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i am startimg to notice there are tooo many women on here now starting to look for relationships and i do not believe they are swingers. the words in there profiel give it away, it is starting to annoy me as they are trying to use thius a a free dating site i believe than using it as a nsa fun swinging site. I'm just wondering if anybody else have started to notice this.
The whole pount t o me of swinging is we all ahve fun and no atatchments.  |
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Don't contact them if you don't want to, simple really! Why let something like that bother you, do you not want people on the site who don't want to meet but love the chat etc? Get a grip man and stop whining! Z |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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I dont _iew ladies profiles so cant speak much for ladies on herelooking to date and find a relationship. Not sure it would work as she meets a man and has sex and then that man is gonna want to meet another lady and so forth so swinging and not dating. She would then be on the wrong site.
Use myself as an example, I have been on dating sites the past few years but nothing has ever come of it as I like to have multiple partners(and ladies)and its a bit hard to list on those sites swinging as a hobby.
I wouldnt use and dont use this aite to date and look for a future relationship, I use the dating sites for that but this works for me fine as I love to swing and meet new people and dating doesnt give me that as it is exclusive un less he swings too and then your swingin together and not dating.....I know what I mean!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i am startimg to notice there are tooo many women on here now starting to look for relationships and i do not believe they are swingers. the words in there profiel give it away, it is starting to annoy me as they are trying to use thius a a free dating site i believe than using it as a nsa fun swinging site. I'm just wondering if anybody else have started to notice this.
The whole pount t o me of swinging is we all ahve fun and no atatchments. "
we find it funny how the same old women on the circuit up here are offered to us(probably without their knowledge) by their many fuckbuddies who all more than likely beleive they too are the only ones  |
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By *eaboMan
over a year ago
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i am noticing there are far too many people on here too. How very dare they join a niche site catering for the open minded. Especially when all they want to do is have sex, i'm sorry but that shows an appalling lack of moral fibre and self control. Surely sex once a year, and only in order to concieve a child is enough for any stable, self respecting person. I am shocked and horrified by what i have seen on this site, shocked and horrified.
yours.
Shocked and horrified of kent |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I think it's really nice when you hear of people meeting on here and becoming a couple... wish them well and lots of happiness.
I think it's really sad when you hear of people meeting on here and becoming a couple... for either finanacial gain, a meal ticket, somewhere to live, employment, weekends away, holidays etc etc etc... wish them well too, they may need luck more  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i am startimg to notice there are tooo many women on here now starting to look for relationships and i do not believe they are swingers. the words in there profiel give it away, it is starting to annoy me as they are trying to use thius a a free dating site i believe than using it as a nsa fun swinging site. I'm just wondering if anybody else have started to notice this.
The whole pount t o me of swinging is we all ahve fun and no atatchments. "
What words in their profiles give it away please?
Was it where I said I had BOUGHT THE DRESS AND BOOKED THE CHURCH ? |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"i am startimg to notice there are tooo many women on here now starting to look for relationships and i do not believe they are swingers. the words in there profiel give it away, it is starting to annoy me as they are trying to use thius a a free dating site i believe than using it as a nsa fun swinging site. I'm just wondering if anybody else have started to notice this.
The whole pount t o me of swinging is we all ahve fun and no atatchments. "
What words do they use? |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"i am startimg to notice there are tooo many women on here now starting to look for relationships and i do not believe they are swingers. the words in there profiel give it away, it is starting to annoy me as they are trying to use thius a a free dating site i believe than using it as a nsa fun swinging site. I'm just wondering if anybody else have started to notice this.
The whole pount t o me of swinging is we all ahve fun and no atatchments.
What words do they use?"
marry me !!!!!!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i am startimg to notice there are tooo many women on here now starting to look for relationships and i do not believe they are swingers. the words in there profiel give it away, it is starting to annoy me as they are trying to use thius a a free dating site i believe than using it as a nsa fun swinging site. I'm just wondering if anybody else have started to notice this.
The whole pount t o me of swinging is we all ahve fun and no atatchments. "
Arn't there loads of free dating sites..??? |
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"i am startimg to notice there are tooo many women on here now starting to look for relationships and i do not believe they are swingers. the words in there profiel give it away, it is starting to annoy me as they are trying to use thius a a free dating site i believe than using it as a nsa fun swinging site. I'm just wondering if anybody else have started to notice this.
