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"Delete....don't like that shit x" Agreed. I don't need the hysterical wife turning up on my doorstep. And I don't want to be part of someone's heartbreak. | |||
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"It doesn't put us off as it depends on the person and their circumstances. " | |||
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"I am sorry but come on be real here most men on are either in relationships or married. It's highly likely the can not accommodate is due to that. Just saying before you all jump down my throat " See now I would think that is a fair comment, which is why I declare my hand on my profile- at least try to be honest from the start | |||
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"Depends on the situation. I like the idea of sending him home covered with my juices xxxx " Laying your scent | |||
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"I am sorry but come on be real here most men on are either in relationships or married. It's highly likely the can not accommodate is due to that. Just saying before you all jump down my throat See now I would think that is a fair comment, which is why I declare my hand on my profile- at least try to be honest from the start " Uh oh, you've muttered the H word.... | |||
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"I am sorry but come on be real here most men on are either in relationships or married. It's highly likely the can not accommodate is due to that. Just saying before you all jump down my throat See now I would think that is a fair comment, which is why I declare my hand on my profile- at least try to be honest from the start " And honestly I have and would if I liked the person. It's their life, way I see it to be honest Swinging is a way to escape the real world, fun and excitement to the extreme if we soo wish too. So we are all adults we all can make our own minds up for ourselves | |||
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"Depends on the situation. I like the idea of sending him home covered with my juices xxxx Laying your scent " I find it a big turn on x | |||
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"Depends on the situation. I like the idea of sending him home covered with my juices xxxx " you are my pin up fabstar of the day X | |||
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"Politely told we won't meet cheating married guys at all " | |||
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"Depends on the situation. I like the idea of sending him home covered with my juices xxxx Laying your scent I find it a big turn on x " Im sure someone's face would be well scented, particularly if they were a beardy like me | |||
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"I don't meet married men. And there are ways of working out if they are, even if they lie on their profile." I know exactly what you mean | |||
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"I don't meet married men. And there are ways of working out if they are, even if they lie on their profile. I know exactly what you mean " | |||
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"A question to ladies and couples- do you consider or delete instantly if a message comes from a married man?" I sometimes ask if he loves my profile. | |||
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"Depends on the situation. I like the idea of sending him home covered with my juices xxxx Laying your scent I find it a big turn on x " Knowingly do this because it turns you on to know his wife Is oblivious? You get off on that? | |||
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"As an openly married guy, i thought I'd just mention that the tone of this thread kinda implys that the single profile married guys are cheating. Sadly I'm sure some are but we aren't all like that. Me wife and I are very close, loving and affectionate yet happily play with others on our own " And that is fine and all else being equal, I would want proof that she knew before I did anything with him But the vast majority of married men here are not like you. And I will not be a party to her heartache, ever. I don't care what the 'circumstances' are | |||
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"i can barely get a meet being single, never mind being a cheating married man" | |||
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"Depends on the situation. I like the idea of sending him home covered with my juices xxxx Laying your scent I find it a big turn on x " How would you feel if you and your husband/partner weren't into the lifestyle and you found out hed cheated on you and the lady in question (just like you) knew about you and infact it was a huge turn on and she got off on the fact her scent was on his cock she enjoyed that and was kind of laughing ?? Funny? | |||
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"A persons marital status is their business, not mine. (I'm a cheating wife) " Yes I agree. But to actively go out and say it's a huge turn on to have sex with married men and leave your scent on them is in my eyes a different ball game , | |||
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"Why pick on the married man there are pleanty of cheating wife's on here as well ," The OP is a married man who asked. No difference if the wife is cheating instead | |||
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"A question to ladies and couples- do you consider or delete instantly if a message comes from a married man? I sometimes ask if he loves my profile." And block, usually after he's read the first line | |||
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"Depends on the situation. I like the idea of sending him home covered with my juices xxxx you are my pin up fabstar of the day X " Thank u love ur pics xxxx | |||
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"Depends on the situation. I like the idea of sending him home covered with my juices xxxx Laying your scent I find it a big turn on x " I find you a big turn on | |||
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"A persons marital status is their business, not mine. (I'm a cheating wife) Yes I agree. But to actively go out and say it's a huge turn on to have sex with married men and leave your scent on them is in my eyes a different ball game , " Guess everyone has there kinks , I have men and couple messaging and saying same sort of things to me about sending me home after and they just get deleted | |||
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"A persons marital status is their business, not mine. (I'm a cheating wife) Yes I agree. But to actively go out and say it's a huge turn on to have sex with married men and leave your scent on them is in my eyes a different ball game , Guess everyone has there kinks , I have men and couple messaging and saying same sort of things to me about sending me home after and they just get deleted " | |||
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"A question to ladies and couples- do you consider or delete instantly if a message comes from a married man?" A polite no, then delete and block from us. Not even for the fact that we don't want or need the drama. We just don't think it's fair on the persons other half. | |||
