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over a year ago
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When you realise ya fancy both men and women surely...you aren't not straight until you do anything...Your sexuality should have nothing to do with whether you can get laid or not...I knew I was bisexual when I first fancied a female...that was in my teens...I never fucked one until my 40s so ya know  |
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"When you realise ya fancy both men and women surely...you aren't not straight until you do anything...Your sexuality should have nothing to do with whether you can get laid or not...I knew I was bisexual when I first fancied a female...that was in my teens...I never fucked one until my 40s so ya know "
I disagree, I don't find men sexually attractive at all, but I do find cocks sexually attractive (not all cocks)...maybe I break the mould but I really don't like the assumption that bi means I fancy men, I find the female figure massively sexually attractive by the way  |
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"When you realise ya fancy both men and women surely...you aren't not straight until you do anything...Your sexuality should have nothing to do with whether you can get laid or not...I knew I was bisexual when I first fancied a female...that was in my teens...I never fucked one until my 40s so ya know
I disagree, I don't find men sexually attractive at all, but I do find cocks sexually attractive (not all cocks)...maybe I break the mould but I really don't like the assumption that bi means I fancy men, I find the female figure massively sexually attractive by the way "
bi playful then ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The issue is labels who give a fuck what/who turns you on or how you/others define you just do what you enjoy and call yourself what you want fuck the boxes |
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"When you realise ya fancy both men and women surely...you aren't not straight until you do anything...Your sexuality should have nothing to do with whether you can get laid or not...I knew I was bisexual when I first fancied a female...that was in my teens...I never fucked one until my 40s so ya know
I disagree, I don't find men sexually attractive at all, but I do find cocks sexually attractive (not all cocks)...maybe I break the mould but I really don't like the assumption that bi means I fancy men, I find the female figure massively sexually attractive by the way "
Same here. I think the term 'hete exible' might best describe it, but it's inadequate like all labels. I wouldn't say you break the mould at all. Plenty of guys feel the same, and plenty of women feel the same about their respective counterparts. Don't be put off at all, please |
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over a year ago
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"its when you,ve snowballed yer boyfriend  "
Snowballing mmmmmmm .......
Sorry I drifted away there. Yeah I reckon once you realise you really like it then your no longer curious. |
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I suspect that no two definition s will be the same.
I consider myself to be bicurious because I find cocks attractive and dont mind sucking them in a MMF situation.
I dont fancy men,kiss men or do anal so in my mind Im only bicurious.
Ive met a few of straight men who have been bi-friendly,meaning that they have been happy for me to suck them or fluff them within a MMF situation but would never consider returning the favour.
Some will argue that if you even look at another cock appreciatively then you must be bi so I suppose the suffix could just be an indication of how far you would go
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By *andemanMan
over a year ago
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This is a really good question.
I have never been homophobic never saw the point. Had childhood jerk off sessions with a mate but that was just experimentation.
For most of my life i only had straight sex. A few years back dozzing in a hot tub an air france steward took a fancy to my cock and sucked me (without permission) like a real pro! Wow.
Since then i have had lots of different experiences with Men and Woman. I am 100% top (but do like being rimmed m of f). My first choice is always woman but a young sexy hunk sub will always give me wood.
I suppose i am Bi but the way the brain and self image functions i really just see myself as a happy Hedonist Tart!
I could never romantically fall in love with a man, though i love many of my friends like brothers, but i can and have fallen maddly inlove with woman.
So what would you all say Bi or Tart? |
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"This is a really good question.
I have never been homophobic never saw the point. Had childhood jerk off sessions with a mate but that was just experimentation.
For most of my life i only had straight sex. A few years back dozzing in a hot tub an air france steward took a fancy to my cock and sucked me (without permission) like a real pro! Wow.
Since then i have had lots of different experiences with Men and Woman. I am 100% top (but do like being rimmed m of f). My first choice is always woman but a young sexy hunk sub will always give me wood.
I suppose i am Bi but the way the brain and self image functions i really just see myself as a happy Hedonist Tart!
I could never romantically fall in love with a man, though i love many of my friends like brothers, but i can and have fallen maddly inlove with woman.
So what would you all say Bi or Tart?"
