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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rubbish, we meet single guys. We've had private meets with 3 new guys this year. Considering we have repeat meets with all our male friends, plus attend parties regularly, surely that's enough to be getting on with? But I guess the guys we say no to, would say we don't meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive never had one meet
You are looking for women to fulfil your high sex drive and entertain you. Most women are looking for mutual pleasure I guess  "
Talk about a Me Me Me profile lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me and my wife both have a couples profile and single profiles, my wife loves single guys and will pick the ones that take her fancy.
I myself on my single profile struggle dramatically on fab because of several reasons:
A) my profile does not really portray me properly which has been discovered when bumping into people in clubs
B) I am to alternative for the single women in my area
C) my hair is to much for people
D) I am to skinny
E) I have facial hair
F) I am married
G) I struggle to accom all the time
H) i am ugly to that person.
I) I talk to much for them and it comes across as desperate when it's more my ADHD showing my enjoyment and enthusiasm of talking to someone I find interesting lol.
As you can see these are the most common reasons I do not do well as a single male on fab so don't take things to personally. There are times I hate this site and will be ignored deleted blocked or just rejected by over 50 people in a day even if it's just for a social. (Yes i tend to give the option for both).
Just keep moving forward and maybe try clubs and events. Mesaage people off the kit and see if you can strike up an accord before you get there. It can help  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to find it's hard but if your honest and polite you get there eventually. Only issues I have is other single males unwanted my tend to hound you at times, so I totally get why women and couples are so annoyed. It drives me mad |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never had a problem. Must be your attitude"
Not always the attitude issue. Might just be down to luck. Plenty of guys on outnumbering women and couples too which is a big factor.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I tend to find it's hard but if your honest and polite you get there eventually. Only issues I have is other single males unwanted my tend to hound you at times, so I totally get why women and couples are so annoyed. It drives me mad "
And as if to prove my point im bombarded with messages from guys....... Lol |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"What is the issue with Single guys. No one seems to want to meet them?
But your not single :-0 
Therein lies the problem "
its not the problem for some of us, so speak for yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women do want to meet single men. What women don't wanna meet is a married man, sleeping behind his wife's back  "
Some, Well quite a actually lot don't mind at all |
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"What is the issue with Single guys. No one seems to want to meet them?"
No one? The (Fab) straight men want to meet other men, including single and ones without face pics, both parties at that. Apparently.  |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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op everyone who is married gets this..so ignore the haters..personally i find that threads like this just collect together all the people i never what to meet for their superior moralistic bullying tendencies.
be well, be happy and enjoy your life..its yours and too short to be miserable xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"op everyone who is married gets this..so ignore the haters..personally i find that threads like this just collect together all the people i never what to meet for their superior moralistic bullying tendencies.
be well, be happy and enjoy your life..its yours and too short to be miserable xx"
Well said Suzy |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"op everyone who is married gets this..so ignore the haters..personally i find that threads like this just collect together all the people i never what to meet for their superior moralistic bullying tendencies.
be well, be happy and enjoy your life..its yours and too short to be miserable xx
Well said Suzy "
thank you gorgeous xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"op everyone who is married gets this..so ignore the haters..personally i find that threads like this just collect together all the people i never what to meet for their superior moralistic bullying tendencies.
be well, be happy and enjoy your life..its yours and too short to be miserable xx
Well said Suzy thank you gorgeous xx"
Gorgeous...et moi?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"op everyone who is married gets this..so ignore the haters..personally i find that threads like this just collect together all the people i never what to meet for their superior moralistic bullying tendencies.
be well, be happy and enjoy your life..its yours and too short to be miserable xx"
My moral is not saying it's wrong to sleep with people behind his wife's back. In all honesty, my moral is that if you aren't happy enough with someone you are monogymoua with, you should just leave them, instead of prolonging the inevitable |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"op everyone who is married gets this..so ignore the haters..personally i find that threads like this just collect together all the people i never what to meet for their superior moralistic bullying tendencies.
