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Married women - to do or not to do?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How many guys and couples would meet a married woman or would you block and delete her?  |
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"How many guys and couples would meet a married woman or would you block and delete her? "
If we were ever to meet singles, the only way we would meet someone married would be with their partner's consent.
In our opinion, and it is only our opinion, by having partner's consent it then becomes swinging, not cheating.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm ok with meeting married women
I'm not interested in that part of their life
I'm interested in them as people
Everyone has a reason for being here myself included
I don't judge anyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Happy for discreet safe sex meet. |
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"I'm ok with meeting married women
I'm not interested in that part of their life
I'm interested in them as people
Everyone has a reason for being here myself included
I don't judge anyone "
Surely you do judge people when you judge wether or not to meet them for whatever reason unless you just fuck anyone? |
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We don't play with married men or women unless it's out in the open with their partners....always happy to chat though so we don't block. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know lots of married women, and meet them .
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Ohhhhh for sex   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Married bi female seeks couple for fmf fun" -  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would and I have met few, had a good time  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
I wouldn't but I have no angst or need to block
I hope she finds what she seeks, not my business
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By *anB451Man
over a year ago
Reading |
I would. Their relationship issues are not my business. The same criteria applies no matter what their relationship status. They have to be fun, easy going and there needs to be an attraction |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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If they are cheating on their partner, then no, I won't meet them
I don't receive many messages from women but of the ones whic I have in the past 18 months, one told me that she is married and her husband doesn't know that she meets men or women for sex. To be frank, I suspected the message was from a guy who had set up a female profile. But anyway, I declined |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We wouldn't block but we wouldn't meet a married women or man without the partners knowledge and consent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Consider, on the same basis as I consider other messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm ok with meeting married women
I'm not interested in that part of their life
I'm interested in them as people
Everyone has a reason for being here myself included
I don't judge anyone
Surely you do judge people when you judge wether or not to meet them for whatever reason unless you just fuck anyone? "
I definitely don't just fuck anyone
But I do enjoy a little risqué fun
I'm always respectful of their position |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're certified hypocrites here.
We won't play with single married men, not because we judge them, we just don't want to be part of the inevitable drama when they get caught. But we did make an exception for a married female.
The reasons were that she had already asked her husband to swing, but he said no. Their relationship was basically over anyway. She was introduced to us by a friend, who also played with her (i.e. we didn't go looking for it).
That said, we'd meet her again so I guess on same level that's a double standard. At the end of the day I think her husband is a bit of a pussy for not swinging so in all honesty that's probably the main reason.
Good Rule of thumb: if you're not fucking your partner then someone else probably is. |
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I've only met one lady who was married and the hubby didn't know. It was my fault I guess. I made certain assumptions that turned out to be false. I should have made sure before.
Being married myself it did make me feel a bit odd and when she asked for another meet I declined. I gave my reasons, but she then accused me of just wanting a one time bit of fun at her expense! That made me feel bad too. Damned if you do, damned if you don't  |
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Doesn't matter what sex they are,we wouldnt knowingly meet anyone playing away.
Miss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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does the pope have a balcony ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd meet married women if I was looking to scratch the bi itch |
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I won't knowingly play with anyone marries or attached playing without their partners consent I don't care what sex they are or how good looking they are, I'd settle for a lady wank instead |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd meet married women if I was looking to scratch the bi itch "
I missed the space there and thought you were proposing violence |
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Definitely meet married women
Massive turn on, more so if the husband knows |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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9/10 times you would never no.....so therefore I don't even bother if they are or not.
Their business not mine.
I have met several women who were married or with partners who didn't know. Can't say it has ever bothered me.
If they didn't "cheat" with me....they would do it with someone else anyway!
I did it in vanilla life years ago. Girl was engaged, b/f living with her n her dad. We had an ongoing thing for six months before she married. I went to the wedding, it carried on another six months after....until she emigrated to Canada. Still friends on Facebook. Last time I saw her about 8 years back was at her sisters wedding. (We had a sneaky play then lol) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many guys and couples would meet a married woman or would you block and delete her? "
She's a witch, burn her!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd meet married women if I was looking to scratch the bi itch
I missed the space there and thought you were proposing violence "
Oh yeah, I've just noticed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd meet married women if I was looking to scratch the bi itch
I missed the space there and thought you were proposing violence "
Lmao
Did you see the other thread where the guy asked if anyone wanted to fuck with him?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We're certified hypocrites here.
We won't play with single married men, not because we judge them, we just don't want to be part of the inevitable drama when they get caught. But we did make an exception for a married female.
The reasons were that she had already asked her husband to swing, but he said no. Their relationship was basically over anyway. She was introduced to us by a friend, who also played with her (i.e. we didn't go looking for it).
That said, we'd meet her again so I guess on same level that's a double standard. At the end of the day I think her husband is a bit of a pussy for not swinging so in all honesty that's probably the main reason.
Good Rule of thumb: if you're not fucking your partner then someone else probably is. "
So these reasons couldn't happen to a married man?...oh dear  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've met married women in the past, and hope to meet lots more in the future. I prefer it if they are open with their partners about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We're certified hypocrites here.
We won't play with single married men, not because we judge them, we just don't want to be part of the inevitable drama when they get caught. But we did make an exception for a married female.
The reasons were that she had already asked her husband to swing, but he said no. Their relationship was basically over anyway. She was introduced to us by a friend, who also played with her (i.e. we didn't go looking for it).
That said, we'd meet her again so I guess on same level that's a double standard. At the end of the day I think her husband is a bit of a pussy for not swinging so in all honesty that's probably the main reason.
Good Rule of thumb: if you're not fucking your partner then someone else probably is.
