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(referring to lifestyle Dommes - those who subscribe to female supremacy in all its forms (Femdom) - not the bit on the side)
I'll probably be derided for asking such a question here.
However, do many of you frequent this site?
Thanks in advance
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me, i do.
shame most submissives on here do not. swear to god if one more sub asks me to shove things up his ass or get cocks for him to suck i am gonna scream. what happened to serving my needs and shit like this? |
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"me, i do.
shame most submissives on here do not. swear to god if one more sub asks me to shove things up his ass or get cocks for him to suck i am gonna scream. what happened to serving my needs and shit like this?"
maybe you should start a school for submissives? |
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"me, i do.
shame most submissives on here do not. swear to god if one more sub asks me to shove things up his ass or get cocks for him to suck i am gonna scream. what happened to serving my needs and shit like this?"
It's simple - they're not subs - merely fantasists. |
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"me, i do.
shame most submissives on here do not. swear to god if one more sub asks me to shove things up his ass or get cocks for him to suck i am gonna scream. what happened to serving my needs and shit like this?
maybe you should start a school for submissives?"
i don't need to because it's in your nature, nobody trained me to be dominant...i just am.
but thanks for reminding me that random people just ask me for training as well.  |
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"me, i do.
shame most submissives on here do not. swear to god if one more sub asks me to shove things up his ass or get cocks for him to suck i am gonna scream. what happened to serving my needs and shit like this?
maybe you should start a school for submissives?
i don't need to because it's in your nature, nobody trained me to be dominant...i just am.
but thanks for reminding me that random people just ask me for training as well. "
well they are definitely fantasists as well then |
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"me, i do.
shame most submissives on here do not. swear to god if one more sub asks me to shove things up his ass or get cocks for him to suck i am gonna scream. what happened to serving my needs and shit like this?
maybe you should start a school for submissives?
i don't need to because it's in your nature, nobody trained me to be dominant...i just am.
but thanks for reminding me that random people just ask me for training as well.
well they are definitely fantasists as well then"
some probably aren't, they just haven't a clue what submitting actually means and likely have 'issues' that need sorting before they approach people to interact with them. |
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"me, i do.
shame most submissives on here do not. swear to god if one more sub asks me to shove things up his ass or get cocks for him to suck i am gonna scream. what happened to serving my needs and shit like this?"
Well said  |
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had one guy tell me he is in a relationship but will submit to me and try and end his relationship...
sorry but where is the female supremecy there too? treating women like they're disposable objects is not worshipping the female form.
i can go on and on if anyone wants me to? (you probably don't want me to) |
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I wouldnt class myself as a proper sub (weve never tried to be honest) but im naturally very submissive in the bedroom and i get hugely turned on by being told what to do and will do anything to please the women in control |
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"had one guy tell me he is in a relationship but will submit to me and try and end his relationship...
sorry but where is the female supremecy there too? treating women like they're disposable objects is not worshipping the female form.
i can go on and on if anyone wants me to? (you probably don't want me to)"
No carry on love ur views n input on this |
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"had one guy tell me he is in a relationship but will submit to me and try and end his relationship...
sorry but where is the female supremecy there too? treating women like they're disposable objects is not worshipping the female form.
i can go on and on if anyone wants me to? (you probably don't want me to)
No carry on love ur views n input on this "
i'm trying not to be in ranty pants mode lol. it's hard though. made myself a brew so i can have a sit down.
dunno, just the desperation from some of them. like you could be anyone, they aren't into you but they're into what you represent and don't really care what you actually want and are into. it's why i took i was domme off my profile actually because they had an idea in their head what a domme is and didn't care what i wanted (despite me having that on my profile also). i suspect these ones are not even submssive and just want to role play.
someone truly submissive would put me first, they would enjoy whay i like doing and be compatible with me. i don't mean in a doormat way at all, but they would be compatible. like the guy above loves pleasing his wife, i had an ex who was exactly the same and enjoyed me being happy more than himself being sorted. not that i didn't sort him but he always put me first.
the ones with a fetish, same as the above. i could be anyone. they don't even respect me, they're just selfish.
the ones with no self control, they are who need training really. but tbh i cba to train someone. but they come across as pests, desperate, and just sad. i wouldn't trust myself with someone like that. and that's what you really need in all this, trust.
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"had one guy tell me he is in a relationship but will submit to me and try and end his relationship...
sorry but where is the female supremecy there too? treating women like they're disposable objects is not worshipping the female form.
i can go on and on if anyone wants me to? (you probably don't want me to)
No carry on love ur views n input on this
i'm trying not to be in ranty pants mode lol. it's hard though. made myself a brew so i can have a sit down.
dunno, just the desperation from some of them. like you could be anyone, they aren't into you but they're into what you represent and don't really care what you actually want and are into. it's why i took i was domme off my profile actually because they had an idea in their head what a domme is and didn't care what i wanted (despite me having that on my profile also). i suspect these ones are not even submssive and just want to role play.
someone truly submissive would put me first, they would enjoy whay i like doing and be compatible with me. i don't mean in a doormat way at all, but they would be compatible. like the guy above loves pleasing his wife, i had an ex who was exactly the same and enjoyed me being happy more than himself being sorted. not that i didn't sort him but he always put me first.
the ones with a fetish, same as the above. i could be anyone. they don't even respect me, they're just selfish.
the ones with no self control, they are who need training really. but tbh i cba to train someone. but they come across as pests, desperate, and just sad. i wouldn't trust myself with someone like that. and that's what you really need in all this, trust.
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Ur so true in what ur saying |
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"had one guy tell me he is in a relationship but will submit to me and try and end his relationship...
sorry but where is the female supremecy there too? treating women like they're disposable objects is not worshipping the female form.
i can go on and on if anyone wants me to? (you probably don't want me to)
No carry on love ur views n input on this
i'm trying not to be in ranty pants mode lol. it's hard though. made myself a brew so i can have a sit down.
dunno, just the desperation from some of them. like you could be anyone, they aren't into you but they're into what you represent and don't really care what you actually want and are into. it's why i took i was domme off my profile actually because they had an idea in their head what a domme is and didn't care what i wanted (despite me having that on my profile also). i suspect these ones are not even submssive and just want to role play.
someone truly submissive would put me first, they would enjoy whay i like doing and be compatible with me. i don't mean in a doormat way at all, but they would be compatible. like the guy above loves pleasing his wife, i had an ex who was exactly the same and enjoyed me being happy more than himself being sorted. not that i didn't sort him but he always put me first.
the ones with a fetish, same as the above. i could be anyone. they don't even respect me, they're just selfish.
the ones with no self control, they are who need training really. but tbh i cba to train someone. but they come across as pests, desperate, and just sad. i wouldn't trust myself with someone like that. and that's what you really need in all this, trust.
