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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Going to a house meet tomorrow for the first time, a bit hesitant but gagging (!) at the same time.
Don't want to offend the hosts,but would like to take a gift. That's OK, isn't it?
What else should I ensure I do, or don't do? |
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What makes you want to take a gift? Is it something that's come up in conversation with the person(s) you're meeting? Do you feel like you should or have to take something? I ask because it seems a bit odd to me, although mine is just one opinion so don't take it as gospel by any means!
In general just be nice, friendly, yourself, like you would (hopefully  ) usually. Unless you've made arrangements for anything else to happen when you arrive, then that's all you can do really. Try not to overthink it, and have fun! |
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I'd always bring something if I was meeting in someone's house.
I've fab friends that bring bickies to mine if they're just coming in for a cuppa..
So bring a bottle of whatever you fancy and some sweeties or something like that.. Doubt you'll insult the hosts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always take something. it's polite to do so as you have been invited to their home.
Have fun & stay safe
Bambi xx"
 i never like to turn up empty handed |
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By *arksidesubCouple
over a year ago
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"I always take something. it's polite to do so as you have been invited to their home.
Have fun & stay safe
Bambi xx
i never like to turn up empty handed "
Whooo seeing your bag of toys would so excite me much more than a bottle of wine  |
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By *irty130Couple
over a year ago
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About a decade ago, we had a meet come to our house with a cheap bottle as a gift, we smiled and thanked them. I think we took it to a party a few weeks later.
[TBH, we're a bit more sophisticated now, and don't think we could bring ourselves to take a bottle of Lambrini or a 1.5l bottle of Soave to a meet!]
It's the thought that counts! |
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"Took two bottles of wine to my last meet and did not drink any too busy in bed lol "
Etiquette for bringing wine is that it's a gift for the host and as such is not expected to be opened for the gifter to have a taste of the gift too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd take a bottle of wine but I give everyone gifts  "
Me too
I just think it's good manners
Nothing to do with sex, if somebody invited me over to their house for anything like cooking me a meal, watching a film etc I'd take a bottle of something but that's just me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What makes you want to take a gift? Is it something that's come up in conversation with the person(s) you're meeting? Do you feel like you should or have to take something? I ask because it seems a bit odd to me, although mine is just one opinion so don't take it as gospel by any means!
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To some people its just a way of saying thank you for opening their home up to them
I'm not talking expensive fancy gifts just a token bottle of wine so something similar
For me its just manner which a lot loose when 'its only a fuck' |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"I'd take a bottle of wine but I give everyone gifts
Me too
I just think it's good manners
Nothing to do with sex, if somebody invited me over to their house for anything like cooking me a meal, watching a film etc I'd take a bottle of something but that's just me "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You treat it exactly the same as if you were going to someone's house for a vanilla party. So yes of course you should take something like a bottle of wine. |
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"What makes you want to take a gift? Is it something that's come up in conversation with the person(s) you're meeting? Do you feel like you should or have to take something? I ask because it seems a bit odd to me, although mine is just one opinion so don't take it as gospel by any means!
In general just be nice, friendly, yourself, like you would (hopefully ) usually. Unless you've made arrangements for anything else to happen when you arrive, then that's all you can do really. Try not to overthink it, and have fun!"
I've never turned up at anyone's home, friend, family, playmate etc without a gift. Something my parents always did. |
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"Going to a house meet tomorrow for the first time, a bit hesitant but gagging (!) at the same time.
Don't want to offend the hosts,but would like to take a gift. That's OK, isn't it?
What else should I ensure I do, or don't do?"
Don't wipe your cock on the curtains.
Don't wipe your cock on her hair. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I take a bottle of wine - it just seems polite to me. If they know I am coming straight from work, I've had dinner cooked for me, which helps with the blood-sugar levels! Some people are only on here for a shag and it is a question of in, shag, home. I don't go back in those cases, but you can't know until you get there. Sadly.  |
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