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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What's wrong with men when you arrange meet on the phone then turn up to hotel or house (it's happened both situations) they hide!!!!! When you ring tell them your outside they make an excuse- why even answer phone. Embarrassing !!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perhaps it's a fantasy gone too far?
Can't say I understand the reasoning as why anyone would arrange to meet and not show.
Are you sure it's their house/hotel room they have given you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's wrong with men when you arrange meet on the phone then turn up to hotel or house (it's happened both situations) they hide!!!!! When you ring tell them your outside they make an excuse- why even answer phone. Embarrassing !!!!"
I seriously don't have an answer. Only they do. But it is so damn disrespectful. Totally messing somebody around is wrong.
I hope it's flowers and a big apology next time you meet or speak. Even if there is no hope of anything in the future, there needs to be a reason and an apology. |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
Livingston |
In all the years I have been here, only ever had 2 no shows. First one bottled it (apologised and I did eventually meet him), the other one crashed his car whilst texting me to say he was running late.... |
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Reverse happened to me a few times. Travel all the way out, couple is not here. I send the messages which they read. And they don't reply. I want to report them on fab as no shows. They block me so I can't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's wrong with men when you arrange meet on the phone then turn up to hotel or house (it's happened both situations) they hide!!!!! When you ring tell them your outside they make an excuse- why even answer phone. Embarrassing !!!!"
You are so sexy it's their loss, why wouldn't they want to fuck you your stunning |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No apology no flowers so blocked em lol. Maybe fantasists !!!!!"
Fantasists, sounds like somebody just missed out on a great time with you guys. The idiot.  |
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"What's wrong with men when you arrange meet on the phone then turn up to hotel or house (it's happened both situations) they hide!!!!! When you ring tell them your outside they make an excuse- why even answer phone. Embarrassing !!!!"
I think they are intimidated.
To be fair, you are pretty stunning. You both are!
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This is what happens when you go for hot looking guys with no substance or game !
People would be mad to not show up if they got a meet with this fantastic looking couple!
. . If it looks too good to be true. . Then it usually is.
Average guys always show up from my experience. Guys with 6 packs are flaky as hell.
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
This old chestnut ..
if it's happening a lot to you it's your selection process that's failing you ..
In the five years I've been here I've only had a couple of cancellations we rearranged. Never had a no show.
Block report move on.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive lost count on how many times ive had a not show.  "
Yeah same here! Try to have a 'plan B' for when they let you down at the last minute or simply don't show - but not always possible! X |
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"What's wrong with men when you arrange meet on the phone then turn up to hotel or house (it's happened both situations) they hide!!!!! When you ring tell them your outside they make an excuse- why even answer phone. Embarrassing !!!!"
I have never had that happen to me -but then am single guy - so am meeting couples who on the whole are not timewaster S
Can't imagine anything more irritating
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"This old chestnut ..
if it's happening a lot to you it's your selection process that's failing you ..
In the five years I've been here I've only had a couple of cancellations we rearranged. Never had a no show.
Block report move on. "
At last. .someone dabbling with honesty.
Peoples selection process stinks !
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"This old chestnut ..
if it's happening a lot to you it's your selection process that's failing you ..
In the five years I've been here I've only had a couple of cancellations we rearranged. Never had a no show.
Block report move on. "
stop talking sense and get with the white knighting!!!!
i've always said that if the common denominator in the cases is you.... then the problem is you!!!
if there is a problem... fix it!!! processes... change it!!!
whether that is questions asked... or answers given... or just generally slowing the whole lot down.... change it!!! |
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"This old chestnut ..
if it's happening a lot to you it's your selection process that's failing you ..
In the five years I've been here I've only had a couple of cancellations we rearranged. Never had a no show.
Block report move on.
stop talking sense and get with the white knighting!!!!
i've always said that if the common denominator in the cases is you.... then the problem is you!!!
if there is a problem... fix it!!! processes... change it!!!
whether that is questions asked... or answers given... or just generally slowing the whole lot down.... change it!!!"
I would love to see a 'white Knight' award handed out.
Those guys will at least have something to work for lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's wrong with men when you arrange meet on the phone then turn up to hotel or house (it's happened both situations) they hide!!!!! When you ring tell them your outside they make an excuse- why even answer phone. Embarrassing !!!!"
