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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honestly my average meets as a single is about 20 mins.
Shortest was much shorter..
As a couple its about an hour or two id say. But prefer club meets so always tend to be quicker. |
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over a year ago
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"Shortest, about 7 minutes from meeting to him blowing his load.
Longest, couple of hours, only 31 minutes of fun though. "
Shortest was 2-3 hours. Longest was an overnight! |
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"Shortest, about 7 minutes from meeting to him blowing his load.
Longest, couple of hours, only 31 minutes of fun though. "
Was it down to expert bj skills or,just not very good control on his,side? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"longest meet 3 days. he was full of shit though and i dumped him.
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honestly he said he wanted a cuckold relationship then after a couple of days he said he wasn't ok with me fucking other guys. 
he's feeding someone else a load of shit now, good luck to her. |
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"Shortest, about 7 minutes from meeting to him blowing his load.
Longest, couple of hours, only 31 minutes of fun though.
Was it down to expert bj skills or,just not very good control on his,side?"
Bit of both. Had a few now that haven't managed to get past the BJ stage. Lol. Must be doing something right.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Shortest, about 7 minutes from meeting to him blowing his load.
Longest, couple of hours, only 31 minutes of fun though.
Was it down to expert bj skills or,just not very good control on his,side?
Bit of both. Had a few now that haven't managed to get past the BJ stage. Lol. Must be doing something right. "
doesnt it sometimes drive you nuts though.
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"Shortest, about 7 minutes from meeting to him blowing his load.
Longest, couple of hours, only 31 minutes of fun though.
Was it down to expert bj skills or,just not very good control on his,side?
Bit of both. Had a few now that haven't managed to get past the BJ stage. Lol. Must be doing something right. doesnt it sometimes drive you nuts though.
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Absolutely. Spend ages getting ready and get prepared for a good hard session and end up with a pop shot after less than ten minutes and nothing left but a floppy cock. Still, hubby makes up for it when I get home. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By preference - a few hours to a whole night and again in the morning.
Although there was one meet at Chams with a couple. He got too turned on and cum in three minutes a all over his wife and me... At least I saw the funny side of it. |
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over a year ago
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The longest was 3 days (it was only supposed to be a social). Immense to say the least but it was 8 years ago.
Do people ever consider a meet lasting for that length of time any more? |
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"The longest was 3 days (it was only supposed to be a social). Immense to say the least but it was 8 years ago.
Do people ever consider a meet lasting for that length of time any more? "
i'd love it.
i'm single and really want more sex and proper sex. can't stand NSA meets that last a couple of hours unless it's 3sums. even then i'd love a 3sum that lasts days actually but think i will be fucked up after lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The longest was 3 days (it was only supposed to be a social). Immense to say the least but it was 8 years ago.
Do people ever consider a meet lasting for that length of time any more?
i'd love it.
i'm single and really want more sex and proper sex. can't stand NSA meets that last a couple of hours unless it's 3sums. even then i'd love a 3sum that lasts days actually but think i will be fucked up after lol."
This was it - we had far more in common than we realised. It was almost a serious date. Haha! The sex was fantastic because it had depth and so was the time in-between - but not sure about the eating toast in bed and watching Bargain Hunt (whilst snuggling) though. Made up for that! Hehe
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The longest was 3 days (it was only supposed to be a social). Immense to say the least but it was 8 years ago.
Do people ever consider a meet lasting for that length of time any more?
i'd love it.
i'm single and really want more sex and proper sex. can't stand NSA meets that last a couple of hours unless it's 3sums. even then i'd love a 3sum that lasts days actually but think i will be fucked up after lol.
This was it - we had far more in common than we realised. It was almost a serious date. Haha! The sex was fantastic because it had depth and so was the time in-between - but not sure about the eating toast in bed and watching Bargain Hunt (whilst snuggling) though. Made up for that! Hehe
Li "
would be awesome yeah.
this is why i'm looking for a relationship. i'm not shallow but that's all you find on here and i'm starting to fucking hate it now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The longest was 3 days (it was only supposed to be a social). Immense to say the least but it was 8 years ago.
