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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I've been reading the forums a fair bit lately and alot of the threads are very similar or repeated (I don't mean the ones for abit of fun). I was wondering if this site is becoming a place where blokes just come to look for sex and it's not necessarily about the swingers lifestyle anymore. Is this the modern way of pulling a girl for NSA fun?

Feel free to judge my profile as im sure some smart arses will jump all over it as it's only a one liner but I admit I'm not a pro swinger and it's not a lifestyle for me. I have specific likes/types that are harder to find in the 'Real world' and also enjoy visiting clubs hence why I'm a FAB member.

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

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By *andi_shopWoman over a year ago

rotherham

It's a bit slow on here tonight!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's a bit slow on here tonight! "

This will be the thread of the year you watch! Even if it's just abuse thrown at me

You've been here a while, was it the same when you joined as it is now?

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By *tudmcmuffinMan over a year ago

Swindon

Was pretty much the same 10 years ago, just a hell of a lot less people!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Was pretty much the same 10 years ago, just a hell of a lot less people!

I just find it strange that so many blokes come on here and near enough beg for sex, each to their own and all that but come onnnn!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was on here 10 years ago and other sites!! It has changed lots there where more couples and alot less single guys, Plus most of the single guys where married or divorced and middle age, Now the site is swamped with single guys, There has always been time wasters on here but there are more today i believe, The cams where pretty poor because they where pixelatet. Also alot of people didn't use fabs but other sites instead.

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By *andi_shopWoman over a year ago

rotherham

It's always been the same since I've been here. A lot of desperate guys wanting to fuck anything with a hole, small minority of genuinely nice guys with standards and lot of fakes! Yet to meet a genuine couple/female so can't comment on those

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've been reading the forums a fair bit lately and alot of the threads are very similar or repeated (I don't mean the ones for abit of fun). I was wondering if this site is becoming a place where blokes just come to look for sex and it's not necessarily about the swingers lifestyle anymore. Is this the modern way of pulling a girl for NSA fun?

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

oooh the good old days? I have no idea ..

probably much the same as it is now only less people I reckon...

as for your profile, yes it only has one line but you have pics and verifications so you can't be doing too badly

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By *tudmcmuffinMan over a year ago

Swindon

A lot more singles use fab like a dating site these days but I think that's more to do with how internet dating has changed over the years. The place with many fish is the same, some say that's now just a vanilla version of fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

oooh the good old days? I have no idea ..

probably much the same as it is now only less people I reckon...

as for your profile, yes it only has one line but you have pics and verifications so you can't be doing too badly

This wasn't a moaning thread

I do fine thank you for your concern.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" I just find it strange that so many blokes come on here and near enough beg for sex, each to their own and all that but come onnnn!"

It does seem that way I just sit and wait for people to contact me who are surprised when I say no thanks because they just assume il up sticks and run to their bedroom in and instant like I don't have a life

Most guys on here are up for fucking just about anyone but I'm more surprised by the response you get when you don't have that attitude and are a little more pickier

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

its not changed there are arseholes and gems...and its not gender specific.

I hate these threads tarring single men specifically, even worse when it comes from a single man.

I've been on the site nearly 10years, made a tonne of real life friends(not just the ones with benefits), I'll meet people I like...despite if it doesnt sit well with someone elses standards..because at the end of they day I do not care who they shag before or after me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" I just find it strange that so many blokes come on here and near enough beg for sex, each to their own and all that but come onnnn!

Most guys on here are up for fucking just about anyone but I'm more surprised by the response you get when you don't have that attitude and are a little more pickier "
A bit leftfield

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"its not changed there are arseholes and gems...and its not gender specific.

I hate these threads tarring single men specifically, even worse when it comes from a single man.

I wasn't tarring single men, I'm tarring men who come on here and beg for sex whether single or not. And I was only asking if it was always like this now please untangle your knickers.

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By *andi_shopWoman over a year ago

rotherham

"its not changed there are arseholes and gems...and its not gender specific.

I hate these threads tarring single men specifically, even worse when it comes from a single man.

Did you read what the op actually wrote before having a rant?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nice pics OP

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i can assure you this will not be the thread of the year - not even the thread of the night

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i can assure you this will not be the thread of the year - not even the thread of the night"

Ouch

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Nice pics OP

Thanks

nice boobs x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"i can assure you this will not be the thread of the year - not even the thread of the night"

maybe you can tell me what it was like 30 years ago?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i can assure you this will not be the thread of the year - not even the thread of the night

maybe you can tell me what it was like 30 years ago?"

nah the last ten years - and ive not seen much change

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"i can assure you this will not be the thread of the year - not even the thread of the night

maybe you can tell me what it was like 30 years ago?

nah the last ten years - and ive not seen much change "

Thanks for your input

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i can assure you this will not be the thread of the year - not even the thread of the night

maybe you can tell me what it was like 30 years ago?"
And with one post you join the ranks of the single men you ask about

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"i can assure you this will not be the thread of the year - not even the thread of the night

maybe you can tell me what it was like 30 years ago?And with one post you join the ranks of the single men you ask about

If people want to give it they've got to take it

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

I don't know, I've only been here 4 years

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i can assure you this will not be the thread of the year - not even the thread of the night

maybe you can tell me what it was like 30 years ago?And with one post you join the ranks of the single men you ask about

If people want to give it they've got to take it

"
A lady ? Its a swingers site so they re fair game are they ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i can assure you this will not be the thread of the year - not even the thread of the night

maybe you can tell me what it was like 30 years ago?And with one post you join the ranks of the single men you ask about

If people want to give it they've got to take it

i can take it - not much to take really here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

I am interested in your comment about men just coming here for sex. Versus the "swingers lifestyle."

Is there some magical difference? How do you see sex as different from the "swingers lifestyle?"

There are quite a few people here who are not men, too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"i can assure you this will not be the thread of the year - not even the thread of the night

maybe you can tell me what it was like 30 years ago?And with one post you join the ranks of the single men you ask about

If people want to give it they've got to take it

A lady ? Its a swingers site so they re fair game are they ?"

