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"If a couple are desperate for a baby and it's a sperm problem I wouldn't blame them for resorting to getting pregnant off a sex site. XXX"
Really? There are some weird and wonderful ideas promoted in the forums but condoning this type of activity is reckless at best and upmost stupidity at worst.
There are safe, anonymous and legal ways and means of insemination without resorting to random acts of sex with strangers to bring children into this word. I really do think that people should give their head a wobble and think. |
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Once upon a time in a previous relationship, we used to meet a couple, semi regularly. They were really sound normal people. We always played bareback with them and we were aware that we weren't the only couples they met. That aside, on one meet we ended up talking about protection, as he had had the snip. She said she didn't use any which was a bit of a shock to me as I'd cum inside her on many an occasion. She said she had regular periods and didn't play when she was ovulating. I thought this was madness, especially as she didn't know how to work out when she is ovulating properly. (I am a science teacher, I know how). And it's no reliable method anyway. As we sat there agap, we actually figured out that she was ovulating that night, and we had already played. After much panicking from me, she promised to get the morning after pill. When asked what would she do if she got pregnant, their reply was "well if it happens, it happens". Bumped into once after that at a party but that was the last time we played. |
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"Once upon a time in a previous relationship, we used to meet a couple, semi regularly. They were really sound normal people. We always played bareback with them and we were aware that we weren't the only couples they met. That aside, on one meet we ended up talking about protection, as he had had the snip. She said she didn't use any which was a bit of a shock to me as I'd cum inside her on many an occasion. She said she had regular periods and didn't play when she was ovulating. I thought this was madness, especially as she didn't know how to work out when she is ovulating properly. (I am a science teacher, I know how). And it's no reliable method anyway. As we sat there agap, we actually figured out that she was ovulating that night, and we had already played. After much panicking from me, she promised to get the morning after pill. When asked what would she do if she got pregnant, their reply was "well if it happens, it happens". Bumped into once after that at a party but that was the last time we played."
What would have been your response if she had been pregnant and the child was yours by dna? Would you have financially and emotionally supported the mother and child? |
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"If a couple are desperate for a baby and it's a sperm problem I wouldn't blame them for resorting to getting pregnant off a sex site. XXX
Really? There are some weird and wonderful ideas promoted in the forums but condoning this type of activity is reckless at best and upmost stupidity at worst.
There are safe, anonymous and legal ways and means of insemination without resorting to random acts of sex with strangers to bring children into this word. I really do think that people should give their head a wobble and think."
do you think its any different to the ladies that go out at the weekend and hook up with a guy and get pregnant...many "accidents" are just ladies wanting to get pregnant and plenty of guys that will forget protection in the heat of the moment. |
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Forgetting to use protection in the heat of the moment or taking the "it will be ok" attitude is irresponsible. Being duped into believing that the sex you are having is being protected from pregnancy is different, and that goes for swingers as well as weekend party goers or anyone else for that matter |
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"If a couple are desperate for a baby and it's a sperm problem I wouldn't blame them for resorting to getting pregnant off a sex site. XXX
Really? There are some weird and wonderful ideas promoted in the forums but condoning this type of activity is reckless at best and upmost stupidity at worst.
There are safe, anonymous and legal ways and means of insemination without resorting to random acts of sex with strangers to bring children into this word. I really do think that people should give their head a wobble and think. do you think its any different to the ladies that go out at the weekend and hook up with a guy and get pregnant...many "accidents" are just ladies wanting to get pregnant and plenty of guys that will forget protection in the heat of the moment. "
Are you serious? |
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"If a couple are desperate for a baby and it's a sperm problem I wouldn't blame them for resorting to getting pregnant off a sex site. XXX
Really? There are some weird and wonderful ideas promoted in the forums but condoning this type of activity is reckless at best and upmost stupidity at worst.
There are safe, anonymous and legal ways and means of insemination without resorting to random acts of sex with strangers to bring children into this word. I really do think that people should give their head a wobble and think. do you think its any different to the ladies that go out at the weekend and hook up with a guy and get pregnant...many "accidents" are just ladies wanting to get pregnant and plenty of guys that will forget protection in the heat of the moment. Are you serious?"
Doubt it.
Funny how only the female gets blamed for wanting a pregnancy...
I know plenty of people who have gone out and had bb one night stands, they like sex and that's it. They're young enough and naive enough to think they won't get pregnant or if they do it won't really matter.
Thye don't actively want kids, they actively want sex. |
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"If a couple are desperate for a baby and it's a sperm problem I wouldn't blame them for resorting to getting pregnant off a sex site. XXX
Really? There are some weird and wonderful ideas promoted in the forums but condoning this type of activity is reckless at best and upmost stupidity at worst.
