? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Most virgins have no idea what they are doing....watch way to much porn and tend to last 10 seconds.
No offence but i don't like being left frustrated and having to finish myself off. "
If noone teaches them, they cant learn lol |
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The only time I gave ever slept with a male virgin was when I lost my virginity.
I have no desire to do so again out of choice. However, I would be happy to be a first for a bi-curious lady, because we share the same basic physiology.
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"Most virgins have no idea what they are doing....watch way to much porn and tend to last 10 seconds.
No offence but i don't like being left frustrated and having to finish myself off.
If noone teaches them, they cant learn lol"
This is a swinging site... I doubt many want to have to teach. I would maybe consider it if a knew a chap well but for a meet would prefer someone who is more likely to know what they're doing.
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"nope..did it once in my teens..never again with conscious choice..why?, cos i dont want to be rem#embered as anyone's first...
Isnt it good to be unforgettable for someone?no its awful...
Why is that?"
why would i want to be remembered as someones first..? |
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No one taught me. I had to find out for myself, as did everyone else on here....we have all taken time to learn what we like, what we dont like. That takes time.
As for wanting to educate someone.... I have a partner, he is quite skilled and already knows how to please me...we meet people on here that know what they want.
Another way to look at it.....you go out for a meal and have a choice...an amazing meal cooked by someone like gorden ramsey or something cooked by someone who has no skill at all....and if im honest, could probably burn water.
Claridges here i come everytime. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"nope..did it once in my teens..never again with conscious choice..why?, cos i dont want to be rem#embered as anyone's first...
Isnt it good to be unforgettable for someone?no its awful...
Why is that?why would i want to be remembered as someones first..?"
It could be special, couldnt it? |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"nope..did it once in my teens..never again with conscious choice..why?, cos i dont want to be rem#embered as anyone's first...
Isnt it good to be unforgettable for someone?no its awful...
Why is that?why would i want to be remembered as someones first..?
It could be special, couldnt it?"
i dont want to be remebered..if you want it to be special my suggestion is that you go find a girlfriend and experience something lasting and memorable even if it doesnt last in the long run. i dont want to be seen as someone special, when i am not to that person and i wouldnt wish to do the same to others.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"nope..did it once in my teens..never again with conscious choice..why?, cos i dont want to be rem#embered as anyone's first...
Isnt it good to be unforgettable for someone?no its awful...
Why is that?why would i want to be remembered as someones first..?
I see. Im glad u share ur thoughts xx
It could be special, couldnt it?i dont want to be remebered..if you want it to be special my suggestion is that you go find a girlfriend and experience something lasting and memorable even if it doesnt last in the long run. i dont want to be seen as someone special, when i am not to that person and i wouldnt wish to do the same to others.."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"nope..did it once in my teens..never again with conscious choice..why?, cos i dont want to be rem#embered as anyone's first...
Isnt it good to be unforgettable for someone?no its awful...
Why is that?why would i want to be remembered as someones first..?
It could be special, couldnt it?i dont want to be remebered..if you want it to be special my suggestion is that you go find a girlfriend and experience something lasting and memorable even if it doesnt last in the long run. i dont want to be seen as someone special, when i am not to that person and i wouldnt wish to do the same to others.."
your just a rebel Suzy   |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"nope..did it once in my teens..never again with conscious choice..why?, cos i dont want to be rem#embered as anyone's first...
Isnt it good to be unforgettable for someone?no its awful...
Why is that?why would i want to be remembered as someones first..?
It could be special, couldnt it?i dont want to be remebered..if you want it to be special my suggestion is that you go find a girlfriend and experience something lasting and memorable even if it doesnt last in the long run. i dont want to be seen as someone special, when i am not to that person and i wouldnt wish to do the same to others.. your just a rebel Suzy "
i just know the effects i have on others..and for some the most loving thing to do, is to leave them alone  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"nope..did it once in my teens..never again with conscious choice..why?, cos i dont want to be rem#embered as anyone's first...
Isnt it good to be unforgettable for someone?no its awful...
Why is that?why would i want to be remembered as someones first..?
It could be special, couldnt it?i dont want to be remebered..if you want it to be special my suggestion is that you go find a girlfriend and experience something lasting and memorable even if it doesnt last in the long run. i dont want to be seen as someone special, when i am not to that person and i wouldnt wish to do the same to others.."
Well Suzy, this is gonna sound very corny, but with a face like yours, I'm betting you'd be unforgettable for any guy, virgin or no virgin, and for absolutely the right reasons! |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"nope..did it once in my teens..never again with conscious choice..why?, cos i dont want to be rem#embered as anyone's first...
Isnt it good to be unforgettable for someone?no its awful...