As you dont give but receive I would say Bi-Friendly |
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By *andemanMan
over a year ago
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"This is a really good question.
I have never been homophobic never saw the point. Had childhood jerk off sessions with a mate but that was just experimentation.
For most of my life i only had straight sex. A few years back dozzing in a hot tub an air france steward took a fancy to my cock and sucked me (without permission) like a real pro! Wow.
Since then i have had lots of different experiences with Men and Woman. I am 100% top (but do like being rimmed m of f). My first choice is always woman but a young sexy hunk sub will always give me wood.
I suppose i am Bi but the way the brain and self image functions i really just see myself as a happy Hedonist Tart!
I could never romantically fall in love with a man, though i love many of my friends like brothers, but i can and have fallen maddly inlove with woman.
So what would you all say Bi or Tart?
As you dont give but receive I would say Bi-Friendly"
I am told i give increadable pblow jobs mind deep. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When you realise ya fancy both men and women surely...you aren't not straight until you do anything...Your sexuality should have nothing to do with whether you can get laid or not...I knew I was bisexual when I first fancied a female...that was in my teens...I never fucked one until my 40s so ya know
I disagree, I don't find men sexually attractive at all, but I do find cocks sexually attractive (not all cocks)...maybe I break the mould but I really don't like the assumption that bi means I fancy men, I find the female figure massively sexually attractive by the way "
I was just going to write the exact same thing. It's cocks rather than guys that do it for me too... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"curious is thinking about it bi sexual is having done it X "
not sure its that black and white? You might try a kiss or maybe oral but nothing else.....and still curious....maybe
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've only kissed a woman a couple of times, hence I've put bi curious. When I eventually have sex with a woman and if I want to do it again, I'll put bisexual.
Katie."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am not bisexual. I don't fancy women, therefore I can't possibly be bisexual. However I quite like soft play with women, but I guess I can't be bicurious either because I've done what I'm curious about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am not bisexual. I don't fancy women, therefore I can't possibly be bisexual. However I quite like soft play with women, but I guess I can't be bicurious either because I've done what I'm curious about. "
yer bi,,and youd probably say that to a guy that posted what you just said,,big deal yer bi,,it quite normal,,get over it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am not bisexual. I don't fancy women, therefore I can't possibly be bisexual. However I quite like soft play with women, but I guess I can't be bicurious either because I've done what I'm curious about.
yer bi,,and youd probably say that to a guy that posted what you just said,,big deal yer bi,,it quite normal,,get over it"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am not bisexual. I don't fancy women, therefore I can't possibly be bisexual. However I quite like soft play with women, but I guess I can't be bicurious either because I've done what I'm curious about.
yer bi,,and youd probably say that to a guy that posted what you just said,,big deal yer bi,,it quite normal,,get over it"
I have had guys say this to me and I haven't thought that they were bisexual. The reason being was that I thought the definition was being attracted to both sexes in a similar way. I thought the term ' bisexual' was more about sexual attraction rather being willing to experiment sexually. But I'm happy to be wrong. |
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By *andemanMan
over a year ago
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Actually i am not interested in TVs (no offecne intendeed) and actually reaserch says most TVs are steight. A TS (male to female) is a woman. A pre-op is dependent on thier own identification. Are some Pre-ops very sexy and attractive. Hell yes some on here are gorgious.
Like i said i think i am just a Tart.lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Actually i am not interested in TVs (no offecne intendeed) and actually reaserch says most TVs are steight. A TS (male to female) is a woman. A pre-op is dependent on thier own identification. Are some Pre-ops very sexy and attractive. Hell yes some on here are gorgious.
Like i said i think i am just a Tart.lol"
research my backside,,trust me most tvs are bi,,they might not admit it but they are,,ts,,totally different ball game,,if ya pardon the expression |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I suspect that no two definition s will be the same.
I consider myself to be bicurious because I find cocks attractive and dont mind sucking them in a MMF situation.
I dont fancy men,kiss men or do anal so in my mind Im only bicurious.
Ive met a few of straight men who have been bi-friendly,meaning that they have been happy for me to suck them or fluff them within a MMF situation but would never consider returning the favour.