be well, be happy and enjoy your life..its yours and too short to be miserable xx
My moral is not saying it's wrong to sleep with people behind his wife's back. In all honesty, my moral is that if you aren't happy enough with someone you are monogymoua with, you should just leave them, instead of prolonging the inevitable"
but thats not my business.i dont want to shack up and have babies....if i didnt sleep with married men id never meet couples..so whos to tell me who i can commit adultery with huh? no one thats who..cos its none of their business, until they want a unicorn for their own private fantasy party...pffft...performing seal, i am not in either, following rules that make no sense, listening to bullies tell me or others how to live or, shagging people who would grin and bear my immorality, to serve their own purposes..hypocrisy at its finest... |
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We meet plenty of single guys but it is not so easy to find the genuine ones or indeed ones where there is an attraction for Jill ,
There are lots of fantasists on here who love the thought of meeting but the excuses keep coming as to why they are cancelling a meet , others just want a wank chat
Then there are those cheating in a relationship and there are those that just don't tick the boxes in any of our preferences .
But op there is someone for everyone it is a numbers game so just persevere . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"op everyone who is married gets this..so ignore the haters..personally i find that threads like this just collect together all the people i never what to meet for their superior moralistic bullying tendencies.
be well, be happy and enjoy your life..its yours and too short to be miserable xx
My moral is not saying it's wrong to sleep with people behind his wife's back. In all honesty, my moral is that if you aren't happy enough with someone you are monogymoua with, you should just leave them, instead of prolonging the inevitablebut thats not my business.i dont want to shack up and have babies....if i didnt sleep with married men id never meet couples..so whos to tell me who i can commit adultery with huh? no one thats who..cos its none of their business, until they want a unicorn for their own private fantasy party...pffft...performing seal, i am not in either, following rules that make no sense, listening to bullies tell me or others how to live or, shagging people who would grin and bear my immorality, to serve their own purposes..hypocrisy at its finest..."
I'm not saying you can't  . Playing as a team, or with eachothers consent, I'm ok with that. I think it's awesome that they can happily live like that. But when people are in an unhappy relationship, and seek fun behind their partners back, that's when I don't exactly like it. Not because I don't think you should be cheating or anything. It's because you are staying in a situation that you clearly are not happy in. That's my morality. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"op everyone who is married gets this..so ignore the haters..personally i find that threads like this just collect together all the people i never what to meet for their superior moralistic bullying tendencies.
be well, be happy and enjoy your life..its yours and too short to be miserable xx
My moral is not saying it's wrong to sleep with people behind his wife's back. In all honesty, my moral is that if you aren't happy enough with someone you are monogymoua with, you should just leave them, instead of prolonging the inevitablebut thats not my business.i dont want to shack up and have babies....if i didnt sleep with married men id never meet couples..so whos to tell me who i can commit adultery with huh? no one thats who..cos its none of their business, until they want a unicorn for their own private fantasy party...pffft...performing seal, i am not in either, following rules that make no sense, listening to bullies tell me or others how to live or, shagging people who would grin and bear my immorality, to serve their own purposes..hypocrisy at its finest...
I'm not saying you can't . Playing as a team, or with eachothers consent, I'm ok with that. I think it's awesome that they can happily live like that. But when people are in an unhappy relationship, and seek fun behind their partners back, that's when I don't exactly like it. Not because I don't think you should be cheating or anything. It's because you are staying in a situation that you clearly are not happy in. That's my morality. "
i get you, but im not here to judge or make decisions for other peoples lives, that's not my place x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The joy of miscommunication perhaps?.
Honesty maybe is a better word.
Why not include his wife here,on this forum and see what he/she is after.
Maybe she feels the same and would welcome the added'angle' of thrill seeking.
A shame you think that I see single females as performing seals.
If I was not honest with my partner,and she with me....then neither of us would be here.
And I'm here at her behest.....that's trust for you. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"The joy of miscommunication perhaps?.
Honesty maybe is a better word.
Why not include his wife here,on this forum and see what he/she is after.
Maybe she feels the same and would welcome the added'angle' of thrill seeking.
A shame you think that I see single females as performing seals.
If I was not honest with my partner,and she with me....then neither of us would be here.
And I'm here at her behest.....that's trust for you."
i really dont care if you trust each other or not..again its none of my business.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Me and my wife both have a couples profile and single profiles, my wife loves single guys and will pick the ones that take her fancy.
