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Would you bed someone your son's age or less?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Question for the ladies here.
I have three sons of which the older is 30 and although it is tempting to play with someone of that age on fab - there are many guys of that age so appealing -I personally find it uncomfortable (not physically!)and am uneasy at the thought simply because of the ages of my boys. So I have reluctantly set my filters to minimum age mid 30s. My best friend has no such inhibitions and happily plays with 25 year olds!
Any other female feel the same as I do? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Such a pain. Often causes a problem when meeting, or the other younger males live up the the stereotype we have on here.
Have to respect everyone's reasons behind their decisions tho, some meets just aren't meant to happen  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes,all the time. I don't compare anyone to my relatives,that's creepy. Everyone I meet is through their own merits. I have a brother a deceased father and uncles I could compare men to. I don't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Such a pain. Often causes a problem when meeting, or the other younger males live up the the stereotype we have on here.
Have to respect everyone's reasons behind their decisions tho, some meets just aren't meant to happen "
What stereotype would that be? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have sex with a 30 year old, his age doesn't bother me.
However I don't have a son that age.
My eldest is 21 and I've been approached by guys of that age on here and declined, I think 28 is the youngest I'd go for?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I couldn't play with anyone alot younger than me
It just sort of feels wrong :-/"
Trust me... The 30yr old feels so good lol 
If you click with someone then why not? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well on the other side I'm actually one of them boys who wants to get into bed with someone similar to my mother's age, so their 40s
We all have fantasies, and I can understand how it can make people feel wierd heh. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was answering your thread title question,not the one at the end of your OP "
Yep I honestly would have played with guys from 20 + if it wasn't for the fact I had sons older. It's just the way I am feel. I don't however criticise anyone else for playing with someone younger - not at all! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No we have a son 28 and his wife is 32.
We set our lower limit at 35. We do understand everyone is different, but for us we feel it wouldn't be right. x |
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It seems to me that lots of us who have adult children,feel different to a lot of people without children. .Many of my older gay male friends (who are chidless)think nothing of having sex with 18 /25 yr olds..like others on here it doesn't sit right with me, (I have two sons 23 and 26).It is interesting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a young guy it was always my fantasy to have sex with a mature woman. Then one day I got lucky. Her son was younger than me, but not by a lot. It was more me that was uncomfortable to be out with her. Being in was fine though! |
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"Question for the ladies here.
I have three sons of which the older is 30 and although it is tempting to play with someone of that age on fab - there are many guys of that age so appealing -I personally find it uncomfortable (not physically!)and am uneasy at the thought simply because of the ages of my boys. So I have reluctantly set my filters to minimum age mid 30s. My best friend has no such inhibitions and happily plays with 25 year olds!
Any other female feel the same as I do? "
My general rule is no one young enough to be my son or old enough to be my dad: works for me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have any sons but no I wouldn't meet anybody my kids age my eldest two are 23 and 22, not because they are young enough to be my kids I just don't get on with people that age, I would have nothing in common with them at all and I would look a total twat sat in a pub with them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't have any sons but no I wouldn't meet anybody my kids age my eldest two are 23 and 22, not because they are young enough to be my kids I just don't get on with people that age, I would have nothing in common with them at all and I would look a total twat sat in a pub with them "
Same, not attracted to younger women just not my thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't have any sons but no I wouldn't meet anybody my kids age my eldest two are 23 and 22, not because they are young enough to be my kids I just don't get on with people that age, I would have nothing in common with them at all and I would look a total twat sat in a pub with them "
Are you worried about being judged? I've had meals with men a lot younger than me and had evenings in pubs. I sat in a pub with a 22 yr old in central London a couple of years ago,and then got the tube back to his. I don't give a monkeys who looks at me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't have any sons but no I wouldn't meet anybody my kids age my eldest two are 23 and 22, not because they are young enough to be my kids I just don't get on with people that age, I would have nothing in common with them at all and I would look a total twat sat in a pub with them
Are you worried about being judged? I've had meals with men a lot younger than me and had evenings in pubs. I sat in a pub with a 22 yr old in central London a couple of years ago,and then got the tube back to his. I don't give a monkeys who looks at me "
Only by myself
I'm not stupid I know full well if I sat in a pub with anybody of any age nobody in that pubs going to be bothered about who I'm with
It would bother me though, I would feel stupid sat chatting up a 22 year old, I would feel a twat |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Question for the ladies here.
I have three sons of which the older is 30 and although it is tempting to play with someone of that age on fab - there are many guys of that age so appealing -I personally find it uncomfortable (not physically!)and am uneasy at the thought simply because of the ages of my boys. So I have reluctantly set my filters to minimum age mid 30s. My best friend has no such inhibitions and happily plays with 25 year olds!
