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over a year ago
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We had a meet and i snogged this Random guy tongues etc
We had said no kissing MF but i did
and partner is kicking of i enjoyed it
whats your views
Jue x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We had a meet and i snogged this Random guy tongues etc
We had said no kissing MF but i did
and partner is kicking of i enjoyed it
whats your views
Jue x
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You've set the rules out so stick to them, to stop the kicking off i guess |
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I would ask how would you feel if he had crossed a line that you both previously agreed not to cross--- you also have ' no kissing' on your profile so I'm guessing it's a big deal. He may be left wondering what other lines you will cross. It's all about trust!!
Although in the heat of the moment anything can happen it's probably best not to say you enjoyed it as that will only make it worse whilst he is feeling let down.
Hope you work it out xx ( mrs) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wont meet unless theres kissing involved as you play. To have sex with some one there has to be an attraction otherwise it is just clock work robotic sex...... If I am meeting a female weather or not she is with partner, hubby, etc etc then she has to be allowed to kiss other wise whats the point |
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My view is that this is something that is between the two of you.
I personally don't cross any lines Marc would be uncomfortable with. We are doing this together and I recognize that. |
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"We had a meet and i snogged this Random guy tongues etc
We had said no kissing MF but i did
and partner is kicking of i enjoyed it
whats your views
Jue x
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You broke your own set rules. No wonder partner is kicking off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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He has kicked off as you have broken your agreed boundary. We have agreed not to have cock penetration sex with others. It would be a major issue if we broke this rule............ It's all about trust. I hope you can sort it out x |
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"We had a meet and i snogged this Random guy tongues etc
We had said no kissing MF but i did
and partner is kicking of i enjoyed it
whats your views
Jue x
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My view is that you shouldn't be canvassing other views but talking to your partner and either renegotiating your boundaries or letting him know that it won't be happening again. From where I'm sitting you seem to be gloating and that's not nice. |
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"We had a meet and i snogged this Random guy tongues etc
We had said no kissing MF but i did
and partner is kicking of i enjoyed it
whats your views
Jue x
You've set the rules out so stick to them, to stop the kicking off i guess "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We had a meet and i snogged this Random guy tongues etc
We had said no kissing MF but i did
and partner is kicking of i enjoyed it
whats your views
Jue x
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So someone can shove their cock up you, but can't kiss you? That's a bit backwards  |
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"We had a meet and i snogged this Random guy tongues etc
We had said no kissing MF but i did
and partner is kicking of i enjoyed it
whats your views
Jue x
So someone can shove their cock up you, but can't kiss you? That's a bit backwards "
if its a boundary a couple have in place what's the problem? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We had a meet and i snogged this Random guy tongues etc
We had said no kissing MF but i did
and partner is kicking of i enjoyed it
whats your views
Jue x
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You don't really sound like you care
You missed a guy and enjoyed it, maybe it's time to change your rules |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think it's bang out of order....if the guy tried to kiss you fair enough but if you knew the boundaries before hand and you just thought fuck it then you hubby is right to kick off......things happen in meets that maybe you don't plan on but you don't just disregard your partners wishes and what he's comfortable with.....think it's shit x |
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