I'm not sure if the same in BDSM but in the swinging world it's a single bi female who will meet other singles and couples.... The name given as elusive and rare to find.... The fact of the matter is they are extremely outnumbered by single men and couples.... I female half was a unicorn until I met M and sometimes it was very hard to keep up with the demand and amount of offers and messages.... Hope this helps x |
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Unfortunately, although we genuinely bi women do exist, and would like to be more open to meeting all kinds, we do tend to just be taken for granted and so learn to keep our heads down.
Most couples who are looking for a bi women just think about what they want for themselves - it's really rare to have a couple take any interest in our own desires or in fact to show any care at all...
Worst of all are the couples who just want us to put on a bit of a "lessie show" with her, just for him to watch... which really offends!
So, yes, we're here - but we won't meet as such without feeling really sure that there's something in it for us!
Sorry to moan, but too many bad experiences turn things sour... hence we become as rare as the proverbial...
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"Unfortunately, although we genuinely bi women do exist, and would like to be more open to meeting all kinds, we do tend to just be taken for granted and so learn to keep our heads down.
Most couples who are looking for a bi women just think about what they want for themselves - it's really rare to have a couple take any interest in our own desires or in fact to show any care at all...
Worst of all are the couples who just want us to put on a bit of a "lessie show" with her, just for him to watch... which really offends!
So, yes, we're here - but we won't meet as such without feeling really sure that there's something in it for us!
Sorry to moan, but too many bad experiences turn things sour... hence we become as rare as the proverbial...
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And it's equally as frustrating for us couples who genuinely want to meet bi ladies for enjoyable experiences for the three of us and not just putting on a show for the man, which is definitely the perception of some ladies, especially considering we're only interested in soft swing so they assume (wrongly) that I only want to put on a show for my man or have them watch him and I together.
We would get no enjoyment if we left the lady feeling uncomfortable or unsatisfied and would love to click with someone we can meet socially upon occasion.
So yes, I agree, some couples have definitely made it more difficult for some of us to meet single bi females. Xx |
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