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"A question to ladies and couples- do you consider or delete instantly if a message comes from a married man?" unlike you not every man on here is as honest regarding their marital status, so its not always instantly possible to make such a decision | |||
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"A persons marital status is their business, not mine. (I'm a cheating wife) " | |||
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"Depends on the situation. I like the idea of sending him home covered with my juices xxxx Laying your scent I find it a big turn on x " Naughty! | |||
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"it tends to make them more discreet and play safe without thinking about it x" Yep they are safer! | |||
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"I don't meet married men. And there are ways of working out if they are, even if they lie on their profile." The same goes for married women and we won't meet either sex cheating on their partner. | |||
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"it tends to make them more discreet and play safe without thinking about it x Yep they are safer! " I would imagine fewer unwanted text messages etc | |||
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"it tends to make them more discreet and play safe without thinking about it x" | |||
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"i say this so often - you probably wouldnt know if wed or not -we played at clubs and didnt even get the name until after " | |||
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"Depends on the situation. I like the idea of sending him home covered with my juices xxxx " oooooh your naughty minx | |||
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"A persons marital status is their business, not mine. (I'm a cheating wife) Yes I agree. But to actively go out and say it's a huge turn on to have sex with married men and leave your scent on them is in my eyes a different ball game , " each to their own if its not your things then pass on by because lets be honest here your on a swinging site and most vanilla people will be appalled by that fact and question you about your personal sexuality and try to pass judgement on you based on your answers. would you like that some how I don't think so. so why are you doing that in this forum post. my advice to anyone is this if you have a axe to grind don't read a forum post that may made you feel the need to grind it as your causing drama for no reason apart from your own self interests . | |||
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"it tends to make them more discreet and play safe without thinking about it x " I've found the same too actually, it's only ever been single men who have tried to go bareback or anything like that. The married guys have been much more careful of their sexual health. | |||
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"A persons marital status is their business, not mine. (I'm a cheating wife) Yes I agree. But to actively go out and say it's a huge turn on to have sex with married men and leave your scent on them is in my eyes a different ball game , each to their own if its not your things then pass on by because lets be honest here your on a swinging site and most vanilla people will be appalled by that fact and question you about your personal sexuality and try to pass judgement on you based on your answers. would you like that some how I don't think so. so why are you doing that in this forum post. my advice to anyone is this if you have a axe to grind don't read a forum post that may made you feel the need to grind it as your causing drama for no reason apart from your own self interests . " She's hinted at her opinion, not been judge, jury and executioner, chill. | |||
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"A persons marital status is their business, not mine. (I'm a cheating wife) Yes I agree. But to actively go out and say it's a huge turn on to have sex with married men and leave your scent on them is in my eyes a different ball game , each to their own if its not your things then pass on by because lets be honest here your on a swinging site and most vanilla people will be appalled by that fact and question you about your personal sexuality and try to pass judgement on you based on your answers. would you like that some how I don't think so. so why are you doing that in this forum post. my advice to anyone is this if you have a axe to grind don't read a forum post that may made you feel the need to grind it as your causing drama for no reason apart from your own self interests . " The OP asked a question directed at women and couples. She gave her opinion. Axe to grind??? Take a chill-pill, man | |||
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"A persons marital status is their business, not mine. (I'm a cheating wife) Yes I agree. But to actively go out and say it's a huge turn on to have sex with married men and leave your scent on them is in my eyes a different ball game , each to their own if its not your things then pass on by because lets be honest here your on a swinging site and most vanilla people will be appalled by that fact and question you about your personal sexuality and try to pass judgement on you based on your answers. would you like that some how I don't think so. so why are you doing that in this forum post. my advice to anyone is this if you have a axe to grind don't read a forum post that may made you feel the need to grind it as your causing drama for no reason apart from your own self interests . " 1. I'm not vanilla and yes it's my opinion thankyou very much there is a difference in swinging with consent and cheating and a lady/man actively going out cheating or sleeping with married men women because they love leaving their scent. Mmmm nice cup of tea me thinks. Anyone ? | |||
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"Depends on the situation. I like the idea of sending him home covered with my juices xxxx Laying your scent I find it a big turn on x " See now that's just shit. | |||
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"Depends on the situation. I like the idea of sending him home covered with my juices xxxx Laying your scent I find it a big turn on x See now that's just shit. " That was what I was trying to say, | |||
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"A guys marital status doesn't bother me at all. " queue your mail box exploding 5 4 3 2 1 and their it goes filling up by the minute | |||
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"A question to ladies and couples- do you consider or delete instantly if a message comes from a married man?" Delete instantly. | |||
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"A guys marital status doesn't bother me at all. queue your mail box exploding 5 4 3 2 1 and their it goes filling up by the minute " Why would you say that ? | |||
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"A question to ladies and couples- do you consider or delete instantly if a message comes from a married man?" You should delete them. More chances for the single guys! | |||