A lady? Don't get your point, she made a comment about a joke I made earlier re this being thread of the year. I made a comment back. As she said, there's not much to take

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

there are women who pander to it as well. i have enjoyed a lot of fuck and go, and you can tell that some clubs have events that encourage women to be used.

i think it's ok to do this, everyone has types of sex they enjoy. the bigger problem is when men presume ALL women are here to be used sexually. when we in fact might well be but we don't like to be approached like we're some kind of service. it should be a mutual using with people we like to use and turn us on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i can assure you this will not be the thread of the year - not even the thread of the night

maybe you can tell me what it was like 30 years ago?And with one post you join the ranks of the single men you ask about

If people want to give it they've got to take it

A lady ? Its a swingers site so they re fair game are they ?

A lady? Don't get your point, she made a comment about a joke I made earlier re this being thread of the year. I made a comment back. As she said, there's not much to take"
Yep think shes put it best !

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

I am interested in your comment about men just coming here for sex. Versus the "swingers lifestyle."

Is there some magical difference? How do you see sex as different from the "swingers lifestyle?"

There are quite a few people here who are not men, too."

No magical difference.

My point was that in the forums there is thread after thread from blokes (yes all blokes) near enough begging for sex. All I asked was if it was always like this? Is this the modern way of finding NS sex? What was it like 10 years ago?

I assume this site was set up for people with the swingers lifestyle yes? Now I don't think it is, I think it's mostly a place where single guys come to find sex.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

Ok I've not read the thread but in reply to your question. So do you as a single man see 'fabswingers' as a swinger site? So you are looking to swing? Not 1-1? Your not looking for sex no? Just curious

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"there are women who pander to it as well. i have enjoyed a lot of fuck and go, and you can tell that some clubs have events that encourage women to be used.

agreed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think a lot of women join here just for sex too, not just men.

I find it easier to get sex by going to a club. It's very rare for me to find men on here to fuck, not because I don't fancy anyone but because of the logistics of meeting them.

I stay on here for the forums mainly now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

To me personally, I use it as a swingers site, a place to meet people with same sexual interests etc whether that be with couples or 1-1. Not just a shag

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I never beg for sex

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By *andi_shopWoman over a year ago

rotherham

"I never beg for sex "

Me either but you would not believe the amount of me who do and offer incentives (cash) for you to meet them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

I am interested in your comment about men just coming here for sex. Versus the "swingers lifestyle."

Is there some magical difference? How do you see sex as different from the "swingers lifestyle?"

There are quite a few people here who are not men, too."

Swingers are mainly couples who come to meet other couples to have sex/fun/ play with, and generally gave a good time.

Singles come here for nsa sex, enjoy a liberal lifestyle, but then get into a relationship and no way would they carry on as they wouldnt want to "share" their partner, despite having been happy to meet other couples and "share" someone else's partner.

Then here's the married men/women who are not happy in their relationship so come here for sex whilst telling thenselves and anyone else who wants to listen that they are so hard by done at hone that they are justified in deceiving their poor innocent partner.

They are the main groups we see here, but there are other variations that fit loosely around them.

Everyone thinks their way is right, and all think anything different is wrong

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I never beg for sex

Me either but you would not believe the amount of me who do and offer incentives (cash) for you to meet them"

I'll buy you a bag of chips n a

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry for typos

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By *andi_shopWoman over a year ago

rotherham

"I never beg for sex

Me either but you would not believe the amount of me who do and offer incentives (cash) for you to meet them

I'll buy you a bag of chips n a

Make it a Diet Coke and we are on

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sorry for typos

You didn't answer my question but loved your post!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My 2 pennies worth is in the 6 years we have been on and off of here it's always been the same, but I would say the single guy side has got larger as Internet more accessible and people have heard about these types of sites in the media. Would also say a lot of people are more for the thrill of the chase and the chat but brick it before the meet these days than they used to, but that's not exclusive to single guys, couples and females can be as bad

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry for typos

You didn't answer my question but loved your post!

What? Apologising for typos? Yeah great post

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I never beg for sex

Me either but you would not believe the amount of me who do and offer incentives (cash) for you to meet them

I'll buy you a bag of chips n a

Make it a Diet Coke and we are on

Done!!!

And in the interest of forum protocol I, The TiG, am not trying to bypass filters

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"My 2 pennies worth is in the 6 years we have been on and off of here it's always been the same, but I would say the single guy side has got larger as Internet more accessible and people have heard about these types of sites in the media. Would also say a lot of people are more for the thrill of the chase and the chat but brick it before the meet these days than they used to, but that's not exclusive to single guys, couples and females can be as bad "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

To me personally, I use it as a swingers site, a place to meet people with same sexual interests etc whether that be with couples or 1-1. Not just a shag"

Well, it sounds like you use it as an opportunity to get a shag. I am still confused by your insistence that "swinging" is somehow different.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sorry for typos

You didn't answer my question but loved your post!

What? Apologising for typos? Yeah great post

Ye, have you seen the replies above

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sorry for typos

You didn't answer my question but loved your post!

What? Apologising for typos? Yeah great post

Ye, have you seen the replies above

Oops meant to be a

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

Always the same

Men moaning about the women

Women moaning about the men

Couples moaning about the men and women

Men and women moaning about the couples

Bi guys, cheaters and bare backers easy targets

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry for typos

You didn't answer my question but loved your post!

What? Apologising for typos? Yeah great post

Ye, have you seen the replies above

Oops meant to be a

I replied above too, albeit with typos i apologised for

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's always been the same since I've been here. A lot of desperate guys wanting to fuck anything with a hole, small minority of genuinely nice guys with standards and lot of fakes! Yet to meet a genuine couple/female so can't comment on those "

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

To me personally, I use it as a swingers site, a place to meet people with same sexual interests etc whether that be with couples or 1-1. Not just a shag

Well, it sounds like you use it as an opportunity to get a shag. I am still confused by your insistence that "swinging" is somehow different."

Are you just being difficult? I've clearly explained why I use the site.. If you shag someone on a night out, is that swinging? Not to me. As a single male swinging is what I said above, as a couple it's obviously different but please stop being awkward it's Friday night.

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By *ynecplCouple over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Going back to the OP original post we have only been on 3 years and it has always been like this on the forums.