Think for some folks its just the thrill of the Chase! If did meet probably have a heart attack from excitement or wldnt know what to do lol  anyway their loss  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's wrong with men when you arrange meet on the phone then turn up to hotel or house (it's happened both situations) they hide!!!!! When you ring tell them your outside they make an excuse- why even answer phone. Embarrassing !!!!"
Demanding a cock shot whilst not sending a face pic in return is a bit pants. Sure you might have great bodies but if your faces aren't brill I'd be somewhat disappointed.
I've also had many single women/ couples let me down so it happens to everyone.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's wrong with men when you arrange meet on the phone then turn up to hotel or house (it's happened both situations) they hide!!!!! When you ring tell them your outside they make an excuse- why even answer phone. Embarrassing !!!!"
If I had the chance to get my hands on your other half I certainly would miss the opportunity, she is one hell of a sexy woman  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's wrong with men when you arrange meet on the phone then turn up to hotel or house (it's happened both situations) they hide!!!!! When you ring tell them your outside they make an excuse- why even answer phone. Embarrassing !!!!
If I had the chance to get my hands on your other half I certainly would miss the opportunity, she is one hell of a sexy woman "
Don't you mean wouldn't miss the opportunity? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's wrong with men when you arrange meet on the phone then turn up to hotel or house (it's happened both situations) they hide!!!!! When you ring tell them your outside they make an excuse- why even answer phone. Embarrassing !!!!
If I had the chance to get my hands on your other half I certainly would miss the opportunity, she is one hell of a sexy woman
Don't you mean wouldn't miss the opportunity? "
Yeah lol I wouldn't miss  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ops.....sorry sent this "private" instead of here ....apologies ........
join the club lol ......I had that several times over the years and its so frustrating after you exchange details, chat maybe and go that next step to meet then .....off they run scared........
Now that's all ok if when you turn up and spot the person your meeting in the distance and either they are "not" the person/look like the person you been chatting to, or worse you know them lol
I would guess this is more a man issue as a women or couple being let down, is rare
Happy Fabbing |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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In 8 years I've never had a no show for a social or full on pull the blinds meet as a male looking for a fern .
but when I played with a slut sub organizing her fun we had lots of no shows from guys who were all mouth no action .
The moral is this women playing in the sex meets world on the whole have more balls when it comes to meets than your average guy who play in this sex meet world does . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP have you considered it might be your selection process? I've only ever had 1 no show in over 4 years - and that was recently from a regular meet who did give a pretty solid reason why he couldn't come. I can spot timewasters early on so they never get as far arranging anything  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Could be. We've not been on here a year. Just so many people saying this. Don't get me wrong it's only happened 3 times. All our other meets are successful doing the exact same thing. Oh well
We move on very fast lol |
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"What's wrong with men when you arrange meet on the phone then turn up to hotel or house (it's happened both situations) they hide!!!!! When you ring tell them your outside they make an excuse- why even answer phone. Embarrassing !!!!"
You're just picking the wrong guys.
How do I know this? Simples, your not picking me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went to meet a guy at a hotel and i was in the wrong one,i knocked the door and a voice said rather sternly ,who is that lol turns out there were two hotels with the same name and he was thirty miles away didnt explain himself very well and i didnt meet him either,probaly a wind up.as he knew i was in bristol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If you message txt ring and talk on phone Skype and everything then can't be my fault that they don't turn up (hubby sorts it all) we arrived at one place and rang and the guy said someone else had turned up and they were shy so couldn't answer door. We'd spoken with him 20 mins before
So all the guys that say it must be us please put blame where it belongs-them
Anyway a happy fabbing guys we are off out |
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"Reverse happened to me a few times. Travel all the way out, couple is not here. I send the messages which they read. And they don't reply. I want to report them on fab as no shows. They block me so I can't"
You can still report blocked profiles, the button is there on the left of their profile. |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"Think it's more they're fake or scared rather than its my fault. All the other meets turn up and all arranged in exact same way
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If your selection process is working continue to use it, on the few occasions it's failed as you've had no shows or wasted journeys... learn from them and refine your process your bs radar will get better at detecting the more it's used.. ..
Have fun.. it's why we're all here. |
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