The whole pount t o me of swinging is we all ahve fun and no atatchments.
What words in their profiles give it away please?
Was it where I said I had BOUGHT THE DRESS AND BOOKED THE CHURCH ?"
is that what the small print says in the pm you send out |
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What words do they use?"
Looking for a hub (hub), I just broke up (up)
I'm doing my own little thing
You asked me to dip (dip), but then you want to trip (trip)
And hope another brother noticed me
I'm up on here(here), you pm me (me)
Don't pay most any attention
Cause I cried my tears (tears), for three good years (years)
Who is gonna pay my bills
Cause if you liked it then you gotta put a ring on it
If you liked it then you gotta put a ring on it
I ain't given it away just coz you want it
If you liked it then you gotta put a ring on it
oh oh ohh oh oh ohhhh oh oh ohhh
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Don't treat me like I’m in this swinging world
I'm not that kind of girl
Your love is what I prefer, what I deserve
I need a man that dates me then takes me
And delivers me to a destiny, at the registry and beyond
To a reception at the County Arms
Say I'm the one you want
If you don't, you'll be alone
And like your cash, I'll be gone
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People use this site for their own reasons, whether that is for swinging, as a dating site or a married and cheating site, good luck to them we say, and who cares as long as they’re being upfront about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i am startimg to notice there are tooo many women on here now starting to look for relationships and i do not believe they are swingers. the words in there profiel give it away, it is starting to annoy me as they are trying to use thius a a free dating site i believe than using it as a nsa fun swinging site. I'm just wondering if anybody else have started to notice this.
The whole pount t o me of swinging is we all ahve fun and no atatchments. "
Could say the same about the men, they seem to be much needier than i ever believed!!! And really what other people do on here is their business surely, if you can tell from their profiles then stay clear of them ...simple |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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Could say the same about the men, they seem to be much needier than i ever believed!!! And really what other people do on here is their business surely, if you can tell from their profiles then stay clear of them ...simple"
You are of course spot on..
and thats the ways it should be..
however, too often the breakup ( when it comes, and many times it does )becomes a public slagging match in chat, the forums... their friends are often expected to take sides and all hell is let loose when sides are taken.
It spills over into socials where you can often cut the atmosphere with a knife between warring parties
but you are right, it should remain private. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i meet my bf of here and no we both wasnt looking for an relationship,but cant help the way we feel about each other .we now swing together  "
This is so wrong on many levels. SPLIT UP IMMEDIATELY. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i meet my bf of here and no we both wasnt looking for an relationship,but cant help the way we feel about each other .we now swing together
This is so wrong on many levels. SPLIT UP IMMEDIATELY. "
cant be wrong when feels so right and good lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i know of at least 2 men that are looking for relationships rather than a random fuck.
It is their choice. Where would swingers go to meet other people that are looking for a relationship, thats hobbies include swinging? |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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Well bloody good luck to them......
Personally I wouldnt get serious with some guy I had met on a site like this...I would never trust him lol
IF you dont like someones profile why complain about it???? Move on to next one......
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We've been accused of looking for "dates" because we prefer a meet to be initially
social. Also had lots of guys looking to fuck right away. Might be what some people are after, others like to get to know a person - doesn't mean the've set a date and booked the honeymoon. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would never actively go seeking or expect to meet someone on a swingers site that I would want to form a "relationship" with. I'd join one of those many FREE dating sites around. However, if any ladies feel the need to use this as a dating site, why not? it's surely up to each individual...and if they are happy dating a man who wishes to have sex with others, then who are we to say it is not right....just my tuppence worth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a single girl I would rather meet in an open place for a coffee or a pint a date if you like than invite someone straight back to my place if only for safety reasons. And yes I am open to the idea of a relationship with another swinger because I dont think I could give it up and be in a totally straight relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well i message some of my non swingerable friends that know I swing, i tell them fab isnt just about swinging(in the sense of 3somes etc) but also about casual encounters just as 1on1 fun too.Difference is we are a birt more open than the other free sites(which I have used waywayway back in the past..before i found fab(yAy)-BUT, the women looking for relationships will eventually tire of "want my cock inside u 2nite!" msgs lol |
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Its maybe a problem because they get in the way of him cheating on his wife, what with wanting a relationship, they just arn't going to be happy when he runs off to wifey at the end of the night!!!