So these reasons couldn't happen to a married man?...oh dear "
Looks like that whole post went over your head |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
I prefer married women |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im a big fan of married women. I you see one please send her my way  |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"We're certified hypocrites here.
We won't play with single married men, not because we judge them, we just don't want to be part of the inevitable drama when they get caught. But we did make an exception for a married female.
The reasons were that she had already asked her husband to swing, but he said no. Their relationship was basically over anyway. She was introduced to us by a friend, who also played with her (i.e. we didn't go looking for it).
That said, we'd meet her again so I guess on same level that's a double standard. At the end of the day I think her husband is a bit of a pussy for not swinging so in all honesty that's probably the main reason.
Good Rule of thumb: if you're not fucking your partner then someone else probably is.
So these reasons couldn't happen to a married man?...oh dear
Looks like that whole post went over your head "
"if
you're
not
fucking
your
partner
then
someone
else
probably
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Nah, I didn't get it either. Can you say this slowly, again?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We're certified hypocrites here.
We won't play with single married men, not because we judge them, we just don't want to be part of the inevitable drama when they get caught. But we did make an exception for a married female.
The reasons were that she had already asked her husband to swing, but he said no. Their relationship was basically over anyway. She was introduced to us by a friend, who also played with her (i.e. we didn't go looking for it).
That said, we'd meet her again so I guess on same level that's a double standard. At the end of the day I think her husband is a bit of a pussy for not swinging so in all honesty that's probably the main reason.
Good Rule of thumb: if you're not fucking your partner then someone else probably is.
So these reasons couldn't happen to a married man?...oh dear
Looks like that whole post went over your head
"if
you're
not
fucking
your
partner
then
someone
else
probably
"is
Nah, I didn't get it either. Can you say this slowly, again? "
There's a statically observable out-group bias by men, towards women. I'm honest about it and that's why I think her husband is a pussy, but I do have sympathy for a wife who is a prude and won't swing with her husband.
I'm my own words, I called that "hypocrisy" and a "double standard". But it's also science. |
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We are happy to meet married women (or men), what they do in their own lives is really none of our business. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many guys and couples would meet a married woman or would you block and delete her? "
i would meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One of my all time favourite meets was with a woman whose partner had agreed for us to meet but wanted pictures, videos and to listen in. It was a big turn on for us all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many guys and couples would meet a married woman or would you block and delete her? "
I'd meet if it didn't lead to drama x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd meet married women if I was looking to scratch the bi itch
I missed the space there and thought you were proposing violence "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No thx and block |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My feelings in married women are the same as married men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Id meet a married women x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many guys and couples would meet a married woman or would you block and delete her?
If we were ever to meet singles, the only way we would meet someone married would be with their partner's consent.
In our opinion, and it is only our opinion, by having partner's consent it then becomes swinging, not cheating.
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By *arteeneWoman
over a year ago
aylesbury |
I love married men and women so I don't mind x |
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No unless her husband new about it. I have a fb who's husband is a great friend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally in my experience in all my messages to people I've pointed out I'm married and my wife knows...
And i never get a response...
But actually it might be because im ugly...
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I don't meet cheaters of either gender.
Wouldn't bother blocking but I do write a reminder in their private notes for future reference. |
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Always been happy to meet married ladies. They usually know exactly what they are doing...and why |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love to meet married ladies as they can be the best. They're often the most experienced, yet due to work, stress or something have developed a sexless marriage. So just the idea of having a naughty fuck with a guy who fancies them and wants to screw them senseless makes them the hottest and horniest in bed. I've had several and they were all ace!
In most cases they either are virtually separated, in which case they say it matters little, or they love their hubbies but are desperate for some good willing cock and don't want their hubbies to be hurt.
Whichever, both types are generally terrific partners in bed and I fully recommend them! It's their relationship to decide what to do. I just see myself as their temporary fb. And it can be so rewarding for all parties. The hubbies get back a happier wife too! Win win win! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I meet woman I really fancy whether they be married, partnered or single |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So, any married women in here are welcome to get in touch! If I can I will!
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By *iffraffMan
over a year ago
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"I'm ok with meeting married women
I'm not interested in that part of their life
I'm interested in them as people
Everyone has a reason for being here myself included
I don't judge anyone "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many guys and couples would meet a married woman or would you block and delete her? "
meet and party |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Double standards are alive and well and live in Fabland!! "
How do you come to that conclusion? Some people have said they'd meet married women, just as on the married men thread. Some people have said they prefer married women, just as on the married men thread. Some people have said they won't entertain the idea and it would be an instant delete, just as on the married men thread.
And actually, on the married men thread, the most vitriolic posts were reserved for women who meet married men, rather than the men themselves. |
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Most iv met are married I don't mind at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Happy for discreet safe sex meet. "
Hey. Who needs a Rolex when you got a sun dial that big. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Better get my Scarlett dress out!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I meet woman I really fancy whether they be married, partnered or single "
Personally I think a lot of people adopt this attitude regardless of the gender. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive got no issue with meeting married people
Its their choice at the end of the day
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many guys and couples would meet a married woman or would you block and delete her? "
Married women with amazing body and beautiful boobs like yours is always my dream |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd happily meet a married woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd happily meet a married woman"
Just as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many guys and couples would meet a married woman or would you block and delete her? "
Married is totally off limits for me and I truly believe in treating others how you expect to be treated. It is a minefield |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't mind as long as it doesn't backfire |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many guys and couples would meet a married woman or would you block and delete her? "
Couple should explore their wild side life is too short |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surely this should be a married person thread! the principal/_iew is just the same.
As a married person, I would have no qualms |
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"Surely this should be a married person thread! the principal/_iew is just the same.
