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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Well after seeing how difficult it seems with other male site users reactions to what seems like a game of chance waiting, I'm wondering if it's maybe best for a man using the sight to just hang on in there and not make first contact and let the women of the site do the first contacting if there are at all interested or intrigued enough to bury the long tradition of waiting for a bloke to make that all important first step at communication ? I'm setting a test to see just how many women are willing and able to take a leap out of normal procedure and give me a hello and tell me something about themselves in message.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good luck with that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its an option.

But when people are asking for advice on their profile, many of the replies is that it needs to stand out. Just sitting there hoping someone will find you and then message you, isn't exactly standing out, is it?

If it works, good for you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think this Is the equivalent of going fishing without bait

I agree most couples don't want pestering but you can introduce yourself in a polite way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well after seeing how difficult it seems with other male site users reactions to what seems like a game of chance waiting, I'm wondering if it's maybe best for a man using the sight to just hang on in there and not make first contact and let the women of the site do the first contacting if there are at all interested or intrigued enough to bury the long tradition of waiting for a bloke to make that all important first step at communication ? I'm setting a test to see just how many women are willing and able to take a leap out of normal procedure and give me a hello and tell me something about themselves in message.

You will be waiting for a very long time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

You will be waiting for a very long time."

I guess waiting that little longer may be a good thing ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You will be waiting for a very long time.

I guess waiting that little longer may be a good thing ? "

If you enjoy waiting ...

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By *andi_shopWoman over a year ago

rotherham

You will be waiting for a very long time.

I guess waiting that little longer may be a good thing ? "

If your willing to wait months and months

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You will be waiting for a very long time.

I guess waiting that little longer may be a good thing ?

If you enjoy waiting ..."
most single guys get bored easy

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

Do you really believe that somebody will be that interested and intrigued?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not sure about the single ladies, but from a couple's point of view we're quite happy for a single guy to make the first move.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

You will be waiting for a very long time.

I guess waiting that little longer may be a good thing ?

If you enjoy waiting ..."

I dont mind really

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Do you really believe that somebody will be that interested and intrigued?"

Pretty sure at least one woman could possibly be of course i really dont mind waiting until someone im equally interested and intrigued by

And hows about a hello to you also

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you really believe that somebody will be that interested and intrigued?

Pretty sure at least one woman could possibly be of course i really dont mind waiting until someone im equally interested and intrigued by

And hows about a hello to you also

I look forward to your next post.

If I am still alive in 2070.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In my opionion you will be waiting for a long time.

The users of this site make it what it is, and from my perspective its expected of men to make a nusance of themselfs messaging women and couples to meet. If you don't play the lottery you can't win it, and it might be the same here.

Think about life in general, you need to be proactive, if you just wait for opportunities to present themselves you won't get many.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd set up a "Waiting Survival Kit"

List to follow.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Do you really believe that somebody will be that interested and intrigued?

Pretty sure at least one woman could possibly be of course i really dont mind waiting until someone im equally interested and intrigued by

And hows about a hello to you also

I look forward to your next post.

If I am still alive in 2070."

haha im afraid im missing your point ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

on the very rare occasion that I send a message it would be because I really liked the way the profile was worded and the pics looked good...

not because someone asked on a thread..I have filters for a reason and messaging others first f***s them up

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I really have no problem waiting

im sure that given time the right woman may appear, there is alot of very outstandingly attractive women that have more than caught my eye and my attention and i guess if one of those delightful looking ones pay me any interest i guess then it is actually a very big

's up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I really have no problem waiting

's up "

Wait as long as you wish. I understand that care homes have wi-fi these days.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I really have no problem waiting

's up

Wait as long as you wish. I understand that care homes have wi-fi these days."

ooooh

chasing them Pokemon must be laborious though. ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"on the very rare occasion that I send a message it would be because I really liked the way the profile was worded and the pics looked good...

not because someone asked on a thread..I have filters for a reason and messaging others first f***s them up

I am very intrigued by the different amounts of mixed opinions and it really does broaden so many new different views, i guess all i can do is just wait and see, im in no urgent rush and time may just be on my side aswell as who ever pays interest and gives me a simple but very intriguing hello and what evercthey do feel they would like to tell me about themselves that maybe is not on there profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I really have no problem waiting

's up

Wait as long as you wish. I understand that care homes have wi-fi these days."