I'm jumping to conclusions because in my experience men of a certain age, that cannot accommodate and require discretion arn't usually worried about upsetting the deaf old granny they live with. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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When I met my OH he was of a certain age and living back with his mother after going through a divorce and before he managed to get a place of his own.
A family member has just divorced and can't afford a place of his own as he is paying for the family home so is lodging in a friend and his wifes place, so he couldn't accomodate if he was playing these games.
It does show that not everyone is a lying cheat. |
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"When I met my OH he was of a certain age and living back with his mother after going through a divorce and before he managed to get a place of his own.
A family member has just divorced and can't afford a place of his own as he is paying for the family home so is lodging in a friend and his wifes place, so he couldn't accomodate if he was playing these games.
It does show that not everyone is a lying cheat."
Which is why I said in my experience, and didn't say everybody is a lying cheat because of their age, and their ability to accommodate. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"When I met my OH he was of a certain age and living back with his mother after going through a divorce and before he managed to get a place of his own.
A family member has just divorced and can't afford a place of his own as he is paying for the family home so is lodging in a friend and his wifes place, so he couldn't accomodate if he was playing these games.
It does show that not everyone is a lying cheat.
Which is why I said in my experience, and didn't say everybody is a lying cheat because of their age, and their ability to accommodate. "
I don't believe I said you did say that. |
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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago
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I met Larry on a similar site and met up with him at a social. Never in a million years did I expect to end up married to him, have his child and move from Glasgow to Germany then back to England with him.
Who are you to judge what people do on this or any other swinging/sex sites? Don't like the profile? Then click on to the next one .... every happy |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"Sigh...how hard is it really, to ignore profiles that don't interest you? I don't get it! "
I don't believe the problem is when you see the profile and have the choice to ignore or not... it tends to be after you've met up, made a connection, had a good time, and then one party starts gettign jealous and making (subtle or obvious) threats to other people that show interest (as swingers do). Words like:
"I thought I was enough for you".
"Do you have to play with everyone you get on with?"
"Can't you just play with only me when we go out?"
Or, after the deed is done, you get that "You selfish bastid, You went to play with someone else when am here" look. You don't always see that on a profile (or the future) when you initially contact. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sigh...how hard is it really, to ignore profiles that don't interest you? I don't get it!
I don't believe the problem is when you see the profile and have the choice to ignore or not... it tends to be after you've met up, made a connection, had a good time, and then one party starts gettign jealous and making (subtle or obvious) threats to other people that show interest (as swingers do). Words like:
"I thought I was enough for you".
"Do you have to play with everyone you get on with?"
"Can't you just play with only me when we go out?"
Or, after the deed is done, you get that "You selfish bastid, You went to play with someone else when am here" look. You don't always see that on a profile (or the future) when you initially contact."
you nailed it there |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"Sigh...how hard is it really, to ignore profiles that don't interest you? I don't get it!
I don't believe the problem is when you see the profile and have the choice to ignore or not... it tends to be after you've met up, made a connection, had a good time, and then one party starts gettign jealous and making (subtle or obvious) threats to other people that show interest (as swingers do). Words like:
"I thought I was enough for you".
"Do you have to play with everyone you get on with?"
"Can't you just play with only me when we go out?"
Or, after the deed is done, you get that "You selfish bastid, You went to play with someone else when am here" look. You don't always see that on a profile (or the future) when you initially contact.
you nailed it there "
Having been on the receiving end, and people start staying away from you "because of your partner", its not nice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sigh...how hard is it really, to ignore profiles that don't interest you? I don't get it!
I don't believe the problem is when you see the profile and have the choice to ignore or not... it tends to be after you've met up, made a connection, had a good time, and then one party starts gettign jealous and making (subtle or obvious) threats to other people that show interest (as swingers do). Words like:
"I thought I was enough for you".
"Do you have to play with everyone you get on with?"
"Can't you just play with only me when we go out?"
Or, after the deed is done, you get that "You selfish bastid, You went to play with someone else when am here" look. You don't always see that on a profile (or the future) when you initially contact."
All that maybe true, however I was referring to the OP where he mentions the wording on the profiles NOT about meeting! |
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over a year ago
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What a weird outlook from the OP.
Swinging to us is a state of mind, an open attitude.
We met as singles & fell for each other.
It was so easy with no secrets or hidden surprises & the friends we've made are just the same.
When we meet people who are on the same page as us, it's such a thrill.