As a married person, I would have no qualms "
But isn't that creating a thread for cheating? Which isn't the same as swinging is it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many guys and couples would meet a married woman or would you block and delete her? "
If she's playing behind her man's back, I couldn't trust her :-0 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab is full of married women .
I've met countless married women.
That's there problem to deal with . Im single and accom so if they want to come round for nsa fun its upto then .
If people stay in shit marriages its there own fault . I did for 18 years . Big mistake |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Surely this should be a married person thread! the principal/_iew is just the same.
As a married person, I would have no qualms
But isn't that creating a thread for cheating? Which isn't the same as swinging is it?"
Although the site is called fabswingers it also comes up in a Google search for NSA sex so I think it's possible we can squeeze in alongside the 'real swingers...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, no problems with it, we're all on here for our own reasons so we shouldn't therefore judge. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Remember folks
Being a married man swinging is bad !!
Being a married wiman swinging is ok coz there's not many fit woman on here so we turn a blind eye !
That's Fab morals |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lets be honest here, a woman could be married, have 10 heads and a mutated vagina and she'll still get laid 10 times a day if she wanted.
The married man on the other hand will always be _iewed as vermin.
Yes its double standards, yes its mega hypocritical but its also reality |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lets be honest here, a woman could be married, have 10 heads and a mutated vagina and she'll still get laid 10 times a day if she wanted.
The married man on the other hand will always be _iewed as vermin.
Yes its double standards, yes its mega hypocritical but its also reality"
10 heads would make for an awesome blowbang... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm ok with meeting married women
I'm not interested in that part of their life
I'm interested in them as people
Everyone has a reason for being here myself included
I don't judge anyone
Surely you do judge people when you judge wether or not to meet them for whatever reason unless you just fuck anyone?
I definitely don't just fuck anyone
But I do enjoy a little risqué fun
I'm always respectful of their position "
It's not judging to not meet anyone, it's personal preferences and choice. It's not making a judgment on them as a person, it's deciding if they are for you or not x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lets be honest here, a woman could be married, have 10 heads and a mutated vagina and she'll still get laid 10 times a day if she wanted.
The married man on the other hand will always be _iewed as vermin.
Yes its double standards, yes its mega hypocritical but its also reality"
Vermin is better than some singles in my experience, less likely to become a pain in the arse, more respectful. I wouldn't meet female married for ff though, so reverse double standards here. XXX |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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I wouldn't want someone's hurt and angry wife at my front door
I guess it would be even worse for a guy if the angry husband turns up at his door with his mates to have a 'heart-to-heart' with him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love to meet a married woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wouldn't bother me. Their relationship, their life. The married ones tend to be less clingy and more discreet - and they really cut loose when they do have fun! This goes for either gender for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We're certified hypocrites here.
We won't play with single married men, not because we judge them, we just don't want to be part of the inevitable drama when they get caught. But we did make an exception for a married female.
The reasons were that she had already asked her husband to swing, but he said no. Their relationship was basically over anyway. She was introduced to us by a friend, who also played with her (i.e. we didn't go looking for it).
That said, we'd meet her again so I guess on same level that's a double standard. At the end of the day I think her husband is a bit of a pussy for not swinging so in all honesty that's probably the main reason.
Good Rule of thumb: if you're not fucking your partner then someone else probably is.
So these reasons couldn't happen to a married man?...oh dear
Looks like that whole post went over your head
"if
you're
not
fucking
your
partner
then
someone
else
probably
"is
Nah, I didn't get it either. Can you say this slowly, again?
There's a statically observable out-group bias by men, towards women. I'm honest about it and that's why I think her husband is a pussy, but I do have sympathy for a wife who is a prude and won't swing with her husband.
I'm my own words, I called that "hypocrisy" and a "double standard". But it's also science."
Get out of town, your making excuses why its ok to play with a married women but its not ok to play with a married man. You couples make me laugh. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't want someone's hurt and angry wife at my front door
I guess it would be even worse for a guy if the angry husband turns up at his door with his mates to have a 'heart-to-heart' with him"
Does this REALLY ever happen? I remember a thread a long time ago that got to about 100 plus postings and only 1 person said the "injured" party had turned up at their door. And they were already known to them and not met through Fab.
If anyone has actually had this happen to them please let us know. |
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"I wouldn't want someone's hurt and angry wife at my front door
I guess it would be even worse for a guy if the angry husband turns up at his door with his mates to have a 'heart-to-heart' with him
Does this REALLY ever happen? I remember a thread a long time ago that got to about 100 plus postings and only 1 person said the "injured" party had turned up at their door. And they were already known to them and not met through Fab.
If anyone has actually had this happen to them please let us know. "
I did and I didn't know the guy was married too so he'd lied to us both, she went that mental I had to take out a restraining order against her, eventually I moved too. I had slag spray painted on my front door, she'd randomly turn up screaming and banging on my door, even had other people follow me doing stupid shit for some time after the restraining order, unfortunately it's always the "other woman" that gets the blame |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"I wouldn't want someone's hurt and angry wife at my front door
I guess it would be even worse for a guy if the angry husband turns up at his door with his mates to have a 'heart-to-heart' with him
Does this REALLY ever happen? I remember a thread a long time ago that got to about 100 plus postings and only 1 person said the "injured" party had turned up at their door. And they were already known to them and not met through Fab.
If anyone has actually had this happen to them please let us know. "
Twice
Once was not too bad; just a phone call from her. I was really sorry for her and felt like some low-life heartless bitch
The second one was a bit more gung-ho. Was parked on my driveway waiting for me as I returned from work. I didn't even know that the b**tard was married
Never again. There are plenty of very nice, tall, handsome men who are single for me to choose from (as are there for other women too) |
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over a year ago
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Think it adds to the excitement, its always obvious that its what they want. When meeting some couples its not always so obvious that its exactly what she enjoys. With married women they always seem to really let their hair down so to speak. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We're certified hypocrites here.
