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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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at what age did you relaise you were a swinger? and wanted to have more than one sexual partner?
just curious as i'm 23 now and the tought of just sleeping with the same person for the rest of my life seems very dull and boring |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was 50 before I even thought about swinging.
We have friends who have played for ages and we just thought they were adventurous, lol.
Couldn't have done it in my younger days. If another bloke even looked at my wife, I used to want to punch his lights out.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Couldn't have done it in my younger days. If another bloke even looked at my wife, I used to want to punch his lights out. "
so what brought about such a change in your jealousy? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Couldn't have done it in my younger days. If another bloke even looked at my wife, I used to want to punch his lights out.
so what brought about such a change in your jealousy?"
Suppose I have mellowed a bit, lol, but even now I can't watch my wife kiss another bloke. I can watch her fucking and sucking, but being a watcher was never any interest to me anyway. It's no surprise then, that we prefer seperate room fun  |
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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago
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Hmmm I was never a one-man-woman, but started in earnest with Hubby when just married - in 1979 (!)
We had a break while having 3 kids but started again when they were old enough to go to grandparents. We have tried most situations, scenarios and activities, and have now found out what works for us.
We have never looked back, and are still - at an advanced age - enjoying the excitement of the whole thing.
Jane x x |
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18,i met kev and he wanted an open relationship...he was away for the weekend so i got off with someone
We had a long talk after that!i'm just not monogomous ,but he knows that of the ppl i meet/love/play with/he is my soul mate,and that is unique. |
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First ventured about 3 years ago when I decided I needed more in my life. Not looked back, made mistakes, learned lessons, moved on.
Don't think I would have been so relaxed with it when I was younger |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I started over two and half years ago age 46. I had always had a high sex drive and was adventurous. So devised a mental sex wish list. Wanted either to either die young content at achieving everything or be the only old person in the old peoples home with a smile on my face |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tried it at age 22 but was in the wrong relationship and didn't have the best sex life, it stopped before it got going. That relationship ended.
Met Clare about 6 years later and started talking about our fantasys. We spoke about it and decided that our relationship is strong enough and our sex life is amazing already and went ahead with swinging and here we are. |
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