I myself on my single profile struggle dramatically on fab because of several reasons:
A) my profile does not really portray me properly which has been discovered when bumping into people in clubs
B) I am to alternative for the single women in my area
C) my hair is to much for people
D) I am to skinny
E) I have facial hair
F) I am married
G) I struggle to accom all the time
H) i am ugly to that person.
I) I talk to much for them and it comes across as desperate when it's more my ADHD showing my enjoyment and enthusiasm of talking to someone I find interesting lol.
As you can see these are the most common reasons I do not do well as a single male on fab so don't take things to personally. There are times I hate this site and will be ignored deleted blocked or just rejected by over 50 people in a day even if it's just for a social. (Yes i tend to give the option for both).
Just keep moving forward and maybe try clubs and events. Mesaage people off the kit and see if you can strike up an accord before you get there. It can help "
I'd meet you if we were closer!
You look/sound like a fun guy to have a drink with  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We like Woodbridge
Shame your profile is private.
Mr C  because of the soldiers ?
Eerrr.....negative ghost rider,the pattern is full. roger"
Don't get me started! |
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"I've never had a problem. Must be your attitude
Not always the attitude issue. Might just be down to luck. Plenty of guys on outnumbering women and couples too which is a big factor.
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It is never ever just down to luck,playing the luck card hs such a cop out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Me and my wife both have a couples profile and single profiles, my wife loves single guys and will pick the ones that take her fancy.
I myself on my single profile struggle dramatically on fab because of several reasons:
A) my profile does not really portray me properly which has been discovered when bumping into people in clubs
B) I am to alternative for the single women in my area
C) my hair is to much for people
D) I am to skinny
E) I have facial hair
F) I am married
G) I struggle to accom all the time
H) i am ugly to that person.
I) I talk to much for them and it comes across as desperate when it's more my ADHD showing my enjoyment and enthusiasm of talking to someone I find interesting lol.
As you can see these are the most common reasons I do not do well as a single male on fab so don't take things to personally. There are times I hate this site and will be ignored deleted blocked or just rejected by over 50 people in a day even if it's just for a social. (Yes i tend to give the option for both).
Just keep moving forward and maybe try clubs and events. Mesaage people off the kit and see if you can strike up an accord before you get there. It can help "
I'd meet you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll be honest from what i've seen on fab , a lot of men will lay with anything that moves. So that's why quite a few people aren't complaining. Just be patient and good things will come your way. Be a gentleman and you will be rewarded. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It is getting harder, think it's because there are more and more time wasters and strange people joining..
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No idea what the proportion of time wasters are, and we've never had the misfortune communicating with one. However if time wasters are on the up, you just need to keep you witts about you to avoid. That doesn't mean women and couples who meet are on the decline. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It is getting harder, think it's because there are more and more time wasters and strange people joining..
No idea what the proportion of time wasters are, and we've never had the misfortune communicating with one. However if time wasters are on the up, you just need to keep you witts about you to avoid. That doesn't mean women and couples who meet are on the decline."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a single guy and I wish that women and couple can give guys a chance."
But Fab is not a charity. People don't join Fab to give people they are not attracted chances. They join Fab to meet their sexual needs are fantasies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Me and my wife both have a couples profile and single profiles, my wife loves single guys and will pick the ones that take her fancy.
I myself on my single profile struggle dramatically on fab because of several reasons:
A) my profile does not really portray me properly which has been discovered when bumping into people in clubs
B) I am to alternative for the single women in my area
C) my hair is to much for people
D) I am to skinny
E) I have facial hair
F) I am married
G) I struggle to accom all the time
H) i am ugly to that person.
I) I talk to much for them and it comes across as desperate when it's more my ADHD showing my enjoyment and enthusiasm of talking to someone I find interesting lol.
As you can see these are the most common reasons I do not do well as a single male on fab so don't take things to personally. There are times I hate this site and will be ignored deleted blocked or just rejected by over 50 people in a day even if it's just for a social. (Yes i tend to give the option for both).
Just keep moving forward and maybe try clubs and events. Mesaage people off the kit and see if you can strike up an accord before you get there. It can help
I'd meet you if we were closer!
You look/sound like a fun guy to have a drink with "
I love traveling for meets but alas your profile will not let me message you. Sad times all round |
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