We won't play with single married men, not because we judge them, we just don't want to be part of the inevitable drama when they get caught. But we did make an exception for a married female.
The reasons were that she had already asked her husband to swing, but he said no. Their relationship was basically over anyway. She was introduced to us by a friend, who also played with her (i.e. we didn't go looking for it).
That said, we'd meet her again so I guess on same level that's a double standard. At the end of the day I think her husband is a bit of a pussy for not swinging so in all honesty that's probably the main reason.
Good Rule of thumb: if you're not fucking your partner then someone else probably is.
So these reasons couldn't happen to a married man?...oh dear
Looks like that whole post went over your head
"if
you're
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your
partner
then
someone
else
probably
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Nah, I didn't get it either. Can you say this slowly, again?
There's a statically observable out-group bias by men, towards women. I'm honest about it and that's why I think her husband is a pussy, but I do have sympathy for a wife who is a prude and won't swing with her husband.
I'm my own words, I called that "hypocrisy" and a "double standard". But it's also science.
Get out of town, your making excuses why its ok to play with a married women but its not ok to play with a married man. You couples make me laugh. "
I know. No doubt the excuse they use for the woman is 'aww hun, things mustnt be too good at home are they?' or some bullshit like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't want someone's hurt and angry wife at my front door
I guess it would be even worse for a guy if the angry husband turns up at his door with his mates to have a 'heart-to-heart' with him
Does this REALLY ever happen? I remember a thread a long time ago that got to about 100 plus postings and only 1 person said the "injured" party had turned up at their door. And they were already known to them and not met through Fab.
If anyone has actually had this happen to them please let us know. "
It's really easy these days not to give any personal details out when meeting. Use the like of Kik to communicate, book a hotel & don't meet locally ~ problem solved |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We're certified hypocrites here.
We won't play with single married men, not because we judge them, we just don't want to be part of the inevitable drama when they get caught. But we did make an exception for a married female.
The reasons were that she had already asked her husband to swing, but he said no. Their relationship was basically over anyway. She was introduced to us by a friend, who also played with her (i.e. we didn't go looking for it).
That said, we'd meet her again so I guess on same level that's a double standard. At the end of the day I think her husband is a bit of a pussy for not swinging so in all honesty that's probably the main reason.
Good Rule of thumb: if you're not fucking your partner then someone else probably is.
So these reasons couldn't happen to a married man?...oh dear
Looks like that whole post went over your head
"if
you're
not
fucking
your
partner
then
someone
else
probably
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Nah, I didn't get it either. Can you say this slowly, again?
There's a statically observable out-group bias by men, towards women. I'm honest about it and that's why I think her husband is a pussy, but I do have sympathy for a wife who is a prude and won't swing with her husband.
I'm my own words, I called that "hypocrisy" and a "double standard". But it's also science.
Get out of town, your making excuses why its ok to play with a married women but its not ok to play with a married man. You couples make me laugh.
I know. No doubt the excuse they use for the woman is 'aww hun, things mustnt be too good at home are they?' or some bullshit like that."
Yup, double standards like these do my nut in. |
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over a year ago
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't want someone's hurt and angry wife at my front door
I guess it would be even worse for a guy if the angry husband turns up at his door with his mates to have a 'heart-to-heart' with him
Does this REALLY ever happen? I remember a thread a long time ago that got to about 100 plus postings and only 1 person said the "injured" party had turned up at their door. And they were already known to them and not met through Fab.
If anyone has actually had this happen to them please let us know.
It's really easy these days not to give any personal details out when meeting. Use the like of Kik to communicate, book a hotel & don't meet locally ~ problem solved "
Problem doesn't even start if one avoids cheating married women (or men) as if they were carriers of the bubonic plague |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many guys and couples would meet a married woman or would you block and delete her? "
I would meet her and pound her because thats what she needs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I meet a married woman occasionally. Like previous posts I'm not interested in her personal life. I know it is fundamentally wrong but She must be missing out on something at home or she wouldn't be meeting. Who am I to judge ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many guys and couples would meet a married woman or would you block and delete her? "
Everyone has their own reasons for being on here, they could be in a sexless marriage or one where the guy or the lady has medical reasons it could be that they have no interest in each other but stay together for the children it could be that all is well but either partner has needs which are not being fulfilled... personally I don't block or delete anyone without a reason and even then if I do I'll generally tell them I'm not interested first (doesn't happen often surprisingly though lol) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In clubs, people are pretty likely to have done without even knowing. Not like you do a full inter_iew process before play.
Sarah
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many guys and couples would meet a married woman or would you block and delete her?
I would meet her and pound her because thats what she needs"
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"How many guys and couples would meet a married woman or would you block and delete her? "
Love meeting married women. My wife is one herself.
But we'd steer away if her partner was not aware. |
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"In clubs, people are pretty likely to have done without even knowing. Not like you do a full inter_iew process before play.
Sarah
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We have a survey and a poly test before any playing.
But usually small talk is sufficient. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We're certified hypocrites here.
We won't play with single married men, not because we judge them, we just don't want to be part of the inevitable drama when they get caught. But we did make an exception for a married female.
The reasons were that she had already asked her husband to swing, but he said no. Their relationship was basically over anyway. She was introduced to us by a friend, who also played with her (i.e. we didn't go looking for it).
That said, we'd meet her again so I guess on same level that's a double standard. At the end of the day I think her husband is a bit of a pussy for not swinging so in all honesty that's probably the main reason.
Good Rule of thumb: if you're not fucking your partner then someone else probably is.