Ur so true in what ur saying "
wouldn't mind others perspective also. 
the truly submissive guys are easy to spot, they will let me take the lead every time and not try to force anything onto me that i don't want.
they won't pester.
they won't get ahead of themselves or be pushy.
they won't ask me to do *whatever*, they will let me know what they like and then leave it to me to decide what happens.
they'll try and get to know me once it's obvious we're compatible and ot constantly go on about sex and sexual things like im an object.
god had one guy send me pics of his balls as soon as i said i'd chat to him, i just asked him wy he'd done that when i never asked him for pics, loads of guys do this shit, send sexual stuff i don't care for. no respect for me at all. they just wanna get their jollies and fuck what i want.  |
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"had one guy tell me he is in a relationship but will submit to me and try and end his relationship...
sorry but where is the female supremecy there too? treating women like they're disposable objects is not worshipping the female form.
i can go on and on if anyone wants me to? (you probably don't want me to)
No carry on love ur views n input on this
i'm trying not to be in ranty pants mode lol. it's hard though. made myself a brew so i can have a sit down.
dunno, just the desperation from some of them. like you could be anyone, they aren't into you but they're into what you represent and don't really care what you actually want and are into. it's why i took i was domme off my profile actually because they had an idea in their head what a domme is and didn't care what i wanted (despite me having that on my profile also). i suspect these ones are not even submssive and just want to role play.
someone truly submissive would put me first, they would enjoy whay i like doing and be compatible with me. i don't mean in a doormat way at all, but they would be compatible. like the guy above loves pleasing his wife, i had an ex who was exactly the same and enjoyed me being happy more than himself being sorted. not that i didn't sort him but he always put me first.
the ones with a fetish, same as the above. i could be anyone. they don't even respect me, they're just selfish.
the ones with no self control, they are who need training really. but tbh i cba to train someone. but they come across as pests, desperate, and just sad. i wouldn't trust myself with someone like that. and that's what you really need in all this, trust.
Ur so true in what ur saying
wouldn't mind others perspective also.
the truly submissive guys are easy to spot, they will let me take the lead every time and not try to force anything onto me that i don't want.
they won't pester.
they won't get ahead of themselves or be pushy.
they won't ask me to do *whatever*, they will let me know what they like and then leave it to me to decide what happens.
they'll try and get to know me once it's obvious we're compatible and ot constantly go on about sex and sexual things like im an object.
god had one guy send me pics of his balls as soon as i said i'd chat to him, i just asked him wy he'd done that when i never asked him for pics, loads of guys do this shit, send sexual stuff i don't care for. no respect for me at all. they just wanna get their jollies and fuck what i want. "
Know exactly how u feel... I had one guy ask me to video me shaving my lady garden for him ..hmmm strange n needless to say I declined n he kept messaging me saying "mummy show ur son how u shave" total off put n needless to say he was blocked |
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I completely get what your sayimg and as for the selfish subs/lovers all they are doing is screwing themselves because 99/100 theyre not going to get a second chance
In the bedroom i will do anything to please my wife she comes first and her needs and pleassure is my only focus but boy does that come with rewards
If people spent a little more time worrying about their partners sexual needs they may find their partner is will to reciprocate in ways they never thought
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"had one guy tell me he is in a relationship but will submit to me and try and end his relationship...
sorry but where is the female supremecy there too? treating women like they're disposable objects is not worshipping the female form.
i can go on and on if anyone wants me to? (you probably don't want me to)
No carry on love ur views n input on this
i'm trying not to be in ranty pants mode lol. it's hard though. made myself a brew so i can have a sit down.
dunno, just the desperation from some of them. like you could be anyone, they aren't into you but they're into what you represent and don't really care what you actually want and are into. it's why i took i was domme off my profile actually because they had an idea in their head what a domme is and didn't care what i wanted (despite me having that on my profile also). i suspect these ones are not even submssive and just want to role play.
someone truly submissive would put me first, they would enjoy whay i like doing and be compatible with me. i don't mean in a doormat way at all, but they would be compatible. like the guy above loves pleasing his wife, i had an ex who was exactly the same and enjoyed me being happy more than himself being sorted. not that i didn't sort him but he always put me first.
the ones with a fetish, same as the above. i could be anyone. they don't even respect me, they're just selfish.
the ones with no self control, they are who need training really. but tbh i cba to train someone. but they come across as pests, desperate, and just sad. i wouldn't trust myself with someone like that. and that's what you really need in all this, trust.
Ur so true in what ur saying
wouldn't mind others perspective also.
the truly submissive guys are easy to spot, they will let me take the lead every time and not try to force anything onto me that i don't want.
they won't pester.
they won't get ahead of themselves or be pushy.
they won't ask me to do *whatever*, they will let me know what they like and then leave it to me to decide what happens.
they'll try and get to know me once it's obvious we're compatible and ot constantly go on about sex and sexual things like im an object.
god had one guy send me pics of his balls as soon as i said i'd chat to him, i just asked him wy he'd done that when i never asked him for pics, loads of guys do this shit, send sexual stuff i don't care for. no respect for me at all. they just wanna get their jollies and fuck what i want.
Know exactly how u feel... I had one guy ask me to video me shaving my lady garden for him ..hmmm strange n needless to say I declined n he kept messaging me saying "mummy show ur son how u shave" total off put n needless to say he was blocked "
he sounds fucked up. |
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"I completely get what your sayimg and as for the selfish subs/lovers all they are doing is screwing themselves because 99/100 theyre not going to get a second chance
In the bedroom i will do anything to please my wife she comes first and her needs and pleassure is my only focus but boy does that come with rewards
If people spent a little more time worrying about their partners sexual needs they may find their partner is will to reciprocate in ways they never thought
Mr "
yeah i'm like that. way more willing to experiment when a guy gives me that level of trust i need - just by not being a selfish liar basically. |
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"had one guy tell me he is in a relationship but will submit to me and try and end his relationship...
sorry but where is the female supremecy there too? treating women like they're disposable objects is not worshipping the female form.
i can go on and on if anyone wants me to? (you probably don't want me to)
No carry on love ur views n input on this
i'm trying not to be in ranty pants mode lol. it's hard though. made myself a brew so i can have a sit down.
dunno, just the desperation from some of them. like you could be anyone, they aren't into you but they're into what you represent and don't really care what you actually want and are into. it's why i took i was domme off my profile actually because they had an idea in their head what a domme is and didn't care what i wanted (despite me having that on my profile also). i suspect these ones are not even submssive and just want to role play.
someone truly submissive would put me first, they would enjoy whay i like doing and be compatible with me. i don't mean in a doormat way at all, but they would be compatible. like the guy above loves pleasing his wife, i had an ex who was exactly the same and enjoyed me being happy more than himself being sorted. not that i didn't sort him but he always put me first.
the ones with a fetish, same as the above. i could be anyone. they don't even respect me, they're just selfish.
the ones with no self control, they are who need training really. but tbh i cba to train someone. but they come across as pests, desperate, and just sad. i wouldn't trust myself with someone like that. and that's what you really need in all this, trust.
