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respect or pushy

By *azmalc OP Couple over a year ago

derby

wanted to know y do the men who show respect to the women often get left out in favor of a pushy man who only cares about himself

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By *he_original_poloWoman over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Do they? How do you mean?

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By *nvictusMan over a year ago

Beeston

I guess it's a bit of a fine line, I hate being pushy but I also realise that sometimes I'm far too chilled out and relaxed.

This is especially true at clubs I guess.

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By *azmalc OP Couple over a year ago

derby

in most clubs its the pushy men who get most of the fun the real gents just get pushed out of way and cpls let them get away with it

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By *andy muncherMan over a year ago

Nottingham

"I guess it's a bit of a fine line, I hate being pushy but I also realise that sometimes I'm far too chilled out and relaxed.

This is especially true at clubs I guess. "
would say the same for myself sometimes hi maz and mac long time no see

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"in most clubs its the pushy men who get most of the fun the real gents just get pushed out of way and cpls let them get away with it "

I wouldnt agree there.. if a guy shows no respect he would not get near me.. only the guys I want get near anyway..

Katie. x

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By *he_original_poloWoman over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"in most clubs its the pushy men who get most of the fun the real gents just get pushed out of way and cpls let them get away with it "

Get away with it or is it what those couples want?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Pushy...one man's pushy...is another man's assertive Alpha male...??????

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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I suppose it depends on what the couples want, if they like pushy men then why not? They may think of it as them taking charge?

For us it would be a big fat no, as I can't stand pushy men.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think us 'respectful' blokes soon learn the time and place to be assertive, or forward.

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By *nvictusMan over a year ago

Beeston

I'll stick with my non-pushy but confident beta male approach I reckon.

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By *andy muncherMan over a year ago

Nottingham

"I'll stick with my non-pushy but confident beta male approach I reckon.

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you snake in the grass

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By *nvictusMan over a year ago

Beeston

"I'll stick with my non-pushy but confident beta male approach I reckon.

you snake in the grass

sssssssssssssssssss!

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By *andy muncherMan over a year ago

Nottingham

"I'll stick with my non-pushy but confident beta male approach I reckon.

you snake in the grass

sssssssssssssssssss! "

wheres that snake eating monkey when you need him

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'll stick with my non-pushy but confident beta male approach I reckon.

Your quite capable of taking the upper hand when needed to..

Katie. x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
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I don't take any notice of what other couples are doing and how they pick or choose the men they want to play with,I expect they're happy with their choices or else they would'nt choose to play with these men

The men I play with are respectful when they need to be and then as bad as I want them to be

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do know what the OP is trying to say though. I have been in a club when a woman has been playing with a few guys in the jacuzzi and other males have got in and started touching her. Its difficult for her to really know whats going on when theres a few guys involved and her head's thrown back in ecstacy. Some guys do that that if a woman is playing with a few guys, it means that its ok for everyone to have a go.

I never play with more than 2 guys and one of those is my partner, so its easier to notice the deadly single males gliding through the water like a bloody speed boat to get to a woman. You really just have to say a very loud and firm no.

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By *nvictusMan over a year ago

Beeston

"I'll stick with my non-pushy but confident beta male approach I reckon.

Your quite capable of taking the upper hand when needed to..

Katie. x"

Whatever you say dear...

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By *roovytwoCouple over a year ago

burnley

"in most clubs its the pushy men who get most of the fun the real gents just get pushed out of way and cpls let them get away with it "

The overtly pushy guys just turn us off and if we do choose to play with another male then not being pushy is a big tick.Being polite,respectful and being able to talk easily with are important to us as well.

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