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"Depends on the situation. I like the idea of sending him home covered with my juices xxxx Laying your scent I find it a big turn on x See now that's just shit. That was what I was trying to say, " If someone cheated on me the worst part would be feeling foolish, knowing that other people knew and were laughing behind my back. Oh and if I found a boyfriend after 7 years of being single and then he went and shagged some bird that knew about me and got off on that fact, the guys dick would be off and I'd be tracking that bitch with a pack of bloodhounds and once found I'd challenge her to a dual with her signing a clause that agreed to no police involvement afterwards, there that's what I'd do! | |||
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"A guys marital status doesn't bother me at all. queue your mail box exploding 5 4 3 2 1 and their it goes filling up by the minute Why would you say that ? " because despite popular believe its a well known fact that a high number of so called single guys who use these are far from single not all I might add but a fair few . I personally no 5 guys who regularly use this site for some extra fun as well as a very very popular local club who are married with children and knowingly omit that fact from their profiles and from any play partner . there attitude rightly or wrongly being this my own circumstances are my own business I'm not looking for anything more that some sexual fun so why is that of any importance to those I play with after all I don't ask any one I'm interested in having sex with about their home circumstances as I don't care . you'd be surprised by the conversations us guys have and share with our friends over a beer down the local when no woman are around . | |||
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"A guys marital status doesn't bother me at all. queue your mail box exploding 5 4 3 2 1 and their it goes filling up by the minute Why would you say that ? because despite popular believe its a well known fact that a high number of so called single guys who use these are far from single not all I might add but a fair few . I personally no 5 guys who regularly use this site for some extra fun as well as a very very popular local club who are married with children and knowingly omit that fact from their profiles and from any play partner . there attitude rightly or wrongly being this my own circumstances are my own business I'm not looking for anything more that some sexual fun so why is that of any importance to those I play with after all I don't ask any one I'm interested in having sex with about their home circumstances as I don't care . you'd be surprised by the conversations us guys have and share with our friends over a beer down the local when no woman are around . " Your point being? | |||
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"Depends on the situation. I like the idea of sending him home covered with my juices xxxx Laying your scent I find it a big turn on x See now that's just shit. That was what I was trying to say, If someone cheated on me the worst part would be feeling foolish, knowing that other people knew and were laughing behind my back. Oh and if I found a boyfriend after 7 years of being single and then he went and shagged some bird that knew about me and got off on that fact, the guys dick would be off and I'd be tracking that bitch with a pack of bloodhounds and once found I'd challenge her to a dual with her signing a clause that agreed to no police involvement afterwards, there that's what I'd do!" You do have a way with words but yes I'd find it insulting and hurtful you just don't do that shit to other woman ,, and I'm NOT talking about people attached who cheat that's none of my business my only tries was the post where the lady says she loves laying her scent it turns her on , almost taking the piss out of the persons gf or wife | |||
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"Depends on the situation. I like the idea of sending him home covered with my juices xxxx Laying your scent I find it a big turn on x See now that's just shit. That was what I was trying to say, If someone cheated on me the worst part would be feeling foolish, knowing that other people knew and were laughing behind my back. Oh and if I found a boyfriend after 7 years of being single and then he went and shagged some bird that knew about me and got off on that fact, the guys dick would be off and I'd be tracking that bitch with a pack of bloodhounds and once found I'd challenge her to a dual with her signing a clause that agreed to no police involvement afterwards, there that's what I'd do!" The bloodhounds can use her scent from his c*ck | |||
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"Depends on the situation. I like the idea of sending him home covered with my juices xxxx Laying your scent I find it a big turn on x See now that's just shit. That was what I was trying to say, If someone cheated on me the worst part would be feeling foolish, knowing that other people knew and were laughing behind my back. Oh and if I found a boyfriend after 7 years of being single and then he went and shagged some bird that knew about me and got off on that fact, the guys dick would be off and I'd be tracking that bitch with a pack of bloodhounds and once found I'd challenge her to a dual with her signing a clause that agreed to no police involvement afterwards, there that's what I'd do! The bloodhounds can use her scent from his c*ck " However people get their rocks off, there is only one person to blame when someone commits adultery - the cheater. | |||
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"A guys marital status doesn't bother me at all. queue your mail box exploding 5 4 3 2 1 and their it goes filling up by the minute Why would you say that ? because despite popular believe its a well known fact that a high number of so called single guys who use these are far from single not all I might add but a fair few . I personally no 5 guys who regularly use this site for some extra fun as well as a very very popular local club who are married with children and knowingly omit that fact from their profiles and from any play partner . there attitude rightly or wrongly being this my own circumstances are my own business I'm not looking for anything more that some sexual fun so why is that of any importance to those I play with after all I don't ask any one I'm interested in having sex with about their home circumstances as I don't care . you'd be surprised by the conversations us guys have and share with our friends over a beer down the local when no woman are around . Your point being? " By the very fact she is not going to judge such guys means there are going to be attracted to her . I personally have been called many names in my time on these types of site by those with a axe to grind over what's stated in my profile it is what it is I'm a big boy I can handle that but to think its only woman who suffer abuse is a bit short sighted . So a couple or a single fern who doesn't judge those playing away from home as a no no is going to be more popular with married guys those who admit it and those who don't this fact means they will get more attention than those who are not interested . That's the point of the tongue in cheek post . | |||
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"I don't meet married men. And there are ways of working out if they are, even if they lie on their profile." Can you teach me how to work it out please? | |||
