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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm very much into degaradation/humiliation at the moment, and was wondering what everyone else's kinks are?
Love it. But only with hubby.
MrsSB  "
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over a year ago
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"I'm very much into degaradation/humiliation at the moment, and was wondering what everyone else's kinks are?"
Ooohhh...how can you sum it up in a couple of sentences. I'm a bit of a masochist, enjoy being controlled and I'm a pleaser. I'm more of a bottom than a sub, I'm as cheeky as they come and I have a love of the darker side of things. Gimme a bit of pain, a bit of choking, a bit of fire and heat and cold steel, throw in some spanks then tie me down tightly and deny me an orgasm as you tease me.
But no humiliation or degradation please - it doesn't flip my switches  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm very much into degaradation/humiliation at the moment, and was wondering what everyone else's kinks are?
Ooohhh...how can you sum it up in a couple of sentences. I'm a bit of a masochist, enjoy being controlled and I'm a pleaser. I'm more of a bottom than a sub, I'm as cheeky as they come and I have a love of the darker side of things. Gimme a bit of pain, a bit of choking, a bit of fire and heat and cold steel, throw in some spanks then tie me down tightly and deny me an orgasm as you tease me.
But no humiliation or degradation please - it doesn't flip my switches "
What would you class as humiliation??
For me it's a lot of name calling and slapping, making me do the more 'taboo' things, then telling me how filthy I am for doing it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lactation, pee, giving humiliation, feet, 3sums. Think that's all of mine.
Was into ABDL as well but not that keen any more."
I had to Google ABDL! I don't get feet, never have done, don't think I ever will! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm into control by edging at the minute really having way to much fun denying someone there orgasm then just making them come and come then proving my dominants by denying them my orgasm .  "
Love being edged, I spent a year or so seeing a guy who was some kind of master at it, absolutely loved it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lactation, pee, giving humiliation, feet, 3sums. Think that's all of mine.
Was into ABDL as well but not that keen any more.
I had to Google ABDL! I don't get feet, never have done, don't think I ever will!"
my feet are really sensitive so i enjoy them being played with and sucked, it gives me a lot of pleasure. possibly you could compare it to women who like their nipples being played with? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm into humiliation, receiving that is. Either from singles or cpls . That includes name calling, made to do things I'm abit uneasy with but probably wish to do, spanking, Ws, cuckold, sissy and clean up duties. Anything that makes me feel inferior in fact |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm very much into degaradation/humiliation at the moment, and was wondering what everyone else's kinks are?
Ooohhh...how can you sum it up in a couple of sentences. I'm a bit of a masochist, enjoy being controlled and I'm a pleaser. I'm more of a bottom than a sub, I'm as cheeky as they come and I have a love of the darker side of things. Gimme a bit of pain, a bit of choking, a bit of fire and heat and cold steel, throw in some spanks then tie me down tightly and deny me an orgasm as you tease me.
But no humiliation or degradation please - it doesn't flip my switches
What would you class as humiliation??
For me it's a lot of name calling and slapping, making me do the more 'taboo' things, then telling me how filthy I am for doing it."
Yes, all of that - except the 'making me do the more taboo things'. I'm not sure what counts as taboo. Making me do things I really don't enjoy would come under it too.
Tell me I'm filthy and you'll get a cackle of pure glee
"I'm into control by edging at the minute really having way to much fun denying someone there orgasm then just making them come and come then proving my dominants by denying them my orgasm . "
That's just cruel - denying them *your* orgasm?  . I would literally be in pieces.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lactation, pee, giving humiliation, feet, 3sums. Think that's all of mine.
Was into ABDL as well but not that keen any more.
I had to Google ABDL! I don't get feet, never have done, don't think I ever will!
my feet are really sensitive so i enjoy them being played with and sucked, it gives me a lot of pleasure. possibly you could compare it to women who like their nipples being played with?"
I adore my feet being played with in any way
From just a massage, to having my toes sucked to giving foot wanks and men cumming/pissing over them, if it involves my feet I love it
I also love playing with other peoples feet, I like guys running my muff with their feet, its a visual turn on more than anything
I've always had a fascination with feet since I was really young |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes, all of that - except the 'making me do the more taboo things'. I'm not sure what counts as taboo. Making me do things I really don't enjoy would come under it too.