Ur so true in what ur saying
wouldn't mind others perspective also.
the truly submissive guys are easy to spot, they will let me take the lead every time and not try to force anything onto me that i don't want.
they won't pester.
they won't get ahead of themselves or be pushy.
they won't ask me to do *whatever*, they will let me know what they like and then leave it to me to decide what happens.
they'll try and get to know me once it's obvious we're compatible and ot constantly go on about sex and sexual things like im an object.
god had one guy send me pics of his balls as soon as i said i'd chat to him, i just asked him wy he'd done that when i never asked him for pics, loads of guys do this shit, send sexual stuff i don't care for. no respect for me at all. they just wanna get their jollies and fuck what i want.
Know exactly how u feel... I had one guy ask me to video me shaving my lady garden for him ..hmmm strange n needless to say I declined n he kept messaging me saying "mummy show ur son how u shave" total off put n needless to say he was blocked
he sounds fucked up. "
Yeah I know it put me off big time n scared me a bit as I know there's loads of weirdos on here n I got one lol X |
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"There's lots of dommes on this site, fav has quantity but quality is far and few between "
Agreed.
Thank you for responding.
I think 'quality' is the point I was making. Dominance and submission are inherent states of mind. Not, in my opinion. something that one steps in and out of.
I'm outside your age-range and locality - but nice profile.
To anyone else - I'm on Fet by the same name - look me up, if you feel so inclined - much more info there.
GLA
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"had one guy tell me he is in a relationship but will submit to me and try and end his relationship...
sorry but where is the female supremecy there too? treating women like they're disposable objects is not worshipping the female form.
i can go on and on if anyone wants me to? (you probably don't want me to)
No carry on love ur views n input on this
i'm trying not to be in ranty pants mode lol. it's hard though. made myself a brew so i can have a sit down.
dunno, just the desperation from some of them. like you could be anyone, they aren't into you but they're into what you represent and don't really care what you actually want and are into. it's why i took i was domme off my profile actually because they had an idea in their head what a domme is and didn't care what i wanted (despite me having that on my profile also). i suspect these ones are not even submssive and just want to role play.
someone truly submissive would put me first, they would enjoy whay i like doing and be compatible with me. i don't mean in a doormat way at all, but they would be compatible. like the guy above loves pleasing his wife, i had an ex who was exactly the same and enjoyed me being happy more than himself being sorted. not that i didn't sort him but he always put me first.
the ones with a fetish, same as the above. i could be anyone. they don't even respect me, they're just selfish.
the ones with no self control, they are who need training really. but tbh i cba to train someone. but they come across as pests, desperate, and just sad. i wouldn't trust myself with someone like that. and that's what you really need in all this, trust.
Ur so true in what ur saying
wouldn't mind others perspective also.
the truly submissive guys are easy to spot, they will let me take the lead every time and not try to force anything onto me that i don't want.
they won't pester.
they won't get ahead of themselves or be pushy.
they won't ask me to do *whatever*, they will let me know what they like and then leave it to me to decide what happens.
they'll try and get to know me once it's obvious we're compatible and ot constantly go on about sex and sexual things like im an object.
god had one guy send me pics of his balls as soon as i said i'd chat to him, i just asked him wy he'd done that when i never asked him for pics, loads of guys do this shit, send sexual stuff i don't care for. no respect for me at all. they just wanna get their jollies and fuck what i want.
Know exactly how u feel... I had one guy ask me to video me shaving my lady garden for him ..hmmm strange n needless to say I declined n he kept messaging me saying "mummy show ur son how u shave" total off put n needless to say he was blocked
he sounds fucked up.
Yeah I know it put me off big time n scared me a bit as I know there's loads of weirdos on here n I got one lol X "
at least he showed himself for what he was straight away. some guys never let you see that fucked up side of them until it's too late.
many guys are ok on here though, or seem to be. |
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"had one guy tell me he is in a relationship but will submit to me and try and end his relationship...
sorry but where is the female supremecy there too? treating women like they're disposable objects is not worshipping the female form.
i can go on and on if anyone wants me to? (you probably don't want me to)
No carry on love ur views n input on this
i'm trying not to be in ranty pants mode lol. it's hard though. made myself a brew so i can have a sit down.
dunno, just the desperation from some of them. like you could be anyone, they aren't into you but they're into what you represent and don't really care what you actually want and are into. it's why i took i was domme off my profile actually because they had an idea in their head what a domme is and didn't care what i wanted (despite me having that on my profile also). i suspect these ones are not even submssive and just want to role play.
someone truly submissive would put me first, they would enjoy whay i like doing and be compatible with me. i don't mean in a doormat way at all, but they would be compatible. like the guy above loves pleasing his wife, i had an ex who was exactly the same and enjoyed me being happy more than himself being sorted. not that i didn't sort him but he always put me first.
the ones with a fetish, same as the above. i could be anyone. they don't even respect me, they're just selfish.
the ones with no self control, they are who need training really. but tbh i cba to train someone. but they come across as pests, desperate, and just sad. i wouldn't trust myself with someone like that. and that's what you really need in all this, trust.
Ur so true in what ur saying
wouldn't mind others perspective also.
the truly submissive guys are easy to spot, they will let me take the lead every time and not try to force anything onto me that i don't want.
they won't pester.
they won't get ahead of themselves or be pushy.
they won't ask me to do *whatever*, they will let me know what they like and then leave it to me to decide what happens.
they'll try and get to know me once it's obvious we're compatible and ot constantly go on about sex and sexual things like im an object.
god had one guy send me pics of his balls as soon as i said i'd chat to him, i just asked him wy he'd done that when i never asked him for pics, loads of guys do this shit, send sexual stuff i don't care for. no respect for me at all. they just wanna get their jollies and fuck what i want.