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"A guys marital status doesn't bother me at all. queue your mail box exploding 5 4 3 2 1 and their it goes filling up by the minute Why would you say that ? because despite popular believe its a well known fact that a high number of so called single guys who use these are far from single not all I might add but a fair few . I personally no 5 guys who regularly use this site for some extra fun as well as a very very popular local club who are married with children and knowingly omit that fact from their profiles and from any play partner . there attitude rightly or wrongly being this my own circumstances are my own business I'm not looking for anything more that some sexual fun so why is that of any importance to those I play with after all I don't ask any one I'm interested in having sex with about their home circumstances as I don't care . you'd be surprised by the conversations us guys have and share with our friends over a beer down the local when no woman are around . Your point being? By the very fact she is not going to judge such guys means there are going to be attracted to her . I personally have been called many names in my time on these types of site by those with a axe to grind over what's stated in my profile it is what it is I'm a big boy I can handle that but to think its only woman who suffer abuse is a bit short sighted . So a couple or a single fern who doesn't judge those playing away from home as a no no is going to be more popular with married guys those who admit it and those who don't this fact means they will get more attention than those who are not interested . That's the point of the tongue in cheek post ." I think your missing my point. I'm not judging anyone as I've said each to their own. My only 'axe to grind ' (as you put it) was the comment about sending a man home with her juices all over his cock and it turns her on sounded to me a little like she actively looks for men with partners as she gets off on humiliating his unaware partner. Bit cruel in my eyes | |||
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"Depends on the situation. I like the idea of sending him home covered with my juices xxxx Laying your scent I find it a big turn on x See now that's just shit. That was what I was trying to say, If someone cheated on me the worst part would be feeling foolish, knowing that other people knew and were laughing behind my back. Oh and if I found a boyfriend after 7 years of being single and then he went and shagged some bird that knew about me and got off on that fact, the guys dick would be off and I'd be tracking that bitch with a pack of bloodhounds and once found I'd challenge her to a dual with her signing a clause that agreed to no police involvement afterwards, there that's what I'd do! The bloodhounds can use her scent from his c*ck However people get their rocks off, there is only one person to blame when someone commits adultery - the cheater." I completely agree I just don't want to be the woman he does his cheating with. I wouldn't want to be cheated on and although would not blame the other woman, will wonder what kind of a woman she is | |||
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"I don't meet married men. And there are ways of working out if they are, even if they lie on their profile. Can you teach me how to work it out please?" You want to meet men but want to avoid married men? | |||
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"We don't meet married guys.We don't judge at all.Everyone has reasons I guess.But personally for me I can't. Xxmiss " This for us aswell. Miss | |||
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"I don't meet married men. And there are ways of working out if they are, even if they lie on their profile. Can you teach me how to work it out please? You want to meet men but want to avoid married men?" | |||
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"I reckon the replies would of been different, if it was a woman lol." Too darn right!!!! | |||
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"I reckon the replies would of been different, if it was a woman lol. Too darn right!!!! " Yes, that is right | |||
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"A guys marital status doesn't bother me at all. queue your mail box exploding 5 4 3 2 1 and their it goes filling up by the minute Why would you say that ? because despite popular believe its a well known fact that a high number of so called single guys who use these are far from single not all I might add but a fair few . I personally no 5 guys who regularly use this site for some extra fun as well as a very very popular local club who are married with children and knowingly omit that fact from their profiles and from any play partner . there attitude rightly or wrongly being this my own circumstances are my own business I'm not looking for anything more that some sexual fun so why is that of any importance to those I play with after all I don't ask any one I'm interested in having sex with about their home circumstances as I don't care . you'd be surprised by the conversations us guys have and share with our friends over a beer down the local when no woman are around . Your point being? By the very fact she is not going to judge such guys means there are going to be attracted to her . I personally have been called many names in my time on these types of site by those with a axe to grind over what's stated in my profile it is what it is I'm a big boy I can handle that but to think its only woman who suffer abuse is a bit short sighted . So a couple or a single fern who doesn't judge those playing away from home as a no no is going to be more popular with married guys those who admit it and those who don't this fact means they will get more attention than those who are not interested . That's the point of the tongue in cheek post . I think your missing my point. I'm not judging anyone as I've said each to their own. My only 'axe to grind ' (as you put it) was the comment about sending a man home with her juices all over his cock and it turns her on sounded to me a little like she actively looks for men with partners as she gets off on humiliating his unaware partner. Bit cruel in my eyes " Yes in your eyes you don't have to voice that though all you have to do is move on that way you cause no drama or discomfort to her over her kink. If your appalled by that you will be very appalled by this I once had regular fun with a submissive fern who loved me to call her degrading names link to the fact I was married she even loved it when I made sure she could see my wedding ring while I was saying certain thing to her and while I was going certain things to her . It was her kink it turned her on who was I to judge her or pass a opinion on it it was just fantasy a turn her kink not a true reflection of her as a human being . Just like that woman's kink is nothing more than that something that turns her on so to you its sick or very off putting toilet play has the same effect on me but I'd never dream of expressing that to those who enjoy that form of play I'd just walk on by and only offer positive advice on how to go about finding that sort of fun in a forum post about that subject . | |||
