How many of you lovely single guys would meet a couple in a club? If the meet was pre arranged. What are everyone's views on club meets, why do you choose or not choose a club. Just getting a general opinion. Happy Sunday xx |
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"How many of you lovely single guys would meet a couple in a club? If the meet was pre arranged. What are everyone's views on club meets, why do you choose or not choose a club. Just getting a general opinion. Happy Sunday xx"
I would meet in a club be it for play or just a social |
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I have done this once to meet a special fab friend as it was the only way we could get together with our respective 'normal'lives.
It was a bit scary-my first couple and my first club meet.
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"I prefer club meets that way if you don't like the person you're meeting thes always other options  xx "
I'll bare that in mind on my next meet in Cupids |
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We struggle to accommodate due to extended family members living with us at the moment.
We also love clubs so will often arrange a club meet if everyone is agreeable. It often means we can meet those further afield at a mutually agreeable distance, and adds the fun of hotel meets within a more open venue.
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"How many of you lovely single guys would meet a couple in a club? If the meet was pre arranged. What are everyone's views on club meets, why do you choose or not choose a club. Just getting a general opinion. Happy Sunday xx
I would meet in a club be it for play or just a social "
I wouldn't meet in a club for a social...firstly as a single male it can be really expensive before you even start, unless you are a member already. And it can also give expectations and distractions. When having a social either alone or with my partner I like to be able to concentrate on them fully. |
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"How many of you lovely single guys would meet a couple in a club? If the meet was pre arranged. What are everyone's views on club meets, why do you choose or not choose a club. Just getting a general opinion. Happy Sunday xx
I would meet in a club be it for play or just a social
I wouldn't meet in a club for a social...firstly as a single male it can be really expensive before you even start, unless you are a member already. And it can also give expectations and distractions. When having a social either alone or with my partner I like to be able to concentrate on them fully."
I should of said in the club I have a membership at |
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We prefer club meets, however I wouldn't ask anyone to specifically come to a club as a condition of meeting them, preferring the spontaneity of meeting people.
I see it could have benefits, such as if you don't get along you can all go and still enjoy your night, however you still fun the risk of no shows, just as you would with a private meet.
Also money, for some they can't afford it or aren't willing to spend the entry fee on the off chance. For single men especially club prices can be expensive, also some clubs require membership which can have waiting lists etc.
However you can always ask, people can always say yes or no  |
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We can't accommodate due to young family, and have been let down on meets 90% of the time! We wouldn't expect a single male to meet for a social in a club. We have had so many say they won't meet in a club which we are OK with we just have more fun in a club, I just wanted a wider opinion from everyone really. x |
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We have tried to, but most guy's not interested.
Various reasons
Too expensive.
Some find clubs intimidating or they have never been.
Some clubs, lack of privacy and lockable play rooms.
Personally we find the club environment very sexy and erotic.
But yet to find someone willing to meet in one.
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"We have tried to, but most guy's not interested.
Various reasons
Too expensive.
Some find clubs intimidating or they have never been.
Some clubs, lack of privacy and lockable play rooms.
Personally we find the club environment very sexy and erotic.
But yet to find someone willing to meet in one.
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We ve been let down by singles and couples but we ve always still had a good night  |
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We started with club meets as we thought there wouldn't be any pressure or expectations for us to play, and we found we can have a good night by ourselves if we don't anyone else to play with.
Additionally we choose not to accommodate as we want to keep fab separate to our family home, but we would plan a hotel meet if we were away and the mood takes us |
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"We have tried to, but most guy's not interested.
Various reasons
Too expensive.
Some find clubs intimidating or they have never been.
Some clubs, lack of privacy and lockable play rooms.
Personally we find the club environment very sexy and erotic.
But yet to find someone willing to meet in one.
We ve been let down by singles and couples but we ve always still had a good night "
Exactly, if they are a no show then atleast you have other options.
Btw you should read the thread we put up
Running out of excuses.
Talking about nosey teenager's |
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"We have tried to, but most guy's not interested.
Various reasons
Too expensive.
Some find clubs intimidating or they have never been.
Some clubs, lack of privacy and lockable play rooms.
Personally we find the club environment very sexy and erotic.
But yet to find someone willing to meet in one.
We ve been let down by singles and couples but we ve always still had a good night
Exactly, if they are a no show then atleast you have other options.
Btw you should read the thread we put up
Running out of excuses.
Talking about nosey teenager's "
We did |
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I'd be happy to meet in a club for a social or play. Initially I had reservations about going to a club but I'm now taking out a membership as I've had a couple of no shows and generally I think people who attend clubs are far more genuine than those that don't. |
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Sounds like a good idea...
However it would be expensive if they had to join a club but the upside for a club virgin is if the cpl dont want to play at least someone has showed them the ropes...
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"I'd be happy to meet in a club for a social or play. Initially I had reservations about going to a club but I'm now taking out a membership as I've had a couple of no shows and generally I think people who attend clubs are far more genuine than those that don't."
Totally agree xx |
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We never arrange meets in clubs we love the spontaneity of meet hence that's why we love clubs . We can go there under no pressure at all and if we see someone we like go for him
. If we don't see anyone we still always enjoy the night on a social level |
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Personally I think they're overpriced for single guys and yes I do know the reason behind it.
Also I would feel very awkward going to a club by myself, would have no idea what to do or where to begin. |
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"Personally I think they're overpriced for single guys and yes I do know the reason behind it.
Also I would feel very awkward going to a club by myself, would have no idea what to do or where to begin."
Begin with me
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Having paid for hotel rooms only for the guy doing a "no show" the extra costs for him really don't concern us too much.
In addition we usually have to cover the costs of a babysitter. Add the extra costs of lingerie or outfits we can end up hundreds of pounds out of pocket for a no show.
Sorry but if he is too skint to afford a club entry fee then...
As some of the other posts have mentioned it leaves us with with other options
To summarize we don't aim to add costs for a guy meeting us but equally we are definitely not aiming to be a cheap nights entertainment. |
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"Personally I think they're overpriced for single guys and yes I do know the reason behind it.
Also I would feel very awkward going to a club by myself, would have no idea what to do or where to begin.
Begin with me
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That would be one hell of a way to start  |
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I only meet in clubs as it's the safest option as a single female. my favourite is The Unit blackpool Bitheseaside event there's one this saturday 12 till 6. I like it as it's suitable for everyone the price is ten pounds a person so no extra charging males and it's only 8 pounds before half one. My first time I was given a tour and was made to feel welcome. Would recommend if first time trying a event and defo a great safe place for meets xx |
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Would be happy to meet in a club, but nervous as never been to one before. Thinking about dipping my toes in next when on a visit to Manchester. Anyone got a recommendation or would like to help a club virgin out |
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I think club meets are far safer an option for couples - whilst I can find going to a club as a single quite daunting, I can totally understand why a lot of couples prefer it. Plus if you don't get on, there's plenty more for both parties to be doing to ensure the night isn't a total waste of time |
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