Know exactly how u feel... I had one guy ask me to video me shaving my lady garden for him ..hmmm strange n needless to say I declined n he kept messaging me saying "mummy show ur son how u shave" total off put n needless to say he was blocked
he sounds fucked up.
Yeah I know it put me off big time n scared me a bit as I know there's loads of weirdos on here n I got one lol X
at least he showed himself for what he was straight away. some guys never let you see that fucked up side of them until it's too late.
many guys are ok on here though, or seem to be."
Yeah there are some lovely genuine guys on here so we can't tar them all with the same brush |
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"had one guy tell me he is in a relationship but will submit to me and try and end his relationship...
sorry but where is the female supremecy there too? treating women like they're disposable objects is not worshipping the female form.
i can go on and on if anyone wants me to? (you probably don't want me to)
No carry on love ur views n input on this
i'm trying not to be in ranty pants mode lol. it's hard though. made myself a brew so i can have a sit down.
dunno, just the desperation from some of them. like you could be anyone, they aren't into you but they're into what you represent and don't really care what you actually want and are into. it's why i took i was domme off my profile actually because they had an idea in their head what a domme is and didn't care what i wanted (despite me having that on my profile also). i suspect these ones are not even submssive and just want to role play.
someone truly submissive would put me first, they would enjoy whay i like doing and be compatible with me. i don't mean in a doormat way at all, but they would be compatible. like the guy above loves pleasing his wife, i had an ex who was exactly the same and enjoyed me being happy more than himself being sorted. not that i didn't sort him but he always put me first.
the ones with a fetish, same as the above. i could be anyone. they don't even respect me, they're just selfish.
the ones with no self control, they are who need training really. but tbh i cba to train someone. but they come across as pests, desperate, and just sad. i wouldn't trust myself with someone like that. and that's what you really need in all this, trust.
Ur so true in what ur saying
wouldn't mind others perspective also.
the truly submissive guys are easy to spot, they will let me take the lead every time and not try to force anything onto me that i don't want.
they won't pester.
they won't get ahead of themselves or be pushy.
they won't ask me to do *whatever*, they will let me know what they like and then leave it to me to decide what happens.
they'll try and get to know me once it's obvious we're compatible and ot constantly go on about sex and sexual things like im an object.
god had one guy send me pics of his balls as soon as i said i'd chat to him, i just asked him wy he'd done that when i never asked him for pics, loads of guys do this shit, send sexual stuff i don't care for. no respect for me at all. they just wanna get their jollies and fuck what i want.
Know exactly how u feel... I had one guy ask me to video me shaving my lady garden for him ..hmmm strange n needless to say I declined n he kept messaging me saying "mummy show ur son how u shave" total off put n needless to say he was blocked
he sounds fucked up.
Yeah I know it put me off big time n scared me a bit as I know there's loads of weirdos on here n I got one lol X
at least he showed himself for what he was straight away. some guys never let you see that fucked up side of them until it's too late.
many guys are ok on here though, or seem to be.
Yeah there are some lovely genuine guys on here so we can't tar them all with the same brush "
no. and i feel better for that rant as well, haha. |
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"had one guy tell me he is in a relationship but will submit to me and try and end his relationship...
sorry but where is the female supremecy there too? treating women like they're disposable objects is not worshipping the female form.
i can go on and on if anyone wants me to? (you probably don't want me to)
No carry on love ur views n input on this
i'm trying not to be in ranty pants mode lol. it's hard though. made myself a brew so i can have a sit down.
dunno, just the desperation from some of them. like you could be anyone, they aren't into you but they're into what you represent and don't really care what you actually want and are into. it's why i took i was domme off my profile actually because they had an idea in their head what a domme is and didn't care what i wanted (despite me having that on my profile also). i suspect these ones are not even submssive and just want to role play.
someone truly submissive would put me first, they would enjoy whay i like doing and be compatible with me. i don't mean in a doormat way at all, but they would be compatible. like the guy above loves pleasing his wife, i had an ex who was exactly the same and enjoyed me being happy more than himself being sorted. not that i didn't sort him but he always put me first.
the ones with a fetish, same as the above. i could be anyone. they don't even respect me, they're just selfish.
the ones with no self control, they are who need training really. but tbh i cba to train someone. but they come across as pests, desperate, and just sad. i wouldn't trust myself with someone like that. and that's what you really need in all this, trust.
Ur so true in what ur saying
wouldn't mind others perspective also.
the truly submissive guys are easy to spot, they will let me take the lead every time and not try to force anything onto me that i don't want.
they won't pester.
they won't get ahead of themselves or be pushy.
they won't ask me to do *whatever*, they will let me know what they like and then leave it to me to decide what happens.
they'll try and get to know me once it's obvious we're compatible and ot constantly go on about sex and sexual things like im an object.
god had one guy send me pics of his balls as soon as i said i'd chat to him, i just asked him wy he'd done that when i never asked him for pics, loads of guys do this shit, send sexual stuff i don't care for. no respect for me at all. they just wanna get their jollies and fuck what i want.
Know exactly how u feel... I had one guy ask me to video me shaving my lady garden for him ..hmmm strange n needless to say I declined n he kept messaging me saying "mummy show ur son how u shave" total off put n needless to say he was blocked
he sounds fucked up.
Yeah I know it put me off big time n scared me a bit as I know there's loads of weirdos on here n I got one lol X
at least he showed himself for what he was straight away. some guys never let you see that fucked up side of them until it's too late.
many guys are ok on here though, or seem to be.
Yeah there are some lovely genuine guys on here so we can't tar them all with the same brush
no. and i feel better for that rant as well, haha."
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"had one guy tell me he is in a relationship but will submit to me and try and end his relationship...
sorry but where is the female supremecy there too? treating women like they're disposable objects is not worshipping the female form.
i can go on and on if anyone wants me to? (you probably don't want me to)
No carry on love ur views n input on this
i'm trying not to be in ranty pants mode lol. it's hard though. made myself a brew so i can have a sit down.
dunno, just the desperation from some of them. like you could be anyone, they aren't into you but they're into what you represent and don't really care what you actually want and are into. it's why i took i was domme off my profile actually because they had an idea in their head what a domme is and didn't care what i wanted (despite me having that on my profile also). i suspect these ones are not even submssive and just want to role play.
someone truly submissive would put me first, they would enjoy whay i like doing and be compatible with me. i don't mean in a doormat way at all, but they would be compatible. like the guy above loves pleasing his wife, i had an ex who was exactly the same and enjoyed me being happy more than himself being sorted. not that i didn't sort him but he always put me first.
the ones with a fetish, same as the above. i could be anyone. they don't even respect me, they're just selfish.
the ones with no self control, they are who need training really. but tbh i cba to train someone. but they come across as pests, desperate, and just sad. i wouldn't trust myself with someone like that. and that's what you really need in all this, trust.