Any other female feel the same as I do? "
My eldest is 23 and feel uncomfortable at the thought of meeting a lady of that are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"kids and their partners in their twenties..ill stick to 30+ thanks
and i have been approached by 'dominants' in their twenties, which just makes me laugh..err no  "
I met a dominant 22 year old,it's born into some men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't have any sons but no I wouldn't meet anybody my kids age my eldest two are 23 and 22, not because they are young enough to be my kids I just don't get on with people that age, I would have nothing in common with them at all and I would look a total twat sat in a pub with them
Are you worried about being judged? I've had meals with men a lot younger than me and had evenings in pubs. I sat in a pub with a 22 yr old in central London a couple of years ago,and then got the tube back to his. I don't give a monkeys who looks at me
Only by myself
I'm not stupid I know full well if I sat in a pub with anybody of any age nobody in that pubs going to be bothered about who I'm with
It would bother me though, I would feel stupid sat chatting up a 22 year old, I would feel a twat "
Tut,you don't chat them up,they chat you up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You ladies are missing out as guys my age are active, experienced and egar to please ladies older than us x"
I'm not missing out. I'm having a whale of a time |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"kids and their partners in their twenties..ill stick to 30+ thanks
and i have been approached by 'dominants' in their twenties, which just makes me laugh..err no
I met a dominant 22 year old,it's born into some men. "
i agree but they can go dominate a younger woman than me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My son is 23...my youngest lover in the past year was 18....is all about the person though...my first much younger playmate was 20 n he was much more mature than some guys I know that are my age, he was an amazing lover, gorgeous and didn't look old enough to be my Dad either....that I am not up for...my Son has no problem with it...anyone else that does, doesn't matter |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"kids and their partners in their twenties..ill stick to 30+ thanks
and i have been approached by 'dominants' in their twenties, which just makes me laugh..err no
I met a dominant 22 year old,it's born into some men. i agree but they can go dominate a younger woman than me x"
They probably do |
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"Question for the ladies here.
I have three sons of which the older is 30 and although it is tempting to play with someone of that age on fab - there are many guys of that age so appealing -I personally find it uncomfortable (not physically!)and am uneasy at the thought simply because of the ages of my boys. So I have reluctantly set my filters to minimum age mid 30s. My best friend has no such inhibitions and happily plays with 25 year olds!
Any other female feel the same as I do? "
I'm the same as you hun. I can't bring myself to swing with anyone same ages as my lads. It just feels wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Question for the ladies here.
I have three sons of which the older is 30 and although it is tempting to play with someone of that age on fab - there are many guys of that age so appealing -I personally find it uncomfortable (not physically!)and am uneasy at the thought simply because of the ages of my boys. So I have reluctantly set my filters to minimum age mid 30s. My best friend has no such inhibitions and happily plays with 25 year olds!
Any other female feel the same as I do? "
And I bet your sons mates think your a hot milf
But as for your post that's 1 reason I'm getting nowhere as most ladies have sons my age. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely not, I like a man of my own generation
Would that be "my generation?"
It might "
You know...
" people try to put us down, just because we get around." |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No way. 35 and up is our starting point"
The reason for this is that one of our kids are 25 and it doesn't feel right fucking someone anywhere near close enough to be our kids |
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In my experience many women have been somewhat into the idea, but more often than not, it has been with a bit of reluctance/feeling of guilt.
When all is said and done, many do not feel as if they can follow through with it (totally understandable).
I'm of course not a woman and therefore it's difficult give exact reasons! In any case, there's no 'right' and 'wrong' - just preference.  |
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"Question for the ladies here.
I have three sons of which the older is 30 and although it is tempting to play with someone of that age on fab - there are many guys of that age so appealing -I personally find it uncomfortable (not physically!)and am uneasy at the thought simply because of the ages of my boys. So I have reluctantly set my filters to minimum age mid 30s. My best friend has no such inhibitions and happily plays with 25 year olds!
Any other female feel the same as I do? "
Yup....I'm not interested in playing with anyone that is young enough to be my son |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Question for the ladies here.
I have three sons of which the older is 30 and although it is tempting to play with someone of that age on fab - there are many guys of that age so appealing -I personally find it uncomfortable (not physically!)and am uneasy at the thought simply because of the ages of my boys. So I have reluctantly set my filters to minimum age mid 30s. My best friend has no such inhibitions and happily plays with 25 year olds!
Any other female feel the same as I do? "
feel exactly the same ... it just makes me feel uncomfortable and wrong and not in a good way... i have played with much younger but it just gives me a bad feeling... so i wont do so now x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Reading through these posts just makes me think this is not the site for me.
Like I understand any woman's point of view on this matter here but it's like I would need to wait till I'm 28 to actually get some good meets going with people that would be my age at that time. And a fair few things would of changed in them years.