Love meeting couples who have been in the lifestyle a lot longer and hearing about how people arrange meets before the Internet and websites like fab

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

To me personally, I use it as a swingers site, a place to meet people with same sexual interests etc whether that be with couples or 1-1. Not just a shag

Well, it sounds like you use it as an opportunity to get a shag. I am still confused by your insistence that "swinging" is somehow different.

No matter what night it is, you have not explained why your vision of "swinging" (a seemingly magical thing) is somehow different from shagging.

I am not being awkward. How do you differentiate the terms? You clearly do.

Does a portion of chips or a glass of wine make a difference? Does it involve keys in a bowl?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

To me personally, I use it as a swingers site, a place to meet people with same sexual interests etc whether that be with couples or 1-1. Not just a shag

Well, it sounds like you use it as an opportunity to get a shag. I am still confused by your insistence that "swinging" is somehow different.

What would you say is the definition of 'swinging' OP?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

To me personally, I use it as a swingers site, a place to meet people with same sexual interests etc whether that be with couples or 1-1. Not just a shag"

No one mentioned 'shag' you said swinging and people just wanting sex!! Big difference. !! HUGE difference. I'm single I don't swing ( not that I wouldn't I've just not got to that point yet in my life, and I hope one day I can ) but yes I use fab for sex!! So do I not belong here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Going back to the OP original post we have only been on 3 years and it has always been like this on the forums.

Love meeting couples who have been in the lifestyle a lot longer and hearing about how people arrange meets before the Internet and websites like fab"

This is what I was interested in. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

To me personally, I use it as a swingers site, a place to meet people with same sexual interests etc whether that be with couples or 1-1. Not just a shag

No, sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

To me personally, I use it as a swingers site, a place to meet people with same sexual interests etc whether that be with couples or 1-1. Not just a shag

Well, it sounds like you use it as an opportunity to get a shag. I am still confused by your insistence that "swinging" is somehow different.

What would you say is the definition of 'swinging' OP?"

Please start a thread posing that question. My question was nothing to do with my version of swinging. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

To me personally, I use it as a swingers site, a place to meet people with same sexual interests etc whether that be with couples or 1-1. Not just a shag

Well, it sounds like you use it as an opportunity to get a shag. I am still confused by your insistence that "swinging" is somehow different.

No matter what night it is, you have not explained why your vision of "swinging" (a seemingly magical thing) is somehow different from shagging.

I am not being awkward. How do you differentiate the terms? You clearly do.

Does a portion of chips or a glass of wine make a difference? Does it involve keys in a bowl?"

I have no idea what you're on about. So what was fab like 10 years ago?

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By *andi_shopWoman over a year ago

rotherham

I think the whole point of his thread was to see if the number of blatantly obvious, 'look at me, I want a shag, why won't anyone shag me, what's wrong with me' largely male threads are more common now than say 10 years ago. Have the dynamics of fab changed during that time or have there always been so many desperate male profiles?

Disclaimer -not all males are desperate!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

To me personally, I use it as a swingers site, a place to meet people with same sexual interests etc whether that be with couples or 1-1. Not just a shag

Well, it sounds like you use it as an opportunity to get a shag. I am still confused by your insistence that "swinging" is somehow different.

No matter what night it is, you have not explained why your vision of "swinging" (a seemingly magical thing) is somehow different from shagging.

I am not being awkward. How do you differentiate the terms? You clearly do.

Does a portion of chips or a glass of wine make a difference? Does it involve keys in a bowl?

I have no idea what you're on about. So what was fab like 10 years ago?"

Exactly the same as it is now!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

To me personally, I use it as a swingers site, a place to meet people with same sexual interests etc whether that be with couples or 1-1. Not just a shag

Well, it sounds like you use it as an opportunity to get a shag. I am still confused by your insistence that "swinging" is somehow different.

No matter what night it is, you have not explained why your vision of "swinging" (a seemingly magical thing) is somehow different from shagging.

I am not being awkward. How do you differentiate the terms? You clearly do.

Does a portion of chips or a glass of wine make a difference? Does it involve keys in a bowl?

I have no idea what you're on about. So what was fab like 10 years ago?

Exactly the same as it is now!!

Thanks, that's all you had to say instead of bone picking

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

To me personally, I use it as a swingers site, a place to meet people with same sexual interests etc whether that be with couples or 1-1. Not just a shag

Well, it sounds like you use it as an opportunity to get a shag. I am still confused by your insistence that "swinging" is somehow different.

No matter what night it is, you have not explained why your vision of "swinging" (a seemingly magical thing) is somehow different from shagging.

I am not being awkward. How do you differentiate the terms? You clearly do.

Does a portion of chips or a glass of wine make a difference? Does it involve keys in a bowl?

I have no idea what you're on about. So what was fab like 10 years ago?

Exactly the same as it is now!!

Thanks, that's all you had to say instead of bone picking "

Your more than welcome

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I was wondering if this site is becoming a place where blokes just come to look for sex and it's not necessarily about the swingers lifestyle anymore."

OP, that is what I was questioning. I assume you come here looking for sex. Why is that different from the swingers lifestyle?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

""I was wondering if this site is becoming a place where blokes just come to look for sex and it's not necessarily about the swingers lifestyle anymore."

OP, that is what I was questioning. I assume you come here looking for sex. Why is that different from the swingers lifestyle?"

It was more about the coming across as begging for sex. Obviously, the majority are here for sex of some kind but it's the way some people go about it. Would they beg in real life, would they abuse females for not putting out. Or are they the kind who don't say boo to a goose..i suspect the latter.

Swinging lifestyle to me is not the above.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

To me personally, I use it as a swingers site, a place to meet people with same sexual interests etc whether that be with couples or 1-1. Not just a shag

Well, it sounds like you use it as an opportunity to get a shag. I am still confused by your insistence that "swinging" is somehow different.

What would you say is the definition of 'swinging' OP?

Please start a thread posing that question. My question was nothing to do with my version of swinging. Thanks"

I felt my question was extremely relevant to the discussion. There's no need for me to start a separate thread, as I was only interested in contributing to your thread, which is a good topic.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

To me personally, I use it as a swingers site, a place to meet people with same sexual interests etc whether that be with couples or 1-1. Not just a shag

Well, it sounds like you use it as an opportunity to get a shag. I am still confused by your insistence that "swinging" is somehow different.