Do people ever consider a meet lasting for that length of time any more?
i'd love it.
i'm single and really want more sex and proper sex. can't stand NSA meets that last a couple of hours unless it's 3sums. even then i'd love a 3sum that lasts days actually but think i will be fucked up after lol."
Give it time and patience and you'll find it. It's like buses - three turn up when you least expect it! Hehe!
Have faith! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The longest was 3 days (it was only supposed to be a social). Immense to say the least but it was 8 years ago.
Do people ever consider a meet lasting for that length of time any more?
i'd love it.
i'm single and really want more sex and proper sex. can't stand NSA meets that last a couple of hours unless it's 3sums. even then i'd love a 3sum that lasts days actually but think i will be fucked up after lol.
Give it time and patience and you'll find it. It's like buses - three turn up when you least expect it! Hehe!
Have faith! "
2 years online hooking up now.
when i was fucked up and not ready to connect with people hooking up was fine but now i'm wanting to push myself emotionally and trust people, there's really nowhere on the internet where people don't wanna use you and it's pissing me off. |
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As the wife has had her say earlier I'll add my bit. Suppose when I think about it, my longest meet is with the Mrs. Came down for a weekend of naughty fun, basically never left. Still here nearly 11 years later. Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The longest was 3 days (it was only supposed to be a social). Immense to say the least but it was 8 years ago.
Do people ever consider a meet lasting for that length of time any more?
i'd love it.
i'm single and really want more sex and proper sex. can't stand NSA meets that last a couple of hours unless it's 3sums. even then i'd love a 3sum that lasts days actually but think i will be fucked up after lol.
Give it time and patience and you'll find it. It's like buses - three turn up when you least expect it! Hehe!
Have faith!
2 years online hooking up now.
when i was fucked up and not ready to connect with people hooking up was fine but now i'm wanting to push myself emotionally and trust people, there's really nowhere on the internet where people don't wanna use you and it's pissing me off."
My advice is venture away from the internet. Get yourself out there! Simple view. Best of luck - it's hard going but perseverance pays off! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As the wife has had her say earlier I'll add my bit. Suppose when I think about it, my longest meet is with the Mrs. Came down for a weekend of naughty fun, basically never left. Still here nearly 11 years later. Lol."
You'd get less time for murder!
But it's gotta be a good thing and fair play to you both!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The longest was 3 days (it was only supposed to be a social). Immense to say the least but it was 8 years ago.
Do people ever consider a meet lasting for that length of time any more?
i'd love it.
i'm single and really want more sex and proper sex. can't stand NSA meets that last a couple of hours unless it's 3sums. even then i'd love a 3sum that lasts days actually but think i will be fucked up after lol.
Give it time and patience and you'll find it. It's like buses - three turn up when you least expect it! Hehe!
Have faith!
2 years online hooking up now.
when i was fucked up and not ready to connect with people hooking up was fine but now i'm wanting to push myself emotionally and trust people, there's really nowhere on the internet where people don't wanna use you and it's pissing me off.
My advice is venture away from the internet. Get yourself out there! Simple view. Best of luck - it's hard going but perseverance pays off!"
yeah sorry, wasn't meaning for you to sort it out or anything, just i got all pissed off when i thought about how hard it is to get what you want.
i'm not desperate but have trusted a couple of people lately now and they weren't trustworthy.
i have been going to socials but just finding guys i don't fancy at them. they're too full on as well and desperate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The longest was 3 days (it was only supposed to be a social). Immense to say the least but it was 8 years ago.
Do people ever consider a meet lasting for that length of time any more?
i'd love it.
i'm single and really want more sex and proper sex. can't stand NSA meets that last a couple of hours unless it's 3sums. even then i'd love a 3sum that lasts days actually but think i will be fucked up after lol.
Give it time and patience and you'll find it. It's like buses - three turn up when you least expect it! Hehe!
Have faith!
2 years online hooking up now.
when i was fucked up and not ready to connect with people hooking up was fine but now i'm wanting to push myself emotionally and trust people, there's really nowhere on the internet where people don't wanna use you and it's pissing me off.