Ur so true in what ur saying
wouldn't mind others perspective also.
the truly submissive guys are easy to spot, they will let me take the lead every time and not try to force anything onto me that i don't want.
they won't pester.
they won't get ahead of themselves or be pushy.
they won't ask me to do *whatever*, they will let me know what they like and then leave it to me to decide what happens.
they'll try and get to know me once it's obvious we're compatible and ot constantly go on about sex and sexual things like im an object.
god had one guy send me pics of his balls as soon as i said i'd chat to him, i just asked him wy he'd done that when i never asked him for pics, loads of guys do this shit, send sexual stuff i don't care for. no respect for me at all. they just wanna get their jollies and fuck what i want.
Know exactly how u feel... I had one guy ask me to video me shaving my lady garden for him ..hmmm strange n needless to say I declined n he kept messaging me saying "mummy show ur son how u shave" total off put n needless to say he was blocked
he sounds fucked up.
Yeah I know it put me off big time n scared me a bit as I know there's loads of weirdos on here n I got one lol X
at least he showed himself for what he was straight away. some guys never let you see that fucked up side of them until it's too late.
many guys are ok on here though, or seem to be.
Yeah there are some lovely genuine guys on here so we can't tar them all with the same brush
no. and i feel better for that rant as well, haha.
Good glad u enjoyed the rant I did too .. Lol u make me laugh think we're both on same level ... Ooh shall we go rant together on another post "
yes. if i find a post to rant on i will do that.
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over a year ago
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"me, i do.
shame most submissives on here do not. swear to god if one more sub asks me to shove things up his ass or get cocks for him to suck i am gonna scream. what happened to serving my needs and shit like this?"
You post and their messages could be argued prove their no true submissive just like your forum post could be argued prove your no true dominant .
D/s fun is a compromise a dynamic based on giving from both sides not one side demanding things meet their needs only . |
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"me, i do.
shame most submissives on here do not. swear to god if one more sub asks me to shove things up his ass or get cocks for him to suck i am gonna scream. what happened to serving my needs and shit like this?
You post and their messages could be argued prove their no true submissive just like your forum post could be argued prove your no true dominant .
D/s fun is a compromise a dynamic based on giving from both sides not one side demanding things meet their needs only ."
no. where's the respect?
i wouldn't go up to someone and demand they do whatever i like to me. they shouldn't do it to me either.
and i mentoned compatibility later on, i did type a lot though so you're excused from not reading it all. |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"me, i do.
shame most submissives on here do not. swear to god if one more sub asks me to shove things up his ass or get cocks for him to suck i am gonna scream. what happened to serving my needs and shit like this?
You post and their messages could be argued prove their no true submissive just like your forum post could be argued prove your no true dominant .
D/s fun is a compromise a dynamic based on giving from both sides not one side demanding things meet their needs only .
no. where's the respect?
i wouldn't go up to someone and demand they do whatever i like to me. they shouldn't do it to me either.
and i mentoned compatibility later on, i did type a lot though so you're excused from not reading it all."
Look your a woman getting fuck wit messages is par for the coarse its not right but every woman gets them be she dominant or not that's what the block buttons for in my opinion .
All you have to do is sit tight and only respond to the polite respectful messages or do a quick search and approach guys who you feel clearly fit the dynamic your looking for .
As a guy on here I have it easy compared to women but still I don't mouth it off about silly wana be ferns ever for one reason it would in my opinion make me look bad to those I'm interested in attracting .
I get messed around from time to time too but mainly its a waiting game for me I never get truly pissed off like you seem to maybe its because I have a couple of play partners so I'm really nit bothered by wana bes that cross my path from time to time . I can afford to sit tight and wait for the real thing to come along my way because in my experience true subs are not shy at coming forward .
I just fill your ranting done you know favors and could be seen as the rants of someone who clearly doesn't understand the dynamic she is looking for so I pointed out that fact just like I would to a man ranting in the same tone and way . |
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"me, i do.
shame most submissives on here do not. swear to god if one more sub asks me to shove things up his ass or get cocks for him to suck i am gonna scream. what happened to serving my needs and shit like this?"
Please Mistress put you big dildo in me, than please get me some nice cocks for me to suck and fuck me.  |
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"me, i do.
shame most submissives on here do not. swear to god if one more sub asks me to shove things up his ass or get cocks for him to suck i am gonna scream. what happened to serving my needs and shit like this?
You post and their messages could be argued prove their no true submissive just like your forum post could be argued prove your no true dominant .
D/s fun is a compromise a dynamic based on giving from both sides not one side demanding things meet their needs only .
no. where's the respect?
i wouldn't go up to someone and demand they do whatever i like to me. they shouldn't do it to me either.
and i mentoned compatibility later on, i did type a lot though so you're excused from not reading it all.
Look your a woman getting fuck wit messages is par for the coarse its not right but every woman gets them be she dominant or not that's what the block buttons for in my opinion .
All you have to do is sit tight and only respond to the polite respectful messages or do a quick search and approach guys who you feel clearly fit the dynamic your looking for .
As a guy on here I have it easy compared to women but still I don't mouth it off about silly wana be ferns ever for one reason it would in my opinion make me look bad to those I'm interested in attracting .
I get messed around from time to time too but mainly its a waiting game for me I never get truly pissed off like you seem to maybe its because I have a couple of play partners so I'm really nit bothered by wana bes that cross my path from time to time . I can afford to sit tight and wait for the real thing to come along my way because in my experience true subs are not shy at coming forward .
I just fill your ranting done you know favors and could be seen as the rants of someone who clearly doesn't understand the dynamic she is looking for so I pointed out that fact just like I would to a man ranting in the same tone and way . "
Personally i thought allot what she had to say made perfect sence if you read the whole conversation she was talking about a D/S relationship where both partners are compatible and want to meet each others sexual desires and was complaining that most people were only i terested in fullfilling their own, im not sure why you took offence at that because weather you call it D/S or master/slave or man/wife surely every sexual relationship should be about mutual satisfaction and thats the point she was making |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"me, i do.
shame most submissives on here do not. swear to god if one more sub asks me to shove things up his ass or get cocks for him to suck i am gonna scream. what happened to serving my needs and shit like this?
You post and their messages could be argued prove their no true submissive just like your forum post could be argued prove your no true dominant .