Tell me I'm filthy and you'll get a cackle of pure glee
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Taboo, as you say, something your uncomfortable with, I've recently gotten into rimming and the like, which is something I never thought I'd do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im really interested in polyamorous relationships with female/couples..also the whole kitty scene..anybody on here interested? Or even offer advice groups etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our kink? Hmmmm, little bit embarrassed by this but here goes . Although we're not exactly active with it, we're into the idea of us meeting people but (male) am not allowed to join in - I'm only allowed to watch and maybe do something if given specific instructions. Or maybe I'm not even there.
I enjoy the domination/humiliation aspect of it, and my wife is getting all the pleasure.
But then I maybe get to spank her for being so naughty  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us we seam to be going through a cuckold stage but without any humiliation , wife is getting a big thrill out of playing with a few select guys either with me present or on her own . Then she tells me all about it and what happens and how they make her feel which results in a fantastic session on our own  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Our kink? Hmmmm, little bit embarrassed by this but here goes . Although we're not exactly active with it, we're into the idea of us meeting people but (male) am not allowed to join in - I'm only allowed to watch and maybe do something if given specific instructions. Or maybe I'm not even there.
I enjoy the domination/humiliation aspect of it, and my wife is getting all the pleasure.
But then I maybe get to spank her for being so naughty "
Why embarrassed? Cuckolding is one of the more common kinks i've seen |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Our kink? Hmmmm, little bit embarrassed by this but here goes . Although we're not exactly active with it, we're into the idea of us meeting people but (male) am not allowed to join in - I'm only allowed to watch and maybe do something if given specific instructions. Or maybe I'm not even there.
I enjoy the domination/humiliation aspect of it, and my wife is getting all the pleasure.
But then I maybe get to spank her for being so naughty
Why embarrassed? Cuckolding is one of the more common kinks i've seen"
Very true. I dunno, people can be surprisingly judgemental  |
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Mine's well-known, so there's no point going over well-trodden ground but...
I used to have a client, mental health, lovely chap, but as he would tell strangers at the drop of a hat he had a fetish for young women in calipers or on crutches.
Takes all sorts |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mine's well-known, so there's no point going over well-trodden ground but...
I used to have a client, mental health, lovely chap, but as he would tell strangers at the drop of a hat he had a fetish for young women in calipers or on crutches.
Takes all sorts "
Not well known to me |
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"Mine's well-known, so there's no point going over well-trodden ground but...
I used to have a client, mental health, lovely chap, but as he would tell strangers at the drop of a hat he had a fetish for young women in calipers or on crutches.
Takes all sorts
Not well known to me "
Ask nicely |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My most extreme are ; ANR/ABF, pregnancy risk (fantasy. Taboo ethnicity/race play - Catholic lrish girls for my Scottish Presbyterian side and Arab/Muslim girls for my Jewish side. |
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"My most extreme are ; ANR/ABF, pregnancy risk (fantasy. Taboo ethnicity/race play - Catholic lrish girls for my Scottish Presbyterian side and Arab/Muslim girls for my Jewish side. "
Wow.
You've been thinking about this |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mine's well-known, so there's no point going over well-trodden ground but...
I used to have a client, mental health, lovely chap, but as he would tell strangers at the drop of a hat he had a fetish for young women in calipers or on crutches.
Takes all sorts
Not well known to me
Ask nicely "
Errrrm OK. May I please know your particular kink? |
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"Mine's well-known, so there's no point going over well-trodden ground but...
I used to have a client, mental health, lovely chap, but as he would tell strangers at the drop of a hat he had a fetish for young women in calipers or on crutches.
Takes all sorts
Not well known to me
Ask nicely
Errrrm OK. May I please know your particular kink?"
Sorry, I'm teasing
I'm quite straightforward really... It was that first threesome I had when I was 18/19? that leaves me with a predilection for married/partnered men.
Just love the little ball of hope and desire wrapped up in confusion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My most extreme are ; ANR/ABF, pregnancy risk (fantasy. Taboo ethnicity/race play - Catholic lrish girls for my Scottish Presbyterian side and Arab/Muslim girls for my Jewish side.
Wow.
You've been thinking about this "
Yeah. When a societal aspect is added to a kink, it makes it so hot. Went to a Protestant school and would see the Catholic school girls on their lunch...they noticed us too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mine's well-known, so there's no point going over well-trodden ground but...
I used to have a client, mental health, lovely chap, but as he would tell strangers at the drop of a hat he had a fetish for young women in calipers or on crutches.
Takes all sorts
Not well known to me
Ask nicely
Errrrm OK. May I please know your particular kink?
Sorry, I'm teasing
I'm quite straightforward really... It was that first threesome I had when I was 18/19? that leaves me with a predilection for married/partnered men.