Ha ha will probably need it in the coffin!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think this Is the equivalent of going fishing without bait

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I really have no problem waiting

's up

Wait as long as you wish. I understand that care homes have wi-fi these days."

And plenty of women in outfits, in my opinion i would naybe just call that a win win ? Wi fi and women

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think this Is the equivalent of going fishing without bait

Bears have been standing in rivers catching fish without bait for millions of years, im fairly certain a human being can survive and do it ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think this Is the equivalent of going fishing without bait

Bears have been standing in rivers catching fish without bait for millions of years, im fairly certain a human being can survive and do it ? "

I admire your seemingly unquenchable positivity.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I really have no problem waiting

's up

Wait as long as you wish. I understand that care homes have wi-fi these days.

Ha ha will probably need it in the coffin! "

Would that be a double plot or a threesome ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think this Is the equivalent of going fishing without bait

Bears have been standing in rivers catching fish without bait for millions of years, im fairly certain a human being can survive and do it ?

I admire your seemingly unquenchable positivity. "

Negativity usually aint on my agenda im affraid as i find that type of outlook on life a tad depressing

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By *uv2bseenCouple over a year ago

Midlands

You will be waiting for a very long time.

I guess waiting that little longer may be a good thing ? "

We just don't think it will only be a little bit longer...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think this Is the equivalent of going fishing without bait

Bears have been standing in rivers catching fish without bait for millions of years, im fairly certain a human being can survive and do it ?

I admire your seemingly unquenchable positivity.

Negativity usually aint on my agenda im affraid as i find that type of outlook on life a tad depressing

Well um quite.

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By *hetalkingstoveMan over a year ago

London

"I think this Is the equivalent of going fishing without bait

Bears have been standing in rivers catching fish without bait for millions of years, im fairly certain a human being can survive and do it ? "

You know it's a metaphor, right?

Bears have evolved to be great at catching fish. Are you going to wait to evolve to be more attractive to women?

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By *emplarWarriorMan over a year ago

Nottingham

"I think this Is the equivalent of going fishing without bait

Bears have been standing in rivers catching fish without bait for millions of years, im fairly certain a human being can survive and do it ? "

This is very true however they are still out there fishing,

Tell me, has a bear ever caught a fish whilst sat resting against a tree in the forest waiting for the fish to come to him?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

You will be waiting for a very long time.

I guess waiting that little longer may be a good thing ?

We just don't think it will only be a little bit longer..."

I am soaking all the posts up like sponge

But could i ask how you coukd becso certain that in 2070 there would even be such things as wi fi or even internet in general ?

Alot can happen in 54 years, that will make me 93

threesome plot it is

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think this Is the equivalent of going fishing without bait

Bears have been standing in rivers catching fish without bait for millions of years, im fairly certain a human being can survive and do it ?

This is very true however they are still out there fishing,

Tell me, has a bear ever caught a fish whilst sat resting against a tree in the forest waiting for the fish to come to him? "

on his i-pad

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think this Is the equivalent of going fishing without bait

Bears have been standing in rivers catching fish without bait for millions of years, im fairly certain a human being can survive and do it ?

You know it's a metaphor, right?

Bears have evolved to be great at catching fish. Are you going to wait to evolve to be more attractive to women?"

How many of todays modern women have you came accross that are attracted to neandothols ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think this Is the equivalent of going fishing without bait

Bears have been standing in rivers catching fish without bait for millions of years, im fairly certain a human being can survive and do it ?

