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By *woOfaKind OP Couple
over a year ago
Lancaster area |
Many of us know that finding compatible couples is not nearly as easy as you would think. And when it comes to finding ladies, a man on his own could spend years on here without getting a single reply, so my question is this:
Have any Husbands simply given up on the Lifestyle, and just allowed their Wife to Play on her own?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. We started in this lifestyle together because we love to watch each other being pleasured and pleasuring others.
Of course we enjoy what we are doing just as much. But without each other then the build up and excitement just wouldn't be there. So no if one gave up we both give up. Simples xx |
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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago
Loughborough |
"No. We started in this lifestyle together because we love to watch each other being pleasured and pleasuring others.
Of course we enjoy what we are doing just as much. But without each other then the build up and excitement just wouldn't be there. So no if one gave up we both give up. Simples xx"
100% agree with this.
Some couples do like to play separate, choose what's right for you. |
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By *woOfaKind OP Couple
over a year ago
Lancaster area |
"I think that is why we see so many couple profiles saying that they like to watch the wife."
I agree. It's infinitely easier.
Finding couples can be like trying to find two winning lottery tickets! |
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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago
Loughborough |
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Finding couples can be like trying to find two winning lottery tickets!"
Been doing this years and never had a problem finding compatible couples. Maybe you need to reassess your criteria?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think that is why we see so many couple profiles saying that they like to watch the wife.
I agree. It's infinitely easier.
Finding couples can be like trying to find two winning lottery tickets!"
If thats the case, then we should be millionaires  We have met many lovely couples. x |
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By *luetezoCouple
over a year ago
by the beach |
We are always looking for that single lady or compatable couple but it us difficult, we have changed our options and now entertain single guys once we have got to know them, always clear about our rules and boundaries so there are no misunderstandings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Many of us know that finding compatible couples is not nearly as easy as you would think. And when it comes to finding ladies, a man on his own could spend years on here without getting a single reply, so my question is this:
Have any Husbands simply given up on the Lifestyle, and just allowed their Wife to Play on her own?
JD"
This is pretty much what I said on a thread I started lol
Joined as a couple we had fun, she met guys solo and looked for a regular. Havin found a regular by other means she has a fb that she's happy with an fecided to come off here so she let me go solo. I message and wink ppl but don't get replies back. I know I'm not the prettiest of lads so yes i am thinking of giving up an leaving her be  |
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My wife and I tend to play away alone. Often she has more interest tan I, and there have been times when I stay home and take the opportunity to listen to music she does not like or watch a film that is not to her taste....or spend time with friends (our friends know)
And other times I have been out having fun and my wife stays in.
Haven't given up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Many of us know that finding compatible couples is not nearly as easy as you would think. And when it comes to finding ladies, a man on his own could spend years on here without getting a single reply, so my question is this:
Have any Husbands simply given up on the Lifestyle, and just allowed their Wife to Play on her own?
JD"
Please check out my profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try being a wife who love seeing him fucking someone else only. Believe me that is nigh on impossible sometimes.
However I, don't really like me getting dirty with a fem without his involvement as it's also a turn on for me. We have found that the absolutely gorgeous females we have met in clubs, and turned into some of our best friends, that it is a wonderful thing.
It's not impossible to find but it takes time and a connection with all parties concerned  |
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By *woOfaKind OP Couple
over a year ago
Lancaster area |
"Please check out my profile. "
I guess that answers my question! Haha
I don't know....I haven't given up, but sometimes I really feel like it. Sometimes, I'd rather just hang around with some nerds like myself and discuss comics and underground rock music.
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By *woOfaKind OP Couple
over a year ago
Lancaster area |
Truthfully, her and I both would probably do better if we went to Clubs more. We live within close driving distance of three clubs, but we can't afford to go. They are a little pricey, and we have many other priorities.
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"No. We started in this lifestyle together because we love to watch each other being pleasured and pleasuring others.
Of course we enjoy what we are doing just as much. But without each other then the build up and excitement just wouldn't be there. So no if one gave up we both give up. Simples xx"
This for us too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Please check out my profile.
I guess that answers my question! Haha
I don't know....I haven't given up, but sometimes I really feel like it. Sometimes, I'd rather just hang around with some nerds like myself and discuss comics and underground rock music.
JD"
Indeed. |
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I would like flirty to play on her own with a guy as it's such a horny thought but at the moment she isn't confident enough. I would also like to meet alone one day but with another guy. On the whole though it's really hot to play together and share the experiance |
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"Many of us know that finding compatible couples is not nearly as easy as you would think. And when it comes to finding ladies, a man on his own could spend years on here without getting a single reply, so my question is this:
Have any Husbands simply given up on the Lifestyle, and just allowed their Wife to Play on her own?
JD"
We do this as a couple. If we have no successful meets that cater for us both then hey ho. Let's try something different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As it's hard for men or couples to find people willing to play. myself and Mr exemacs talked about me playing on my own with another woman for a while.. it worked for us (and her lol) |
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It is harder to find a compatible couple together. Simple maths really.
No one knows the odds but if you assume that the odds of finding someone you like is 50/50.
Then there is a 25% chance you will find another single who also likes you.
But the odds reduce dramatically with 4 people each of whom have to like each other.
Down to 0.39% chance of all 4 people liking each other.
That's only an example saying that everyone has a 50/50 chance of liking each other. But it can show why it can be tricky for 2 people to match up with another 2 people.
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We only play together even if it's with a single guy we are both still there. We have met a few couples and that's always an enjoyable experience and K has admitted that it's hot watching me please another woman  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. We started in this lifestyle together because we love to watch each other being pleasured and pleasuring others.
Of course we enjoy what we are doing just as much. But without each other then the build up and excitement just wouldn't be there. So no if one gave up we both give up. Simples xx"
Exactly this. We get more out of this, seeing eachother with others, more than the act of actually being with someone else. If that makes sense lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've only been around here for a few months and met a few couples that all four of us have clicked. We've seen them all more than once so works for us. |
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By *itnkatCouple
over a year ago
in lincs between lincoln grantham boston |
"Try being a wife who love seeing him fucking someone else only. Believe me that is nigh on impossible sometimes.
However I, don't really like me getting dirty with a fem without his involvement as it's also a turn on for me. We have found that the absolutely gorgeous females we have met in clubs, and turned into some of our best friends, that it is a wonderful thing.
It's not impossible to find but it takes time and a connection with all parties concerned "
my wife would love to see me with another woman but its inposible to get that situation it is hard enough to find a single guy that's prepared to let us get to know them first also thay just want to meet fuck and never hear from again
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