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By *mojee OP Couple
over a year ago
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Why do some guys get all offensive and even abusive when we reply sorry no thanks. We try to be polite but some guys just can't take it. We've had all kinds of abuse and insults thrown at us just because we don't like the look of someone and won't invite them to join us. Does anyone else go thru similar experiences. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do some guys get all offensive and even abusive when we reply sorry no thanks. We try to be polite but some guys just can't take it. We've had all kinds of abuse and insults thrown at us just because we don't like the look of someone and won't invite them to join us. Does anyone else go thru similar experiences. "
Yes, but with women  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The normal response is...it's a polite no thank you"
They are just idiots then.
I find the people that abuse the worst are really desperate and really disappointed to be turned down. They don't care if I turn them down cos I have a shit profile. But they can see what they are 'missing out on' with any people that have pics...
Just take it as a weird compliment.  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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some people, men and women, just cant handle rejection however polite you are..
it makes me laugh how they try and turn it around as if to say they were trying to do you a favour... 
I usually block and move on but I haven't had anyone throw their toys out of the pram for a while  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do some guys get all offensive and even abusive when we reply sorry no thanks. We try to be polite but some guys just can't take it. We've had all kinds of abuse and insults thrown at us just because we don't like the look of someone and won't invite them to join us. Does anyone else go thru similar experiences. "
Get your filters up! It's usually the new members with no verifications that act a fool. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep I have met some unhinged guys on here..
A few vindictive ones also who have threatened stuff...like reporting me etc...
My not interested reply is always the same....thanks and good luck with your search. Think that is polite enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh yes, from being called shallow because I didn't fancy him (he asked why I thought he wasn't what I was looking for on fab) to being called nothing but a fucking cheap dogging whore because I'd met someone other than him. |
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I find it tends to be guys who your profile clearly says you would not be interested in.
But they don't look, send a message, then read the profile and kick off.
In my case it tends to be short guys  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just delete and block offensive messages.
Others I reply with a polite No Thank You x x. 50% are accepted and the other 50% reply with Why? or,abuse. So you just can't win.   |
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"Why do some guys get all offensive and even abusive when we reply sorry no thanks. We try to be polite but some guys just can't take it. We've had all kinds of abuse and insults thrown at us just because we don't like the look of someone and won't invite them to join us. Does anyone else go thru similar experiences.
Get your filters up! It's usually the new members with no verifications that act a fool. "
a thousand times this. I rarely get any abusive messages, and I think a lot of it is down to sensible use of filters. |
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