If it was just all about sex, we have each other.
Good luck to all the swinging singles who find their soul mates, best friends & lovers.
It doesn't matter where you trip over them, it's the fact you did that's important. X. |
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It's not a female thing.The fact is there are any number of people on swinging sites who are looking to swinging to fix problems in their life.
To repeat kev's excellent advice,only meet those who are happy with who they are and where they are at .
But if two happy swingers meet ,fall in love and go live in a thatched cottage with roses round the door,good on them i say.We never know where we might find love.i wasn't expecting to find the love of my life in the second week at uni! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Plenty of men doing the same thing...
and cynical little mee wonders if they are doing it as a hook....."
Possibly, and with me and many others it's the way to send me running for the hills - backfire or what. But some do want more and start to behave in a way that's quite unpleasant to deal with. Then of course there are the ones who don't want a relationship but nor do they want you to have anything to do with anyone else and that's just an ego thing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if people are looking for a relationship then so be it but personally im not
and if someone messages me saying looking for fun and see where it goes it wont get a reply from me
ive had one stalker don't need another |
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But if two happy swingers meet ,fall in love and go live in a thatched cottage with roses round the door,good on them i say.We never know where we might find love.i wasn't expecting to find the love of my life in the second week at uni!"
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nods emphatically! Two years on the site, having a brill time, totally happy with all aspects of my life (except the ongoing health issues), a close group of swinging friends to have a blast with, a small group of regular playmates and new ones whenever the urge took me.....and then I got blindsided by a hairy glaswegian.
I certainly wasn't looking for a permanent relationship. I've lived happily alone for most of my adult life and never looked to altering that...but hey ho...I've never been happier.
Still, there have been people I've met during the three years I've been swinging who have been looking for life partners...that's not to say that they _iewed every playmate as a prospective partner, more that they hoped they may eventually meet someone who would turn into something more than just a playmate. And why not? When I was younger most of my friends initially met their future spouses in pubs/clubs or at work.....no way they went there specifically looking to fall in love. So I don't see the swinging world as being anything different. |
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But if two happy swingers meet ,fall in love and go live in a thatched cottage with roses round the door,good on them i say.We never know where we might find love.i wasn't expecting to find the love of my life in the second week at uni!-
nods emphatically! Two years on the site, having a brill time, totally happy with all aspects of my life (except the ongoing health issues), a close group of swinging friends to have a blast with, a small group of regular playmates and new ones whenever the urge took me.....and then I got blindsided by a hairy glaswegian.
I certainly wasn't looking for a permanent relationship. I've lived happily alone for most of my adult life and never looked to altering that...but hey ho...I've never been happier.
Still, there have been people I've met during the three years I've been swinging who have been looking for life partners...that's not to say that they _iewed every playmate as a prospective partner, more that they hoped they may eventually meet someone who would turn into something more than just a playmate. And why not? When I was younger most of my friends initially met their future spouses in pubs/clubs or at work.....no way they went there specifically looking to fall in love. So I don't see the swinging world as being anything different."
Ahhh i love a story with a happy ending!
i also like hairy men (no backs tho) |
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I think the more that people try and define where "we" are in groups, the more alone we become, can't this be just a fab site for fab people of all persuasions hun?????, hugz to you all, mwah, xxxxxxxx  |
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"I think the more that people try and define where "we" are in groups, the more alone we become, can't this be just a fab site for fab people of all persuasions hun?????, hugz to you all, mwah, xxxxxxxx "
Well said ruby,as i say,i'm not a swinger,i'm a slut.i don't know the rules of swinging |
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"I think the more that people try and define where "we" are in groups, the more alone we become, can't this be just a fab site for fab people of all persuasions hun?????, hugz to you all, mwah, xxxxxxxx "
yep...agree totally ruby. I don't see why we all have to fit in boxes (I'd need a bloody big box  ) It seems to me that there is room enough for everyone, whatever anyone is looking for, and if you come across someone who doesn't fit what you're looking for...well it's so easy to just walk on by. Happy swinging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i met my last bf on a similar site - neither of us looking but if you find it you not going to throw it away surely - would have missed out on the best 3 years of my life if we had ignored what was happening |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I met Larry on a similar site and met up with him at a social. Never in a million years did I expect to end up married to him, have his child and move from Glasgow to Germany then back to England with him.