So these reasons couldn't happen to a married man?...oh dear
Looks like that whole post went over your head
"if
you're
not
fucking
your
partner
then
someone
else
probably
"is
Nah, I didn't get it either. Can you say this slowly, again?
There's a statically observable out-group bias by men, towards women. I'm honest about it and that's why I think her husband is a pussy, but I do have sympathy for a wife who is a prude and won't swing with her husband.
I'm my own words, I called that "hypocrisy" and a "double standard". But it's also science.
Get out of town, your making excuses why its ok to play with a married women but its not ok to play with a married man. You couples make me laugh. "
Do you sit down to pee?
I sincerely doubt you even know what an out-group bias is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Surely this should be a married person thread! the principal/_iew is just the same.
As a married person, I would have no qualms
But isn't that creating a thread for cheating? Which isn't the same as swinging is it?"
My point was only that it was the same argument regardless of gender. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Surely this should be a married person thread! the principal/_iew is just the same.
As a married person, I would have no qualms
But isn't that creating a thread for cheating? Which isn't the same as swinging is it?
My point was only that it was the same argument regardless of gender. "
I think this one was created off the back of an equivalent thread about married men, to get that gender balance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With or without consent makes little difference. There is still the possibility of there being an "injured party"!
Would be interesting to know if any couples married or otherwise who have tried swinging and its causes problems or even split them up?
Personal _iew, couldn't give a monkeys to be honest. I'm not seeking a relationship, just NSA sex plain and simple. |
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over a year ago
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"With or without consent makes little difference. There is still the possibility of there being an "injured party"!
Would be interesting to know if any couples married or otherwise who have tried swinging and its causes problems or even split them up?
Personal _iew, couldn't give a monkeys to be honest. I'm not seeking a relationship, just NSA sex plain and simple."
What do you mean 'makes little difference'?? Of course it does, it makes all the difference...thats the whole point of it |
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By *U1966Man
over a year ago
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Yes i do but husband knows been happily doing so for many years
I do not judge other peoples reasons for being on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would definitely meet as they, like me, may be in a sexless marriage. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone has thier own agenda for being here I would never judge anyone for that as long as it's fun I am happy to meet. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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A cheating married man's reasons:
"I am in a sexless marriage but I love her to bits and would never hurt her or leave her"
"She is a complete bitch but I have to stay in the marriage for the sake of my children who I would do anything for"
"We are separated but just live together and remain married; it is a techicality"
I guess cheating married women regurgitate the same gems |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A cheating married man's reasons:
"I am in a sexless marriage but I love her to bits and would never hurt her or leave her"
"She is a complete bitch but I have to stay in the marriage for the sake of my children who I would do anything for"
"We are separated but just live together and remain married; it is a techicality"
I guess cheating married women regurgitate the same gems"
No, studies have shown that, contrary to popular belief, women are just as likely to cheat as men - but there is a difference in their reasoning. Men are more likely to cheat because they needed the physical release. Women are more likely to cheat because they felt emotionally unfulfilled. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With or without consent makes little difference. There is still the possibility of there being an "injured party"!
Would be interesting to know if any couples married or otherwise who have tried swinging and its causes problems or even split them up?
Personal _iew, couldn't give a monkeys to be honest. I'm not seeking a relationship, just NSA sex plain and simple.
What do you mean 'makes little difference'?? Of course it does, it makes all the difference...thats the whole point of it"
If you read the whole paragraph instead of just that bit. It's self explanatory!!!!
Just to clarify incase you didn't get it.
I get asked for a meet from a married man who says he has his wife's consent. Do I take his word for it?
No? So I speak to said wife and she agrees. Who is to say that while I'm fucking her husband she isn't at home crying her eyes out?
Always the possibility that there will be an injured third party! |
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over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why so many negative _iews on Married Men seeking to have fun but it's ok for Married Women to play?
I personally am enjoying a relationship with a Married Woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have met married women, its their life, up to them what they do |
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"Why so many negative _iews on Married Men seeking to have fun but it's ok for Married Women to play?
I personally am enjoying a relationship with a Married Woman "
Not all have said its ok for women but not men some have said they don't care what sex you are if your cheating they aren't interested |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With or without consent makes little difference. There is still the possibility of there being an "injured party"!
Would be interesting to know if any couples married or otherwise who have tried swinging and its causes problems or even split them up?
Personal _iew, couldn't give a monkeys to be honest. I'm not seeking a relationship, just NSA sex plain and simple.
What do you mean 'makes little difference'?? Of course it does, it makes all the difference...thats the whole point of it
If you read the whole paragraph instead of just that bit. It's self explanatory!!!!
Just to clarify incase you didn't get it.
I get asked for a meet from a married man who says he has his wife's consent. Do I take his word for it?
No? So I speak to said wife and she agrees. Who is to say that while I'm fucking her husband she isn't at home crying her eyes out?
Always the possibility that there will be an injured third party! "
But thats not cheating, which is what this thread is about
Thats just swinging, and is something which could crop up in any relationship/marriage. If theres consent involved then its not cheating so theres no injured party. Emotions between the pair in question are for them to handle together |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many guys and couples would meet a married woman or would you block and delete her? "
We wouldn't block and delete but we would ask if her husband knew and was ok with it (same as with married guys) and if they are cheating then we would just politely say they aren't for us and good luck with what they are looking for.
We only block for rudeness/nastyness. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With or without consent makes little difference. There is still the possibility of there being an "injured party"!
Would be interesting to know if any couples married or otherwise who have tried swinging and its causes problems or even split them up?
Personal _iew, couldn't give a monkeys to be honest. I'm not seeking a relationship, just NSA sex plain and simple.
What do you mean 'makes little difference'?? Of course it does, it makes all the difference...thats the whole point of it
If you read the whole paragraph instead of just that bit. It's self explanatory!!!!