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"A guys marital status doesn't bother me at all. queue your mail box exploding 5 4 3 2 1 and their it goes filling up by the minute Why would you say that ? because despite popular believe its a well known fact that a high number of so called single guys who use these are far from single not all I might add but a fair few . I personally no 5 guys who regularly use this site for some extra fun as well as a very very popular local club who are married with children and knowingly omit that fact from their profiles and from any play partner . there attitude rightly or wrongly being this my own circumstances are my own business I'm not looking for anything more that some sexual fun so why is that of any importance to those I play with after all I don't ask any one I'm interested in having sex with about their home circumstances as I don't care . you'd be surprised by the conversations us guys have and share with our friends over a beer down the local when no woman are around . Your point being? By the very fact she is not going to judge such guys means there are going to be attracted to her . I personally have been called many names in my time on these types of site by those with a axe to grind over what's stated in my profile it is what it is I'm a big boy I can handle that but to think its only woman who suffer abuse is a bit short sighted . So a couple or a single fern who doesn't judge those playing away from home as a no no is going to be more popular with married guys those who admit it and those who don't this fact means they will get more attention than those who are not interested . That's the point of the tongue in cheek post . I think your missing my point. I'm not judging anyone as I've said each to their own. My only 'axe to grind ' (as you put it) was the comment about sending a man home with her juices all over his cock and it turns her on sounded to me a little like she actively looks for men with partners as she gets off on humiliating his unaware partner. Bit cruel in my eyes Yes in your eyes you don't have to voice that though all you have to do is move on that way you cause no drama or discomfort to her over her kink. If your appalled by that you will be very appalled by this I once had regular fun with a submissive fern who loved me to call her degrading names link to the fact I was married she even loved it when I made sure she could see my wedding ring while I was saying certain thing to her and while I was going certain things to her . It was her kink it turned her on who was I to judge her or pass a opinion on it it was just fantasy a turn her kink not a true reflection of her as a human being . Just like that woman's kink is nothing more than that something that turns her on so to you its sick or very off putting toilet play has the same effect on me but I'd never dream of expressing that to those who enjoy that form of play I'd just walk on by and only offer positive advice on how to go about finding that sort of fun in a forum post about that subject ." I wonder what your wife's 'kink' will be when she finds out Chop it orf, deep fry and feed it to the dog? | |||
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"A guys marital status doesn't bother me at all. queue your mail box exploding 5 4 3 2 1 and their it goes filling up by the minute Why would you say that ? because despite popular believe its a well known fact that a high number of so called single guys who use these are far from single not all I might add but a fair few . I personally no 5 guys who regularly use this site for some extra fun as well as a very very popular local club who are married with children and knowingly omit that fact from their profiles and from any play partner . there attitude rightly or wrongly being this my own circumstances are my own business I'm not looking for anything more that some sexual fun so why is that of any importance to those I play with after all I don't ask any one I'm interested in having sex with about their home circumstances as I don't care . you'd be surprised by the conversations us guys have and share with our friends over a beer down the local when no woman are around . Your point being? By the very fact she is not going to judge such guys means there are going to be attracted to her . I personally have been called many names in my time on these types of site by those with a axe to grind over what's stated in my profile it is what it is I'm a big boy I can handle that but to think its only woman who suffer abuse is a bit short sighted . So a couple or a single fern who doesn't judge those playing away from home as a no no is going to be more popular with married guys those who admit it and those who don't this fact means they will get more attention than those who are not interested . That's the point of the tongue in cheek post . I think your missing my point. I'm not judging anyone as I've said each to their own. My only 'axe to grind ' (as you put it) was the comment about sending a man home with her juices all over his cock and it turns her on sounded to me a little like she actively looks for men with partners as she gets off on humiliating his unaware partner. Bit cruel in my eyes Yes in your eyes you don't have to voice that though all you have to do is move on that way you cause no drama or discomfort to her over her kink. If your appalled by that you will be very appalled by this I once had regular fun with a submissive fern who loved me to call her degrading names link to the fact I was married she even loved it when I made sure she could see my wedding ring while I was saying certain thing to her and while I was going certain things to her . It was her kink it turned her on who was I to judge her or pass a opinion on it it was just fantasy a turn her kink not a true reflection of her as a human being . Just like that woman's kink is nothing more than that something that turns her on so to you its sick or very off putting toilet play has the same effect on me but I'd never dream of expressing that to those who enjoy that form of play I'd just walk on by and only offer positive advice on how to go about finding that sort of fun in a forum post about that subject ." Being fetish or into bdsm etc is not a comparison , I'm actively involved in bdsm and have many fetishes. Just my opinion on something in my eyes is ethically wrong to actively go with married men as you enjoy humiliating their partner. | |||
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"Hi, why is there so many replies to the married guys thread than the married ladies thread, folk don't mind ladies playing away but object to gents doing the same? Jim " Maybe because one has been running since yesterday and the other was posted half an hour ago? | |||
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"Hi, why is there so many replies to the married guys thread than the married ladies thread, folk don't mind ladies playing away but object to gents doing the same? Jim Maybe because one has been running since yesterday and the other was posted half an hour ago? " Stop bringing logic to the table. This is the forum. You can't have forgotten that?? | |||
