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Ladies and couples's mail box

By *ed wine OP Man over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

Ladies and couples, how do you balance your overwhelmed mail box and being considerate with senders? I guess sometimes it's difficult not to be rude.

Maybe your answers could offer a relief to hundreds of poor mortal men trying to get a positive answer ( unless one's genetically paired with Brad Pitt. ..)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't have one. Smart girls never have a problem

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i'm not considerate of senders at all. sorry but they're mainly only after a fuck so i really don't care.

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By *anetandNickCouple over a year ago

Ross-on-Wye

Some days we get 50+ messages so we just have to delete all "Hi hun" and text-speak messages.

We try hard to reply to all guys who send a message that shows they've actually read our profile.

Janet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Our inbox has 3 messages at the moment....holy fuck, how will I cope??

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

We get very few messages so pretty easily. I reply to all mail if I know we've had some. Dick reads them and forgets to say we've had any.

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By *mojeeCouple over a year ago

Dunfermline

We only get a few at most so not a problem.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We delete any that are plain rude. "Nice cunt" , "I want to spunk up a stranger" are just a couple of recent ones. Any that just say the generic "hi" or "wanna meet" and text speak get deleted immediately. We normally have a quick flick through the senders profile if they are the complete opposite of what we are looking for they go too.

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"Our inbox has 3 messages at the moment....holy fuck, how will I cope??

Delete one without reading, delete one after reading, reply one with a "no thanks"; problem solved

[ you're welcome

]

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We don't get very many messages, however we have single guys blocked

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because I'm after a female I get very few messages lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Until very recently I was being far too many to deal with politely, even with pretty tight filters. I used to delete and block everything without a pic, txtspk, and anything crass.

Now I can be a little better and I always reply word to the effect thanks, but no thanks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We don't get any messages, so no problem for us.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Our inbox has 3 messages at the moment....holy fuck, how will I cope??

Delete one without reading, delete one after reading, reply one with a "no thanks"; problem solved

[ you're welcome

Thanks! Crisis averted. I added a "fuck off" to the "no thanks" just to add some personality to the message

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's a sellers market. Supply and demand

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"Our inbox has 3 messages at the moment....holy fuck, how will I cope??

Delete one without reading, delete one after reading, reply one with a "no thanks"; problem solved

[ you're welcome

]

Thanks! Crisis averted. I added a "fuck off" to the "no thanks" just to add some personality to the message

Yep, I add that touch of class too when I am in a really good mood

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't even reply to guys I'm not interested in

Mainly because they are not what I have stated I'm looking for

Most of my mail is from young guys, my profile clearly states I'm after guys over 30 and I really can't be arsed sending out 50 "sorry your to young for me" messages a day, only to get 40 back telling me how they love older woman and how age is just a number

Save everybodies time and don't mail me in the first place

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We delete any that are plain rude. "Nice cunt" , "I want to spunk up a stranger" are just a couple of recent ones. Any that just say the generic "hi" or "wanna meet" and text speak get deleted immediately. We normally have a quick flick through the senders profile if they are the complete opposite of what we are looking for they go too."
Got the giggles bad reading this!

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Ladies and couples, how do you balance your overwhelmed mail box and being considerate with senders? I guess sometimes it's difficult not to be rude.

Maybe your answers could offer a relief to hundreds of poor mortal men trying to get a positive answer ( unless one's genetically paired with Brad Pitt. ..)"
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