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over a year ago
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You can't go for just one of the other. If you were just for looks you should just get hookers instead. Also anyone who says attraction is all about personality is a liar. It's like going shopping, the bright packaging and the groovy tag line get you to buy but the contents will get you coming back for more. |
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Personality all the way for me. It defines looks, in my opinion (someone I might initially not find all that attractive gets better looking the more I find he's a great guy--and vice versa).
Even when I was more interested in meets that were a bit more random. Um--dull personality, no way.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personality all the way for me. It defines looks, in my opinion (someone I might initially not find all that attractive gets better looking the more I find he's a great guy--and vice versa).
Even when I was more interested in meets that were a bit more random. Um--dull personality, no way.
Absolutely this ??
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personality all the way for me. It defines looks, in my opinion (someone I might initially not find all that attractive gets better looking the more I find he's a great guy--and vice versa).
Even when I was more interested in meets that were a bit more random. Um--dull personality, no way.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It doesn't matter, it is nsa 
Oh god it does matter. A bit of both for me. The looks gets the meet and the personality brings the fun "
This! This! This!
You can be gorgeous, but if you have the personality of a broken clothes peg? Er, no thanks!
I've gone for plain Janes who dazzled me with their personality which made them stunning by time I finished talking to them 
Make me laugh and I'm yours  |
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"I would rather have a laugh with someone than have a model on my arm who can't put 2 words together "
is it the case then that you can't have looks and personality? All models are unintelligent and less attractive people are full of personality? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personality all the way for me. It defines looks, in my opinion (someone I might initially not find all that attractive gets better looking the more I find he's a great guy--and vice versa).
Even when I was more interested in meets that were a bit more random. Um--dull personality, no way.
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"I would rather have a laugh with someone than have a model on my arm who can't put 2 words together
is it the case then that you can't have looks and personality? All models are unintelligent and less attractive people are full of personality?"
not saying there not just saying I would go for personality than a perfect 10 out of 10 woman |
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"I would rather have a laugh with someone than have a model on my arm who can't put 2 words together
is it the case then that you can't have looks and personality? All models are unintelligent and less attractive people are full of personality? not saying there not just saying I would go for personality than a perfect 10 out of 10 woman "
I understand but the good looking ones should be given a chance too  |
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"I would rather have a laugh with someone than have a model on my arm who can't put 2 words together
is it the case then that you can't have looks and personality? All models are unintelligent and less attractive people are full of personality? not saying there not just saying I would go for personality than a perfect 10 out of 10 woman
I understand but the good looking ones should be given a chance too "
off course they do everyone has a chance with me coz we are all perfect |
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"Always about looks and personal hygiene and how someone looks after themselves.
Personality??
Its not a dating site ffs"
I agree with this to an extent because if personality s so important to everyone what on earth are all the posts telling women they look fantastic all about  ? And where are the posts praising them for their generosity, kindness to animals and efforts towards world peace?  |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"Personality all the way for me. It defines looks, in my opinion (someone I might initially not find all that attractive gets better looking the more I find he's a great guy--and vice versa).
Even when I was more interested in meets that were a bit more random. Um--dull personality, no way.
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I agree with this especially if your looking for a regular arrangement and not a quick how's your father never going to see you again tumble . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always about looks and personal hygiene and how someone looks after themselves.
Personality??
Its not a dating site ffs
I agree with this to an extent because if personality s so important to everyone what on earth are all the posts telling women they look fantastic all about ? And where are the posts praising them for their generosity, kindness to animals and efforts towards world peace? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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has to be a mix of both for me
no matter how nice a person is if there's not physical attraction i woudlnt play, same as i wouldnt play with a good looking person with a bad personality |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just look at a person's left elbow and make my decision based on that. 
I think that's the most reliable method it's why I always keep my left elbow covered. "
People always figure out how to mess up a good method  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Combination but Ive met guys who visually didnt really do much for me.. until we got chatting and they rocked my world with personality...
On the other hand ive met guys who looked so damned hot but were absolute arseholes.
Im no looker.. but Im told I make up the deficit in character.   |
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"Always about looks and personal hygiene and how someone looks after themselves.
Personality??
Its not a dating site ffs"
It may be nsa and not a dating site however because I am looking for more than a "fuck and go " need to have a connection - a mix of looks/personality /common interests.
I like a man I can spend time with and who can talk.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm definitely a personality girl - I need banter and intelligent conversation. If they're easy on the eye it's a bonus...but it's always going to be about how they make me feel. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It doesn't matter, it is nsa "
NSA means 'no strings attached'. That means there is no commitment to play again, no commitment to frequency of play, no involvement in personal life, and no restriction of other partners. NSA does does mean that you fuck someone ones not attracted to. If anything, because it is just sex, then sexual attraction is more important than ever. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I need both for me to want to go to bed with someone, and we will gauge both factors before we agree to meet someone. That's because when we meet, we meet to play, so have to have both factors in place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm definitely a personality girl - I need banter and intelligent conversation. If they're easy on the eye it's a bonus...but it's always going to be about how they make me feel."
That's me out then I have less intelligence then a carrot of -2.
But in all seriousness I am not intelligent but can make people laugh at first meet which is good I guess. |
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