Who are you to judge what people do on this or any other swinging/sex sites? Don't like the profile? Then click on to the next one .... every happy "
i met my ex through here and lived with her for a year, i never imagined that either...but the looking for relationship types are the ones who seem to judge those who prefer the casual sex attitude of most of us here, reading some of the profilesi just laugh n move on!-its more about the requirement of looking for the relationship that gets me, while i hope never to wish anyone no luck in finding someone, it is a swinging site and these expectations of some really dont fit here in my opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"pmsl paddy.
where in Germany, behind the Iron curtain, deucheland!! deaucheland!!
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looks like horsey has just learned about forums...I never mentioned Germany Lil did lol |
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I'd be curious about the 'wording' too... intriguing!
I'm a fussy bugger so have a list as long as my arm on what I'm looking for but generally I bend on some things... my list is long because I know what I like. I don't want to keep anyone though... I just want to have some fun and then put them back! 
However, if someone reads my profile and doesn't contact me because they think I want to marry them then they've not wasted their time or mine. Job done! I like people who want to take the time to get to know what's behind the rather fussy list! If that's asking too much then it's not really anyone else's lookout other than mine. I don't go short (except in height) so it works for me.
It can and does happen, I'm not sure it's the place I'd go looking for a relationship but I imagine when you go looking for a relationship of any sort you're unlikely to find it. I have this romantic notion that love finds you. Whether that's right or not, who knows but there has to be a time when you sit back and just let other people get on with what they have to do and mind your own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd love a swinging gf again lol-just as long as we swung together and had total trust.I doubt I could entirely leave the swinging world, but if it meant only chatting/perving on the site I can and have done that, however this is just how I feel now...who knows what will come later eh! |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"I think anyone looking for a relationship should join match.com
This is a site designed purely for the getting off of rocks.
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I'll be back to this reply when i work out a way of answering this post that doesn't get me banned.......
it might take me quite a while..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think anyone looking for a relationship should join match.com
This is a site designed purely for the getting off of rocks.
End
Like mountain rescue?"
Kinky
I like it |
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over a year ago
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"I think anyone looking for a relationship should join match.com
This is a site designed purely for the getting off of rocks.
End
I'll be back to this reply when i work out a way of answering this post that doesn't get me banned.......
it might take me quite a while..... "
OK but be gentle...i am a sensitive soul.
In all honesty though...it is what i believe |
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"I think anyone looking for a relationship should join match.com
This is a site designed purely for the getting off of rocks.
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Like mountain rescue?
Kinky
I like it"
I am sure you would.... but you have to understand it first. |
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"I think anyone looking for a relationship should join match.com
This is a site designed purely for the getting off of rocks.
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I'll be back to this reply when i work out a way of answering this post that doesn't get me banned.......
it might take me quite a while.....
OK but be gentle...i am a sensitive soul.
In all honesty though...it is what i believe"
Where should swingers go to find a relationship with another swinger? |
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Where should swingers go to find a relationship with another swinger?"
asking for ur hand in marriage now,we met on a swinging forum and fell in love with eachothers typings we can tell our friends etc lol |
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Where should swingers go to find a relationship with another swinger?
asking for ur hand in marriage now,we met on a swinging forum and fell in love with eachothers typings we can tell our friends etc lol"
Again with the words in the correct order please. |
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over a year ago
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this is a swinging site yes.
but relations can form through swinging,
you just have too have an
open mind and what will be will be.
like someone said if you are into swinging and you find a partner that is into it aswell, then surely that is a match made in heaven.
well my heaven anyway, lol xx |
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Where should swingers go to find a relationship with another swinger?
asking for ur hand in marriage now,we met on a swinging forum and fell in love with eachothers typings we can tell our friends etc lol
Again with the words in the correct order please."
we met on a swinging forum, I asked you to marry me and we then tell everyone how we met. -read it backwards if u like it in broken english! hehe |
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"I think anyone looking for a relationship should join match.com
This is a site designed purely for the getting off of rocks.
End
I'll be back to this reply when i work out a way of answering this post that doesn't get me banned.......
it might take me quite a while.....
OK but be gentle...i am a sensitive soul.
In all honesty though...it is what i believe
Where should swingers go to find a relationship with another swinger?"
Go to match.com and under interests i assume you tick 'swinging'
This is a fuck site |
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we met on a swinging forum, I asked you to marry me and we then tell everyone how we met. "
You're a bit previous with the proposal, but I'll bare you in mind.
