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lt's hard to just sum it up in a text or words.
l like athletic female physique mostly but some curvy is nice. Especially black and asian women.
Personality is key. lf a girl doesn't take herself too seriously, isn't an ice queen and isn't sanctimonious,l'll likely find something attractive about her. |
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Confidence, assertiveness and a nice pair of shoulders. Couple those with that cheeky grin and the glint in the eye that say you know how to make some serious mischief and I'm a puddle! |
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"Confidence, assertiveness and a nice pair of shoulders. Couple those with that cheeky grin and the glint in the eye that say you know how to make some serious mischief and I'm a puddle!"
 loving that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"lt's hard to just sum it up in a text or words.
l like athletic female physique mostly but some curvy is nice. Especially black and asian women.
Personality is key. lf a girl doesn't take herself too seriously, isn't an ice queen and isn't sanctimonious,l'll likely find something attractive about her."
Well being an ice Queen and sanctimonious won't go well in the swinging scene anyway??? Have you had someone like that??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"lt's hard to just sum it up in a text or words.
l like athletic female physique mostly but some curvy is nice. Especially black and asian women.
Personality is key. lf a girl doesn't take herself too seriously, isn't an ice queen and isn't sanctimonious,l'll likely find something attractive about her.
Well being an ice Queen and sanctimonious won't go well in the swinging scene anyway??? Have you had someone like that???"
Not in person so much as on fab. l thought you meant from a fab point of view but now l see you mean in general :P
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over a year ago
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"Everyone has a different definition of sexy ..
Trying to describe it would be rather like nailing jelly to a wall  "
So I'm asking individual ppls views of sexy- totally get ppl hv different preferences... |
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"Confidence, assertiveness and a nice pair of shoulders. Couple those with that cheeky grin and the glint in the eye that say you know how to make some serious mischief and I'm a puddle!"
Likewise |
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"Right level of confidence and sense of humor
So looks etc don't matter or body type?
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Not really. You can look at people and think 'wow that's nice', talk to them and realise they're idiots or truly ugly in their soul. Some people might not have the correct 'body type' that you'd normally find attractive but they're just so damn sexy anyway. We go more for personality then looks anyway. Obviously, you're initially attracted to looks, but some of the best meets we've had have come from simply chatting to people at clubs and realising that you'd love to get naked with them, please, quickly, right here if you must but just fuck me as soon as possible  |
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"So you see all these posts saying "looking for m/f/couple for ..."
Just wondering people's definition of sexy...
Jaz "
For us- presence, charm, wit, charisma, warmth and humour x |
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"Right level of confidence and sense of humor
So looks etc don't matter or body type?
Not really. You can look at people and think 'wow that's nice', talk to them and realise they're idiots or truly ugly in their soul. Some people might not have the correct 'body type' that you'd normally find attractive but they're just so damn sexy anyway. We go more for personality then looks anyway. Obviously, you're initially attracted to looks, but some of the best meets we've had have come from simply chatting to people at clubs and realising that you'd love to get naked with them, please, quickly, right here if you must but just fuck me as soon as possible "
Body type matters to me. Athletic is king. l don't mind chubby but obese is a turn off. Then there are guys who like them too i suppose. |
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"Right level of confidence and sense of humor
So looks etc don't matter or body type?
Not really. You can look at people and think 'wow that's nice', talk to them and realise they're idiots or truly ugly in their soul. Some people might not have the correct 'body type' that you'd normally find attractive but they're just so damn sexy anyway. We go more for personality then looks anyway. Obviously, you're initially attracted to looks, but some of the best meets we've had have come from simply chatting to people at clubs and realising that you'd love to get naked with them, please, quickly, right here if you must but just fuck me as soon as possible "
I suppose that's where the teasing and flirting comes in |
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"So you see all these posts saying "looking for m/f/couple for ..."
Just wondering people's definition of sexy...
Jaz
For us- presence, charm, wit, charisma, warmth and humour x"
Enticing the mind before the body  |
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"Right level of confidence and sense of humor
So looks etc don't matter or body type?
Not really. You can look at people and think 'wow that's nice', talk to them and realise they're idiots or truly ugly in their soul. Some people might not have the correct 'body type' that you'd normally find attractive but they're just so damn sexy anyway. We go more for personality then looks anyway. Obviously, you're initially attracted to looks, but some of the best meets we've had have come from simply chatting to people at clubs and realising that you'd love to get naked with them, please, quickly, right here if you must but just fuck me as soon as possible
Body type matters to me. Athletic is king. l don't mind chubby but obese is a turn off. Then there are guys who like them too i suppose."
That's right I've read some threads on the forums where there are gym fit guys that are really into BBW'S...it's all about personal preference...variety is the spice of life lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sexy is something I can't put into words, I don't think sexy is looks, attraction is based in looks and people can be sexy without being attractive and visa versa
To me sexy is the way somebody carry's themselves, their attitude, a smile, a look, a laugh ....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sexy is very subjective and totally personal however for me it's confidence,banter,innuendo,fun loving and attentive on a personality level.
