FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swingers Chat > Driving a fair amount of miles and no one shows up!
Driving a fair amount of miles and no one shows up!
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Probably require a few more details to comment op  "
It's always a social meet first but they just never show, and write back a few days later wanting to meet again.... Nope |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Should always meet them at a club for a first meet, that way if they don't turn up you you mite find someone else "
Might start doing so, it's normally a social first but it's just frustrating |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Probably require a few more details to comment op
It's always a social meet first but they just never show, and write back a few days later wanting to meet again.... Nope"
would nt blame you for that does your selection process need reviewing ? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Probably require a few more details to comment op
It's always a social meet first but they just never show, and write back a few days later wanting to meet again.... Nopewould nt blame you for that does your selection process need reviewing ?"
It could do yea, starting to avoid people "tht tlk lyk diss" aswell how hard is it for a real conversation and a reliable person... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
we traveled over two hours for a meet only to find out it was a dodgy address!. old woman with a dog opened the door. told her sorry think we have the wrong address, when we got home they had deleted their profile.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I no longer travel very far for a first social meet.
It's even worse though when you have met and take things further another time only to find that they can't do what it says on their tin.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"we traveled over two hours for a meet only to find out it was a dodgy address!. old woman with a dog opened the door. told her sorry think we have the wrong address, when we got home they had deleted their profile. "
Happend to me just last week, didn't really know what to say... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I no longer travel very far for a first social meet.
It's even worse though when you have met and take things further another time only to find that they can't do what it says on their tin. "
It's like there bogging them self up to call bluff! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Anyone els seem to travel a fair distance to wait there with no one show up? Soo frustrating
Thankfully no,but we mainly meet people through socials etc
Miss"
That's what the meet is for, just a social, going to stop wasting fuel from now on |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Be giving this a lot of thought recently and I know this is isn't perfect but how about organising a mid way meet, maybe hotel?. Worst case scenario you at least get a night out in a place you haven't visited before.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Be giving this a lot of thought recently and I know this is isn't perfect but how about organising a mid way meet, maybe hotel?. Worst case scenario you at least get a night out in a place you haven't visited before. "
Bloody waist of a hotel if there's no one to play with though |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Bloody waist of a hotel if there's no one to play with though"
If that happened to me I'd be straight on fab looking for locals who fancy a free hotel night and some fun
I have a hotel meet set for next weekend. My first. Pretty sure it's gonna go well because we've been chatting a while and get on good. But there's always that slight doubt! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Anyone els seem to travel a fair distance to wait there with no one show up? Soo frustrating "
They probably noticed you had ran out toilet roll n didn't wanna risk getting poo stains x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Anyone els seem to travel a fair distance to wait there with no one show up? Soo frustrating
They probably noticed you had ran out toilet roll n didn't wanna risk getting poo stains x"
???? love it, but that's the old holder, was miles away from the loo |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Anyone els seem to travel a fair distance to wait there with no one show up? Soo frustrating
They probably noticed you had ran out toilet roll n didn't wanna risk getting poo stains x
???? love it, but that's the old holder, was miles away from the loo "
Could have put empty tubes in bin xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I'd only do a social if I was specifically in that town and it wouldn't put me out of my way. (E.G shopping in Liverpool so free for coffee) Travelling great distances or spending money to meet strangers on here is at best naive, at worst foolish. Club meets mainly for me. Too many wasters on here. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I must have been lucky, travelled for two hours a few years ago to meet a single female and had fun. The furthest recently was an hour away.
Usually though after lots of messaging and exchanging of phone numbers.
Try to make as sure as possible before travelling. I would only travel miles for a 'dead cert'. Minimise the risk as much as possible. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"One of the reasons I won't drive for more than 30 mins
Yup same here"
I only meet locals during my lunch hour or after work for a drink. Meet in the station 15 minutes before my train. If they don't turn up I head home.
I can work from home/have a flexi day, so if they don't turn up I'm at home anyway.
Works for me and never had a no show in seven years. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"One of the reasons I won't drive for more than 30 mins
Yup same here
I only meet locals during my lunch hour or after work for a drink. Meet in the station 15 minutes before my train. If they don't turn up I head home.
I can work from home/have a flexi day, so if they don't turn up I'm at home anyway.
Works for me and never had a no show in seven years."
Sounds like a good idea |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I always only meet people local to me or club then not wasted night travelling or disappointment"
me too, I once drove three hours for a no show.. local only now
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