Probably the best time for a young bloke to use the saying "I'm not getting any younger" heh |
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"Reading through these posts just makes me think this is not the site for me.
Like I understand any woman's point of view on this matter here but it's like I would need to wait till I'm 28 to actually get some good meets going with people that would be my age at that time. And a fair few things would of changed in them years.
Probably the best time for a young bloke to use the saying "I'm not getting any younger" heh"
How about going to a regular bar or club to meet girls? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How about going to a regular bar or club to meet girls?"
my area is not the sort for that, and there's close to no nightlife around here, plus I work long hours. |
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By *ynchedWoman
over a year ago
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I have two adult children, but to me age is arbitary, as long as no laws are being broken then why should it be a problem....
The number we are given based on the rotation of the planets is no indication of someones maturity, compatability or sexual prowess....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age is just a rough gauge of how long you've been on the planet.
Personality and the full range of emotions and understanding or not age related in my opinion.
Age would not be conducive to my decision making , each case is unique. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have kids. However, anyone the same age as, or younger than, my little brother and I wouldn't meet them. Just feels wrong to me. So I do kind of get this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes and no, I am attracted to my own age group, young lads are nice looking and can be good to converse with but I can't help but feel uncomfortable about the wide age gap so its a definite no from me, and that includes in a club/party scenario too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im 43 and I have a son who is 17. My FB is 24 yrs old and he is an absolute gentleman, totally lush and mind blowing in the bedroom.
To me it's about who I connect with, sharing new experiences and having fun.
But then having said that I wouldn't have sex with a 17 yr old, that's just too young . |
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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago
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well there is a clear devide between male and female on this one.if you have read our profile you will see that we are age gap[male older than female mum dad]couple .get along realy well live togather .eat same meals ect.but music we way apart i like old stuff [of course]and she like ganster rap ect . |
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"I don't have any sons but no I wouldn't meet anybody my kids age my eldest two are 23 and 22, not because they are young enough to be my kids I just don't get on with people that age, I would have nothing in common with them at all and I would look a total twat sat in a pub with them
Are you worried about being judged? I've had meals with men a lot younger than me and had evenings in pubs. I sat in a pub with a 22 yr old in central London a couple of years ago,and then got the tube back to his. I don't give a monkeys who looks at me "
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I don't know.
At the moment we just meet people and don't ask for ages. In the end the person you are playing with is not that family member, they are not even a representation of them so it would have no influence.
If we excluded all people who are within a age range of our family members that would be pretty much everyone.
Uncles, brothers, sisters, nephews, step parents etc.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age doesn't matter, I have had fun with 22-60plus - what matters is connected to on/attraction and mood of the moment.
My girls and their partners are in their late twenties/ early thirties but I don't particularly think about them whenI am meeting.
My swinging world is a microcosm of fantasy and sex, all outside world worries and hangups get left behind! M x
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"I don't have any sons but no I wouldn't meet anybody my kids age my eldest two are 23 and 22, not because they are young enough to be my kids I just don't get on with people that age, I would have nothing in common with them at all and I would look a total twat sat in a pub with them
Are you worried about being judged? I've had meals with men a lot younger than me and had evenings in pubs. I sat in a pub with a 22 yr old in central London a couple of years ago,and then got the tube back to his. I don't give a monkeys who looks at me "
Best way to be, i dont care who looks at me either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think that's a bit of a problem for me, I don't class myself as the typical clueless young guy and many of my hobbies are related to retro things anyway, for all the things I like I could easily say I'm 10 years older than I should be
And due to the long hours I work the rare times when I go out its usually to switch off, it's not like it's easy for a bloke in his 20's to chat up a woman in her 30's knowing she ain't married or something like that heh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My son is 19. While 19 year olds may be adults in the eyes of the law, my view is that 19 year old males are not fully developed physically or emotionally, therefore I do not view them as truly "adult" and would never engage sexually with one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seems the majority of women say no. But there is the daddy-daughter RP kink.
What about a mother-son RP? Would people consider that?"
No, there's nothing sexy about a manchild that needs mothering. |
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"Seems the majority of women say no. But there is the daddy-daughter RP kink.
What about a mother-son RP? Would people consider that?
No, there's nothing sexy about a manchild that needs mothering."
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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago
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we ten years down line on this and years ago we usta watch where we went .now we dont give a fcuk.let all the world say what they may...just speak as you find.all fabbers a bit outside the norm box any way ha ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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|I can easily say from life experience that older women are fantastic in bed!! When I was in my 20's I slept with a few girls round my age, They didn't seem to have a clue in the bedroom and the sex was robotic. Then I met a few local real women (milfs) and my mind and my cock where blown away, So I do get why so many younger men wanna go with the older lady! because they are just wiser, sexier more confident and experienced. |
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