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Soft play v Full
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"Thanks for the replies so far. Like a lot of husbands on here I liked the idea of seeing my wife fucking another guy and enjoying herself. She's a bit bored with that and doesnt get as much pleasure that way. She thinks guys are only up for a meet if they can fuck. So I'm hoping to reassure her that's not the case. "Some just want to fuck. Some like other activities. We prefer oral and teasing. You can always ask in advance and make your preferences known. | |||
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"We ideally prefer soft play with lots of touching licking and sucking, the penetration element is a bonus! Prefer more sensual meets than hardcore porn sex!" thats the way no doubt | |||
"not too bothered about fucking as dont always enjoy it only sometimes. Touching, maybe kissing, cuddling, giving oral sex and using toys are all good." | |||
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"Soft swap bores me. I meet to fuck. If I am asked about a soft swap meet I politely refuse." Same here, I,m here for full sex xxx | |||
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"We enjoy the sensuality of soft play, and we've done it a few times. It can be less pressured than full swap. However in mmf or mfmf situation I'd find it very frustrating if the other guy didn't fuck my wife. I'm even happy to take a back seat We've even had a meet with another couple where myself and the other lady just gave each other oral to orgasm, then sat back and watched as my wife was fucked by the other guy. Was a great meet, and we'd like to do something like that again, but we think it will be unlikely to meet other couples who feel the same way. " Wish there were couples like you closer to us. Mrs here. I love to see my man fucking another woman but prefer soft play myself. | |||
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"We liked soft swap but found it often came to a point in the play where there was a pause point where it needed that bit more & either stopped or we swapped back to own partners for penetration. Having said that full swap can go to full penetration a bit too quickly at times" That's a good point, we generally prefer full swap but we've often thought 'what's the rush?'  | |||
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"Personally speaking (Mr G here) I'm happy with soft play only, and find I get more out of it that way. That's not to say I don't enjoy full swap and have done so in the past, but haven't generally found it as satisfying as when it's been soft play only for me. That said I also suffer from performance anxiety when it comes to full swap so that's possibly part of the reason. Mr G" Yep I'm pretty much the same. | |||
"I find the whole build up very erotic... the kissing, teasing, licking, sucking "Oh yes...!!! It's an ESSENTIAL part of the whole experience... | |||
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"Fucking is not essential...I was told by a couple of guys that I played with that our soft play was highly erotic and it works for me." It's helps your rude, vile, abusive and called people drug addicts ... Touch with barge pole | |||
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"After reading all the comments here, I find it very odd that, my fwb, whose very much a long term swinger with couples just as much as singles, dosnt know what "soft swap" means,,, yet I'm the newbie lol....had to explain to him by using Google lol,, I'd much rather soft swap and have a giggle first with the other couple, no pressure to fuck, once I'd gotten to know the other couple and by just soft swapping first, then full if everyone is agreeable,the next time, but my fwb says if u meet a couple it's a waste of time being on fab if you're not going to full swap??? Straight off??? " If people don't want to meet soft swappers that's fair enough. But to say they're wasting their time on fab? That attitude stinks.  | |||
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"After reading all the comments here, I find it very odd that, my fwb, whose very much a long term swinger with couples just as much as singles, dosnt know what "soft swap" means,,, yet I'm the newbie lol....had to explain to him by using Google lol,, I'd much rather soft swap and have a giggle first with the other couple, no pressure to fuck, once I'd gotten to know the other couple and by just soft swapping first, then full if everyone is agreeable,the next time, but my fwb says if u meet a couple it's a waste of time being on fab if you're not going to full swap??? Straight off??? " We don't feel we've wasted our time. Maybe it's his way of ensuring you comply with what he wants rather than what you want. A waste of my time would be meeting someone who does not match our preferences as it would not be a very successful meet. So maybe his point is that it would be a waste of his time as full swap is his only interest. We have done, full swap, soft swap, I've watched her and not joined in, she has watched me and not joined in. All good fun and not a wasted minute. | |||