What would you say is the definition of 'swinging' OP?

Please start a thread posing that question. My question was nothing to do with my version of swinging. Thanks

I felt my question was extremely relevant to the discussion. There's no need for me to start a separate thread, as I was only interested in contributing to your thread, which is a good topic. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

To me personally, I use it as a swingers site, a place to meet people with same sexual interests etc whether that be with couples or 1-1. Not just a shag

Well, it sounds like you use it as an opportunity to get a shag. I am still confused by your insistence that "swinging" is somehow different.

What would you say is the definition of 'swinging' OP?

Please start a thread posing that question. My question was nothing to do with my version of swinging. Thanks

I felt my question was extremely relevant to the discussion. There's no need for me to start a separate thread, as I was only interested in contributing to your thread, which is a good topic. "

As you replied so politely

to me as a single male it is finding someone or 2 who you are compatible with sexually, same sexual interests etc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

""I was wondering if this site is becoming a place where blokes just come to look for sex and it's not necessarily about the swingers lifestyle anymore."

OP, that is what I was questioning. I assume you come here looking for sex. Why is that different from the swingers lifestyle?

Swinging lifestyle to me is not the above. "

So swinging is about how someone goes about swinging? I really am lost. Begging? Abusing females? Not saying boo to a goose? I really do not comprehend your post.

You say that "blokes come looking for sex" (ignoring that ladies and couples come here for sex, too), and seem to think that is not "swinging" (whatever that might be). Yet you cannot define your _iew of what swinging might be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

To me personally, I use it as a swingers site, a place to meet people with same sexual interests etc whether that be with couples or 1-1. Not just a shag

Well, it sounds like you use it as an opportunity to get a shag. I am still confused by your insistence that "swinging" is somehow different.

What would you say is the definition of 'swinging' OP?

Please start a thread posing that question. My question was nothing to do with my version of swinging. Thanks

I felt my question was extremely relevant to the discussion. There's no need for me to start a separate thread, as I was only interested in contributing to your thread, which is a good topic.

As you replied so politely

to me as a single male it is finding someone or 2 who you are compatible with sexually, same sexual interests etc "

And sorry forgot to add, not just coming on here to fuck anyone and anything and then moaning about it if someone says no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

""I was wondering if this site is becoming a place where blokes just come to look for sex and it's not necessarily about the swingers lifestyle anymore."

OP, that is what I was questioning. I assume you come here looking for sex. Why is that different from the swingers lifestyle?

Swinging lifestyle to me is not the above.

So swinging is about how someone goes about swinging? I really am lost. Begging? Abusing females? Not saying boo to a goose? I really do not comprehend your post.

You're confusing me now. Why don't you read my original post and come back with a relevant answer instead of picking bones as we're both confused.

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By *ebedee2009Man over a year ago

South Croydon

Not begging for a shag is actually far more likely to result in you getting one! I enjoy the banter and a bit of mutual piss taking-that soon sorts out the really genuine from the wannabes and the chancers...I've had the odd bit of abuse in chat rooms from younger guys, but to paraphrase George Best, come back when you've got a few veris!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry OP you've lost me, you say that this sites for swingers only! Then back track, I'm confused

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Was pretty much the same 10 years ago, just a hell of a lot less people!

It's like television,when there were just 4 channels the overall quality was higher than now we have 100+ channels.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sorry OP you've lost me, you say that this sites for swingers only! Then back track, I'm confused "

Are you this annoying in real life?

I didn't say this site was for swingers only. All I wanted to know was whether it's always been full of begs and attention seekers. Better?

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

"Was pretty much the same 10 years ago, just a hell of a lot less people!

I just find it strange that so many blokes come on here and near enough beg for sex, each to their own and all that but come onnnn!"

Whats wrong with asking for sex on a site that people are looking for sex on?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry OP you've lost me, you say that this sites for swingers only! Then back track, I'm confused

Are you this annoying in real life?

I didn't say this site was for swingers only. All I wanted to know was whether it's always been full of begs and attention seekers. Better?

Read your original post. And yes I am very annoying in real life hence why I'm single and on here (tongue in cheek)

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Was pretty much the same 10 years ago, just a hell of a lot less people!

I just find it strange that so many blokes come on here and near enough beg for sex, each to their own and all that but come onnnn!

Whats wrong with asking for sex on a site that people are looking for sex on?"

I didn't say it was wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

crux.......

all I hear is "I'm better than these other guys and in fact they probably ruin alot of chances for me"

and thats how a good lookatme post starts..we had them 10 years ago too.

imo

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

To me personally, I use it as a swingers site, a place to meet people with same sexual interests etc whether that be with couples or 1-1. Not just a shag

Well, it sounds like you use it as an opportunity to get a shag. I am still confused by your insistence that "swinging" is somehow different.

What would you say is the definition of 'swinging' OP?

Please start a thread posing that question. My question was nothing to do with my version of swinging. Thanks

I felt my question was extremely relevant to the discussion. There's no need for me to start a separate thread, as I was only interested in contributing to your thread, which is a good topic.

As you replied so politely

to me as a single male it is finding someone or 2 who you are compatible with sexually, same sexual interests etc "

Then you have finally answered your own question.

You are looking for people with whom you have a sexual (and probably mental or emotional) connection.

Some float your boat, others don't.

Go back 20 years with keys in a bowl and it would be no different.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sorry OP you've lost me, you say that this sites for swingers only! Then back track, I'm confused

Are you this annoying in real life?

I didn't say this site was for swingers only. All I wanted to know was whether it's always been full of begs and attention seekers. Better?

Read your original post. And yes I am very annoying in real life hence why I'm single and on here (tongue in cheek)"

Are you seeing things? I haven't said this site is only for swingers.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Was pretty much the same 10 years ago, just a hell of a lot less people!

I just find it strange that so many blokes come on here and near enough beg for sex, each to their own and all that but come onnnn!

Whats wrong with asking for sex on a site that people are looking for sex on?"

