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Does FAB work for any single guys
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Its my view that FAB is best for single FEMS and couples. I have been told my profile is OK but have little success on here.
Or am I just not putting the time in and expecting people to find me which just doesn't happen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It works for some guys and not for others. You need to think about what you're looking for and what you're willing to put in for it.
I wouldn't be on here if I were a single guy, though. I'm much too lazy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The vast majority of people on here are single guys. A few of them are very vocal and overly aggressive which gives us all a bad name and makes it harder to get meets.
It is a shame but it happens. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah I have done ok from it. Key is patience and not assume everyone wants you. Be yourself, treat people with respect and if people like you then that's just grand. |
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
NW London |
It works for me to find out which parties are on and to keep in touch with those I meet there. Anything else is a bonus although I do accept it can be tough for a guy to get replies and meets simply due to the numbers. |
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Have to agree with you nomessers
Some are way too aggressive and expect far to much on here and the site has lots of guys to 1 girl would love to know the figures !
Get to koow a girl or couple first and politeness never hurt anyone
And Be patient |
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"Its my view that FAB is best for single FEMS and couples. I have been told my profile is OK but have little success on here.
Or am I just not putting the time in and expecting people to find me which just doesn't happen."
Your verifications say otherwise. Therefore, is this a look at me thread? |
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"Have to agree with you nomessers
Some are way too aggressive and expect far to much on here and the site has lots of guys to 1 girl would love to know the figures !
Get to koow a girl or couple first and politeness never hurt anyone
And Be patient "
Been here seven years only meeting single men. The last one I met moved in.
Not once encountered an aggressive single male!  |
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You have to make an effort if you want to get something out of it.
If you wanted a new job you wouldn't just sit around and wait for someone to offer you one, you would be out networking and applying for stuff. The same principle applys here.
Single women don't actually have it that easy on here. Yes we do receive a lot of messages but 99% of them are from guys we dont want to go anywhere near.
If we want to meet with "quality" single men we have to make an effort too and seek them out |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its my view that FAB is best for single FEMS and couples. I have been told my profile is OK but have little success on here.
Or am I just not putting the time in and expecting people to find me which just doesn't happen.
Your verifications say otherwise. Therefore, is this a look at me thread?"
7 varis imo is good going. You also go to a swingers club.... So what is it you are expecting? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've seen hot women and I mean absolute stunners - talking 8/9/10's
Which have met some real monsters of men . Don't know how they do it .
But then I've seen men with great body's and good looks meeting women that are like .... That low in ranks like 1/2/3's you wouldn't even rank them you'd just skip by !
Oh it's a strange place
And even stranger world
Best of luck mate  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have to agree with you nomessers
Some are way too aggressive and expect far to much on here and the site has lots of guys to 1 girl would love to know the figures !
Get to koow a girl or couple first and politeness never hurt anyone
And Be patient "
Have you read his Veris they speak differently and he's a club regular |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only meet single blokes. If someone takes the time to read my profile, comes across in a polite manner, has some public pictures and a filled in bio i always reply.
I have to say i do enjoy clubs more, but often arrange to meet single blokes at the clubs from fab. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Its my view that FAB is best for single FEMS and couples. I have been told my profile is OK but have little success on here.
Or am I just not putting the time in and expecting people to find me which just doesn't happen."
It works for some, not others.
From your veris it doesn't look as though you're doing too badly.
However, if you're surprised that people aren't making the effort to find you, don't be. Guys usually have to actively look and put in the effort to do well on here. Few women/couples do the looking themselves. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I've seen hot women and I mean absolute stunners - talking 8/9/10's
Which have met some real monsters of men . Don't know how they do it .
But then I've seen men with great body's and good looks meeting women that are like .... That low in ranks like 1/2/3's you wouldn't even rank them you'd just skip by !
Oh it's a strange place
And even stranger world
Best of luck mate "
Perhaps those people aren't judging each other by the same standards and criteria you are using  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its my view that FAB is best for single FEMS and couples. I have been told my profile is OK but have little success on here.
Or am I just not putting the time in and expecting people to find me which just doesn't happen.
It works for some, not others.
From your veris it doesn't look as though you're doing too badly.
However, if you're surprised that people aren't making the effort to find you, don't be. Guys usually have to actively look and put in the effort to do well on here. Few women/couples do the looking themselves."
Thats true, i have never been the first to send a message on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The single blokes who like a moan, seem to be the ones who think this is a second on tap site, and that they can just send a shit message then get laid. As some have already said, this tars all with one brush sadly. I've not had loads of meets, and I should probably make my profile better, but I enjoy chatting on here and elsewhere and have found it good fun. |
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"Its my view that FAB is best for single FEMS and couples. I have been told my profile is OK but have little success on here.
Or am I just not putting the time in and expecting people to find me which just doesn't happen.
Your verifications say otherwise. Therefore, is this a look at me thread?"
