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I often see status updates asking for tradesmen, electricians, plumber etc. Firstly are they suggesting they will 'pay in kind' and secondly why would you look in a swingers site , use google  |
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My take is that they're looking for a cheap / free job to be done which may or may not be 'paid in kind'. Good luck for trying I say - it's up to them how far they'll go with the tradesman whether it's just a cuppa, a flash, a bj or more if they can find one that's will to offer up their services although it seems like a kind of prostitution to me to be honest! |
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"My take is that they're looking for a cheap / free job to be done which may or may not be 'paid in kind'. Good luck for trying I say - it's up to them how far they'll go with the tradesman whether it's just a cuppa, a flash, a bj or more if they can find one that's will to offer up their services although it seems like a kind of prostitution to me to be honest! "
It won't pay the bills though... any professional tradesman will already know that you can't survive by giving it away for free,
Cal |
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"I often see status updates asking for tradesmen, electricians, plumber etc. Firstly are they suggesting they will 'pay in kind' and secondly why would you look in a swingers site , use google "
I need a garden wall building and have tried going down the normal route and can't get anyone. Never thought of trying on here hahaha
Any builders want to build a wall for me???  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I often see status updates asking for tradesmen, electricians, plumber etc. Firstly are they suggesting they will 'pay in kind' and secondly why would you look in a swingers site , use google
I need a garden wall building and have tried going down the normal route and can't get anyone. Never thought of trying on here hahaha
Any builders want to build a wall for me??? "
Put it as your status (but be prepared to be inundated with mail)
If you can be bothered sorting through the timewasters it will ne so worth it.
In the past 3 months I have had a shed base built, 2 tvs put up on the wall, flooring laid, window and doors frames cleaned, laptop fixed, legal advice and my very large garden done 4 times.
The power of Fab  |
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I can understand the role play bit but the doing it for free bit I can't get my head around....I did see one post and I thought slut just wants her house done x |
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"I often see status updates asking for tradesmen, electricians, plumber etc. Firstly are they suggesting they will 'pay in kind' and secondly why would you look in a swingers site , use google "
So they can live out their fantasy's as seen on many porn sites. Or and yes maybe pay for expensive trades with sexual services lol. Each to their own.
I almost had the sky installation man except my parents decided to visit me right at the most awkward time! Not cool. Lol.
Also just to add, I'm a qualified carpenter. Yes really! Just wanted to put that out there!  lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My take is that they're looking for a cheap / free job to be done which may or may not be 'paid in kind'. Good luck for trying I say - it's up to them how far they'll go with the tradesman whether it's just a cuppa, a flash, a bj or more if they can find one that's will to offer up their services although it seems like a kind of prostitution to me to be honest!
It won't pay the bills though... any professional tradesman will already know that you can't survive by giving it away for free,
Cal"
Those tradesmen who are that good and always in work can afford to do short term jobs for free. I'm always doing my family free chippie work. You shouldn't assume. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My take is that they're looking for a cheap / free job to be done which may or may not be 'paid in kind'. Good luck for trying I say - it's up to them how far they'll go with the tradesman whether it's just a cuppa, a flash, a bj or more if they can find one that's will to offer up their services although it seems like a kind of prostitution to me to be honest! "
Taking a woman on a date whereas she expects you to pay for the entire night including meal and drinks all night isn't "paying" out in order to get laid??? Please think before preaching! |
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"Sorry, wrong emotion there lol, but you get the picture."
If the picture is you're happy to fuck anyone in exchange for their services then yeah we get the picture  |
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"My take is that they're looking for a cheap / free job to be done which may or may not be 'paid in kind'. Good luck for trying I say - it's up to them how far they'll go with the tradesman whether it's just a cuppa, a flash, a bj or more if they can find one that's will to offer up their services although it seems like a kind of prostitution to me to be honest!
Taking a woman on a date whereas she expects you to pay for the entire night including meal and drinks all night isn't "paying" out in order to get laid??? Please think before preaching!"
Ok, I've thought about it
I wouldn't go out on dates where someone *expects* me to pay all night.
I might *offer* to pay but would have no expectation of sex at the end of it.
If I met a lady and the expectation from her was that I paid for everything and the expectation from me was sex as a consequence - that IS prostitution isn't it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My take is that they're looking for a cheap / free job to be done which may or may not be 'paid in kind'. Good luck for trying I say - it's up to them how far they'll go with the tradesman whether it's just a cuppa, a flash, a bj or more if they can find one that's will to offer up their services although it seems like a kind of prostitution to me to be honest!
Taking a woman on a date whereas she expects you to pay for the entire night including meal and drinks all night isn't "paying" out in order to get laid??? Please think before preaching!