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"Hi, why is there so many replies to the married guys thread than the married ladies thread, folk don't mind ladies playing away but object to gents doing the same? Jim Maybe because one has been running since yesterday and the other was posted half an hour ago? Stop bringing logic to the table. This is the forum. You can't have forgotten that?? " Yeah, I too thought that it was a 'silly' explanation | |||
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"I reckon the replies would of been different, if it was a woman lol." Not at all i dont care how sexy she is if a womans cheating we want no part of it i understand that people will say "your swingers shagging other people get of your high horse" but what we do is with 100% knowledge and backing of each other we both want more and sex is sex what matters in love is respect, trust and honesty and we wont knowingly be part of that kind of deception | |||
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"A question to ladies and couples- do you consider or delete instantly if a message comes from a married man?" I treat it as I would any other message since I'm not a hypocrite - my response depends on the content and profile | |||
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"Hi, why is there so many replies to the married guys thread than the married ladies thread, folk don't mind ladies playing away but object to gents doing the same? Jim " I didn't see the 'married women' thread but our post earlier in this thread says we won't meet either sex if they're cheating on a partner and it's not hard to work out which singles aren't really single...We're not stupid and the signs are always there. | |||
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"I get sob stories all the time from married men. Frankly it bores me, I'm not entertaining a married guy when there are so many lovely single ones usually in better shape and fun." Some lie so much that they finally look like complete idiots Met one in a club; second time, asked him to invite me over; can't do that as he is in a sexless marriage; 'the' wife went orf sex some 20 years ago; he has a 10 year old daughter! Long pregancy? | |||
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"it tends to make them more discreet and play safe without thinking about it x " Especially if the wife knows where he's going Some men / ladies also play with permission. | |||
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"it tends to make them more discreet and play safe without thinking about it x Especially if the wife knows where he's going Some men / ladies also play with permission. " I dont seem to have a problem however my oh gets the not meeting you you are married responses. | |||
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"I see it as no married people should be on this site without their partners. So if I meet a guy that's says he's single and has a single profile, sorry but that's not me cheating..that's all on him! People can't have ago and beat the other woman, because in most cases the other woman doesn't know "her date / her man" is actually married. I wish everyone one this site was honest, but they're not! It's not logical to treat all fab single guys as cheats. So where do I go from there? How am I meant to know that fab guy I click with really is single? So far I've been avoiding all guys who house share. That's for privacy mainly but what happens if he genuinely is single and I've knocked back a really nice guy that I could of gone to a hotel with (for that privacy)?" I wish people were honest about their age, height & with their photos but that's not always the case. It's the chance you take when meeting off internet sites, you'll never be 100% sure that others are telling the truth. Only you can decide if it's worth the hassle to be on here. | |||
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"I see it as no married people should be on this site without their partners. So if I meet a guy that's says he's single and has a single profile, sorry but that's not me cheating..that's all on him! People can't have ago and beat the other woman, because in most cases the other woman doesn't know "her date / her man" is actually married. I wish everyone one this site was honest, but they're not! It's not logical to treat all fab single guys as cheats. So where do I go from there? How am I meant to know that fab guy I click with really is single? So far I've been avoiding all guys who house share. That's for privacy mainly but what happens if he genuinely is single and I've knocked back a really nice guy that I could of gone to a hotel with (for that privacy)? I wish people were honest about their age, height & with their photos but that's not always the case. It's the chance you take when meeting off internet sites, you'll never be 100% sure that others are telling the truth. Only you can decide if it's worth the hassle to be on here. " It is. Which is why I always do socials only. A quick drink in public even for an hour wouldn't hurt anyone. Yet can provide a person with a lot of info. First example whether I feel comfortable around them, attraction, see if they're married and see first hand without pressure whether they look like their pics etc. Been on a lot of socials where the guy looks little like his "recent pics". I just finish my drink and politely leave. Only wasted an hour of my time and the price of one drink. | |||
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"I see it as no married people should be on this site without their partners. So if I meet a guy that's says he's single and has a single profile, sorry but that's not me cheating..that's all on him! People can't have ago and beat the other woman, because in most cases the other woman doesn't know "her date / her man" is actually married. I wish everyone one this site was honest, but they're not! It's not logical to treat all fab single guys as cheats. So where do I go from there? How am I meant to know that fab guy I click with really is single? So far I've been avoiding all guys who house share. That's for privacy mainly but what happens if he genuinely is single and I've knocked back a really nice guy that I could of gone to a hotel with (for that privacy)? I wish people were honest about their age, height & with their photos but that's not always the case. It's the chance you take when meeting off internet sites, you'll never be 100% sure that others are telling the truth. Only you can decide if it's worth the hassle to be on here. It is. Which is why I always do socials only. A quick drink in public even for an hour wouldn't hurt anyone. Yet can provide a person with a lot of info. First example whether I feel comfortable around them, attraction, see if they're married and see first hand without pressure whether they look like their pics etc. Been on a lot of socials where the guy looks little like his "recent pics". I just finish my drink and politely leave. Only wasted an hour of my time and the price of one drink. " Socials only first! Lol sorry. | |||
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"Depends on the situation. I like the idea of sending him home covered with my juices xxxx Laying your scent I find it a big turn on x See now that's just shit. That was what I was trying to say, If someone cheated on me the worst part would be feeling foolish, knowing that other people knew and were laughing behind my back. Oh and if I found a boyfriend after 7 years of being single and then he went and shagged some bird that knew about me and got off on that fact, the guys dick would be off and I'd be tracking that bitch with a pack of bloodhounds and once found I'd challenge her to a dual with her signing a clause that agreed to no police involvement afterwards, there that's what I'd do!" I like you | |||