Why is that?why would i want to be remembered as someones first..?
It could be special, couldnt it?i dont want to be remebered..if you want it to be special my suggestion is that you go find a girlfriend and experience something lasting and memorable even if it doesnt last in the long run. i dont want to be seen as someone special, when i am not to that person and i wouldnt wish to do the same to others..
Well Suzy, this is gonna sound very corny, but with a face like yours, I'm betting you'd be unforgettable for any guy, virgin or no virgin, and for absolutely the right reasons! "
its not my face..its my energy that leaves an imprint and i know i do it, can do it and use it consciously at times..im different. i can live with that, however i dont inflict on the uninitiated x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"would u like to be first of a virgin guy? Xox
I have been, many moons ago. I was a virgin at the time too.
Now, no thank you."
Noone wants virgin lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"nope..did it once in my teens..never again with conscious choice..why?, cos i dont want to be rem#embered as anyone's first...
Isnt it good to be unforgettable for someone?no its awful...
Why is that?why would i want to be remembered as someones first..?
It could be special, couldnt it?i dont want to be remebered..if you want it to be special my suggestion is that you go find a girlfriend and experience something lasting and memorable even if it doesnt last in the long run. i dont want to be seen as someone special, when i am not to that person and i wouldnt wish to do the same to others..
Well Suzy, this is gonna sound very corny, but with a face like yours, I'm betting you'd be unforgettable for any guy, virgin or no virgin, and for absolutely the right reasons! its not my face..its my energy that leaves an imprint and i know i do it, can do it and use it consciously at times..im different. i can live with that, however i dont inflict on the uninitiated x"
Hmmm! I can well believe it! Well, if you ever feel like inflicting it on me, I'll happily play along! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most virgins have no idea what they are doing....watch way to much porn and tend to last 10 seconds.
No offence but i don't like being left frustrated and having to finish myself off.
If noone teaches them, they cant learn lol"
Normally people expect to pay for education |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I personally don't think a virgin should want to be on this site. Agree with Suzy, your first time will be one of your most memorable, just for the simple fact it was your first. It will mean so much more if there is some feeling behind it with someone you consider special (at the time) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No chance, i think losing your virginity should be special and with someone special to you. This is how i have always thought unfortunatly my virginity was stolen. First times should be special and not just to get it out of the way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No need to pm me OP. Ask on here.
Why is that. Whats wrong with them?"
They are inexperienced and have alot to learn. I am not prepared to teach or be used as a guinea pig for their development. Virgins on a swinging site may appeal to some but certainly NOT me. |
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I went with one a couple of years ago. He didn't tell me he was a virgin and hadn't even kissed anyone before which left me a little confused about his actions during the meet. Wish he had told me as it would have been a much better experience for both of us. He only confessed when we had finished. We didn't manage to get the whole way as he couldn't keep it up as was nervous, and commented afterwards 'Well, lots of new things done today' and I was like 'WTF?'
Would have met again as he was a nice guy and, once I had known, it would have been a lot different the 2nd time but we were never free at the same time, and after a few months conversation just fizzled out |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I went with one a couple of years ago. He didn't tell me he was a virgin and hadn't even kissed anyone before which left me a little confused about his actions during the meet. Wish he had told me as it would have been a much better experience for both of us. He only confessed when we had finished. We didn't manage to get the whole way as he couldn't keep it up as was nervous, and commented afterwards 'Well, lots of new things done today' and I was like 'WTF?'
Would have met again as he was a nice guy and, once I had known, it would have been a lot different the 2nd time but we were never free at the same time, and after a few months conversation just fizzled out"
Haha it sounds a bit funny ?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I get the whole 'your first time should be special' stance.
That said, how many here could claim that their first time was 'special'? I know I can't."
And why they think they cant be that special?  |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"I get the whole 'your first time should be special' stance.
That said, how many here could claim that their first time was 'special'? I know I can't."
mine was and i married the first man i slept with..not that i recommend this route..but there is something to be said for having a person to explore, have feelings for and have an opportunity to experience a relationship alongside the sex, when you are new to the whole thing..imo....and that is why OP im not that special for a virgin and , why i think you deserve someone 'better' in other ways for your first time x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I get the whole 'your first time should be special' stance.
That said, how many here could claim that their first time was 'special'? I know I can't."
My first time was special. We were teenagers in love and it was his first time too. It was technically a bit crap but we thought it was beautiful and amazing.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"nope..did it once in my teens..never again with conscious choice..why?, cos i dont want to be rem#embered as anyone's first..."
That. I did it once.  she was on holiday too.  |
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I prefer men with a bit of experience below their belts & I wouldn't want to be teaching them how to touch me.