Ok, I've thought about it
I wouldn't go out on dates where someone *expects* me to pay all night.
I might *offer* to pay but would have no expectation of sex at the end of it.
If I met a lady and the expectation from her was that I paid for everything and the expectation from me was sex as a consequence - that IS prostitution isn't it? "
No lol. It's just how most dates go these days. You only have to be a member of POF to see that. By the way I'm not talking about experience. Sure I believe in tradition ( a guy pays for the first date or first drinks) but after date one or two I pay first myself. I don't judge anyone else who choose to do things differently. I certainly wouldn't class them let alone call them prostitutes! Just nasty. |
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I can do just about any job in the home, from digging up tree roots to installing a new bathroom suite, to building a shed, you name it...I am a Yorkshireman though and I'll do bugger all for free.
Sex is not payment, you get out of it just as much as I do if not more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My take is that they're looking for a cheap / free job to be done which may or may not be 'paid in kind'. Good luck for trying I say - it's up to them how far they'll go with the tradesman whether it's just a cuppa, a flash, a bj or more if they can find one that's will to offer up their services although it seems like a kind of prostitution to me to be honest!
Taking a woman on a date whereas she expects you to pay for the entire night including meal and drinks all night isn't "paying" out in order to get laid??? Please think before preaching!
Ok, I've thought about it
I wouldn't go out on dates where someone *expects* me to pay all night.
I might *offer* to pay but would have no expectation of sex at the end of it.
If I met a lady and the expectation from her was that I paid for everything and the expectation from me was sex as a consequence - that IS prostitution isn't it?
No lol. It's just how most dates go these days. You only have to be a member of POF to see that. By the way I'm not talking about experience. Sure I believe in tradition ( a guy pays for the first date or first drinks) but after date one or two I pay first myself. I don't judge anyone else who choose to do things differently. I certainly wouldn't class them let alone call them prostitutes! Just nasty. "
Ah I've never been anywhere near POF or Tinder etc and the rules of the dating game have certainly evolved from my day if there's now an expectation to be wined and dined and the expectation is that the man *always* pays with guaranteed sex at the end of it
I'll stick to here I think  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I posted something similar ...meaning for it to be a roleplay meet but this guy answered and i was playing the roleplay thing but when he actually turned up he genuienly thought my plumbing was fucked haha
For me i use it as a roleplay meet but maybe should of been clearer |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My take is that they're looking for a cheap / free job to be done which may or may not be 'paid in kind'. Good luck for trying I say - it's up to them how far they'll go with the tradesman whether it's just a cuppa, a flash, a bj or more if they can find one that's will to offer up their services although it seems like a kind of prostitution to me to be honest!
Taking a woman on a date whereas she expects you to pay for the entire night including meal and drinks all night isn't "paying" out in order to get laid??? Please think before preaching!
Ok, I've thought about it
I wouldn't go out on dates where someone *expects* me to pay all night.
I might *offer* to pay but would have no expectation of sex at the end of it.
If I met a lady and the expectation from her was that I paid for everything and the expectation from me was sex as a consequence - that IS prostitution isn't it?
No lol. It's just how most dates go these days. You only have to be a member of POF to see that. By the way I'm not talking about experience. Sure I believe in tradition ( a guy pays for the first date or first drinks) but after date one or two I pay first myself. I don't judge anyone else who choose to do things differently. I certainly wouldn't class them let alone call them prostitutes! Just nasty.
Ah I've never been anywhere near POF or Tinder etc and the rules of the dating game have certainly evolved from my day if there's now an expectation to be wined and dined and the expectation is that the man *always* pays with guaranteed sex at the end of it
I'll stick to here I think "
Trust me you'll be better off for doing so. From a woman's point of view, all dating sites are just being used by the men on there as glorified sex sites. I found at least with fab no one hides their true intentions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Also just to add, I'm a qualified carpenter. Yes really! Just wanted to put that out there! lol
As luck would have it my carpents need carpenting  "
Are you joking? Do you honestly not know what a carpenter does?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Also just to add, I'm a qualified carpenter. Yes really! Just wanted to put that out there! lol
As luck would have it my carpents need carpenting
Are you joking? Do you honestly not know what a carpenter does? "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I often see status updates asking for tradesmen, electricians, plumber etc. Firstly are they suggesting they will 'pay in kind' and secondly why would you look in a swingers site , use google
I need a garden wall building and have tried going down the normal route and can't get anyone. Never thought of trying on here hahaha
Any builders want to build a wall for me??? "
Would like to help you out. But I'm a plumber/bathroom fitter shame |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hubby does property maintenance if anyone near needs anything done he will be happy to come around and take a look! He has my full permission to take payment in kind as long as he brings some more ey home! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My take is that they're looking for a cheap / free job to be done which may or may not be 'paid in kind'. Good luck for trying I say - it's up to them how far they'll go with the tradesman whether it's just a cuppa, a flash, a bj or more if they can find one that's will to offer up their services although it seems like a kind of prostitution to me to be honest!
