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By *mjd OP Woman
over a year ago
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So I meet this guy before school holidays we got on well no mention of private life it was a day time meet as he said he was out that evening which is fine .
Arranged a meet other day to be told to park up road not on drive text him and hed meet me outside as his 13year old son was in the house!! I said no way as I felt really uncomfortable and it not right I've now been blocked would everyone one else done the same thing or blocked me for saying no? |
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over a year ago
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"So I meet this guy before school holidays we got on well no mention of private life it was a day time meet as he said he was out that evening which is fine .
Arranged a meet other day to be told to park up road not on drive text him and hed meet me outside as his 13year old son was in the house!! I said no way as I felt really uncomfortable and it not right I've now been blocked would everyone one else done the same thing or blocked me for saying no?"
It would have been an instant block from me. |
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"I would not block you for saying no. Infact why block anyone??..... Well unless they send 60 mails per hour  "
You're lucky if you haven't had any abusive tw*ts messaging you,the block button is a wonderful thing! |
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"So I meet this guy before school holidays we got on well no mention of private life it was a day time meet as he said he was out that evening which is fine .
Arranged a meet other day to be told to park up road not on drive text him and hed meet me outside as his 13year old son was in the house!! I said no way as I felt really uncomfortable and it not right I've now been blocked would everyone one else done the same thing or blocked me for saying no?"
Were you planning on meeting at his house or going out? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I meet this guy before school holidays we got on well no mention of private life it was a day time meet as he said he was out that evening which is fine .
Arranged a meet other day to be told to park up road not on drive text him and hed meet me outside as his 13year old son was in the house!! I said no way as I felt really uncomfortable and it not right I've now been blocked would everyone one else done the same thing or blocked me for saying no?"
Think you were completely justified. And quite frankly, if he couldn't respect your boundaries on that, what other boundaries or preferences would he not pay heed to? That's how we think anyway.
We have children, can and have accommodated, but only when they are out of the house, usually at parents for the night for a sleep over. |
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"Well I wouldn't want anyone knocking on if my kid's were in.
Yeah me neither lol, awkward  "
Very,someone once did turn up without saying just thought he would turn up. Thankfully I was out with the kid's at the time,he texted me to say I've just been to yours but you were out!!!  |
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"So I meet this guy before school holidays we got on well no mention of private life it was a day time meet as he said he was out that evening which is fine .
Arranged a meet other day to be told to park up road not on drive text him and hed meet me outside as his 13year old son was in the house!! I said no way as I felt really uncomfortable and it not right I've now been blocked would everyone one else done the same thing or blocked me for saying no?
Were you planning on meeting at his house or going out?"
The answer to this question makes a big difference |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If he had arranged for me to meet at his and he had children,I would have only said yes if they definitely wouldn't turn up out of the blue. If he wanted outdoor or car sex,because a child was home I would have said no,as I don't have outdoor or car sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If he wanted you to go in when his son was there, then fair enough with the blocking.
But did he want to just meet outside and then go on somewhere else? Because that seems OK to me. |
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I don't know what the problem is he didn't want you to pull upto the drive way so he would have to answer awkward questions later from his son, and the fact you're not understanding to this i would of blocked you and cut all ties as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you had arranged to play at his house then I would definitely have said no and blocked him first - meeting with a child or anyone else in the house is a definite 'no'.
But if you had arranged to go out and he just wanted rendezvous discreetly then I'm not sure what the issue is? |
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"I don't know what the problem is he didn't want you to pull upto the drive way so he would have to answer awkward questions later from his son, and the fact you're not understanding to this i would of blocked you and cut all ties as well "
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"So I meet this guy before school holidays we got on well no mention of private life it was a day time meet as he said he was out that evening which is fine .
Arranged a meet other day to be told to park up road not on drive text him and hed meet me outside as his 13year old son was in the house!! I said no way as I felt really uncomfortable and it not right I've now been blocked would everyone one else done the same thing or blocked me for saying no?"
Were you picking him up to go out?
Were you supposed to be staying in at his?
If the former, I cant see a problem.
If the latter, then yes. I'd feel uncomfortable about meeting with children/teenagers in the house. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I meet this guy before school holidays we got on well no mention of private life it was a day time meet as he said he was out that evening which is fine .
Arranged a meet other day to be told to park up road not on drive text him and hed meet me outside as his 13year old son was in the house!! I said no way as I felt really uncomfortable and it not right I've now been blocked would everyone one else done the same thing or blocked me for saying no?
Were you planning on meeting at his house or going out?
The answer to this question makes a big difference "
Very good point. |
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Fully understand that you dont want to sneak into his house whilst the child is there.
Dont see why he blocked you unless he mis read your reasons for rejection... after all the child will soon be back at school or maybe even at their other parents |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I wouldn't want anyone knocking on if my kid's were in.
Yeah me neither lol, awkward
Very,someone once did turn up without saying just thought he would turn up. Thankfully I was out with the kid's at the time,he texted me to say I've just been to yours but you were out!!! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a bit confused actually! So all he wanted to do was meet you up the road and not on his doorstep because his son was home?
How come you felt uncomfortable doing that?"
Good question |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a bit confused actually! So all he wanted to do was meet you up the road and not on his doorstep because his son was home?
How come you felt uncomfortable doing that?
Good question "
guessing some one think there is more to hide than just the son at home. possibly a different location to the house maybe. told a lie on the address? that would be my first thoughts however if its just a kid at home then its weird lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I wouldn't want anyone knocking on if my kid's were in.