D/s fun is a compromise a dynamic based on giving from both sides not one side demanding things meet their needs only .
no. where's the respect?
i wouldn't go up to someone and demand they do whatever i like to me. they shouldn't do it to me either.
and i mentoned compatibility later on, i did type a lot though so you're excused from not reading it all.
Look your a woman getting fuck wit messages is par for the coarse its not right but every woman gets them be she dominant or not that's what the block buttons for in my opinion .
All you have to do is sit tight and only respond to the polite respectful messages or do a quick search and approach guys who you feel clearly fit the dynamic your looking for .
As a guy on here I have it easy compared to women but still I don't mouth it off about silly wana be ferns ever for one reason it would in my opinion make me look bad to those I'm interested in attracting .
I get messed around from time to time too but mainly its a waiting game for me I never get truly pissed off like you seem to maybe its because I have a couple of play partners so I'm really nit bothered by wana bes that cross my path from time to time . I can afford to sit tight and wait for the real thing to come along my way because in my experience true subs are not shy at coming forward .
I just fill your ranting done you know favors and could be seen as the rants of someone who clearly doesn't understand the dynamic she is looking for so I pointed out that fact just like I would to a man ranting in the same tone and way .
Personally i thought allot what she had to say made perfect sence if you read the whole conversation she was talking about a D/S relationship where both partners are compatible and want to meet each others sexual desires and was complaining that most people were only i terested in fullfilling their own, im not sure why you took offence at that because weather you call it D/S or master/slave or man/wife surely every sexual relationship should be about mutual satisfaction and thats the point she was making "
Yes she corrected her mistake very quickly but the first post still stands as testament to her first instincts when it comes to the dymanic she is looking for .
I have watched guys getting ripped to pieces in similar forum posts to this for less so I chose to pull her up on her attitude in that post trust me I'd do the same thing to a guy ranting in the same manner and way . |
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Hi I met a lady who was submissive about a year ago she was into spanking ropes and all the whips crops and floggers and to be honest I really didn't know what to do I tried to tieing her up flogging her bum with her toys and to be honest as I do know my own strength i held back as I didn't want to hurt her as I do know how to hit hard being a trained fighter so I tend to shy away from sub Dom meets as very naive and maybe not my thing |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"Hi I met a lady who was submissive about a year ago she was into spanking ropes and all the whips crops and floggers and to be honest I really didn't know what to do I tried to tieing her up flogging her bum with her toys and to be honest as I do know my own strength i held back as I didn't want to hurt her as I do know how to hit hard being a trained fighter so I tend to shy away from sub Dom meets as very naive and maybe not my thing"
If your interested in the dynamic for real you can always go to a munch chat to like minded guys and girls .
I to had a problem with to much pain play not during because any sub would use the take it easy word followed by the stop now word if you pushed past her comfort level .
My problem was guilt during the cool down period afterwards I would feel sick with guilt over the state of her body.
Its a dynamic not every one can or wants to play in certain ways so one has to find the right match that works both for the fern and the man delivering the fun. or just like any offer sexual activity its not going to work if both parties are not on the same wavelength or page when it comes to the fun at hand .
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"I completely get what your sayimg and as for the selfish subs/lovers all they are doing is screwing themselves because 99/100 theyre not going to get a second chance
In the bedroom i will do anything to please my wife she comes first and her needs and pleassure is my only focus but boy does that come with rewards
If people spent a little more time worrying about their partners sexual needs they may find their partner is will to reciprocate in ways they never thought
Mr "
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I just don't think I could deliver what the lady wanted play wise but she did like the sex on the plus side but I think her hubby who set it up was a bit jealous how well she liked the sex |
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"(referring to lifestyle Dommes - those who subscribe to female supremacy in all its forms (Femdom) - not the bit on the side)
I'll probably be derided for asking such a question here.
However, do many of you frequent this site?
Thanks in advance
KYN"
Yep. 16 years lifestyle and pro.
No tolerance for silly billys though. I advise them to go and read about BDSM. Not porn idealism. |
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over a year ago
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"me, i do.
shame most submissives on here do not. swear to god if one more sub asks me to shove things up his ass or get cocks for him to suck i am gonna scream. what happened to serving my needs and shit like this?
You post and their messages could be argued prove their no true submissive just like your forum post could be argued prove your no true dominant .
D/s fun is a compromise a dynamic based on giving from both sides not one side demanding things meet their needs only .
no. where's the respect?
i wouldn't go up to someone and demand they do whatever i like to me. they shouldn't do it to me either.
and i mentoned compatibility later on, i did type a lot though so you're excused from not reading it all.
Look your a woman getting fuck wit messages is par for the coarse its not right but every woman gets them be she dominant or not that's what the block buttons for in my opinion .
All you have to do is sit tight and only respond to the polite respectful messages or do a quick search and approach guys who you feel clearly fit the dynamic your looking for .
As a guy on here I have it easy compared to women but still I don't mouth it off about silly wana be ferns ever for one reason it would in my opinion make me look bad to those I'm interested in attracting .
I get messed around from time to time too but mainly its a waiting game for me I never get truly pissed off like you seem to maybe its because I have a couple of play partners so I'm really nit bothered by wana bes that cross my path from time to time . I can afford to sit tight and wait for the real thing to come along my way because in my experience true subs are not shy at coming forward .
I just fill your ranting done you know favors and could be seen as the rants of someone who clearly doesn't understand the dynamic she is looking for so I pointed out that fact just like I would to a man ranting in the same tone and way .
Personally i thought allot what she had to say made perfect sence if you read the whole conversation she was talking about a D/S relationship where both partners are compatible and want to meet each others sexual desires and was complaining that most people were only i terested in fullfilling their own, im not sure why you took offence at that because weather you call it D/S or master/slave or man/wife surely every sexual relationship should be about mutual satisfaction and thats the point she was making
Yes she corrected her mistake very quickly but the first post still stands as testament to her first instincts when it comes to the dymanic she is looking for .
I have watched guys getting ripped to pieces in similar forum posts to this for less so I chose to pull her up on her attitude in that post trust me I'd do the same thing to a guy ranting in the same manner and way ."
no. my first comment just wasn't indepth, although it gave you the gist of how i was feeling AND how you have to interact as a female on here.
honestly, if i'd just replied to the OPs answer i would have got loads of messages from guys asking me to shove things up there ass or get them cocks to suck, and other stuff.
thing is, i like guys sucking cock for me...i just don't like them acting like i'm here to provide them with sexual experiences they can't sort out for themselves. |
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"(referring to lifestyle Dommes - those who subscribe to female supremacy in all its forms (Femdom) - not the bit on the side)
I'll probably be derided for asking such a question here.