Taking a woman on a date whereas she expects you to pay for the entire night including meal and drinks all night isn't "paying" out in order to get laid??? Please think before preaching!"
If both parties are happy with the arrangement what's the problem? I love a good tradesman and they are always very well looked after |
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"I often see status updates asking for tradesmen, electricians, plumber etc. Firstly are they suggesting they will 'pay in kind' and secondly why would you look in a swingers site , use google
I need a garden wall building and have tried going down the normal route and can't get anyone. Never thought of trying on here hahaha
Any builders want to build a wall for me???
Put it as your status (but be prepared to be inundated with mail)
If you can be bothered sorting through the timewasters it will ne so worth it.
In the past 3 months I have had a shed base built, 2 tvs put up on the wall, flooring laid, window and doors frames cleaned, laptop fixed, legal advice and my very large garden done 4 times.
The power of Fab "
Really hahaha that's ama I will give it a go!!! x |
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"I often see status updates asking for tradesmen, electricians, plumber etc. Firstly are they suggesting they will 'pay in kind' and secondly why would you look in a swingers site , use google
I need a garden wall building and have tried going down the normal route and can't get anyone. Never thought of trying on here hahaha
Any builders want to build a wall for me???
Would like to help you out. But I'm a plumber/bathroom fitter shame"
New bathroom is on my jobs to do  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I often see status updates asking for tradesmen, electricians, plumber etc. Firstly are they suggesting they will 'pay in kind' and secondly why would you look in a swingers site , use google
I need a garden wall building and have tried going down the normal route and can't get anyone. Never thought of trying on here hahaha
Any builders want to build a wall for me???
Put it as your status (but be prepared to be inundated with mail)
If you can be bothered sorting through the timewasters it will ne so worth it.
In the past 3 months I have had a shed base built, 2 tvs put up on the wall, flooring laid, window and doors frames cleaned, laptop fixed, legal advice and my very large garden done 4 times.
The power of Fab "
out of curiousity did you supply the materials??
There is no way I would shed out of my own pocket for a floor for somebody else!
Unreal!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Like it has been said before ....... It won't pay the bills . I have my own building firm which I have overheads . As much as I would like to exchange services it doesn't put clothes on my back . At the most a discount rate could be disscussed . Don't mean to sound harsh , but that's real life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Like it has been said before ....... It won't pay the bills . I have my own building firm which I have overheads . As much as I would like to exchange services it doesn't put clothes on my back . At the most a discount rate could be disscussed . Don't mean to sound harsh , but that's real life. "
Totally understandable.
At a push and I mean a push if it was somebody on here I knew well. I could offer my services of a Saturday as long as materials were supplied. That way I'm not loosing a days wages. |
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"I often see status updates asking for tradesmen, electricians, plumber etc. Firstly are they suggesting they will 'pay in kind' and secondly why would you look in a swingers site , use google
I need a garden wall building and have tried going down the normal route and can't get anyone. Never thought of trying on here hahaha
Any builders want to build a wall for me???
Would like to help you out. But I'm a plumber/bathroom fitter shame
New bathroom is on my jobs to do x"
Message me and I can see what i can do for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry, wrong emotion there lol, but you get the picture.
If the picture is you're happy to fuck anyone in exchange for their services then yeah we get the picture "
That's exactly what I mean. |
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"I often see status updates asking for tradesmen, electricians, plumber etc. Firstly are they suggesting they will 'pay in kind' and secondly why would you look in a swingers site , use google
I need a garden wall building and have tried going down the normal route and can't get anyone. Never thought of trying on here hahaha
Any builders want to build a wall for me???
Put it as your status (but be prepared to be inundated with mail)
If you can be bothered sorting through the timewasters it will ne so worth it.
In the past 3 months I have had a shed base built, 2 tvs put up on the wall, flooring laid, window and doors frames cleaned, laptop fixed, legal advice and my very large garden done 4 times.
The power of Fab
out of curiousity did you supply the materials??
There is no way I would shed out of my own pocket for a floor for somebody else!
Unreal!!"
I did of course supply (or pay for) the materials. I wouldn't expect anyone to do something for nothing.
The guys who replied were more than happy to accept payment in kind. Nobody was take bb advantage of and it works well for us both. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I didn't think of advertising on here, I run a building&landscaping company in south east London, never know get in touch, discount for fabbers, with in reason hahah |
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