My verifications are all from visiting Amour, I have yet to meet someone from FAB.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The single blokes who like a moan, seem to be the ones who think this is a second on tap site, and that they can just send a shit message then get laid. As some have already said, this tars all with one brush sadly. I've not had loads of meets, and I should probably make my profile better, but I enjoy chatting on here and elsewhere and have found it good fun."
Totally agree with every word of that |
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"Have to agree with you nomessers
Some are way too aggressive and expect far to much on here and the site has lots of guys to 1 girl would love to know the figures !
Get to koow a girl or couple first and politeness never hurt anyone
And Be patient
Have you read his Veris they speak differently and he's a club regular "
Yeah my veris are all from meeting in a club, maybe I'm rubbish at text communication. Better in real life lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Basically you reap what you soe. The more you put in, and all that.....
Having a big cock helps as well."
Don't agree with having a big cock helps but definitely put the effort in |
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You visit a club ... something a lot of single guys don't do
You have pictures. .Maybe add a few more
Your verifications seem good so it sounds really as if you are not putting as much in on the site.
As a single female I'm never post looking for a meet (only one if I'm visiting a club)
I don't wink or message guys....
So if others are like me you'll wait a long time :/
Start reading start messaging and good luck |
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Fab is certainly easier if you're a woman, a couple or a bi-guy. But as always a lot also depends on what it is you're on here looking for. If you're into clubs then you'll probably do fine but then you don't necessarily need Fab for that anyway.
I think the first thing to do is lower your expectations. It'll save you going stir crazy when things get quiet. Chances are you're not going to be rolling in women.
The main thing that seems to slip a lot of guys minds is that Fab isn't too dissimilar to real life. Just as in real life, be polite and respectful to the women you're trying to chat to. If they like you they like you. If they don't they don't. Nothing you can really do about that. You just have to be willing to put in the effort. Don't go at it like a bull in a china shop. You'll need patience and it may take some time.
Fab can be a very rewarding place when it all works out but you'll probably have to go through a few difficulties to get there.
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"Its my view that FAB is best for single FEMS and couples. I have been told my profile is OK but have little success on here.
Or am I just not putting the time in and expecting people to find me which just doesn't happen."
Op it does work I reactivated my profile just over three weeks ago I've been on two socials from here in that time .
don't let the fact nether verified me make you think I'm lying I have listed my reasons for not being interested in being verified in another forum post .
It works best if you really tailor your messages to the type of girl who you know will be interested in what you have to offer .so no copy and paste no messaging women or couple you have nothing in common with apart from the fact you all like to fuck .this approach will get you responses even if its a thanks but no thanks .
Be active in the forums show your personality in them by that I mean don't act like a sycophant be yourself express your opinions you will be surprised by the amount of private chats this can lead to .
Op that's how I roll on sites like this and it does work given enough time . |
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"You visit a club ... something a lot of single guys don't do
You have pictures. .Maybe add a few more
Your verifications seem good so it sounds really as if you are not putting as much in on the site.
As a single female I'm never post looking for a meet (only one if I'm visiting a club)
I don't wink or message guys....
So if others are like me you'll wait a long time :/
Start reading start messaging and good luck "
Thanks, sounds like good advice and if you would like to go to a club in Manc do let me know lol x |
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"The vast majority of people on here are single guys. A few of them are very vocal and overly aggressive which gives us all a bad name and makes it harder to get meets.
It is a shame but it happens."
I fail to see how a few vocal and aggressive men spoil things for you or for me....they just make the good guys stand out more.
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Fab is certainly easier if you're a woman, a couple or a bi-guy."
It's easier for women to get messages and attention, but it's not necessarily the sort of messages/attention we want and it's still difficult for most of us to get good meets.
If it was that great for women here, there would be more. There's a reason a lot don't stay.
Every group has their own issues to deal with on the site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its my view that FAB is best for single FEMS and couples. I have been told my profile is OK but have little success on here.
Or am I just not putting the time in and expecting people to find me which just doesn't happen."
Little success ? Are you sure? You have been on over a year and have 7 verifications  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've seen hot women and I mean absolute stunners - talking 8/9/10's
Which have met some real monsters of men . Don't know how they do it .
But then I've seen men with great body's and good looks meeting women that are like .... That low in ranks like 1/2/3's you wouldn't even rank them you'd just skip by !
Oh it's a strange place
And even stranger world
Best of luck mate "
These people obviously don't rate body type above sexual attraction. People rate someone as a sexual partner using more than just body shape and size. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have to make an effort if you want to get something out of it.
If you wanted a new job you wouldn't just sit around and wait for someone to offer you one, you would be out networking and applying for stuff. The same principle applys here.
Single women don't actually have it that easy on here. Yes we do receive a lot of messages but 99% of them are from guys we dont want to go anywhere near.
If we want to meet with "quality" single men we have to make an effort too and seek them out"
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basically you have to put maximum effort in to get anything out of it..
you silver fox lol