Because it's a 'swinger' site not a ' let's have NSA sex site' get it right

So unless you want a mf mfmf fffmm mfmf blah blah your not welcome on here,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So, to stick to your original observation. Yes there are a lot of desperate men, just looking for sex. I have no idea if this was always the case, but I do think that many men joined Fab because they thought it was similar to an escort service, except they thought the girls came free. Obviously these guys are not swingers. However, Fab is not exclusively a swingers site. Many single men and women legitimately use it to find NSA sex, and they are perfectly entitled to do so.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"crux.......

all I hear is "I'm better than these other guys and in fact they probably ruin alot of chances for me"

and thats how a good lookatme post starts..we had them 10 years ago too.

imo

I don't need look at me posts thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Was pretty much the same 10 years ago, just a hell of a lot less people!

I just find it strange that so many blokes come on here and near enough beg for sex, each to their own and all that but come onnnn!

Whats wrong with asking for sex on a site that people are looking for sex on?

Because it's a 'swinger' site not a ' let's have NSA sex site' get it right

So unless you want a mf mfmf fffmm mfmf blah blah your not welcome on here,

You're that woman who always puts words into someone else's mouth aren't you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

To me personally, I use it as a swingers site, a place to meet people with same sexual interests etc whether that be with couples or 1-1. Not just a shag

Well, it sounds like you use it as an opportunity to get a shag. I am still confused by your insistence that "swinging" is somehow different.

What would you say is the definition of 'swinging' OP?

Please start a thread posing that question. My question was nothing to do with my version of swinging. Thanks

I felt my question was extremely relevant to the discussion. There's no need for me to start a separate thread, as I was only interested in contributing to your thread, which is a good topic.

As you replied so politely

to me as a single male it is finding someone or 2 who you are compatible with sexually, same sexual interests etc

Then you have finally answered your own question.

You are looking for people with whom you have a sexual (and probably mental or emotional) connection.

Some float your boat, others don't.

Go back 20 years with keys in a bowl and it would be no different."

That's all you had to reply saying but thanks for your input

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

oooh the good old days? I have no idea ..

probably much the same as it is now only less people I reckon...

as for your profile, yes it only has one line but you have pics and verifications so you can't be doing too badly

This wasn't a moaning thread

I do fine thank you for your concern."

No need to get arsey .. you practically invited people to judge your profile so I did ... simples

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Was pretty much the same 10 years ago, just a hell of a lot less people!

I just find it strange that so many blokes come on here and near enough beg for sex, each to their own and all that but come onnnn!

Whats wrong with asking for sex on a site that people are looking for sex on?

Because it's a 'swinger' site not a ' let's have NSA sex site' get it right

So unless you want a mf mfmf fffmm mfmf blah blah your not welcome on here,

You're that woman who always puts words into someone else's mouth aren't you

Nope not at all. I'm opinionated I'm stubborn and independent but I'm not controlling

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"So, to stick to your original observation. Yes there are a lot of desperate men, just looking for sex. I have no idea if this was always the case, but I do think that many men joined Fab because they thought it was similar to an escort service, except they thought the girls came free. Obviously these guys are not swingers. However, Fab is not exclusively a swingers site. Many single men and women legitimately use it to find NSA sex, and they are perfectly entitled to do so. "

I completely agree with you.

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By *andi_shopWoman over a year ago

rotherham

The question is 10 years ago were there as many threads/moans from single men complaining that they never get messages, their dick is too big and puts people off, what's wrong with me, is my profile shit etc as there are now. Today's moaner threads seem to want everything handed to them and that's the point the op is trying to make

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Was pretty much the same 10 years ago, just a hell of a lot less people!

I just find it strange that so many blokes come on here and near enough beg for sex, each to their own and all that but come onnnn!"

No one has begged me,well a few have been persistent,but I wouldn't call it begging.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

oooh the good old days? I have no idea ..

probably much the same as it is now only less people I reckon...

as for your profile, yes it only has one line but you have pics and verifications so you can't be doing too badly

This wasn't a moaning thread

I do fine thank you for your concern.

No need to get arsey .. you practically invited people to judge your profile so I did ... simples "

Nope, I would of said please judge my profile. I assumed I would get some stick on my profile so thought I'd put my reply in there beforehand.

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By *elsh n wildCouple over a year ago

Cardiff area

I agree it is more for single men pulling not swinging I have no probs getting swinging meet but I do agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Was pretty much the same 10 years ago, just a hell of a lot less people!

I just find it strange that so many blokes come on here and near enough beg for sex, each to their own and all that but come onnnn!

Whats wrong with asking for sex on a site that people are looking for sex on?

Because it's a 'swinger' site not a ' let's have NSA sex site' get it right

So unless you want a mf mfmf fffmm mfmf blah blah your not welcome on here,

You're that woman who always puts words into someone else's mouth aren't you

Nope not at all. I'm opinionated I'm stubborn and independent but I'm not controlling

You're a pain in the arse as well as all the above

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"The question is 10 years ago were there as many threads/moans from single men complaining that they never get messages, their dick is too big and puts people off, what's wrong with me, is my profile shit etc as there are now. Today's moaner threads seem to want everything handed to them and that's the point the op is trying to make "

This! And you didn't question why I'm here and my _iews on swinging

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

To me personally, I use it as a swingers site, a place to meet people with same sexual interests etc whether that be with couples or 1-1. Not just a shag

Well, it sounds like you use it as an opportunity to get a shag. I am still confused by your insistence that "swinging" is somehow different.

What would you say is the definition of 'swinging' OP?

Please start a thread posing that question. My question was nothing to do with my version of swinging. Thanks

I felt my question was extremely relevant to the discussion. There's no need for me to start a separate thread, as I was only interested in contributing to your thread, which is a good topic.

As you replied so politely

to me as a single male it is finding someone or 2 who you are compatible with sexually, same sexual interests etc

Then you have finally answered your own question.

You are looking for people with whom you have a sexual (and probably mental or emotional) connection.

Some float your boat, others don't.

Go back 20 years with keys in a bowl and it would be no different.

That's all you had to reply saying but thanks for your input

I never restrict myself to what I "had to reply," much to many posters chagrin.

You want sex. That is fine and like most here. There just seemed to be a bit sort of but you are a true swinger weirdness going on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Was pretty much the same 10 years ago, just a hell of a lot less people!

I just find it strange that so many blokes come on here and near enough beg for sex, each to their own and all that but come onnnn!

