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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I am not sure if I am in the minority on here but when someone contacts me and I am not interested in pursuing it further I do like to think I deal with it in a polite and non abusive fashion.
Today, even I have been shocked by a response to an introductory email I sent replying "No thx, too ugly!"
Mainly I am shocked that I mailed someone who uses text speak which I am not fluent in! Also that they felt there was no need to be rude and call me ugly!!!! lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had a guy contact us who couldn't accomodate (neither can we), and also sent a friends invite, these we don't accept until after meeting although happy to exchange face pics. Explained both of these things in a message and his reply was F*** OFF, how very charming. Would have blocked him but he'd already blocked us!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are some really rude people on here but thankfully they are outnumbered by polite, respectful non pushy people. I've had quite a few racist comments because I like black men and sometimes even if I do send a polite 'no thanks' I get reams of abuse telling me I think I'm too nice! Just laugh at the rude ones and don't give up. You're not ugly at all! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh I just ignore the rude messages.. well the nasty rude ones.. as some rude messages I like..
oh
oh....
erm.. I know what I mean..
Anyway, must dash.. want to speak to a delightful Domme lady about her techiniques in case I need them later..
Mwah haha..
Katie. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Best to think of such messages as self fulfilling blocks and just ignore them.
I would be tempted to report that one if it was unprovoked as you say. "
We did report him, we are always polite and maybe naive enough to think everyone else is. We were brought up to treat people how you would like to be treated yourself, not like that these days sadly. |
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"Oh I just ignore the rude messages.. well the nasty rude ones.. as some rude messages I like..
oh
oh....
erm.. I know what I mean..
Anyway, must dash.. want to speak to a delightful Domme lady about her techiniques in case I need them later..
Mwah haha..
Katie. x"
Sounds like some poor buggers in for it tonight then. 
...is it Wednesday? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think some people possibly get more attention online than they would in the outside world so build themselves a bit of a god complex and as such, feel they can be rude.
Although the only time someones ever been abusive towards me, I just thought well at least I found out they were a bit of a bitch before it was too late.
Either way, I wouldnt lose sleep over it. |
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"There are some really rude people on here but thankfully they are outnumbered by polite, respectful non pushy people. I've had quite a few racist comments because I like black men and sometimes even if I do send a polite 'no thanks' I get reams of abuse telling me I think I'm too nice! Just laugh at the rude ones and don't give up. You're not ugly at all! X"
the ones that call others ugly and send abusive messages are usually fat and ugly and think women on here are just pieces of meat.
your far from ugly, smoking more like 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That's a new approach to a look at me thread!
Nice one "
Just to be clear this was not a "look at me" thread, don't think I need to do that lol
Does every post started by a single male have to be one of those? |
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"That's a new approach to a look at me thread!
Nice one
Just to be clear this was not a "look at me" thread, don't think I need to do that lol
Does every post started by a single male have to be one of those? "
no but its get like they think were all in need of attention and looking for meets not thinking but maybe we just want to be friends  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""No thx, too ugly!"
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See if that was me I'd have to concede on the 'ugly' but the text speak is unforgivable
Invictus. How was that. Am I getting the hang of it? |
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""No thx, too ugly!"
See if that was me I'd have to concede on the 'ugly' but the text speak is unforgivable
Invictus. How was that. Am I getting the hang of it? "
yes but brother you hide behind your mask god please do not show yourself  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's a new approach to a look at me thread!
Nice one
Just to be clear this was not a "look at me" thread, don't think I need to do that lol
Does every post started by a single male have to be one of those? "
I don't think it's compulsory but it seems to work out that way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""No thx, too ugly!"
See if that was me I'd have to concede on the 'ugly' but the text speak is unforgivable
Invictus. How was that. Am I getting the hang of it?
yes but brother you hide behind your mask god please do not show yourself "
Fear not Marcus Aurelius Biggus Laddius. I would not inflict such calumny on the citizens Fabdinium. Besides I would really f**k up my chances of a meet |
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""No thx, too ugly!"
See if that was me I'd have to concede on the 'ugly' but the text speak is unforgivable
Invictus. How was that. Am I getting the hang of it?
yes but brother you hide behind your mask god please do not show yourself
Fear not Marcus Aurelius Biggus Laddius. I would not inflict such calumny on the citizens Fabdinium. Besides I would really f**k up my chances of a meet "
ok brother but please keep yourself to to the late nights on the forums and early mornings, daytimes could be a very bad idea we dont want you hunted down and shot stay in the shadows |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some of us don't even have to mail anyone to get rude emails. I received one from a random stranger that simply told me I was 'a dog'. Pretty clever of him to deduce that considering I don't post face pics publicly.
