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Too old when you are 50+ ??
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Are men who are over 50 regarded as too old to swing?? I'm 51 and am finding it hard to find ladies who are prepared to meet guys who are 50+ Maybe I'm looking in the wrong place who knows  |
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"Are men who are over 50 regarded as too old to swing?? I'm 51 and am finding it hard to find ladies who are prepared to meet guys who are 50+ Maybe I'm looking in the wrong place who knows "
You're not too old but it does get more difficult as you grow older. Keep an eye out for organised socials in your area they're a good way to get to know people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel hornier now than I did years ago...and really don't feel my age as it were...so I don't feel past it at all...tho sure..you have to be realistic that you may not much inyerest in young women...tho yhere are some who like an older guy. Thick skin and be optimistic... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It seems that all the females wont on here are young hung guys, but us older guys are still able to perform and last longer 
It isn't true that all women want young, hung guys."
I agree I wouldn't date anyone under 45 yrs  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are a vast number of profile that state a maximum age of 50 . It appears to be a barrier , real or imagined . One of us is 50 and we look and subsequently do not message many profiles as a result |
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"Are men who are over 50 regarded as too old to swing?? I'm 51 and am finding it hard to find ladies who are prepared to meet guys who are 50+ Maybe I'm looking in the wrong place who knows "
It's not your age!  |
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My old man always said 'your only as old as the women you feel'. As much as I like the saying however suited him as was rather chauvinistic and terrible player.
I myself have age limits set however its all about mentality and how you conduct yourself. Its hard for men of any age to get meets no matter if they got nutts like kingkong or the smoothest talker.
Its best to just go with the flow, engage In the forums is the best way to be noticed.
Also if you are given advice when you ask please take it if its good, many complain but don't wish to change.
Best of luck sir |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are men who are over 50 regarded as too old to swing?? I'm 51 and am finding it hard to find ladies who are prepared to meet guys who are 50+ Maybe I'm looking in the wrong place who knows "
No it's not too old, I am 52 XXX |
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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago
birmingham |
"Are men who are over 50 regarded as too old to swing?? I'm 51 and am finding it hard to find ladies who are prepared to meet guys who are 50+ Maybe I'm looking in the wrong place who knows "
ha ha not a chance bro.am nearley older than china .and have a fantastic time .today was wild as the wind .and who knows about 2 moz ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are men who are over 50 regarded as too old to swing?? I'm 51 and am finding it hard to find ladies who are prepared to meet guys who are 50+ Maybe I'm looking in the wrong place who knows "
I'm 20 and i struggle as well! Must be one of those things |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"Are men who are over 50 regarded as too old to swing?? I'm 51 and am finding it hard to find ladies who are prepared to meet guys who are 50+ Maybe I'm looking in the wrong place who knows "
Op your married like me playing away from home sadly this will put a lot of woman and couples off more than your age it is what it is .
But propops to you for coming clean about it in your profile you would be shock by the amount on here and other similar sites who are in some sort of relationship male and female who choose to omite that fact in there profile . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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coming up on 63, and having fun, not as much as I would like, but still going, I have found going in forums and chatting lets people see past your age, and get to know you better. crack on.  |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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Not your age, in my opinion, we have no problems and we are older. Others have already pointed out, many won't knowingly meet marrieds, also no pics, you don't have to put face pic on. We would pass you by, for these reasons, but good luck!  |
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By *fcdTV/TS
over a year ago
Southend |
I'm the opposite - been getting way more attention in last few years. Maybe everyone thinks I'm desperate
Certainly not aware of anyone having any issue with age with any of my meets. |
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"It seems that all the females wont on here are young hung guys, but us older guys are still able to perform and last longer "
Not sure that's true. I like guys over 40, they have to be single though and open is married. I also love a slim guy who is fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It seems that all the females wont on here are young hung guys, but us older guys are still able to perform and last longer "
Yes, blame your age, blame the women... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well, l'm 67. Very horny every day. Keep fit and dress smart. Don't do as well as I would like on here these days but still meet lots of people for fun. It's about being positive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never too old for anything!! unless you think that you are! Think you stay young.