This is very true however they are still out there fishing,

Tell me, has a bear ever caught a fish whilst sat resting against a tree in the forest waiting for the fish to come to him? "

No i guess a fish in them circumstances would probably be totally out of the question,

But an apple could quite easily fall from that tree and land right slap bang on the end of his cock

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think this Is the equivalent of going fishing without bait

Bears have been standing in rivers catching fish without bait for millions of years, im fairly certain a human being can survive and do it ?

I admire your seemingly unquenchable positivity. "

I, too, admire his endless positivity. It is an admirable quality. There is a point at which it becomes stubborness, though.

But the very best of luck to the OP. Some female may find him lurking in the depths of the internet and go wild with desire.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think this Is the equivalent of going fishing without bait

Bears have been standing in rivers catching fish without bait for millions of years, im fairly certain a human being can survive and do it ?

I admire your seemingly unquenchable positivity.

I, too, admire his endless positivity. It is an admirable quality. There is a point at which it becomes stubborness, though.

But the very best of luck to the OP. Some female may find him lurking in the depths of the internet and go wild with desire."

Waiting may just be the answer after all

I hope i dont come accross as being stubborn ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think this Is the equivalent of going fishing without bait

Bears have been standing in rivers catching fish without bait for millions of years, im fairly certain a human being can survive and do it ?

This is very true however they are still out there fishing,

Tell me, has a bear ever caught a fish whilst sat resting against a tree in the forest waiting for the fish to come to him?

on his i-pad"

pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think this Is the equivalent of going fishing without bait

Bears have been standing in rivers catching fish without bait for millions of years, im fairly certain a human being can survive and do it ?

This is very true however they are still out there fishing,

Tell me, has a bear ever caught a fish whilst sat resting against a tree in the forest waiting for the fish to come to him?

on his i-pad

pmsl"

Im a pretty optimistic type person, face value, id like to think that in 2070 when im 93 years of age, stuck in a thrresome plot that hunan talepathy techniques will have evolved to a remarkable enough level that we dont feel the need to crawl out like some sort of zombie appocolipse,

zombie appocolipse orgy doesntceven bare thinking about

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All my years on fab ive been messaged twice. So cant see waiting for them to contact you working

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"All my years on fab ive been messaged twice. So cant see waiting for them to contact you working"

That could be due to the fact youve openly admitted yu have infact got the biggest portion of the site on block mr eastwood be honest though, are you feeling lucky ?

Well are you ?

Feeling lucky ?

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By *uv2bseenCouple over a year ago

Midlands

"All my years on fab ive been messaged twice. So cant see waiting for them to contact you working

That could be due to the fact youve openly admitted yu have infact got the biggest portion of the site on block mr eastwood be honest though, are you feeling lucky ?

Well are you ?

Feeling lucky ?"

So you honestly think that with the vast number of single guys on here, people are going to even try imagining what your certain qualities are, or do you not think that they will just walk past your profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"All my years on fab ive been messaged twice. So cant see waiting for them to contact you working

That could be due to the fact youve openly admitted yu have infact got the biggest portion of the site on block mr eastwood be honest though, are you feeling lucky ?

Well are you ?

Feeling lucky ?

Apparently each person has 1 unique match out there like adam and eve, made for each other in every way possible and maybe if those paths do happen to cross it could quite well be the beginging of something really spectacular and utterly unbreakable and inseperable ?

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By *lueEyedGuyMEMan over a year ago

MancBoltonBuryWigan

Ive been on here for around a year and half. Never once recieved a message from a woman or a couple out of the blue and I've probably only ever sent around 30 messages in all that time. Good luck though like

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"All my years on fab ive been messaged twice. So cant see waiting for them to contact you working

That could be due to the fact youve openly admitted yu have infact got the biggest portion of the site on block mr eastwood be honest though, are you feeling lucky ?

Well are you ?

Feeling lucky ?

Sweet. Do you believe in fairies?

