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By *-and-K OP Couple
over a year ago
Back of Beyond |
How many of you get friend invites and no other contact at all?
Seems we get our fair share like this. But the worst of it is, if you send them a message they don't reply!
We wouldn't dream of sending an invite without an accompanying message. Even moreso we always follow up with messages in following days.
Thinking about it, ALL of our (couples) meets here in the last 4 years have been from us making the 1st move! Not one meeting has been from others contacting us.
All in all a bit one sided huh? Its hard going at times and no wonder Katee has been talking of kicking the whole shebang into touch. |
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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago
A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love |
We get them all the time even tho we have this on our profile.
PLEASE DON'T SEND FRIENDS INVITES AS WE DON'T ADD ANY ONE TO OUR FRIENDS LIST TILL WE HAVE MET FROM NOW ON.
We just delete them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeh we get them a lot we have said we are going to block people for doing it as they obviously do not read the profile...
So far I have blocked about 30 peeps due to adding as a friend and to be honest I am enjoying blocking them!
If they either can't be arsed to read the profile or think they are something special that we will "drop any or all of our rules" for just them then they deserve to be blocked   |
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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago
near bury st edmunds |
We have just taken that message off our profile as its dont mate one bit of difference, they simply dont read it lol. Dont bother me so much, but every now and then drives me mad. Have to say most of our meets are now from our local swingers club hotel rather than Fab, as fab can be hard work lol.
Chin up as they say in the uk ., xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have just taken that message off our profile as its dont mate one bit of difference, they simply dont read it lol. Dont bother me so much, but every now and then drives me mad. Have to say most of our meets are now from our local swingers club hotel rather than Fab, as fab can be hard work lol.
Chin up as they say in the uk ., xxx"
I did it purely to see how many would chance their hand it shows how many pic collectors are out there - it is better that they are blocked some do email and send a friends request but for the most part it has stopped time-wasters/pic collectors emailing us with the usual crap they come out with to try to get a look at our pics - its all good here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thinking about it, ALL of our (couples) meets here in the last 4 years have been from us making the 1st move! Not one meeting has been from others contacting us. "
Nearly all of our meets have been initiated by us, well me actually, lol, but then again, I've never been afraid to ask if I want something  and I don't see anything wrong with that.
Occaisionally, and it's very occaisionally, we do get an approach from other couples. Some work out ok, some don't, but that's the name of the game
We're on a break at the moment, family stuff, but we'll be back, that's for sure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most of our friends invites have come from fellow forumites. We've met a lot of them too.
We haven't had many unsolicited invites though, just a couple that I can recall. |
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