Yeah me neither lol, awkward
Very,someone once did turn up without saying just thought he would turn up. Thankfully I was out with the kid's at the time,he texted me to say I've just been to yours but you were out!!! "
Bloody hell!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is the problem them having kids or were the kids in the house? "
In my case it was young kids in house and the couple wanted foursome. Would be concerned one might wander in, if the kids were not there at time that's fine, at school or staying overnight e somewhere. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I wouldn't want anyone knocking on if my kid's were in.
Yeah me neither lol, awkward
Very,someone once did turn up without saying just thought he would turn up. Thankfully I was out with the kid's at the time,he texted me to say I've just been to yours but you were out!!! "
You just reminded me of someone I needed to block. App someone who knows where I live has been showing my pro to people n telling them where I live! thankfully my nieghbour foiled his plan n told me what he was up too. Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would not dream of arranging a meet at home if my children were staying over unless it was a social meet. "
Have you seen the couple that are always askin for a meet when the kids are in bed. xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I was to meet a lady and she said she had kids, I wouldn't meet until she says they aren't at home. Children are the main priority so I wouldn't want to get in the way of that.
I wouldn't feel comfortable if a lady told me her kids were in during a meet! |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
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1. you arranged to meet him and turned up (good on you)
2. He asked you not to park at the house and his son was there (good on him)
3. You haven't explained whether you were supposed to be going into his house or moving on somewhere else
4. You blocked him for being sensible about his child
At least he had the decency to explain the situation to you. Did you automatically block, speak to him, arrange another time?
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"1. you arranged to meet him and turned up (good on you)
2. He asked you not to park at the house and his son was there (good on him)
3. You haven't explained whether you were supposed to be going into his house or moving on somewhere else
4. You blocked him for being sensible about his child
At least he had the decency to explain the situation to you. Did you automatically block, speak to him, arrange another time?
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Didn't he block her?! Half a story eh!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would not dream of arranging a meet at home if my children were staying over unless it was a social meet. "
I wouldn't even have a social meet with my kids in the house
To me its a matter of trust and I don't trust anybody untill I know them and no man off a sex sute is stepping foot in my house even for a drink while my kids are here |
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By *mjd OP Woman
over a year ago
oswestry |
thanks for the replies
he blocked me
we.d arranged to meet at his-doing it in the outhouse or something
no hotel etc was mentioned
I felt uncomfortable full stop with just being caught didn't mind parking else where as theres neighbours etc
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"thanks for the replies
he blocked me
we.d arranged to meet at his-doing it in the outhouse or something
no hotel etc was mentioned
I felt uncomfortable full stop with just being caught didn't mind parking else where as theres neighbours etc
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Was the house actually a mansion or by 'outhouse', do you actually mean 'garden shed'? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"thanks for the replies
he blocked me
we.d arranged to meet at his-doing it in the outhouse or something
no hotel etc was mentioned
I felt uncomfortable full stop with just being caught didn't mind parking else where as theres neighbours etc
Was the house actually a mansion or by 'outhouse', do you actually mean 'garden shed'?"
Garden shed probably XXX |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"thanks for the replies
he blocked me
we.d arranged to meet at his-doing it in the outhouse or something
no hotel etc was mentioned
I felt uncomfortable full stop with just being caught didn't mind parking else where as theres neighbours etc
Was the house actually a mansion or by 'outhouse', do you actually mean 'garden shed'?
Garden shed probably XXX"
No leading the witness please
Ps: that was my guess too |
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"I don't know what the problem is he didn't want you to pull upto the drive way so he would have to answer awkward questions later from his son, and the fact you're not understanding to this i would of blocked you and cut all ties as well "
Someone give this man a fecking crown or something.
Always correct and to the point.
OP hasnt been very clear in all this. . Maybe the meet wasnt advertised to here vey well who knows. |
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"I don't know what the problem is he didn't want you to pull upto the drive way so he would have to answer awkward questions later from his son, and the fact you're not understanding to this i would of blocked you and cut all ties as well
Someone give this man a fecking crown or something.
Always correct and to the point.
OP hasnt been very clear in all this. . Maybe the meet wasnt advertised to here vey well who knows."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"thanks for the replies
he blocked me
we.d arranged to meet at his-doing it in the outhouse or something
no hotel etc was mentioned
I felt uncomfortable full stop with just being caught didn't mind parking else where as theres neighbours etc
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Why did you think you were having to do it in the outhouse when he has a perfectly good house up the garden path? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"thanks for the replies
he blocked me
we.d arranged to meet at his-doing it in the outhouse or something
no hotel etc was mentioned
I felt uncomfortable full stop with just being caught didn't mind parking else where as theres neighbours etc
Why did you think you were having to do it in the outhouse when he has a perfectly good house up the garden path? "
Probably that the wife was home  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is the problem them having kids or were the kids in the house?
She states he said his 13 year old was in the house."
But the plan was to fuck in the garden shed anyway, sorry outhouse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"thanks for the replies
he blocked me
we.d arranged to meet at his-doing it in the outhouse or something
no hotel etc was mentioned
I felt uncomfortable full stop with just being caught didn't mind parking else where as theres neighbours etc
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So u we're going round to a guys house to fuk him in the shed ?
Jeeez |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Is the problem them having kids or were the kids in the house?
She states he said his 13 year old was in the house.
But the plan was to fuck in the garden shed anyway, sorry outhouse. "
Maybe it was one of those posh summerhouse type sheds.  |
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