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By *uv2bseenCouple over a year ago

Midlands

"All my years on fab ive been messaged twice. So cant see waiting for them to contact you working

That could be due to the fact youve openly admitted yu have infact got the biggest portion of the site on block mr eastwood be honest though, are you feeling lucky ?

Well are you ?

Feeling lucky ?

And you think that fairytale will come true on here??

That some hungry lady will contact you and say she is interested??

Good luck on that one.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"All my years on fab ive been messaged twice. So cant see waiting for them to contact you working

That could be due to the fact youve openly admitted yu have infact got the biggest portion of the site on block mr eastwood be honest though, are you feeling lucky ?

Well are you ?

Feeling lucky ?"

Just have no expectations then you cant be disappointed

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ive been on here for around a year and half. Never once recieved a message from a woman or a couple out of the blue and I've probably only ever sent around 30 messages in all that time. Good luck though like

Now this type of good luck gesture i find very very heart felt like this petson actually intends throwing fortune in my direction

thank you kindly and may i return that lucky fortune in your direction also

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"All my years on fab ive been messaged twice. So cant see waiting for them to contact you working

That could be due to the fact youve openly admitted yu have infact got the biggest portion of the site on block mr eastwood be honest though, are you feeling lucky ?

Well are you ?

Feeling lucky ?

Sweet. Do you believe in fairies?"

Oi!

Leave the little paypal out of it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"All my years on fab ive been messaged twice. So cant see waiting for them to contact you working

That could be due to the fact youve openly admitted yu have infact got the biggest portion of the site on block mr eastwood be honest though, are you feeling lucky ?

Well are you ?

Feeling lucky ?

Just have no expectations then you cant be disappointed

Great Expentations are what make me unique and stand out in this crowd as a few have asked, theres one of my many qualities revealed

eastwood you lucky man, you have a 10 from len

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"All my years on fab ive been messaged twice. So cant see waiting for them to contact you working

That could be due to the fact youve openly admitted yu have infact got the biggest portion of the site on block mr eastwood be honest though, are you feeling lucky ?

Well are you ?

Feeling lucky ?

Sweet. Do you believe in fairies?

Oi!

Leave the little paypal out of it.

If a person got away with convincing everyone the world was flat then i see very little problem in believing in fairies my friend

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By *uv2bseenCouple over a year ago

Midlands

"All my years on fab ive been messaged twice. So cant see waiting for them to contact you working

That could be due to the fact youve openly admitted yu have infact got the biggest portion of the site on block mr eastwood be honest though, are you feeling lucky ?

Well are you ?

Feeling lucky ?

Just have no expectations then you cant be disappointed

Great Expentations are what make me unique and stand out in this crowd as a few have asked, theres one of my many qualities revealed

eastwood you lucky man, you have a 10 from len

If you stand out in the crowd that is great.

It might be an idea to demonstrate that in your profile, and maybe even in your profile pics, rather than the ones you have posted.

Just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"All my years on fab ive been messaged twice. So cant see waiting for them to contact you working

That could be due to the fact youve openly admitted yu have infact got the biggest portion of the site on block mr eastwood be honest though, are you feeling lucky ?

Well are you ?

Feeling lucky ?

Sweet. Do you believe in fairies?

Oi!

Leave the little paypal out of it.

If a person got away with convincing everyone the world was flat then i see very little problem in believing in fairies my friend

errrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

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By *dinMan over a year ago

Birmingham

"All my years on fab ive been messaged twice. So cant see waiting for them to contact you working

That could be due to the fact youve openly admitted yu have infact got the biggest portion of the site on block mr eastwood be honest though, are you feeling lucky ?

Well are you ?

Feeling lucky ?

Sweet. Do you believe in fairies?

Oi!

Leave the little paypal out of it.

If a person got away with convincing everyone the world was flat then i see very little problem in believing in fairies my friend

errrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr"

Fairies aren't real?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"All my years on fab ive been messaged twice. So cant see waiting for them to contact you working

That could be due to the fact youve openly admitted yu have infact got the biggest portion of the site on block mr eastwood be honest though, are you feeling lucky ?