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"it tends to make them more discreet and play safe without thinking about it x Especially if the wife knows where he's going Some men / ladies also play with permission. I dont seem to have a problem however my oh gets the not meeting you you are married responses. " I totally get that, I've had it previously, been told I'm lying that I have permission. | |||
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"I see it as no married people should be on this site without their partners. So if I meet a guy that's says he's single and has a single profile, sorry but that's not me cheating..that's all on him! People can't have ago and beat the other woman, because in most cases the other woman doesn't know "her date / her man" is actually married. I wish everyone one this site was honest, but they're not! It's not logical to treat all fab single guys as cheats. So where do I go from there? How am I meant to know that fab guy I click with really is single? So far I've been avoiding all guys who house share. That's for privacy mainly but what happens if he genuinely is single and I've knocked back a really nice guy that I could of gone to a hotel with (for that privacy)? I wish people were honest about their age, height & with their photos but that's not always the case. It's the chance you take when meeting off internet sites, you'll never be 100% sure that others are telling the truth. Only you can decide if it's worth the hassle to be on here. " I'm getting the impression from this thread that lots of Single Guy profiles 'stretch' the truth. I must be massively naive. Mine is completely honest. It HAS to be. As my wife and I enjoy the benefits of an open marriage, I absolutely can't afford to mislead anyone as any meets I have are completely free to contact Wifey. She also has total access to my logon when ever she wants. When I was on a previous site, she always looked at the profile and messages of any Ladies I was to meet. | |||
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"Married men turn me on. I get off on the fact theyre choosing to fuck me rather than their wife. For most given the choice theyd choose their wife, it's generally why they don't leave them you're just a convience until the wife's available " If theyve gone out of their way to sneak around then i would exactly say its convenient. Especially when their wife is at home... | |||
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"Married men turn me on. I get off on the fact theyre choosing to fuck me rather than their wife. For most given the choice theyd choose their wife, it's generally why they don't leave them you're just a convience until the wife's available If theyve gone out of their way to sneak around then i would exactly say its convenient. Especially when their wife is at home..." Generally why most wait til she's working not much invonvienent sneaking required then | |||
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"Married men turn me on. I get off on the fact theyre choosing to fuck me rather than their wife. " As well as not instead of | |||
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"Married men turn me on. I get off on the fact theyre choosing to fuck me rather than their wife. For most given the choice theyd choose their wife, it's generally why they don't leave them you're just a convience until the wife's available If theyve gone out of their way to sneak around then i would exactly say its convenient. Especially when their wife is at home... Generally why most wait til she's working not much invonvienent sneaking required then " Most. Not all. I prefer the ones willing to take a little more risk. | |||
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"Married men turn me on. I get off on the fact theyre choosing to fuck me rather than their wife. As well as not instead of" Well of course. But at that moment its me theyre lusting after. | |||
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"Married men turn me on. I get off on the fact theyre choosing to fuck me rather than their wife. For most given the choice theyd choose their wife, it's generally why they don't leave them you're just a convience until the wife's available If theyve gone out of their way to sneak around then i would exactly say its convenient. Especially when their wife is at home... Generally why most wait til she's working not much invonvienent sneaking required then Most. Not all. I prefer the ones willing to take a little more risk. " That's your kink, that's fine, but sheer fact is you're no better than the wife you just believe otherwise as it suits your sentiments more | |||
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"Married men turn me on. I get off on the fact theyre choosing to fuck me rather than their wife. For most given the choice theyd choose their wife, it's generally why they don't leave them you're just a convience until the wife's available If theyve gone out of their way to sneak around then i would exactly say its convenient. Especially when their wife is at home... Generally why most wait til she's working not much invonvienent sneaking required then Most. Not all. I prefer the ones willing to take a little more risk. That's your kink, that's fine, but sheer fact is you're no better than the wife you just believe otherwise as it suits your sentiments more " I disagree. If they wanted to just stay at home and fuck the wife they would... | |||
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"Married men turn me on. I get off on the fact theyre choosing to fuck me rather than their wife. For most given the choice theyd choose their wife, it's generally why they don't leave them you're just a convience until the wife's available If theyve gone out of their way to sneak around then i would exactly say its convenient. Especially when their wife is at home... Generally why most wait til she's working not much invonvienent sneaking required then Most. Not all. I prefer the ones willing to take a little more risk. That's your kink, that's fine, but sheer fact is you're no better than the wife you just believe otherwise as it suits your sentiments more I disagree. If they wanted to just stay at home and fuck the wife they would... " WTF!! Seriously | |||
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"Married men turn me on. I get off on the fact theyre choosing to fuck me rather than their wife. " Maybe it's because you have no morals ? | |||
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"Married men turn me on. I get off on the fact theyre choosing to fuck me rather than their wife. For most given the choice theyd choose their wife, it's generally why they don't leave them you're just a convience until the wife's available If theyve gone out of their way to sneak around then i would exactly say its convenient. Especially when their wife is at home... Generally why most wait til she's working not much invonvienent sneaking required then Most. Not all. I prefer the ones willing to take a little more risk. That's your kink, that's fine, but sheer fact is you're no better than the wife you just believe otherwise as it suits your sentiments more I disagree. If they wanted to just stay at home and fuck the wife they would... WTF!! Seriously " Yes. Its of no concern to others what i get off on tbf. | |||