Still not sure why it's meant to be funny though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is a fuck site
Really?
Really really
Have you 'fucked' as a result of you being on this site?
I rest my case m'lud
You haven't got a case to rest my friend, it's barely a plasic bag."
ooOOOOOoooo
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This is a fuck site
Really?
Really really
Have you 'fucked' as a result of you being on this site?
I rest my case m'lud
You haven't got a case to rest my friend, it's barely a plasic bag.
ooOOOOOoooo
Nice way of avoiding the question though."
Yes I have. I have also fucked as a result of being on a bus... your point is? |
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This is a fuck site
Really?
Really really
Have you 'fucked' as a result of you being on this site?
I rest my case m'lud
You haven't got a case to rest my friend, it's barely a plasic bag.
ooOOOOOoooo
Nice way of avoiding the question though.
Yes I have. I have also fucked as a result of being on a bus... your point is?"
Did the bus have a sign on it saying 'fuckbus'?
My point is...its pretty clear what this site is about. You can fuck as a result of anything (buses, supermarkets, nightclubs) but this site is specifically about swinging...sex is a major part of swinging is it not? Or do you just meet up for coffee? |
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this just gets better, swinging is not just about fucking.
it is about a freedom too express yourself without any hang ups.
too be able too do as you please, when you please,
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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Go to match.com and under interests i assume you tick 'swinging'
This is a fuck site "
I am still trying to come up with a reply by the way... but i think I am going to go away for an hour because you are not helping my levels of annoyance and anger right now...
and since it is only 1.45 and my long weekend.. i am going to have some alcohol |
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This is a fuck site
Really?
Really really
Have you 'fucked' as a result of you being on this site?
I rest my case m'lud
You haven't got a case to rest my friend, it's barely a plasic bag.
ooOOOOOoooo
Nice way of avoiding the question though.
Yes I have. I have also fucked as a result of being on a bus... your point is?
Did the bus have a sign on it saying 'fuckbus'?
My point is...its pretty clear what this site is about. You can fuck as a result of anything (buses, supermarkets, nightclubs) but this site is specifically about swinging...sex is a major part of swinging is it not? Or do you just meet up for coffee?"
Now you are changing your angle aren't you.
'major part of swinging' is not the same is 'is a fuck site'.
From the guy who will happily add people as a friend even if they clearly stated on their profile they are not interested in meeting anyone
Ahhh ya can't help but love the moment the brain wakes up and wonders what the fuck the fingers have been typing.
Happy swinging. |
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Ok...can i ask everyone...why did you get into swinging? Was it to meet new people? make new friends? Bollocks...sorry...just being honest.
SEX is the first and foremost thing about it, the friends and social side of it come as a by product of the meeting for sex aspect.
Sorry |
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By (user no longer on site)
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This is a fuck site
Really?
Really really
Have you 'fucked' as a result of you being on this site?
I rest my case m'lud
You haven't got a case to rest my friend, it's barely a plasic bag.
ooOOOOOoooo
Nice way of avoiding the question though.
Yes I have. I have also fucked as a result of being on a bus... your point is?
Did the bus have a sign on it saying 'fuckbus'?
My point is...its pretty clear what this site is about. You can fuck as a result of anything (buses, supermarkets, nightclubs) but this site is specifically about swinging...sex is a major part of swinging is it not? Or do you just meet up for coffee?
Now you are changing your angle aren't you.
'major part of swinging' is not the same is 'is a fuck site'.
From the guy who will happily add people as a friend even if they clearly stated on their profile they are not interested in meeting anyone
Ahhh ya can't help but love the moment the brain wakes up and wonders what the fuck the fingers have been typing.
Happy swinging."
Is this your idea of 'ripping me to bits'?
Blimey...please tell me that's not it. I was espcting to be left shrivelled in the corner a jibbering wreck of a man after being torn to pieces by wit and intellect.
I still stand by my case..people go on this site to get their rocks off. Not changing my angle at all. |
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I still stand by my case..people go on this site to get their rocks off. Not changing my angle at all."
As you should. It lets everyone know where you stand on it and then allows them to make a choice on whether to meet you or not. |
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We met on a different site 18 months ago, I was down as a single female and had no intentions of looking for a relationship. We met once the sex was incredible and we got on really well and the rest is history! We decided not to swing at first to see how the relationship went. We have not starting swinging again and are very happy with it!