My advice is venture away from the internet. Get yourself out there! Simple view. Best of luck - it's hard going but perseverance pays off!
yeah sorry, wasn't meaning for you to sort it out or anything, just i got all pissed off when i thought about how hard it is to get what you want.
i'm not desperate but have trusted a couple of people lately now and they weren't trustworthy.
i have been going to socials but just finding guys i don't fancy at them. they're too full on as well and desperate."
Attraction and connection is hard online or offline. Trust et al. That's why I choose to rarely meet.
Nobody stirs up the necessity for it and it takes two to make something happen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The longest was 3 days (it was only supposed to be a social). Immense to say the least but it was 8 years ago.
Do people ever consider a meet lasting for that length of time any more?
i'd love it.
i'm single and really want more sex and proper sex. can't stand NSA meets that last a couple of hours unless it's 3sums. even then i'd love a 3sum that lasts days actually but think i will be fucked up after lol.
Give it time and patience and you'll find it. It's like buses - three turn up when you least expect it! Hehe!
Have faith!
2 years online hooking up now.
when i was fucked up and not ready to connect with people hooking up was fine but now i'm wanting to push myself emotionally and trust people, there's really nowhere on the internet where people don't wanna use you and it's pissing me off.
My advice is venture away from the internet. Get yourself out there! Simple view. Best of luck - it's hard going but perseverance pays off!
yeah sorry, wasn't meaning for you to sort it out or anything, just i got all pissed off when i thought about how hard it is to get what you want.
i'm not desperate but have trusted a couple of people lately now and they weren't trustworthy.
i have been going to socials but just finding guys i don't fancy at them. they're too full on as well and desperate.
Attraction and connection is hard online or offline. Trust et al. That's why I choose to rarely meet.
Nobody stirs up the necessity for it and it takes two to make something happen. "
i connect with a lot of people easy enough, but i'm trusting them too early on. its naturally how i am and i do think one day i will find someone who doesn't take advantage of that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The longest was 3 days (it was only supposed to be a social). Immense to say the least but it was 8 years ago.
Do people ever consider a meet lasting for that length of time any more?
i'd love it.
i'm single and really want more sex and proper sex. can't stand NSA meets that last a couple of hours unless it's 3sums. even then i'd love a 3sum that lasts days actually but think i will be fucked up after lol.
Give it time and patience and you'll find it. It's like buses - three turn up when you least expect it! Hehe!
Have faith!
2 years online hooking up now.
when i was fucked up and not ready to connect with people hooking up was fine but now i'm wanting to push myself emotionally and trust people, there's really nowhere on the internet where people don't wanna use you and it's pissing me off.
My advice is venture away from the internet. Get yourself out there! Simple view. Best of luck - it's hard going but perseverance pays off!
yeah sorry, wasn't meaning for you to sort it out or anything, just i got all pissed off when i thought about how hard it is to get what you want.
i'm not desperate but have trusted a couple of people lately now and they weren't trustworthy.
i have been going to socials but just finding guys i don't fancy at them. they're too full on as well and desperate.
Attraction and connection is hard online or offline. Trust et al. That's why I choose to rarely meet.
Nobody stirs up the necessity for it and it takes two to make something happen.
i connect with a lot of people easy enough, but i'm trusting them too early on. its naturally how i am and i do think one day i will find someone who doesn't take advantage of that."
You will. It'll happen by accident or when you least expect it
Got a date with a duvet here. Have a good night. TTFN! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The longest was 3 days (it was only supposed to be a social). Immense to say the least but it was 8 years ago.
Do people ever consider a meet lasting for that length of time any more?
i'd love it.
i'm single and really want more sex and proper sex. can't stand NSA meets that last a couple of hours unless it's 3sums. even then i'd love a 3sum that lasts days actually but think i will be fucked up after lol.
Give it time and patience and you'll find it. It's like buses - three turn up when you least expect it! Hehe!
Have faith!
2 years online hooking up now.
when i was fucked up and not ready to connect with people hooking up was fine but now i'm wanting to push myself emotionally and trust people, there's really nowhere on the internet where people don't wanna use you and it's pissing me off.