There are safe, anonymous and legal ways and means of insemination without resorting to random acts of sex with strangers to bring children into this word. I really do think that people should give their head a wobble and think. do you think its any different to the ladies that go out at the weekend and hook up with a guy and get pregnant...many "accidents" are just ladies wanting to get pregnant and plenty of guys that will forget protection in the heat of the moment. Are you serious?
Doubt it.
Funny how only the female gets blamed for wanting a pregnancy...
I know plenty of people who have gone out and had bb one night stands, they like sex and that's it. They're young enough and naive enough to think they won't get pregnant or if they do it won't really matter.
Thye don't actively want kids, they actively want sex."
Well said that lady!
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"If a couple are desperate for a baby and it's a sperm problem I wouldn't blame them for resorting to getting pregnant off a sex site. XXX
Really? There are some weird and wonderful ideas promoted in the forums but condoning this type of activity is reckless at best and upmost stupidity at worst.
There are safe, anonymous and legal ways and means of insemination without resorting to random acts of sex with strangers to bring children into this word. I really do think that people should give their head a wobble and think."
Not everybody can afford that
I'm not saying I agree or disagree with people using sex sites to get pregnant I'm just saying that if a couple wants a child bad enough but can't afford to go through professional channels I can understand why they would resort to such measures
And before anybody says it's free on the NHS, so is IVF but only a very very small luck few get it most have to pay |
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"If a couple are desperate for a baby and it's a sperm problem I wouldn't blame them for resorting to getting pregnant off a sex site. XXX
Really? There are some weird and wonderful ideas promoted in the forums but condoning this type of activity is reckless at best and upmost stupidity at worst.
There are safe, anonymous and legal ways and means of insemination without resorting to random acts of sex with strangers to bring children into this word. I really do think that people should give their head a wobble and think.
Not everybody can afford that
I'm not saying I agree or disagree with people using sex sites to get pregnant I'm just saying that if a couple wants a child bad enough but can't afford to go through professional channels I can understand why they would resort to such measures
And before anybody says it's free on the NHS, so is IVF but only a very very small luck few get it most have to pay "
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"If a couple are desperate for a baby and it's a sperm problem I wouldn't blame them for resorting to getting pregnant off a sex site. XXX
Really? There are some weird and wonderful ideas promoted in the forums but condoning this type of activity is reckless at best and upmost stupidity at worst.
There are safe, anonymous and legal ways and means of insemination without resorting to random acts of sex with strangers to bring children into this word. I really do think that people should give their head a wobble and think."
Hey don't you tell me to give my head a wobble. I got a son who is infertile from chemo, do you know how hard it is to get IVF? It's also very painful. There is a massive waiting list and loads of rules. Go wobble your own head. |
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"If a couple are desperate for a baby and it's a sperm problem I wouldn't blame them for resorting to getting pregnant off a sex site. XXX
Really? There are some weird and wonderful ideas promoted in the forums but condoning this type of activity is reckless at best and upmost stupidity at worst.
There are safe, anonymous and legal ways and means of insemination without resorting to random acts of sex with strangers to bring children into this word. I really do think that people should give their head a wobble and think.
Not everybody can afford that
I'm not saying I agree or disagree with people using sex sites to get pregnant I'm just saying that if a couple wants a child bad enough but can't afford to go through professional channels I can understand why they would resort to such measures
And before anybody says it's free on the NHS, so is IVF but only a very very small luck few get it most have to pay "
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"I'm all for it. If it's what you want then go for it. Life is to short. You need to grasp it will both hands and enjoy the ride "
I'd say grasping it with both hands would constitute a wank with a very low risk of pregnancy |
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"I'm all for it. If it's what you want then go for it. Life is to short. You need to grasp it will both hands and enjoy the ride
I'd say grasping it with both hands would constitute a wank with a very low risk of pregnancy "
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If you were desperate for a baby and needed sperm, would you be desperate for HIV or an std, and passing that onto an un born child? Surely going down a safer route is better? Just saying |
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"If a couple are desperate for a baby and it's a sperm problem I wouldn't blame them for resorting to getting pregnant off a sex site. XXX
Really? There are some weird and wonderful ideas promoted in the forums but condoning this type of activity is reckless at best and upmost stupidity at worst.
There are safe, anonymous and legal ways and means of insemination without resorting to random acts of sex with strangers to bring children into this word. I really do think that people should give their head a wobble and think. do you think its any different to the ladies that go out at the weekend and hook up with a guy and get pregnant...many "accidents" are just ladies wanting to get pregnant and plenty of guys that will forget protection in the heat of the moment. Are you serious?
Doubt it.
Funny how only the female gets blamed for wanting a pregnancy...
I know plenty of people who have gone out and had bb one night stands, they like sex and that's it. They're young enough and naive enough to think they won't get pregnant or if they do it won't really matter.
Thye don't actively want kids, they actively want sex."
I knew a girl that in her mid teens was a regular at the abortion clinic, she never used protection, always had bare back sex and bragged about it.
I know it is not true, but I would like to think she is a very rare girl. |
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