However, do many of you frequent this site?
Thanks in advance
KYN"
I've got a penis but willing to give you a go, OP |
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"(referring to lifestyle Dommes - those who subscribe to female supremacy in all its forms (Femdom) - not the bit on the side)
I'll probably be derided for asking such a question here.
However, do many of you frequent this site?
Thanks in advance
KYN
I've got a penis but willing to give you a go, OP "
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"Hi I met a lady who was submissive about a year ago she was into spanking ropes and all the whips crops and floggers and to be honest I really didn't know what to do I tried to tieing her up flogging her bum with her toys and to be honest as I do know my own strength i held back as I didn't want to hurt her as I do know how to hit hard being a trained fighter so I tend to shy away from sub Dom meets as very naive and maybe not my thing
If your interested in the dynamic for real you can always go to a munch chat to like minded guys and girls .
I to had a problem with to much pain play not during because any sub would use the take it easy word followed by the stop now word if you pushed past her comfort level .
My problem was guilt during the cool down period afterwards I would feel sick with guilt over the state of her body.
Its a dynamic not every one can or wants to play in certain ways so one has to find the right match that works both for the fern and the man delivering the fun. or just like any offer sexual activity its not going to work if both parties are not on the same wavelength or page when it comes to the fun at hand .
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When l first saw a predicament bondage l absolutely hated it, but then l discovered my dark side. I compare the consensual and desired pain to making love when it hurts so good but you don't want to it to stop. It is a fine line and it requires sensitivity and attention. The application of sensation is an art and requires practice. When l decided to do kink I practised for months and attended Aemilia Hawke's flogging course before l used a flogger on anyone .
Also some subs wear their marks and bruises as medals, l am happy to facilitate up to my limit, but some people don't understand consent works both ways and a dom can refuse to do anything too.
Any man who who does not initially have guilt issues about applying impact to a woman is suspect in my books. I admit some people get it straight away but l struggled.
In regard to the original post l suspect because of the lopsided gender numbers on fab, there appears to be a larger number of crass males. However l suspect as different doms want different things from their subs, different dommes want different things from their subs. May be, in the way there are male doms who like particular sexual submission from their subs there are dommes who like it too.
May be it is different from dommes but l see my job as helping the sub fulfill themselves. What do l get out of it? Two things, the gift of submission, and helping someone fulfill a desire or fulfill their desire,
For those all those interested in kink and are on fet l would recommend searching for and reading the article l set out below written by a domme. Male submission is not my thing but l do try to understand other people.
'Male submissives are beautiful and desirable. Not worthless and not second class citizens in our community.' |
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"had one guy tell me he is in a relationship but will submit to me and try and end his relationship...
sorry but where is the female supremecy there too? treating women like they're disposable objects is not worshipping the female form.
i can go on and on if anyone wants me to? (you probably don't want me to)
No carry on love ur views n input on this
i'm trying not to be in ranty pants mode lol. it's hard though. made myself a brew so i can have a sit down.
dunno, just the desperation from some of them. like you could be anyone, they aren't into you but they're into what you represent and don't really care what you actually want and are into. it's why i took i was domme off my profile actually because they had an idea in their head what a domme is and didn't care what i wanted (despite me having that on my profile also). i suspect these ones are not even submssive and just want to role play.
someone truly submissive would put me first, they would enjoy whay i like doing and be compatible with me. i don't mean in a doormat way at all, but they would be compatible. like the guy above loves pleasing his wife, i had an ex who was exactly the same and enjoyed me being happy more than himself being sorted. not that i didn't sort him but he always put me first.
the ones with a fetish, same as the above. i could be anyone. they don't even respect me, they're just selfish.
the ones with no self control, they are who need training really. but tbh i cba to train someone. but they come across as pests, desperate, and just sad. i wouldn't trust myself with someone like that. and that's what you really need in all this, trust.
Ur so true in what ur saying
wouldn't mind others perspective also.
the truly submissive guys are easy to spot, they will let me take the lead every time and not try to force anything onto me that i don't want.
they won't pester.
they won't get ahead of themselves or be pushy.
they won't ask me to do *whatever*, they will let me know what they like and then leave it to me to decide what happens.
they'll try and get to know me once it's obvious we're compatible and ot constantly go on about sex and sexual things like im an object.
god had one guy send me pics of his balls as soon as i said i'd chat to him, i just asked him wy he'd done that when i never asked him for pics, loads of guys do this shit, send sexual stuff i don't care for. no respect for me at all. they just wanna get their jollies and fuck what i want.
Know exactly how u feel... I had one guy ask me to video me shaving my lady garden for him ..hmmm strange n needless to say I declined n he kept messaging me saying "mummy show ur son how u shave" total off put n needless to say he was blocked
he sounds fucked up.
Yeah I know it put me off big time n scared me a bit as I know there's loads of weirdos on here n I got one lol X
at least he showed himself for what he was straight away. some guys never let you see that fucked up side of them until it's too late.
many guys are ok on here though, or seem to be.
Yeah there are some lovely genuine guys on here so we can't tar them all with the same brush
no. and i feel better for that rant as well, haha."
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"had one guy tell me he is in a relationship but will submit to me and try and end his relationship...
sorry but where is the female supremecy there too? treating women like they're disposable objects is not worshipping the female form.
i can go on and on if anyone wants me to? (you probably don't want me to)
No carry on love ur views n input on this
i'm trying not to be in ranty pants mode lol. it's hard though. made myself a brew so i can have a sit down.
dunno, just the desperation from some of them. like you could be anyone, they aren't into you but they're into what you represent and don't really care what you actually want and are into. it's why i took i was domme off my profile actually because they had an idea in their head what a domme is and didn't care what i wanted (despite me having that on my profile also). i suspect these ones are not even submssive and just want to role play.
someone truly submissive would put me first, they would enjoy whay i like doing and be compatible with me. i don't mean in a doormat way at all, but they would be compatible. like the guy above loves pleasing his wife, i had an ex who was exactly the same and enjoyed me being happy more than himself being sorted. not that i didn't sort him but he always put me first.
the ones with a fetish, same as the above. i could be anyone. they don't even respect me, they're just selfish.
the ones with no self control, they are who need training really. but tbh i cba to train someone. but they come across as pests, desperate, and just sad. i wouldn't trust myself with someone like that. and that's what you really need in all this, trust.