My advice is venture away from the internet. Get yourself out there! Simple view. Best of luck - it's hard going but perseverance pays off!
yeah sorry, wasn't meaning for you to sort it out or anything, just i got all pissed off when i thought about how hard it is to get what you want.
i'm not desperate but have trusted a couple of people lately now and they weren't trustworthy.
i have been going to socials but just finding guys i don't fancy at them. they're too full on as well and desperate.
Attraction and connection is hard online or offline. Trust et al. That's why I choose to rarely meet.
Nobody stirs up the necessity for it and it takes two to make something happen.
i connect with a lot of people easy enough, but i'm trusting them too early on. its naturally how i am and i do think one day i will find someone who doesn't take advantage of that.
You will. It'll happen by accident or when you least expect it
Got a date with a duvet here. Have a good night. TTFN! "
night. |
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"Shortest, about 7 minutes from meeting to him blowing his load.
Longest, couple of hours, only 31 minutes of fun though.
Was it down to expert bj skills or,just not very good control on his,side?
Bit of both. Had a few now that haven't managed to get past the BJ stage. Lol. Must be doing something right. "
If this ever happened to me i would have proceeded to go down on you, after that i'd be more than ready to go again!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Shortest, about 7 minutes from meeting to him blowing his load.
Longest, couple of hours, only 31 minutes of fun though.
Was it down to expert bj skills or,just not very good control on his,side?
Bit of both. Had a few now that haven't
managed to get past the BJ stage. Lol. Must be doing something right. "
Well id like to think I'd get past the blow job stage but honestly you in your stockings and heels I doubt I would  |
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"Shortest, about 7 minutes from meeting to him blowing his load.
Longest, couple of hours, only 31 minutes of fun though. "
Couldn't he manage a second time? 1st meets can often result in a quick cum ( excitement) but if I do cum quick, then I'm always ready to repeat at least once lol. Surprised to read in this thread just how short some meets are. I would like at least 2, 3 or 4 hours. . |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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"Shortest, about 7 minutes from meeting to him blowing his load.
Longest, couple of hours, only 31 minutes of fun though.
Couldn't he manage a second time? 1st meets can often result in a quick cum ( excitement) but if I do cum quick, then I'm always ready to repeat at least once lol. Surprised to read in this thread just how short some meets are. I would like at least 2, 3 or 4 hours. . "
I agree. I can spend at least an hour chatting especially if it's someone I know well. Play, chat, play again lol.
I feel a bit let down if meets are too short unless I know they are going to be short. I enjoy the chatting and the foreplay for round two . Resuscitation technique helps lol. Mouth to cock you won't find in any text books. |
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"Shortest, about 7 minutes from meeting to him blowing his load.
Longest, couple of hours, only 31 minutes of fun though.
Couldn't he manage a second time? 1st meets can often result in a quick cum ( excitement) but if I do cum quick, then I'm always ready to repeat at least once lol. Surprised to read in this thread just how short some meets are. I would like at least 2, 3 or 4 hours. . "
Unfortunately not. Wasn't a first meet with me either which makes it worse. I'd love a meet to last 2,3 or 4 hours. Hopefully the one planned for Tuesday will meet our expectations. |
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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago
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The shortest was only a few minutes, just time for a coffee before both side had decided weren't really compatible.
The longest is probably around 4 hours with a couple I have seen a few times. We always spend some time chatting first but then enjoy at least a couple of hours being more intimate. |
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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago
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Actually I'm going to cheat and change my longest answer to 8 years as I met my ex through a swinging site. One no-play social and we were going out as a couple and shortly after living together. Mine you swinging, sexuality acceptance, and secret meets (please note that was her not me) caused it to fall apart as well.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The longest was 3 days (it was only supposed to be a social). Immense to say the least but it was 8 years ago.
Do people ever consider a meet lasting for that length of time any more? "
I would love a shared lover to come away for two or three days with my wife and I. First things first though... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You know when you have see to many cock threads, I read that as average length of meat 
My only social lasted for around a hour but the time went so fast, I wouldn't meet for less then that,
My other meets was in a club but 1 on 1 it would have to be for at least 2 hours a little chatting/flirting beforehand, and the whole weekend if we had met before fwb fb etc
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We tend to meet around 7 to 8pm for chat and drinks... then if all are comfortable play tends to start around 10.30 and we are usually spent by 3am !
