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Am I really that ugly?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like to know what you guys think as ive been on here weeks and only had one meet!! Lol "
You mean you've had sex?!
That's more than some men achieve.
Add a bit more to your profile about yourself, that would help perhaps. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Remove the stoner status. Also, more information on your profile: what you like, pastimes, what you are looking for. You are one of many fish in a big pond, and you need to appeal to the people you'd like to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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9 weeks and you've had one meet? Go do a search of men in your area with all the same criteria as you looking for a woman, see how many of those have been here months and have no verifications. Realise there's probably 1 lady to every 50-100 men in your area. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like to know what you guys think as ive been on here weeks and only had one meet!! Lol "
You have had a meet already, that's good! 
Bit of advice.. Lose the flaccid cock pictures. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You've only had 1 meet! You mean you expected more than that?! Most men don't get a meet in only 9 weeks. Some men don't get a meet ever.
One thing men don't realise is that it is probably harder for a man to get sex on this site that in vanilla life. Men vastly outnumber women, and it tends to be a small portion of men that women/couples want to meet. If you are a man who generally finds it quite easy to pull, then you will probably do ok here as long as you put the effort in and listen to what women/couples want. If you are a man who generally struggles to get sex, then I'm afraid Fab will not be your solution.
No you are not ugly. But that photo doesn't make you look sexy. And sex appeal is the key. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No I don't expect more it's just I've looked at other guys profiles they've been on here 2 weeks n had like 6 verifications lol and it's the case with quite a few profiles I've seen, so it must jus be me lol I know I wouldn't expect a reply of a couple because majority are looking for females or couples xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I don't expect more it's just I've looked at other guys profiles they've been on here 2 weeks n had like 6 verifications lol and it's the case with quite a few profiles I've seen, so it must jus be me lol I know I wouldn't expect a reply of a couple because majority are looking for females or couples xx"
Have a very good look at their profiles and see what they are doing different from you. How would you compare your photos with theirs. How does your profile text compare with theirs. What is the typical age group of these men who are doing well? Yes some men do extremely well on the swing scene. Most men do not do well. Loads of couples meet single men, but I've noticed it tends to be the same men. Also have a second look at these verifications that are suggesting lots of meets. Some might be webcam veris. Others might be people they knew before from a previous profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've come to realise that I'm a turn off for some people and a turn on for others. It will be the same with you
And yes, if you think how hugely men outnumber woman and couples looking for men you see why you need to be ready to expect rejection and sell yourself. Makes getting a meet off here all the better when it does occur. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not fishing for comments there's some really nice people on here that are probs in the same boat and jus wondered that's all x  "
Just ignore the negative people  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To answer the question, no you're not that ugly. But the brutal truth is that your competing in a big fuckoff pond with 1000's of other fish (single men). That alone will diminish your chances of a load of meets. As a wise man on here says.........
Patience is the key |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like to know what you guys think as ive been on here weeks and only had one meet!! Lol "
Attraction for myself comes largely from personality. Your profile states that you are young, hung and up for fun. That really doesn't give me much to go on, so I will have to opt for ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like to know what you guys think as ive been on here weeks and only had one meet!! Lol
Did you really want serious replies to that question? How brave and thick-skinned are you?  "
It's a look at me thread, fair play to him.
You will get a better response if you create a profile that gives some indication of your personality, women are funny things they tend to like to know about that sort of thing before things like whether you have a lot of cum in you. |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"You've only had 1 meet! You mean you expected more than that?! Most men don't get a meet in only 9 weeks. Some men don't get a meet ever.
One thing men don't realise is that it is probably harder for a man to get sex on this site that in vanilla life. Men vastly outnumber women, and it tends to be a small portion of men that women/couples want to meet. If you are a man who generally finds it quite easy to pull, then you will probably do ok here as long as you put the effort in and listen to what women/couples want. If you are a man who generally struggles to get sex, then I'm afraid Fab will not be your solution.
No you are not ugly. But that photo doesn't make you look sexy. And sex appeal is the key."
as usual spot on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You've only had 1 meet! You mean you expected more than that?! Most men don't get a meet in only 9 weeks. Some men don't get a meet ever.
One thing men don't realise is that it is probably harder for a man to get sex on this site that in vanilla life. Men vastly outnumber women, and it tends to be a small portion of men that women/couples want to meet. If you are a man who generally finds it quite easy to pull, then you will probably do ok here as long as you put the effort in and listen to what women/couples want. If you are a man who generally struggles to get sex, then I'm afraid Fab will not be your solution.
No you are not ugly. But that photo doesn't make you look sexy. And sex appeal is the key."
just this young man take heed good advice |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"Like to know what you guys think as ive been on here weeks and only had one meet!! Lol
Did you really want serious replies to that question? How brave and thick-skinned are you?
It's a look at me thread, fair play to him.
You will get a better response if you create a profile that gives some indication of your personality, women are funny things they tend to like to know about that sort of thing before things like whether you have a lot of cum in you. "
And I did look; but then decided not to reply  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Like to know what you guys think as ive been on here weeks and only had one meet!! Lol
Did you really want serious replies to that question? How brave and thick-skinned are you?
It's a look at me thread, fair play to him.
You will get a better response if you create a profile that gives some indication of your personality, women are funny things they tend to like to know about that sort of thing before things like whether you have a lot of cum in you. "
Very true. Us women are very strange And it's the men that figure out what turns women on are the ones that tend to make it on the swing scene. Design your profile with women in mind and you'll be half way there. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Like to know what you guys think as ive been on here weeks and only had one meet!! Lol
Did you really want serious replies to that question? How brave and thick-skinned are you?
It's a look at me thread, fair play to him.
You will get a better response if you create a profile that gives some indication of your personality, women are funny things they tend to like to know about that sort of thing before things like whether you have a lot of cum in you. "
Haha that's in the name heavy CUMMER and Yh honest opinions is what I wanted!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Like to know what you guys think as ive been on here weeks and only had one meet!! Lol
Did you really want serious replies to that question? How brave and thick-skinned are you?
It's a look at me thread, fair play to him.
You will get a better response if you create a profile that gives some indication of your personality, women are funny things they tend to like to know about that sort of thing before things like whether you have a lot of cum in you.
Haha that's in the name heavy CUMMER and Yh honest opinions is what I wanted!!"
Good on you, young man.
Now do something about it or hold your breath. |
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