Positive mental attitude helps.
Good luck to us all for we all have birthdays coming up within a year. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As from last week, I am now in my last year as a 50 something, and it's so depressing.
I remember the last of my 20's, that was bad enough!
I still love sex, but it's been forbidden to me. My only activity on here now is the forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are men who are over 50 regarded as too old to swing?? I'm 51 and am finding it hard to find ladies who are prepared to meet guys who are 50+ Maybe I'm looking in the wrong place who knows "
get rid of the cock pic and show a torso chest bum ect |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
Yup, time to hang up the restraints and clamps, the electro play units, the floggers and whips, restraints and ropes,
I've i missed some thing before I retire.
Oh, knowledge in how to play with them.
Drat, getting older has so many draw backs.......
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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago
birmingham |
"As from last week, I am now in my last year as a 50 something, and it's so depressing.
I remember the last of my 20's, that was bad enough!
I still love sex, but it's been forbidden to me. My only activity on here now is the forums. "
forbidden our two bums get out and get a grip at least you remember your twenties .the day will come when you dont .then chuck the towel in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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51 here and having a great time.
However I will agree that 50 seems to be a big barrier number. It seems to be by far the most common upper age limit used on Fab, so quite noticeable for those gents who have just passed 50.
But there is plenty of fun to be had and I'm happy to generally be in demand.
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"It seems that all the females wont on here are young hung guys, but us older guys are still able to perform and last longer
It isn't true that all women want young, hung guys."
Indeed it isn't.
And the young, hung guys who aren't having much success blame something different.
It's easy to blame something you can't change though, rather than actually making any effort. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"As from last week, I am now in my last year as a 50 something, and it's so depressing.
I remember the last of my 20's, that was bad enough!
I still love sex, but it's been forbidden to me. My only activity on here now is the forums. "
Your profile says 57  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm pretty sure it's because the OP is married and cheating (or trying to) that's the main problem, not his age.
Talk to your wife, or get a divorce dude! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As from last week, I am now in my last year as a 50 something, and it's so depressing.
I remember the last of my 20's, that was bad enough!
I still love sex, but it's been forbidden to me. My only activity on here now is the forums.
Your profile says 57 "
Yeah fab fucked up (cough cough)  xx |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
There are a few very hot 50-somethings on here I love/would love to meet.
Unfortunately one thing I have found is that men tend to be more liberal with the truth as they start approaching a certain age, (women may too but that's not an issue for me). A number of late 40's and 50-somethings, in person, look as though they've had *very* hard lives.
Knocking a year or two off might not seem like a big deal but it's still dishonest. What else would they be deceitful about? As for the ones who think they can knock 10+ years off without anyone noticing, that's just taking the piss.
They may persuade me to meet them this way but it's not going to get them anywhere and I'll be pissed off they wasted my time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I doun't lie about my age, I'm 49, 50 this month, most people that meet me think I'm younger, that's always nice to hear, but I'm very comfortable with who I am. |
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We started swinging just after we'd first met, him just over 50 and her just below. Now in our 60s, we've had an incredible time and are still doing so. Things that were just fantasies have now become normal sex-play, so yes, you can still have wonderful swinging in your 50s and older. Age is just a state of mind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are a few very hot 50-somethings on here I love/would love to meet.
Unfortunately one thing I have found is that men tend to be more liberal with the truth as they start approaching a certain age, (women may too but that's not an issue for me). A number of late 40's and 50-somethings, in person, look as though they've had *very* hard lives.
Knocking a year or two off might not seem like a big deal but it's still dishonest. What else would they be deceitful about? As for the ones who think they can knock 10+ years off without anyone noticing, that's just taking the piss.
They may persuade me to meet them this way but it's not going to get them anywhere and I'll be pissed off they wasted my time."
And the ones who are honest about their age, but the pics they use are from yrs ago! |
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