On a physical level it's eyes, lips and hair the I find particularly sexy.
Each to their own I guess though  |
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The way he holds himself and they way he dresses and then is voice that rolls out confidence.
CONFIDENCE CONFIDENCE CONFIDENCE.
STANDING TALL IN HIS OWN SHELL.
ATTENTION TO DETAIL IN HIS DRESS.
VOICE - controlled and articulate.....
With the essential ingredient of true high intelligence to seduce my mind first.....
I melt at that combination
X |
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"Right level of confidence and sense of humor
So looks etc don't matter or body type?
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Body type n looks no to me to b honest. I ended up with what all my mates called a rough en for a long time but she was sexy as hell to me.
I like a looked after pair of feet but that's just one of my lil fetishes lol |
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"Right level of confidence and sense of humor
So looks etc don't matter or body type?
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I don't think how somebody looks makes them sexy
I have met many good looking people who simply are not sexy
I've also met some people who aren't that attractive to me that I find sexy
I don't think one goes in hand with the other |
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"Right level of confidence and sense of humor
So looks etc don't matter or body type?
I don't think how somebody looks makes them sexy
I have met many good looking people who simply are not sexy
I've also met some people who aren't that attractive to me that I find sexy
I don't think one goes in hand with the other "
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"Sexy is something I can't put into words, I don't think sexy is looks, attraction is based in looks and people can be sexy without being attractive and visa versa
To me sexy is the way somebody carry's themselves, their attitude, a smile, a look, a laugh ......."
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"So you see all these posts saying "looking for m/f/couple for ..."
Just wondering people's definition of sexy...
Jaz
Sexy' is being independent, being confident and having fun .
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I must say I do find confident and assertive people sexy as well |
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"The way he holds himself and they way he dresses and then is voice that rolls out confidence.
CONFIDENCE CONFIDENCE CONFIDENCE.
STANDING TALL IN HIS OWN SHELL.
ATTENTION TO DETAIL IN HIS DRESS.
VOICE - controlled and articulate.....
With the essential ingredient of true high intelligence to seduce my mind first.....
I melt at that combination
X "
Love it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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what I find sexy in one man could be a total turn off in another... but for me generally someone who is assertive without being bossy and confident without being big headed is a killer combination...as long as he has the personality to match... |
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"what I find sexy in one man could be a total turn off in another... but for me generally someone who is assertive without being bossy and confident without being big headed is a killer combination...as long as he has the personality to match..."
Totally agree with the big headed comment- spoken to some guys who are really good looking but then they are so full of themselves it's a complete turn off |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me it's
Sexy = body
Pretty/handsome = face
Beautiful = personality but can be used to flirt as well
So body first = sexy?"
Its confidence I find sexy.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me it's
Sexy = body
Pretty/handsome = face
Beautiful = personality but can be used to flirt as well
So body first = sexy?"
Not sure what do you mean by first but yes when using the word sexy I refer to the persons body. |
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"what I find sexy in one man could be a total turn off in another... but for me generally someone who is assertive without being bossy and confident without being big headed is a killer combination...as long as he has the personality to match...
Totally agree with the big headed comment- spoken to some guys who are really good looking but then they are so full of themselves it's a complete turn off "
What I don't like on here is men who say on their profiles that they are good looking or handsome ... I had a message off someone the other day and the opening line was 'I consider myself good looking' .. unfortunately the accompanying pic didn't back up his claim ... it just smacks of being cocky and arrogant to me, which isn't sexy at all  |
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"what I find sexy in one man could be a total turn off in another... but for me generally someone who is assertive without being bossy and confident without being big headed is a killer combination...as long as he has the personality to match...
Totally agree with the big headed comment- spoken to some guys who are really good looking but then they are so full of themselves it's a complete turn off
What I don't like on here is men who say on their profiles that they are good looking or handsome ... I had a message off someone the other day and the opening line was 'I consider myself good looking' .. unfortunately the accompanying pic didn't back up his claim ... it just smacks of being cocky and arrogant to me, which isn't sexy at all "
This |
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A wicked glimmer in his eye and a roguish smile. Doesn't have to be devastatingly good looking.
Furry chest and a bit of bulk.... thin men don't excite me.
A bit of girth to his cock (length .... average is fine).
Got to be kinky as hell and equally able to be tactile and demonstrative. |
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"A wicked glimmer in his eye and a roguish smile. Doesn't have to be devastatingly good looking.
Furry chest and a bit of bulk.... thin men don't excite me.
A bit of girth to his cock (length .... average is fine).
Got to be kinky as hell and equally able to be tactile and demonstrative."
I thought i was in then right up to the point when you mentioned girth |
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