Well are you ?

Feeling lucky ?

Sweet. Do you believe in fairies?

Oi!

Leave the little paypal out of it.

If a person got away with convincing everyone the world was flat then i see very little problem in believing in fairies my friend

errrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr"

Confused or Intrigued ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"All my years on fab ive been messaged twice. So cant see waiting for them to contact you working

That could be due to the fact youve openly admitted yu have infact got the biggest portion of the site on block mr eastwood be honest though, are you feeling lucky ?

Well are you ?

Feeling lucky ?

Sweet. Do you believe in fairies?

Oi!

Leave the little paypal out of it.

If a person got away with convincing everyone the world was flat then i see very little problem in believing in fairies my friend

errrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

Fairies aren't real?

My goodness its Peter, Peter pan the adult with a plan

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By *uv2bseenCouple over a year ago

Midlands

Had any luck yet?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"All my years on fab ive been messaged twice. So cant see waiting for them to contact you working

That could be due to the fact youve openly admitted yu have infact got the biggest portion of the site on block mr eastwood be honest though, are you feeling lucky ?

Well are you ?

Feeling lucky ?

Sweet. Do you believe in fairies?

Oi!

Leave the little paypal out of it.

If a person got away with convincing everyone the world was flat then i see very little problem in believing in fairies my friend

errrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

Confused or Intrigued ? "

I think I'm flatlining.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"All my years on fab ive been messaged twice. So cant see waiting for them to contact you working

That could be due to the fact youve openly admitted yu have infact got the biggest portion of the site on block mr eastwood be honest though, are you feeling lucky ?

Well are you ?

Feeling lucky ?

Sweet. Do you believe in fairies?

Oi!

Leave the little paypal out of it.

If a person got away with convincing everyone the world was flat then i see very little problem in believing in fairies my friend

errrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

Confused or Intrigued ?

I think I'm flatlining....."

Kiss of life it shall be

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Had any luck yet?"

Which half is asking ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Think we might put him out of his misery and send him a message. Would hate for the ops positive attitude to die a slow painful death

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By *andsonjohnMan over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

OP this approach can work if your proactive in the forums but you must stay away from sycophantic behaviour and be true to yourself as a man with every post you make on every topic you find interesting .

if you couple that with only a few messages targeted at women or couples who you feel you are a clear fit for based off of their profile it will work.

you wont be bed hopping nor will you be trying to with this approach.

but it will work most approaches to you will be in the form of a wink more than in the form of a message . although you will get the odd message to from time to time .

this approach is very similar to how i use sites like this one and others .

i can used sites in this way because I'm not desperate for sex nor am i frustrated because I'm not getting any.

it helps if that is the case as you feel no pressure to make being here work for you .

its a case if fun comes along great if it doesn't that's ok to because the pursuit of fun although important is just not that important.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Think we might put him out of his misery and send him a message. Would hate for the ops positive attitude to die a slow painful death

Very attractive, if you would like to message me then fire away

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By *uv2bseenCouple over a year ago

Midlands

Had any luck yet?

Which half is asking ? "

Why??

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By *andsonjohnMan over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"All my years on fab ive been messaged twice. So cant see waiting for them to contact you working"

i reactivated my profile around a month or two ago I've been messaged 6 times since then had three socials .

don't let the fact i only have one verify fall you i choose not do them for others for reasons I'm not going into here and i ask them not to verify me for the same reasons i don't them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

if you couple that with only a few messages targeted at women or couples who you feel you are a clear fit for based off of their profile it will work.

you wont be bed hopping nor will you be trying to with this approach.

but it will work most approaches to you will be in the form of a wink more than in the form of a message . although you will get the odd message to from time to time .

this approach is very similar to how i use sites like this one and others .

i can used sites in this way because I'm not desperate for sex nor am i frustrated because I'm not getting any.

it helps if that is the case as you feel no pressure to make being here work for you .

its a case if fun comes along great if it doesn't that's ok to because the pursuit of fun although important is just not that important.