Just love the little ball of hope and desire wrapped up in confusion."
It's OK tease away. Interesting kink. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry, I'm teasing
I'm quite straightforward really... It was that first threesome I had when I was 18/19? that leaves me with a predilection for married/partnered men.
Just love the little ball of hope and desire wrapped up in confusion."
I know exactly what you mean - it's a heady combination to come across.
"Love catching girls peeling in public. "
Oooh! Those potato peelers, they get me hot too! *grins* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a few I would like to try. Hot wax being one of them  "
Yeah I love wax play, I love the feeling when it hits your skin, NN's top tip though dont every engage in wax play after applying oil to your body
I learned that the hard way |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"I'm into control by edging at the minute really having way to much fun denying someone there orgasm then just making them come and come then proving my dominants by denying them my orgasm .
Love being edged, I spent a year or so seeing a guy who was some kind of master at it, absolutely loved it!"
Yes its great fun but very very hard finding someones who's truly into power play and doubly hard establishing the trust needed over a few frank socials .
That's why any play partner of mine is treated with the up most respect because the truth be known those who are truly what they say they are are very rare and worth their weight in gold because of that fact n my opinion . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a few I would like to try. Hot wax being one of them
Yeah I love wax play, I love the feeling when it hits your skin, NN's top tip though dont every engage in wax play after applying oil to your body
I learned that the hard way "
Why is that ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any other kinks we have are variations on a theme, wouldn't want to derail the thread by going into complicated scenarios.
But if I'm in a more dominant I do like face fucking. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Any other kinks we have are variations on a theme, wouldn't want to derail the thread by going into complicated scenarios.
But if I'm in a more dominant I do like face fucking. "
Face fucking is my big thing, hence the profile name |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a few I would like to try. Hot wax being one of them
Yeah I love wax play, I love the feeling when it hits your skin, NN's top tip though dont every engage in wax play after applying oil to your body
I learned that the hard way
Why is that ?"
Because when you drop hot wax on oil the oil heats up and burns |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any other kinks we have are variations on a theme, wouldn't want to derail the thread by going into complicated scenarios.
But if I'm in a more dominant I do like face fucking.
Face fucking is my big thing, hence the profile name "
Now it's your turn to be embarrassed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm very sub but my fantasy is to blindfold and cuff a guy and tease the fuck out of him with my toy box. I'm learning to lapdance so I'd also like to try that out whilst he's not able to touch...just watch. I'd like to get a guy to the point where he commands me to free him so he can "take me".
I live in my own little dream world and have lots of fantasies. Being naked on a bed with many of the gorgeous forumites in a mass orgy has really given me such horny thoughts.
Also into being spanked....really hard, especially with a flogger and paddle...or my whip |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm very sub but my fantasy is to blindfold and cuff a guy and tease the fuck out of him with my toy box. I'm learning to lapdance so I'd also like to try that out whilst he's not able to touch...just watch. I'd like to get a guy to the point where he commands me to free him so he can "take me".
I live in my own little dream world and have lots of fantasies. Being naked on a bed with many of the gorgeous forumites in a mass orgy has really given me such horny thoughts.
Also into being spanked....really hard, especially with a flogger and paddle...or my whip "
This got me horny just reading it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a few I would like to try. Hot wax being one of them
Yeah I love wax play, I love the feeling when it hits your skin, NN's top tip though dont every engage in wax play after applying oil to your body sounds like your a expert at that lmaooo
I learned that the hard way
Why is that ?
Because when you drop hot wax on oil the oil heats up and burns "
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"I'm very much into degaradation/humiliation at the moment, and was wondering what everyone else's kinks are?"
I would send you out on Friday night and tell you not to come back untill you are full with another guy's cum. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"CNC intrigues me but not enough to want to explore it IRL.
Agree - me too."
I also have an urge to arrange a meet from my couples profile but with the fem of the couple so we swap blokes for the evening as a surprise. Then join back up later. That one's more logistically tricky than anything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"CNC intrigues me but not enough to want to explore it IRL.
Agree - me too.
I also have an urge to arrange a meet from my couples profile but with the fem of the couple so we swap blokes for the evening as a surprise. Then join back up later. That one's more logistically tricky than anything."
Intriguing, hadn't heard about CNC as such until just searching on google.
Would be interesting to integrate it in our own kink.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"CNC intrigues me but not enough to want to explore it IRL.
Agree - me too.
I also have an urge to arrange a meet from my couples profile but with the fem of the couple so we swap blokes for the evening as a surprise. Then join back up later. That one's more logistically tricky than anything."