Sometimes things just happen when youre not even after a relationship |
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We met on a different site 18 months ago, I was down as a single female and had no intentions of looking for a relationship. We met once the sex was incredible and we got on really well and the rest is history! We decided not to swing at first to see how the relationship went. We have not starting swinging again and are very happy with it!
Sometimes things just happen when youre not even after a relationship |
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I still stand by my case..people go on this site to get their rocks off. Not changing my angle at all.
As you should. It lets everyone know where you stand on it and then allows them to make a choice on whether to meet you or not. "
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I still stand by my case..people go on this site to get their rocks off. Not changing my angle at all.
As you should. It lets everyone know where you stand on it and then allows them to make a choice on whether to meet you or not.
Thankyou "
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"i am startimg to notice there are tooo many women on here now starting to look for relationships and i do not believe they are swingers. the words in there profiel give it away, it is starting to annoy me as they are trying to use thius a a free dating site i believe than using it as a nsa fun swinging site. I'm just wondering if anybody else have started to notice this.
The whole pount t o me of swinging is we all ahve fun and no atatchments. "
You can only find what is available so if its not on offer its not going to happen. The point in swinging is?? well its different for everyone isn't it so live n let live. |
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I still stand by my case..people go on this site to get their rocks off. Not changing my angle at all.
As you should. It lets everyone know where you stand on it and then allows them to make a choice on whether to meet you or not.
Thankyou
Whooooooooooooosh! "
lol
Double whoooosssshhh! |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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Go to match.com and under interests i assume you tick 'swinging'
This is a fuck site
I am still trying to come up with a reply by the way... but i think I am going to go away for an hour because you are not helping my levels of annoyance and anger right now...
and since it is only 1.45 and my long weekend.. i am going to have some alcohol"
Alcohol already fabs? |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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Alcohol already fabs?"
unfortunately yes... I am really trying to think of ways of expressing what utter tripe is being spewed.. but if i really let rip on what I really think I'd get myself banned.....
I suppose in the end people and judged by there words and there actually so I may just point people in the direction of this thread and let them make up their own minds..... |
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Alcohol already fabs?
unfortunately yes... I am really trying to think of ways of expressing what utter tripe is being spewed.. but if i really let rip on what I really think I'd get myself banned.....
I suppose in the end people and judged by there words and there actually so I may just point people in the direction of this thread and let them make up their own minds....."
Dude...chill....they are only words! Everyone can have differences of opinion.
Also feel free to let rip. My skin is quite thick...i can take a hell of a beating..oooerrr! |
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Alcohol already fabs?
unfortunately yes... I am really trying to think of ways of expressing what utter tripe is being spewed.. but if i really let rip on what I really think I'd get myself banned.....
I suppose in the end people and judged by there words and there actually so I may just point people in the direction of this thread and let them make up their own minds....."
I am sure thats what everyone does anyway Fabio. You can lead a horse to water but you cannot make it drink.
I have seen far more outrageous statements elsewhere on the forums, than any that have been said on this thread. |
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I still stand by my case..people go on this site to get their rocks off. Not changing my angle at all.
As you should. It lets everyone know where you stand on it and then allows them to make a choice on whether to meet you or not.
Thankyou
Whooooooooooooosh!
lol
Double whoooosssshhh!"
Glad you're getting the hang of it now! |
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I still stand by my case..people go on this site to get their rocks off. Not changing my angle at all.
As you should. It lets everyone know where you stand on it and then allows them to make a choice on whether to meet you or not.
Thankyou
Whooooooooooooosh!
lol
Double whoooosssshhh!
Glad you're getting the hang of it now! "
I'm just so misunderstood!
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I'm just so misunderstood!
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I understand your _iewpoint perfectly. if you say thats your experience of the website I also accept that. So if you get acceptance of your _iewpoint then you have to accept that others experiences may be different to yours so just be open to the diversity as well as maintaining your own opinions is what others are saying.
You may find further down the line you experience something different. Or not either way you reap what you sow. |
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Just as some people join this site and are looking for a relationship with someone for a high sex drive, others join a dating site to find someone to fuck.
Each to thier own, and heres hoping that they get what they wish for in the end |
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"this just gets better, swinging is not just about fucking.
it is about a freedom too express yourself without any hang ups.
too be able too do as you please, when you please,
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Totally agree x |
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