Whats wrong with asking for sex on a site that people are looking for sex on?

Because it's a 'swinger' site not a ' let's have NSA sex site' get it right

So unless you want a mf mfmf fffmm mfmf blah blah your not welcome on here,

You're that woman who always puts words into someone else's mouth aren't you

Nope not at all. I'm opinionated I'm stubborn and independent but I'm not controlling

You're a pain in the arse as well as all the above

I can live with that,

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Spookily it's 10 yrs this week since I joined

As others have said, there's not much that's different apart from there being more people and a few improvements Admin have made

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

"Was pretty much the same 10 years ago, just a hell of a lot less people!

I just find it strange that so many blokes come on here and near enough beg for sex, each to their own and all that but come onnnn!

Whats wrong with asking for sex on a site that people are looking for sex on?"

Forgive me, I assumed when you say has the site changed as all you see is men asking for sex that people asking for sex isn't what you think they should do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

To me personally, I use it as a swingers site, a place to meet people with same sexual interests etc whether that be with couples or 1-1. Not just a shag

Well, it sounds like you use it as an opportunity to get a shag. I am still confused by your insistence that "swinging" is somehow different.

What would you say is the definition of 'swinging' OP?

Please start a thread posing that question. My question was nothing to do with my version of swinging. Thanks

I felt my question was extremely relevant to the discussion. There's no need for me to start a separate thread, as I was only interested in contributing to your thread, which is a good topic.

As you replied so politely

to me as a single male it is finding someone or 2 who you are compatible with sexually, same sexual interests etc

Then you have finally answered your own question.

You are looking for people with whom you have a sexual (and probably mental or emotional) connection.

Some float your boat, others don't.

Go back 20 years with keys in a bowl and it would be no different.

That's all you had to reply saying but thanks for your input

I never restrict myself to what I "had to reply," much to many posters chagrin.

You want sex. That is fine and like most here. There just seemed to be a bit sort of but you are a true swinger weirdness going on"

What's that in English?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

To me personally, I use it as a swingers site, a place to meet people with same sexual interests etc whether that be with couples or 1-1. Not just a shag

Well, it sounds like you use it as an opportunity to get a shag. I am still confused by your insistence that "swinging" is somehow different.

What would you say is the definition of 'swinging' OP?

Please start a thread posing that question. My question was nothing to do with my version of swinging. Thanks

I felt my question was extremely relevant to the discussion. There's no need for me to start a separate thread, as I was only interested in contributing to your thread, which is a good topic.

As you replied so politely

to me as a single male it is finding someone or 2 who you are compatible with sexually, same sexual interests etc

Then you have finally answered your own question.

You are looking for people with whom you have a sexual (and probably mental or emotional) connection.

Some float your boat, others don't.

Go back 20 years with keys in a bowl and it would be no different.

That's all you had to reply saying but thanks for your input

I never restrict myself to what I "had to reply," much to many posters chagrin.

You want sex. That is fine and like most here. There just seemed to be a bit sort of but you are a true swinger weirdness going on

What's that in English?"
are you still awake?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

To me personally, I use it as a swingers site, a place to meet people with same sexual interests etc whether that be with couples or 1-1. Not just a shag

Well, it sounds like you use it as an opportunity to get a shag. I am still confused by your insistence that "swinging" is somehow different.

What would you say is the definition of 'swinging' OP?

Please start a thread posing that question. My question was nothing to do with my version of swinging. Thanks

I felt my question was extremely relevant to the discussion. There's no need for me to start a separate thread, as I was only interested in contributing to your thread, which is a good topic.

As you replied so politely

to me as a single male it is finding someone or 2 who you are compatible with sexually, same sexual interests etc

Then you have finally answered your own question.

You are looking for people with whom you have a sexual (and probably mental or emotional) connection.

Some float your boat, others don't.

Go back 20 years with keys in a bowl and it would be no different.

That's all you had to reply saying but thanks for your input

I never restrict myself to what I "had to reply," much to many posters chagrin.

You want sex. That is fine and like most here. There just seemed to be a bit sort of but you are a true swinger weirdness going on

What's that in English?"

Translation.

You want sex. Others want sex. You are a 'true swinger." Others are not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Was pretty much the same 10 years ago, just a hell of a lot less people!

I just find it strange that so many blokes come on here and near enough beg for sex, each to their own and all that but come onnnn!

Whats wrong with asking for sex on a site that people are looking for sex on?

Forgive me, I assumed when you say has the site changed as all you see is men asking for sex that people asking for sex isn't what you think they should do."

No forgive me, is that reply to another thread as I don't think i asked that. I asked was it like this before not why do they do it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

To me personally, I use it as a swingers site, a place to meet people with same sexual interests etc whether that be with couples or 1-1. Not just a shag

Well, it sounds like you use it as an opportunity to get a shag. I am still confused by your insistence that "swinging" is somehow different.

What would you say is the definition of 'swinging' OP?

Please start a thread posing that question. My question was nothing to do with my version of swinging. Thanks

I felt my question was extremely relevant to the discussion. There's no need for me to start a separate thread, as I was only interested in contributing to your thread, which is a good topic.

As you replied so politely

to me as a single male it is finding someone or 2 who you are compatible with sexually, same sexual interests etc

Then you have finally answered your own question.

You are looking for people with whom you have a sexual (and probably mental or emotional) connection.

Some float your boat, others don't.

Go back 20 years with keys in a bowl and it would be no different.

That's all you had to reply saying but thanks for your input

I never restrict myself to what I "had to reply," much to many posters chagrin.

You want sex. That is fine and like most here. There just seemed to be a bit sort of but you are a true swinger weirdness going on

What's that in English?

Translation.

You want sex. Others want sex. You are a 'true swinger." Others are not."

No not at all, whilst knit picking my post didn't you see the bit where I put I don't claim to be a pro swinger and then the reasons why I'm here. I'm surprised and a little disappointed tbh

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

To me personally, I use it as a swingers site, a place to meet people with same sexual interests etc whether that be with couples or 1-1. Not just a shag

Well, it sounds like you use it as an opportunity to get a shag. I am still confused by your insistence that "swinging" is somehow different.

What would you say is the definition of 'swinging' OP?