Just to clarify incase you didn't get it.
I get asked for a meet from a married man who says he has his wife's consent. Do I take his word for it?
No? So I speak to said wife and she agrees. Who is to say that while I'm fucking her husband she isn't at home crying her eyes out?
Always the possibility that there will be an injured third party!
But thats not cheating, which is what this thread is about
Thats just swinging, and is something which could crop up in any relationship/marriage. If theres consent involved then its not cheating so theres no injured party. Emotions between the pair in question are for them to handle together"
If someone gets upset then they may as well be cheating because when someone gets hurt that's just as bad!
But that's just my opinion and I'm entitled to it, as are you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes absolutely, actually prefer married women |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would meet married women  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone has there own reasons for being on here
I ve a simply rule I never judge. It's up to others to judge me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am easy going , will meet married |
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"Everyone has there own reasons for being on here
I ve a simply rule I never judge. It's up to others to judge me "
Bollocks everyone judges on some level, you _iew a profile you think to yourself "they look interesting I'll message/reply to them" you've just made a judgement |
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By *ymrocruMan
over a year ago
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"How many guys and couples would meet a married woman or would you block and delete her? "
I'd meet a married woman, gf, but would rather meet the cpl. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see nothing wrong with meeting someone that is married but then I have a fairly Bohemian, liberal attitude to these things. We all have our reasons for being on this site.
I would want to meet on neutral territory, e.g. Hotel room, rather than family home (unless it was with her partner's consent). It is her choice and up to her to ensure no one gets hurt. |
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"How many guys and couples would meet a married woman or would you block and delete her? "
I've learnt not to say never.. I guess I would it depends . Block and delete? Don't think so |
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If the partner knows then I don't see a problem. I'm married and my husband is fine with me having fun both by myself and with him during a meet.
It's just good fun that turns us both on and makes for a super steamy for us after a meet ?? |
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"How many guys and couples would meet a married woman or would you block and delete her? "
For me - Half the thrill of meeting a married lady is knowing that her hubby knows she is playing away - something so downright horny about that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am openminded, non judgemental understand people have their reasons for doing things which is not often straightforward |
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"I meet woman I really fancy whether they be married, partnered or single "
Of course you would, after all your married and cheating so why would you not! |
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over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I meet woman I really fancy whether they be married, partnered or single
Of course you would, after all your married and cheating so why would you not!"
Are you some kind of crusader against married men/women on here - you always comment on threads like these & appear to take great pleasure in outing them - which means you know then & have probably met them, stop hiding behind your profile! You did it with me once but I know who you are now ...how's Salou!!!!! |
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Of course I would play with a married woman, if they are openly on here saying that they are married but playing away then that's totally up to them.
The main question is will they play with me lol |
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"I meet woman I really fancy whether they be married, partnered or single
Of course you would, after all your married and cheating so why would you not!
Are you some kind of crusader against married men/women on here - you always comment on threads like these & appear to take great pleasure in outing them - which means you know then & have probably met them, stop hiding behind your profile! You did it with me once but I know who you are now ...how's Salou!!!!! "
Not met them at all......why are you ashamed for people to know that you meet married guys behind their wife's backs?
People who not like this type of behaviour have as much right to post on the forum as you do when you have a go at people like hyou have done in your posts at times.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many guys and couples would meet a married woman or would you block and delete her? "
I don't question why people are on here...there must be a need of some kind...just make the most of it! |
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over a year ago
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"I meet woman I really fancy whether they be married, partnered or single
Of course you would, after all your married and cheating so why would you not!
Are you some kind of crusader against married men/women on here - you always comment on threads like these & appear to take great pleasure in outing them - which means you know then & have probably met them, stop hiding behind your profile! You did it with me once but I know who you are now ...how's Salou!!!!!
Not met them at all......why are you ashamed for people to know that you meet married guys behind their wife's backs?
People who not like this type of behaviour have as much right to post on the forum as you do when you have a go at people like hyou have done in your posts at times.... "
Ashamed...as if...everyone I meet with Alex knows our situation, we very open about it & never lie to those closest to us, unlike some who hide behind a profile!!
You make very snide comments to many men & women on here who are married....it you're going to do that then at least have the balls to let others know who you know ....but being a popular forumite as yourself people will work it out if the follow the green arrow!!! |
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over a year ago
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"I meet woman I really fancy whether they be married, partnered or single
Of course you would, after all your married and cheating so why would you not!
Are you some kind of crusader against married men/women on here - you always comment on threads like these & appear to take great pleasure in outing them - which means you know then & have probably met them, stop hiding behind your profile! You did it with me once but I know who you are now ...how's Salou!!!!!
Not met them at all......why are you ashamed for people to know that you meet married guys behind their wife's backs?
People who not like this type of behaviour have as much right to post on the forum as you do when you have a go at people like hyou have done in your posts at times....
Ashamed...as if...everyone I meet with Alex knows our situation, we very open about it & never lie to those closest to us, unlike some who hide behind a profile!!
You make very snide comments to many men & women on here who are married....it you're going to do that then at least have the balls to let others know who you know ....but being a popular forumite as yourself people will work it out if the follow the green arrow!!! "
I won't as I'm shite at working stuff like this out, intrigued though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why the clamour to block people on here.i would have no problem meeting a married woman.being married myself i know everyone has their own reasons for cheating.none of my business at the end of the day. |
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"How many guys and couples would meet a married woman or would you block and delete her? "
In a club, we wouldn't normally ask.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most definitely. I can understand the hesitancy, but as a married man on here I can also understand why married people appear on such sites.
Wouldn't block someone for being married |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"I meet woman I really fancy whether they be married, partnered or single
Of course you would, after all your married and cheating so why would you not!"