...and then a repeat at home |
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By *vo620Man
over a year ago
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"Just wondering really usually a meet for us is a cpl of hours...
What's the shortest and longest meet you've had? X"
I'm there till your done I'm vwe and a heavey repeat cummer your have to kick me out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Shortest, about 7 minutes from meeting to him blowing his load.
Longest, couple of hours, only 31 minutes of fun though.
Was it down to expert bj skills or,just not very good control on his,side?
Bit of both. Had a few now that haven't managed to get past the BJ stage. Lol. Must be doing something right. doesnt it sometimes drive you nuts though.
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No , there's always plenty more guys about looking for fun  |
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I've only had 3 meets so far.
The shortest was a social about 30 minutes, a nice guy but not for me.
The longest was a social too about 3 hours. Time flew by - it seemed like it was only about 10 minutes. |
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"Shortest, about 7 minutes from meeting to him blowing his load.
Longest, couple of hours, only 31 minutes of fun though.
Couldn't he manage a second time? 1st meets can often result in a quick cum ( excitement) but if I do cum quick, then I'm always ready to repeat at least once lol. Surprised to read in this thread just how short some meets are. I would like at least 2, 3 or 4 hours. .
Unfortunately not. Wasn't a first meet with me either which makes it worse. I'd love a meet to last 2,3 or 4 hours. Hopefully the one planned for Tuesday will meet our expectations. "
Hope you get more satisfaction on Tuesday. . Shame you live so far away, would love to spend 2,3 or 4 hrs with you.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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About 4hrs of play is typical of my meets, if not all day/evening/night, as appropriate.
Shortest meet was about an hour; she wasn't anything like her photo and I couldn't wait to get away. I confess that on that occasion, I went through the motions and got away as quickly as seemed respectful. I hope she believed I enjoyed it. Lesson learnt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Actually yes..I've had a 2 minute one I'd obviously put out of my mind..once he realised I wasn't going to give him a blow job for gracing me with his presence he left haha. I'd even told him beforehand it was a social meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Shortest 2 mins when we both twigged we didn't even want to have coffee.
3 days as the longest so far "
I don't believe this 2 minute fucky fucky meet happened. it is outrageous! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well, a social meet for lunch can be as little as an hour, but I'd say that from a couple to up to six hours or so, depending on how much time we have to be together. |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"Just wondering really usually a meet for us is a cpl of hours...
What's the shortest and longest meet you've had? X"
play meet 6 hours on average but I have played and indulged myself with a excellent fern for 12 hours. met her at 9am left her all tucked up in bed washed and completely knackered at 5 to 10 at night |
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"Shortest, about 7 minutes from meeting to him blowing his load.
Longest, couple of hours, only 31 minutes of fun though.
Not that you were counting or anything....."
We filmed it that's how we are so sure lol |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"Shortest, about 7 minutes from meeting to him blowing his load.
Longest, couple of hours, only 31 minutes of fun though.
Not that you were counting or anything.....
We filmed it that's how we are so sure lol"
wow nice and short for your compilation video not much editing need there ether win win |
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"Shortest, about 7 minutes from meeting to him blowing his load.
Longest, couple of hours, only 31 minutes of fun though.
Not that you were counting or anything.....
We filmed it that's how we are so sure lol
wow nice and short for your compilation video not much editing need there ether win win "
Didn't bother editing it,, would of took longer to edit it than it actually lasted lol |
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Depends on your definition of "meet".
If you just mean sex, then a couple of minutes, but if you mean a "meet" meet, then shortest was probably a "get to know you" social, lasted about 2-3 hours.
Longest... party night ran from about 8pm until about 6am, but that was multiple partners, breaks etc... our longest 1-on-1 (or, more accurately, 2-on-2 lol) meet was probably about 14 hours, but that includes meeting in the pub, getting to know them, going to the hotel, breaking the ice with a game, then lots of hot steamy sweaty sex, then stopping for breakfast, then a bit more fun in the room, then kicking them out so we could pack and head home lol!
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By (user no longer on site)
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My socials have been pretty long to be honest with them averaging about 4 hours.
When it comes to the business side of things; meets average 3 hours with playtime averaging an hour or so |
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