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"Married men turn me on. I get off on the fact theyre choosing to fuck me rather than their wife. For most given the choice theyd choose their wife, it's generally why they don't leave them you're just a convience until the wife's available If theyve gone out of their way to sneak around then i would exactly say its convenient. Especially when their wife is at home... Generally why most wait til she's working not much invonvienent sneaking required then Most. Not all. I prefer the ones willing to take a little more risk. That's your kink, that's fine, but sheer fact is you're no better than the wife you just believe otherwise as it suits your sentiments more I disagree. If they wanted to just stay at home and fuck the wife they would... " If she's putting out that is, there's plenty of reasons why she may not be at that moment in time, and if she's not your just someone to fill the time between sessions with her. It's that old saying if they aren't getting it at home their getting it elsewhere, you're just elsewhere | |||
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"Married men turn me on. I get off on the fact theyre choosing to fuck me rather than their wife. Maybe it's because you have no morals ?" I do have morals. Just not the same as other people. I like what i like. | |||
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"Married men turn me on. I get off on the fact theyre choosing to fuck me rather than their wife. For most given the choice theyd choose their wife, it's generally why they don't leave them you're just a convience until the wife's available If theyve gone out of their way to sneak around then i would exactly say its convenient. Especially when their wife is at home... Generally why most wait til she's working not much invonvienent sneaking required then Most. Not all. I prefer the ones willing to take a little more risk. That's your kink, that's fine, but sheer fact is you're no better than the wife you just believe otherwise as it suits your sentiments more I disagree. If they wanted to just stay at home and fuck the wife they would... If she's putting out that is, there's plenty of reasons why she may not be at that moment in time, and if she's not your just someone to fill the time between sessions with her. It's that old saying if they aren't getting it at home their getting it elsewhere, you're just elsewhere " Either way i still get a kick so it doesnt really matter to me what the wifey is or isnt doing | |||
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"Married men turn me on. I get off on the fact theyre choosing to fuck me rather than their wife. For most given the choice theyd choose their wife, it's generally why they don't leave them you're just a convience until the wife's available If theyve gone out of their way to sneak around then i would exactly say its convenient. Especially when their wife is at home... Generally why most wait til she's working not much invonvienent sneaking required then Most. Not all. I prefer the ones willing to take a little more risk. That's your kink, that's fine, but sheer fact is you're no better than the wife you just believe otherwise as it suits your sentiments more I disagree. If they wanted to just stay at home and fuck the wife they would... " To a guy like that, the bit on the side is marginally better than two 'Value' steaks from Tesco. He will never go on vacation or invite her around at a party he throws or anything which lets his dirty little secret out | |||
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"Married men turn me on. I get off on the fact theyre choosing to fuck me rather than their wife. For most given the choice theyd choose their wife, it's generally why they don't leave them you're just a convience until the wife's available If theyve gone out of their way to sneak around then i would exactly say its convenient. Especially when their wife is at home... Generally why most wait til she's working not much invonvienent sneaking required then Most. Not all. I prefer the ones willing to take a little more risk. That's your kink, that's fine, but sheer fact is you're no better than the wife you just believe otherwise as it suits your sentiments more I disagree. If they wanted to just stay at home and fuck the wife they would... To a guy like that, the bit on the side is marginally better than two 'Value' steaks from Tesco. He will never go on vacation or invite her around at a party he throws or anything which lets his dirty little secret out" | |||
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"Married men turn me on. I get off on the fact theyre choosing to fuck me rather than their wife. For most given the choice theyd choose their wife, it's generally why they don't leave them you're just a convience until the wife's available If theyve gone out of their way to sneak around then i would exactly say its convenient. Especially when their wife is at home... Generally why most wait til she's working not much invonvienent sneaking required then Most. Not all. I prefer the ones willing to take a little more risk. That's your kink, that's fine, but sheer fact is you're no better than the wife you just believe otherwise as it suits your sentiments more I disagree. If they wanted to just stay at home and fuck the wife they would... To a guy like that, the bit on the side is marginally better than two 'Value' steaks from Tesco. He will never go on vacation or invite her around at a party he throws or anything which lets his dirty little secret out" True even to the ones playing with the wife's permission you're still the value steaks in comparison, the wife/family will always come first | |||
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"Married men turn me on. I get off on the fact theyre choosing to fuck me rather than their wife. For most given the choice theyd choose their wife, it's generally why they don't leave them you're just a convience until the wife's available If theyve gone out of their way to sneak around then i would exactly say its convenient. Especially when their wife is at home... Generally why most wait til she's working not much invonvienent sneaking required then Most. Not all. I prefer the ones willing to take a little more risk. That's your kink, that's fine, but sheer fact is you're no better than the wife you just believe otherwise as it suits your sentiments more I disagree. If they wanted to just stay at home and fuck the wife they would... To a guy like that, the bit on the side is marginally better than two 'Value' steaks from Tesco. He will never go on vacation or invite her around at a party he throws or anything which lets his dirty little secret out" Good. Id rather not go to parties or on holiday. Im here for the fucking. | |||
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"Tbh it's not the single fem that's doing the cheacting here " put the responsibility in the right place, with the attached person not the single person. | |||
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