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"I meet woman I really fancy whether they be married, partnered or single
Of course you would, after all your married and cheating so why would you not!
Are you some kind of crusader against married men/women on here - you always comment on threads like these & appear to take great pleasure in outing them - which means you know then & have probably met them, stop hiding behind your profile! You did it with me once but I know who you are now ...how's Salou!!!!!
Not met them at all......why are you ashamed for people to know that you meet married guys behind their wife's backs?
People who not like this type of behaviour have as much right to post on the forum as you do when you have a go at people like hyou have done in your posts at times....
Ashamed...as if...everyone I meet with Alex knows our situation, we very open about it & never lie to those closest to us, unlike some who hide behind a profile!!
You make very snide comments to many men & women on here who are married....it you're going to do that then at least have the balls to let others know who you know ....but being a popular forumite as yourself people will work it out if the follow the green arrow!!! "
I have nothing against married men or married women meeting separately with their partner's consent
I think what is being discussed on this thread are the cheaters
Or maybe I got it all wrong
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would personally meet, it's the moral emotion what turns people off x |
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I'm married, it's all about choices xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I meet woman I really fancy whether they be married, partnered or single
Of course you would, after all you're (ftfy) married and cheating so why would you not!"
Thanks for your input. At least I state on my profile what I'm doing and so these woman can make an informed choice whether to enter into any sort of contact with me. I believe many others are not so open. |
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"I meet woman I really fancy whether they be married, partnered or single
Of course you would, after all your married and cheating so why would you not!
Are you some kind of crusader against married men/women on here - you always comment on threads like these & appear to take great pleasure in outing them - which means you know then & have probably met them, stop hiding behind your profile! You did it with me once but I know who you are now ...how's Salou!!!!!
Not met them at all......why are you ashamed for people to know that you meet married guys behind their wife's backs?
People who not like this type of behaviour have as much right to post on the forum as you do when you have a go at people like hyou have done in your posts at times....
Ashamed...as if...everyone I meet with Alex knows our situation, we very open about it & never lie to those closest to us, unlike some who hide behind a profile!!
You make very snide comments to many men & women on here who are married....it you're going to do that then at least have the balls to let others know who you know ....but being a popular forumite as yourself people will work it out if the follow the green arrow!!!
I have nothing against married men or married women meeting separately with their partner's consent
I think what is being discussed on this thread are the cheaters
Or maybe I got it all wrong
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You are right, but I am sure if it happened that their children were cheated on then they would have a different voice.....or the words tough......why not have your cake and eat it....we did... |
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over a year ago
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"I meet woman I really fancy whether they be married, partnered or single
Of course you would, after all your married and cheating so why would you not!
Are you some kind of crusader against married men/women on here - you always comment on threads like these & appear to take great pleasure in outing them - which means you know then & have probably met them, stop hiding behind your profile! You did it with me once but I know who you are now ...how's Salou!!!!!
Not met them at all......why are you ashamed for people to know that you meet married guys behind their wife's backs?
People who not like this type of behaviour have as much right to post on the forum as you do when you have a go at people like hyou have done in your posts at times....
Ashamed...as if...everyone I meet with Alex knows our situation, we very open about it & never lie to those closest to us, unlike some who hide behind a profile!!
You make very snide comments to many men & women on here who are married....it you're going to do that then at least have the balls to let others know who you know ....but being a popular forumite as yourself people will work it out if the follow the green arrow!!!
I have nothing against married men or married women meeting separately with their partner's consent
I think what is being discussed on this thread are the cheaters
Or maybe I got it all wrong
You are right, but I am sure if it happened that their children were cheated on then they would have a different voice.....or the words tough......why not have your cake and eat it....we did..."
Hold on I believe your pitchfork needs sharpening.
I don't stick my nose into others relationships including that of my children.
No one knows the dynamics only the 2 people involved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm ok with meeting married women
I'm not interested in that part of their life
I'm interested in them as people
Everyone has a reason for being here myself included
I don't judge anyone "
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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as i have said many times, ill do what i like with whom i like, when i like..telling me which married person i can/cant meet, usually by married couples on a morality based crusade,who hide behind their 'certificate' and 'vows' which is null and void anyway, as they now swing and claim they have not lied, to their family and friends, is pure hypocrisy... |
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We and my wife have both played with one half of married couples , we don't get involved with their relationships it's purely just for fun . I had soft play with a wife because her husband just wanted pictures . Wife has played with three husbands one with wife present , one who's wife is a total ?????? Think she is aware but doesn't care and the third a husband of a swinging couple and she like us don't mind as long he don't go behind her back . Everyone has their reasons . Even at the club we use we know lots of people are married but don't let on , what goes on in club stays in club |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I meet woman I really fancy whether they be married, partnered or single
Of course you would, after all you're (ftfy) married and cheating so why would you not!
Thanks for your input. At least I state on my profile what I'm doing and so these woman can make an informed choice whether to enter into any sort of contact with me. I believe many others are not so open."
I also believe what people post on an open forum & what people PM can be two very different things. |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
"as i have said many times, ill do what i like with whom i like, when i like..telling me which married person i can/cant meet, usually by married couples on a morality based crusade,who hide behind their 'certificate' and 'vows' which is null and void anyway, as they now swing and claim they have not lied, to their family and friends, is pure hypocrisy... "
Suzy, you took the words right out of my mouth, except you said them far better than I ever could have.
I'm continually amazed how a lifestyle designed to break away from the restrictions of conventional society should then seek to impose so many more rules. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"as i have said many times, ill do what i like with whom i like, when i like..telling me which married person i can/cant meet, usually by married couples on a morality based crusade,who hide behind their 'certificate' and 'vows' which is null and void anyway, as they now swing and claim they have not lied, to their family and friends, is pure hypocrisy...