Being true to myself is also a discovered quality i possess

And i dont think i could put your point accross much better myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Had any luck yet?

Which half is asking ?

Why??"

Im intrigued

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Had any luck yet?

Which half is asking ?

Why??

Im intrigued "

And i think it maybe polite to say without me asking

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By *uv2bseenCouple over a year ago

Midlands

Had any luck yet?

Which half is asking ?

Why??

Im intrigued

And i think it maybe polite to say without me asking

Really??

You must have a strange idea of what the concept of being polite is.

PS. Just so you know, it has nothing whatsoever with politeness.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Had any luck yet?

Which half is asking ?

Why??

Im intrigued

And i think it maybe polite to say without me asking

Really??

You must have a strange idea of what the concept of being polite is.

PS. Just so you know, it has nothing whatsoever with politeness."

well seeing as now you ask in such a polite manner, its gone pretty well and my inbox is literally flooded to the point i need a caneo

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have been on this site for years off and on - a long time with my first wife and over two years with fem FB - at that time we got inundated with men pestering for sex meets and lots were dead rude/crude in their approach........a lesson I took with me now I play alone .....always be polite - no means no - and people have their own reasons as to why they don't click/like the look of you.......most of all, don't take rejection badly .......its a sex dating/swingers site, us men out number the women on here by a the 1000's

Add into that equation Bisexual men like me stand even less of a chance....but no complaints from me , I have my regular meets from the past...

Happy Fabbing

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By *uv2bseenCouple over a year ago

Midlands

Had any luck yet?

Which half is asking ?

Why??

Im intrigued

And i think it maybe polite to say without me asking

Really??

You must have a strange idea of what the concept of being polite is.

PS. Just so you know, it has nothing whatsoever with politeness.

well seeing as now you ask in such a polite manner, its gone pretty well and my inbox is literally flooded to the point i need a caneo

Good for you!

Your strange method has obviously worked for you.

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By *lueEyedGuyMEMan over a year ago

MancBoltonBuryWigan

Now this type of good luck gesture i find very very heart felt like this petson actually intends throwing fortune in my direction

thank you kindly and may i return that lucky fortune in your direction also

No problem pal and thanks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For the kind of person you are looking for, as in not a quick hook-up I think you are silly to take yourself out of the game, if you don't put your hand up you don't get to ask the teacher. Think about it, there are various other factors you haven't thought over. If you are standing back and not sending messages you would be better to be highly verified with fantastic profile and a clear picture. I have had a few messages fro people that are interested from forum posts and from reading my profile. I decided not to post a profile picture, yes I have hobbled myself but for me in the end it's worth it. I am not here for just sex and the meets tend to go better as I get what I want on more levels. My advice is: Send good mail to those that fit your type exactly. Stay visible, post on forums and such. Go out socially too, getting out in real life is something men just turn off when they get on this site. Stick to your guns.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"All my years on fab ive been messaged twice. So cant see waiting for them to contact you working

That could be due to the fact youve openly admitted yu have infact got the biggest portion of the site on block mr eastwood be honest though, are you feeling lucky ?

Well are you ?

Feeling lucky ?

Sorry what's your source for that?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"All my years on fab ive been messaged twice. So cant see waiting for them to contact you working

That could be due to the fact youve openly admitted yu have infact got the biggest portion of the site on block mr eastwood be honest though, are you feeling lucky ?

Well are you ?

Feeling lucky ?

Sorry what's your source for that? "

Just Seventeen July Edition 29987

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I really have no problem waiting

's up

Wait as long as you wish. I understand that care homes have wi-fi these days.

Ha ha will probably need it in the coffin!

Would that be a double plot or a threesome ? "

A whole graveyard!

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