Please start a thread posing that question. My question was nothing to do with my version of swinging. Thanks

I felt my question was extremely relevant to the discussion. There's no need for me to start a separate thread, as I was only interested in contributing to your thread, which is a good topic.

As you replied so politely

to me as a single male it is finding someone or 2 who you are compatible with sexually, same sexual interests etc

Then you have finally answered your own question.

You are looking for people with whom you have a sexual (and probably mental or emotional) connection.

Some float your boat, others don't.

Go back 20 years with keys in a bowl and it would be no different.

That's all you had to reply saying but thanks for your input

I never restrict myself to what I "had to reply," much to many posters chagrin.

You want sex. That is fine and like most here. There just seemed to be a bit sort of but you are a true swinger weirdness going on

What's that in English? are you still awake?

Are you still here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

To me personally, I use it as a swingers site, a place to meet people with same sexual interests etc whether that be with couples or 1-1. Not just a shag

Well, it sounds like you use it as an opportunity to get a shag. I am still confused by your insistence that "swinging" is somehow different.

What would you say is the definition of 'swinging' OP?

Please start a thread posing that question. My question was nothing to do with my version of swinging. Thanks

I felt my question was extremely relevant to the discussion. There's no need for me to start a separate thread, as I was only interested in contributing to your thread, which is a good topic.

As you replied so politely

to me as a single male it is finding someone or 2 who you are compatible with sexually, same sexual interests etc

Then you have finally answered your own question.

You are looking for people with whom you have a sexual (and probably mental or emotional) connection.

Some float your boat, others don't.

Go back 20 years with keys in a bowl and it would be no different.

That's all you had to reply saying but thanks for your input

I never restrict myself to what I "had to reply," much to many posters chagrin.

You want sex. That is fine and like most here. There just seemed to be a bit sort of but you are a true swinger weirdness going on

What's that in English?

Translation.

You want sex. Others want sex. You are a 'true swinger." Others are not.

No not at all, whilst knit picking my post didn't you see the bit where I put I don't claim to be a pro swinger and then the reasons why I'm here. I'm surprised and a little disappointed tbh"

I have no idea what you consider to be a "pro swinger." You seem to be fixated on this "swinger" thing. I have finally come to the conclusion that you are here for sex with compatible people, which is the same as most here.

It does not make you special. It makes you normal.

Whether you are disappointed is largely down to you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

To me personally, I use it as a swingers site, a place to meet people with same sexual interests etc whether that be with couples or 1-1. Not just a shag

Well, it sounds like you use it as an opportunity to get a shag. I am still confused by your insistence that "swinging" is somehow different.

What would you say is the definition of 'swinging' OP?

Please start a thread posing that question. My question was nothing to do with my version of swinging. Thanks

I felt my question was extremely relevant to the discussion. There's no need for me to start a separate thread, as I was only interested in contributing to your thread, which is a good topic.

As you replied so politely

to me as a single male it is finding someone or 2 who you are compatible with sexually, same sexual interests etc

Then you have finally answered your own question.

You are looking for people with whom you have a sexual (and probably mental or emotional) connection.

Some float your boat, others don't.

Go back 20 years with keys in a bowl and it would be no different.

That's all you had to reply saying but thanks for your input

I never restrict myself to what I "had to reply," much to many posters chagrin.

You want sex. That is fine and like most here. There just seemed to be a bit sort of but you are a true swinger weirdness going on

What's that in English?

Translation.

You want sex. Others want sex. You are a 'true swinger." Others are not.

No not at all, whilst knit picking my post didn't you see the bit where I put I don't claim to be a pro swinger and then the reasons why I'm here. I'm surprised and a little disappointed tbh

It does not make you special. It makes you normal.

Whether you are disappointed is largely down to you."

I'm sure I explained why I'm here a good half hour ago and you've just come to that conclusion? You've knit picked for a good hour or so now.

Make me special? Make me normal? You read into things far too much. It was a simple question. Ignore the bulk around it and answer next time thanks

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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"Was pretty much the same 10 years ago, just a hell of a lot less people!

I just find it strange that so many blokes come on here and near enough beg for sex, each to their own and all that but come onnnn!

Whats wrong with asking for sex on a site that people are looking for sex on?

Forgive me, I assumed when you say has the site changed as all you see is men asking for sex that people asking for sex isn't what you think they should do.

No forgive me, is that reply to another thread as I don't think i asked that. I asked was it like this before not why do they do it. "

I didn't say you asked why they do it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Was pretty much the same 10 years ago, just a hell of a lot less people!

I just find it strange that so many blokes come on here and near enough beg for sex, each to their own and all that but come onnnn!

Whats wrong with asking for sex on a site that people are looking for sex on?

Forgive me, I assumed when you say has the site changed as all you see is men asking for sex that people asking for sex isn't what you think they should do.

No forgive me, is that reply to another thread as I don't think i asked that. I asked was it like this before not why do they do it.

I didn't say you asked why they do it."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

oooh the good old days? I have no idea ..

probably much the same as it is now only less people I reckon...

as for your profile, yes it only has one line but you have pics and verifications so you can't be doing too badly

This wasn't a moaning thread

I do fine thank you for your concern.

No need to get arsey .. you practically invited people to judge your profile so I did ... simples

Nope, I would of said please judge my profile. I assumed I would get some stick on my profile so thought I'd put my reply in there beforehand."

I wasn't giving you stick though...I was agreeing there was only one line and that as you already had verifications you were doing ok...

as I said ...arsey

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By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

There are some gorgeous guys on here who definitely don't have to beg for sex!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

oooh the good old days? I have no idea ..

probably much the same as it is now only less people I reckon...

as for your profile, yes it only has one line but you have pics and verifications so you can't be doing too badly

This wasn't a moaning thread

I do fine thank you for your concern.

No need to get arsey .. you practically invited people to judge your profile so I did ... simples

Nope, I would of said please judge my profile. I assumed I would get some stick on my profile so thought I'd put my reply in there beforehand.

I wasn't giving you stick though...I was agreeing there was only one line and that as you already had verifications you were doing ok...

as I said ...arsey

My apologies then, I just thought you were trying to be funny. I was just about to reply in your 'is anyone growing their own' thread being cheeky about your profile. Glad I didn't now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There are some gorgeous guys on here who definitely don't have to beg for sex!

the guy in the mirror agrees

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By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

Oh and I wouldn't judge your profile...what profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Oh and I wouldn't judge your profile...what profile

exactly! Luckily I didn't ask you to ay?