Fair do's I am a dog... but I could win best in the show....... |
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"Some of us don't even have to mail anyone to get rude emails. I received one from a random stranger that simply told me I was 'a dog'. Pretty clever of him to deduce that considering I don't post face pics publicly.
Fair do's I am a dog... but I could win best in the show....... "
agree again another of way of saying this is were mongrels in some peeps eyes and pedigree s in another its the way the world is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am not sure if I am in the minority on here but when someone contacts me and I am not interested in pursuing it further I do like to think I deal with it in a polite and non abusive fashion.
Today, even I have been shocked by a response to an introductory email I sent replying "No thx, too ugly!"
Mainly I am shocked that I mailed someone who uses text speak which I am not fluent in! Also that they felt there was no need to be rude and call me ugly!!!! lol "
If someone thinks you are ugly then they are entitled to think that. If they use it as an explanation then you have to respect their honesty. Is it rude? Well some will say yes others just brutally honest, however to post contents of personal messages is breaking the rules so maybe its you who is out of order. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some of us don't even have to mail anyone to get rude emails. I received one from a random stranger that simply told me I was 'a dog'. Pretty clever of him to deduce that considering I don't post face pics publicly.
Fair do's I am a dog... but I could win best in the show....... "
I may concede to being ugly to some folk, but as mentioned above, the text spiel was unforgivable! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If someone thinks you are ugly then they are entitled to think that. If they use it as an explanation then you have to respect their honesty. Is it rude? Well some will say yes others just brutally honest, however to post contents of personal messages is breaking the rules so maybe its you who is out of order. "
I hope all of these "brutually honest" people look like Jennifer Aniston or George Clooney. It is bloody rude to say someone is ugly regardless of if they are being honest - cheeky gits.
And on the point of the look at me type of thing, is OP really the only single guy that does that, a quick look in the Lounge tells me not....
I dont see a problem with look at me threads, we are all here to promote ourselves and its all good fun, I personally like them.
Do I think the OP is ugly - err errr let me think, ah hell lets just be honest, he's absolutely gorgeous |
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"That's a new approach to a look at me thread!
Nice one
Just to be clear this was not a "look at me" thread, don't think I need to do that lol
Does every post started by a single male have to be one of those? "
I was only a joke. I do them all the time anyway so what can I say.
Despite that you will get looked at a lot more now if you post on the forums more. Just forget the message, block them and move on. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"That's a new approach to a look at me thread!
Nice one "
say the man of 1,000 arse pics!!!!!
back to topic..... okay... if they are that rude at least you found out at that point...
if you had known they were that rude before, would you still want to meet them???
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"That's a new approach to a look at me thread!
Nice one
say the man of 1,000 arse pics!!!!!
back to topic..... okay... if they are that rude at least you found out at that point...
if you had known they were that rude before, would you still want to meet them???
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Guilty as charged.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That's a new approach to a look at me thread!
Nice one
say the man of 1,000 arse pics!!!!!
back to topic..... okay... if they are that rude at least you found out at that point...
if you had known they were that rude before, would you still want to meet them???
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You always have a very level headed response Fabio, i tip my hat to you!
And you are right, wouldn't be interested in meeting anyone that rude. Or someone that uses text speak on an email. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That's a new approach to a look at me thread!
Nice one
Just to be clear this was not a "look at me" thread, don't think I need to do that lol
Does every post started by a single male have to be one of those?
I was only a joke. I do them all the time anyway so what can I say.
Despite that you will get looked at a lot more now if you post on the forums more. Just forget the message, block them and move on. "
I think you meant to say it was only a joke, but what you wrote is even funnier as you've said "I was only a joke"
Nice that you are honest hehe |
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""No thx, too ugly!"
See if that was me I'd have to concede on the 'ugly' but the text speak is unforgivable
Invictus. How was that. Am I getting the hang of it?
yes but brother you hide behind your mask god please do not show yourself
Fear not Marcus Aurelius Biggus Laddius. I would not inflict such calumny on the citizens Fabdinium. Besides I would really f**k up my chances of a meet "
Would it be appropriate at this juncture to say LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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