Ur so true in what ur saying
wouldn't mind others perspective also.
the truly submissive guys are easy to spot, they will let me take the lead every time and not try to force anything onto me that i don't want.
they won't pester.
they won't get ahead of themselves or be pushy.
they won't ask me to do *whatever*, they will let me know what they like and then leave it to me to decide what happens.
they'll try and get to know me once it's obvious we're compatible and ot constantly go on about sex and sexual things like im an object.
god had one guy send me pics of his balls as soon as i said i'd chat to him, i just asked him wy he'd done that when i never asked him for pics, loads of guys do this shit, send sexual stuff i don't care for. no respect for me at all. they just wanna get their jollies and fuck what i want.
Know exactly how u feel... I had one guy ask me to video me shaving my lady garden for him ..hmmm strange n needless to say I declined n he kept messaging me saying "mummy show ur son how u shave" total off put n needless to say he was blocked
he sounds fucked up.
Yeah I know it put me off big time n scared me a bit as I know there's loads of weirdos on here n I got one lol X
at least he showed himself for what he was straight away. some guys never let you see that fucked up side of them until it's too late.
many guys are ok on here though, or seem to be.
Yeah there are some lovely genuine guys on here so we can't tar them all with the same brush
no. and i feel better for that rant as well, haha.
I like reading your rants "
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"had one guy tell me he is in a relationship but will submit to me and try and end his relationship...
sorry but where is the female supremecy there too? treating women like they're disposable objects is not worshipping the female form.
i can go on and on if anyone wants me to? (you probably don't want me to)
No carry on love ur views n input on this
i'm trying not to be in ranty pants mode lol. it's hard though. made myself a brew so i can have a sit down.
dunno, just the desperation from some of them. like you could be anyone, they aren't into you but they're into what you represent and don't really care what you actually want and are into. it's why i took i was domme off my profile actually because they had an idea in their head what a domme is and didn't care what i wanted (despite me having that on my profile also). i suspect these ones are not even submssive and just want to role play.
someone truly submissive would put me first, they would enjoy whay i like doing and be compatible with me. i don't mean in a doormat way at all, but they would be compatible. like the guy above loves pleasing his wife, i had an ex who was exactly the same and enjoyed me being happy more than himself being sorted. not that i didn't sort him but he always put me first.
the ones with a fetish, same as the above. i could be anyone. they don't even respect me, they're just selfish.
the ones with no self control, they are who need training really. but tbh i cba to train someone. but they come across as pests, desperate, and just sad. i wouldn't trust myself with someone like that. and that's what you really need in all this, trust.
Ur so true in what ur saying
wouldn't mind others perspective also.
the truly submissive guys are easy to spot, they will let me take the lead every time and not try to force anything onto me that i don't want.
they won't pester.
they won't get ahead of themselves or be pushy.
they won't ask me to do *whatever*, they will let me know what they like and then leave it to me to decide what happens.
they'll try and get to know me once it's obvious we're compatible and ot constantly go on about sex and sexual things like im an object.
god had one guy send me pics of his balls as soon as i said i'd chat to him, i just asked him wy he'd done that when i never asked him for pics, loads of guys do this shit, send sexual stuff i don't care for. no respect for me at all. they just wanna get their jollies and fuck what i want.
Know exactly how u feel... I had one guy ask me to video me shaving my lady garden for him ..hmmm strange n needless to say I declined n he kept messaging me saying "mummy show ur son how u shave" total off put n needless to say he was blocked
he sounds fucked up.
Yeah I know it put me off big time n scared me a bit as I know there's loads of weirdos on here n I got one lol X
at least he showed himself for what he was straight away. some guys never let you see that fucked up side of them until it's too late.
many guys are ok on here though, or seem to be.
Yeah there are some lovely genuine guys on here so we can't tar them all with the same brush
no. and i feel better for that rant as well, haha.
I like reading your rants
yay, i will definitely rant more often now. "
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"had one guy tell me he is in a relationship but will submit to me and try and end his relationship...
sorry but where is the female supremecy there too? treating women like they're disposable objects is not worshipping the female form.
i can go on and on if anyone wants me to? (you probably don't want me to)
No carry on love ur views n input on this
i'm trying not to be in ranty pants mode lol. it's hard though. made myself a brew so i can have a sit down.
dunno, just the desperation from some of them. like you could be anyone, they aren't into you but they're into what you represent and don't really care what you actually want and are into. it's why i took i was domme off my profile actually because they had an idea in their head what a domme is and didn't care what i wanted (despite me having that on my profile also). i suspect these ones are not even submssive and just want to role play.
someone truly submissive would put me first, they would enjoy whay i like doing and be compatible with me. i don't mean in a doormat way at all, but they would be compatible. like the guy above loves pleasing his wife, i had an ex who was exactly the same and enjoyed me being happy more than himself being sorted. not that i didn't sort him but he always put me first.
the ones with a fetish, same as the above. i could be anyone. they don't even respect me, they're just selfish.
the ones with no self control, they are who need training really. but tbh i cba to train someone. but they come across as pests, desperate, and just sad. i wouldn't trust myself with someone like that. and that's what you really need in all this, trust.
Ur so true in what ur saying
wouldn't mind others perspective also.
the truly submissive guys are easy to spot, they will let me take the lead every time and not try to force anything onto me that i don't want.
they won't pester.
they won't get ahead of themselves or be pushy.
they won't ask me to do *whatever*, they will let me know what they like and then leave it to me to decide what happens.
they'll try and get to know me once it's obvious we're compatible and ot constantly go on about sex and sexual things like im an object.
god had one guy send me pics of his balls as soon as i said i'd chat to him, i just asked him wy he'd done that when i never asked him for pics, loads of guys do this shit, send sexual stuff i don't care for. no respect for me at all. they just wanna get their jollies and fuck what i want.
Know exactly how u feel... I had one guy ask me to video me shaving my lady garden for him ..hmmm strange n needless to say I declined n he kept messaging me saying "mummy show ur son how u shave" total off put n needless to say he was blocked
he sounds fucked up.
Yeah I know it put me off big time n scared me a bit as I know there's loads of weirdos on here n I got one lol X
at least he showed himself for what he was straight away. some guys never let you see that fucked up side of them until it's too late.
many guys are ok on here though, or seem to be.
Yeah there are some lovely genuine guys on here so we can't tar them all with the same brush
no. and i feel better for that rant as well, haha.
I like reading your rants
yay, i will definitely rant more often now.
Fill your wee cock stomping boots doll "
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I'm happy to be a figurhead but I do not give up my personality and needs. Similarly to how Feir describes very well, so many of these guys haven't seen me or aren't interested enough in my needs. So it's block and good riddance to them. |
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