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By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

"There are some gorgeous guys on here who definitely don't have to beg for sex!

the guy in the mirror agrees"

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By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

"Oh and I wouldn't judge your profile...what profile

exactly! Luckily I didn't ask you to ay? "

Ask me to ay, what does that mean?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Oh and I wouldn't judge your profile...what profile

exactly! Luckily I didn't ask you to ay?

Ask me to ay, what does that mean?"

Sorry missed a comma before the ay. I type as I speak so its probably a brummy term.

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By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

"Oh and I wouldn't judge your profile...what profile

exactly! Luckily I didn't ask you to ay? "

You said in your op, feel free to judge my profile, I was just pointing out, you don't have one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

oooh the good old days? I have no idea ..

probably much the same as it is now only less people I reckon...

as for your profile, yes it only has one line but you have pics and verifications so you can't be doing too badly

This wasn't a moaning thread

I do fine thank you for your concern.

No need to get arsey .. you practically invited people to judge your profile so I did ... simples

Nope, I would of said please judge my profile. I assumed I would get some stick on my profile so thought I'd put my reply in there beforehand.

I wasn't giving you stick though...I was agreeing there was only one line and that as you already had verifications you were doing ok...

as I said ...arsey

My apologies then, I just thought you were trying to be funny. I was just about to reply in your 'is anyone growing their own' thread being cheeky about your profile. Glad I didn't now

childish as well as arsey I see

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Oh and I wouldn't judge your profile...what profile

exactly! Luckily I didn't ask you to ay?

You said in your op, feel free to judge my profile, I was just pointing out, you don't have one

Hahaha sorry it was that long ago I forgot what I wrote and it's late. Ye I agree it's crap but o well! Thanks for judging though

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

oooh the good old days? I have no idea ..

probably much the same as it is now only less people I reckon...

as for your profile, yes it only has one line but you have pics and verifications so you can't be doing too badly

This wasn't a moaning thread

I do fine thank you for your concern.

No need to get arsey .. you practically invited people to judge your profile so I did ... simples

Nope, I would of said please judge my profile. I assumed I would get some stick on my profile so thought I'd put my reply in there beforehand.

I wasn't giving you stick though...I was agreeing there was only one line and that as you already had verifications you were doing ok...

as I said ...arsey

My apologies then, I just thought you were trying to be funny. I was just about to reply in your 'is anyone growing their own' thread being cheeky about your profile. Glad I didn't now

childish as well as arsey I see

O cheer up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh and I wouldn't judge your profile...what profile

exactly! Luckily I didn't ask you to ay?

You said in your op, feel free to judge my profile, I was just pointing out, you don't have one

I knew you had said so...tsk tsk OP

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh and I wouldn't judge your profile...what profile

exactly! Luckily I didn't ask you to ay?

Ask me to ay, what does that mean?"

Oh he's being a smart arse, just ignore. We have all disagreed with his post or challenged him and he won't back track x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Oh and I wouldn't judge your profile...what profile

exactly! Luckily I didn't ask you to ay?

You said in your op, feel free to judge my profile, I was just pointing out, you don't have one

I knew you had said so...tsk tsk OP

Tsk tsk? Latin?

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By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

"Oh and I wouldn't judge your profile...what profile

exactly! Luckily I didn't ask you to ay?

You said in your op, feel free to judge my profile, I was just pointing out, you don't have one

Hahaha sorry it was that long ago I forgot what I wrote and it's late. Ye I agree it's crap but o well! Thanks for judging though "

You're welcome

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

I am interested in your comment about men just coming here for sex. Versus the "swingers lifestyle."

Is there some magical difference? How do you see sex as different from the "swingers lifestyle?"

There are quite a few people here who are not men, too.

Swingers are mainly couples who come to meet other couples to have sex/fun/ play with, and generally gave a good time.

They are the main groups we see here, but there are other variations that fit loosely around them.

Everyone thinks their way is right, and all think anything different is wrong

Spot on.

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By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

"Oh and I wouldn't judge your profile...what profile

exactly! Luckily I didn't ask you to ay?

Ask me to ay, what does that mean?

Oh he's being a smart arse, just ignore. We have all disagreed with his post or challenged him and he won't back track x"

Bless

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

From our perspective, there's obviously more people than there were 10 years ago. And there's a lot more singles only looking for other singles. That's it.

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By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

"Oh and I wouldn't judge your profile...what profile

exactly! Luckily I didn't ask you to ay?

You said in your op, feel free to judge my profile, I was just pointing out, you don't have one

Hahaha sorry it was that long ago I forgot what I wrote and it's late. Ye I agree it's crap but o well! Thanks for judging though "

Yes it is late, sweet boy, time for bed maybe? Sweet dreams

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So after blabbering on, all I really want to know is, has it always been like this? Guys begging for sex, meets, feedback, profile critique. What was it like 10 years ago on here?

Admittedly, what a boring thread but I'm interested!

oooh the good old days? I have no idea ..

probably much the same as it is now only less people I reckon...

as for your profile, yes it only has one line but you have pics and verifications so you can't be doing too badly

This wasn't a moaning thread

I do fine thank you for your concern.

No need to get arsey .. you practically invited people to judge your profile so I did ... simples

Nope, I would of said please judge my profile. I assumed I would get some stick on my profile so thought I'd put my reply in there beforehand.

I wasn't giving you stick though...I was agreeing there was only one line and that as you already had verifications you were doing ok...

as I said ...arsey

My apologies then, I just thought you were trying to be funny. I was just about to reply in your 'is anyone growing their own' thread being cheeky about your profile. Glad I didn't now

childish as well as arsey I see

O cheer up

Im smiling on the inside

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In mother Russia, you don't beg for meets. The meets beg for you!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can you imagine if it was for couples only..all them single wa*****s with nobidy to copy & paste too or ask monotonous questions in the hope of attracting a female eye

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In mother Russia, you don't beg for meets. The meets beg for you! "

Are you Russian? Please please pretend you are if your not

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