Oh, the logistics would be tough, but that sounds like it would be worth the effort! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The most obvious one is playing with a bi couple... Although I'm not sure you could class that as a 'kink'?
I'd also love a woman who as pretty feet and adores them being played with/using massage my cock.
I'd also like to try edging a woman, teasing her almost to climax, the backing off and doing some training again until she can't take it anymore and cums with a thunderous orgasm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Recently done role play as a tenant which couldn't pay the rent. Mr A was the land Lord and I had to pay him in kind. When I was trying to wriggle out and pull away being held down and forced and told it was happening. I enjoyed not enjoying it x |
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By *BGBMan
over a year ago
Ascot |
"I'm very sub but my fantasy is to blindfold and cuff a guy and tease the fuck out of him with my toy box. I'm learning to lapdance so I'd also like to try that out whilst he's not able to touch...just watch. I'd like to get a guy to the point where he commands me to free him so he can "take me".
I live in my own little dream world and have lots of fantasies. Being naked on a bed with many of the gorgeous forumites in a mass orgy has really given me such horny thoughts.
Also into being spanked....really hard, especially with a flogger and paddle...or my whip
This got me horny just reading it "
Me too! |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Im really interested in polyamorous relationships with female/couples..also the whole kitty scene..anybody on here interested? Or even offer advice groups etc"
yeah im kitty, but its not cos play for me..its a held space..dont know what your questions are or whether its cos play for you..ask away..if you want..ill answer from my perspective..there are a couple of groups 'elsewhere' but mostly into no seualy pet play which isnt me at all x |
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"Someone taking the time to tie me up with beautiful rope work, lush.
Good rope work is an art form "
Did a thing with a guy once involving a blindfold, some light restraints, a cigar and one of those blowtorch lighters.
His fantasy, rather than mine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"not sure if some people class it as a ink or not , but i adore being watched while im fucking someone i love it in a club or failing that next best thing is on cam ."
Voyeurism prefect |
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By *lubitMan
over a year ago
Telford |
I think some of these count...
Watching a woman give a blowjob.
Squeezing a woman's ass while going down on her. Really squeezing, both hands.
Using a glass dildo on a woman. There's a particular feel to how they glide on a ladies excitement.
Receiving oral with lots of people watching.
The thigh between stocking tops and knickers.
Oh god, now I'm hard and at work. Damnit! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love having my puss shaved then licked. Can't really call it a fetishism but I really enjoy it"
I agree I like shaving myself so it's all smooth it's a big turn on and a big load too
I really enjoy licking a wet smooth pussy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Spanking
Caning
Flogger
Wooden paddle
Choking
Deep throating
Blindfolds
Restraints
Rope
Candle wax
I am open and willing to try lots of things with my Dom
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Spanking
Caning
Flogger
Wooden paddle
Choking
Deep throating
Blindfolds
Restraints
Rope
Candle wax
I am open and willing to try lots of things with my Dom
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Ive yet to try wax but caning is a hard limit for me.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Spanking
Caning
Flogger
Wooden paddle
Choking
Deep throating
Blindfolds
Restraints
Rope
Candle wax
I am open and willing to try lots of things with my Dom
Ive yet to try wax but caning is a hard limit for me. "
He actually broke his cane when hitting my ass!! I have some lovely caned stripes on my ass on one picture!!
And to add to those, name calling....love it when he calls me a slut/whore....which I respond as I am your slut master |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Spanking
Degradation (not really into humiliation )
Throat holding
Face slapping
Tit slapping
Deep throating
Blindfolded
Restraints
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I'm curious, what would you (or anyone else) class as the difference between degradation and humiliation? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Spanking
Degradation (not really into humiliation )
Throat holding
Face slapping
Tit slapping
Deep throating
Blindfolded
Restraints
I'm curious, what would you (or anyone else) class as the difference between degradation and humiliation? "
I think the two can be very similar, but I think of humiliation as a feeling,embarrassed or similar.
Degradation is more a physical act.
If someone is wearing a dog collar that could be humiliating but eating from the bowl is more degrading.
I don't know if anyone would agree(possible not) but that's how I see it.
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Spanking
Degradation (not really into humiliation )
Throat holding
Face slapping
Tit slapping
Deep throating
Blindfolded
Restraints
I'm curious, what would you (or anyone else) class as the difference between degradation and humiliation? "
It's a tricky one. But degradation is being treated like a slut and loving it. Humiliation is being treated like a slut and hating every minute. |
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