Suzy, you took the words right out of my mouth, except you said them far better than I ever could have.
I'm continually amazed how a lifestyle designed to break away from the restrictions of conventional society should then seek to impose so many more rules."
I'd rather not hurt my boyfriend by cheating on him
And if it ever comes to that he is unhappy with me meeting others without him, I either stop what I am doing or I'll dump him; one of the two |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow! This still going on...zzzz  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Wow! This still going on...zzzz "
Cheating, timewasters and bareback are guranteed to get a lot of responses ..... mind you, cock pics is coming up fast on the inside.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Let's just all get along a fuck more... |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"Let's just all get along a fuck more..."
Let us all do that; bring your wife along to join in the fun too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many guys and couples would meet a married woman or would you block and delete her? "
Yes please. No nonsense, know exactly what they want, no relationship wanted, they aren't looking for an emotional attachment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many guys and couples would meet a married woman or would you block and delete her? "
I would/do/have. I prefer meeting people who are attached. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let's just all get along a fuck more...
Let us all do that; bring your wife along to join in the fun too "
Oh dear... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Let's just keep commenting to get this thread up to 175 please...so boring!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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13 more to go...come on guys!!! |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"Let's just keep commenting to get this thread up to 175 please...so boring!!"
We can always start a new one then and the cheaters can come up with the same rehashed excuses |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd meet her.... why wouldn't u? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let's just keep commenting to get this thread up to 175 please...so boring!!
We can always start a new one then and the cheaters can come up with the same rehashed excuses "
Please carry on. I just won't make the same mistake of commenting and having to read the pretentious bullshit certain heavenly people spout... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let's just keep commenting to get this thread up to 175 please...so boring!!
We can always start a new one then and the cheaters can come up with the same rehashed excuses "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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9 more....lets end this shit!!! |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"Let's just keep commenting to get this thread up to 175 please...so boring!!
We can always start a new one then and the cheaters can come up with the same rehashed excuses
Please carry on. I just won't make the same mistake of commenting and having to read the pretentious bullshit certain heavenly people spout... "
Nothing pretentious about not wanting to meet cheaters
Maybe your wife is having a ganbang behind your back with all your buddies and her and your buddies are laughing their heads off. Bet that doesn't bother you |
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I meet married women for no strings fun
Everyone has a reason for being on this site and sometimes it's nice to sit and talk about their lives and be supportive of them as well as scratching that itch for them
I have helped save a few relationships with good advice too, helping to reignite things
So yes why the hell not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let's just keep commenting to get this thread up to 175 please...so boring!!
We can always start a new one then and the cheaters can come up with the same rehashed excuses
Please carry on. I just won't make the same mistake of commenting and having to read the pretentious bullshit certain heavenly people spout...
Nothing pretentious about not wanting to meet cheaters
Maybe your wife is having a ganbang behind your back with all your buddies and her and your buddies are laughing their heads off. Bet that doesn't bother you"
I'm sure he'd be fine with that haaa especially the other men laughing and getting off on fucking his wife!! But hey that's ok |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sssssshhhhh....just keep commenting...nearly there. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"I meet married women for no strings fun
Everyone has a reason for being on this site and sometimes it's nice to sit and talk about their lives and be supportive of them as well as scratching that itch for them
I have helped save a few relationships with good advice too, helping to reignite things
So yes why the hell not "
Nice one; so you are the FabS 'marriage counsellor'
So there we have it folks. Any women cheating on their husbands please book advance appointments to save their marriages by cheating |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"Let's just keep commenting to get this thread up to 175 please...so boring!!
We can always start a new one then and the cheaters can come up with the same rehashed excuses
Please carry on. I just won't make the same mistake of commenting and having to read the pretentious bullshit certain heavenly people spout...
Nothing pretentious about not wanting to meet cheaters
Maybe your wife is having a ganbang behind your back with all your buddies and her and your buddies are laughing their heads off. Bet that doesn't bother you
I'm sure he'd be fine with that haaa especially the other men laughing and getting off on fucking his wife!! But hey that's ok"
I bet his wife started cheating on him first. He is now just saving face by 'revenge cheating' |
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Oh no she used a semi colon !!!
She must know what she is talking about |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let's just keep commenting to get this thread up to 175 please...so boring!!
We can always start a new one then and the cheaters can come up with the same rehashed excuses
Please carry on. I just won't make the same mistake of commenting and having to read the pretentious bullshit certain heavenly people spout...
Nothing pretentious about not wanting to meet cheaters
Maybe your wife is having a ganbang behind your back with all your buddies and her and your buddies are laughing their heads off. Bet that doesn't bother you
I'm sure he'd be fine with that haaa especially the other men laughing and getting off on fucking his wife!! But hey that's ok
I bet his wife started cheating on him first. He is now just saving face by 'revenge cheating' "
You're wish is granted |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let's just keep commenting to get this thread up to 175 please...so boring!!
We can always start a new one then and the cheaters can come up with the same rehashed excuses
Please carry on. I just won't make the same mistake of commenting and having to read the pretentious bullshit certain heavenly people spout...
Nothing pretentious about not wanting to meet cheaters
Maybe your wife is having a ganbang behind your back with all your buddies and her and your buddies are laughing their heads off. Bet that doesn't bother you
I'm sure he'd be fine with that haaa especially the other men laughing and getting off on fucking his wife!! But hey that's ok
I bet his wife started cheating on him first. He is now just saving face by 'revenge cheating' "
maybe double dipping in his wife without even being aware shock horror imagine another guy putting his seed in there and actually sending her home being all proud to have marked her ?? |
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