Some will argue that if you even look at another cock appreciatively then you must be bi so I suppose the suffix could just be an indication of how far you would go
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"When you realise ya fancy both men and women surely...you aren't not straight until you do anything...Your sexuality should have nothing to do with whether you can get laid or not...I knew I was bisexual when I first fancied a female...that was in my teens...I never fucked one until my 40s so ya know
I disagree, I don't find men sexually attractive at all, but I do find cocks sexually attractive (not all cocks)...maybe I break the mould but I really don't like the assumption that bi means I fancy men, I find the female figure massively sexually attractive by the way "
Same here. Don't find men attractive at all...but do like what hangs between their legs  |
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I'm confused, I am on my profile as bicurious however I don't "fancy" guys and wouldn't have any interest in shagging a dude or getting shagged. I really like looking at attractive thick cocks, a la Peter north, I've wanked dudes and sucked a few but would never dream of kissing or anything like that. What am I? Love to hear peeps thoughts ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I class myself as bisexual, I only play with cock in a mmf situation, never met a male for 1-1 fun
Nothing better than all 3 sharing together "
Me too love bi mmf |
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"I'm confused, I am on my profile as bicurious however I don't "fancy" guys and wouldn't have any interest in shagging a dude or getting shagged. I really like looking at attractive thick cocks, a la Peter north, I've wanked dudes and sucked a few but would never dream of kissing or anything like that. What am I? Love to hear peeps thoughts ??"
I'm the same, no interest in kissing guys but get a huge buzz out of seeing a nice hard cock, especially if I can suck it during a mmf or group meet |
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Funny thing is my Mrs is bi, has been with a few women, but gets turned off at the thought of me sucking a dude, so I never do it, just meet bi guys the odd time for mutual masterbation and watching porn. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am not bisexual. I don't fancy women, therefore I can't possibly be bisexual. However I quite like soft play with women, but I guess I can't be bicurious either because I've done what I'm curious about. "
I'm similar, I class myself as 'biplayful' as I enjoy playing with women and find (some) women attractive but I wouldn't/haven't considered a relationship with a woman, primarily because I'm in a long term relationship with my husband I suppose. And he is most definitely straight, he could never be persuaded to play with another man. But hey, who needs labels? As long as we're all happy with who we are and enjoy what we're doing then who cares? |
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By *andemanMan
over a year ago
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Well as for labels i agree. The site however does ask for them and the choice is limited.
I have no qualms fucking a man or a woman. Its the emotional side that makes me more Straight then Gay.as i have said cant see me falling IN love with a bloke. Lust ya Love Not a chance. Just not wired that way.
So Bisexual but Straight Emotional. Wheres that catigory.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When you realise ya fancy both men and women surely...you aren't not straight until you do anything...Your sexuality should have nothing to do with whether you can get laid or not...I knew I was bisexual when I first fancied a female...that was in my teens...I never fucked one until my 40s so ya know
I disagree, I don't find men sexually attractive at all, but I do find cocks sexually attractive (not all cocks)...maybe I break the mould but I really don't like the assumption that bi means I fancy men, I find the female figure massively sexually attractive by the way "
Same for me - just find cocks attractive but wouldn't kiss another man |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never known so many categories of bisexual and men who struggle to come to terms with what they line bisexual wise as on Fab. The single fully bisexual male is far , far rarer than the single bisexual female on Fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When you realise ya fancy both men and women surely...you aren't not straight until you do anything...Your sexuality should have nothing to do with whether you can get laid or not...I knew I was bisexual when I first fancied a female...that was in my teens...I never fucked one until my 40s so ya know
I disagree, I don't find men sexually attractive at all, but I do find cocks sexually attractive (not all cocks)...maybe I break the mould but I really don't like the assumption that bi means I fancy men, I find the female figure massively sexually attractive by the way
Same for me - just find cocks attractive but wouldn't kiss another man"
Same again. Find a good looking cock a turn on. But don't find men attractive - could never imagine kissing one. |
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"When you realise ya fancy both men and women surely...you aren't not straight until you do anything...Your sexuality should have nothing to do with whether you can get laid or not...I knew I was bisexual when I first fancied a female...that was in my teens...I never fucked one until my 40s so ya know
I disagree, I don't find men sexually attractive at all, but I do find cocks sexually attractive (not all cocks)...maybe I break the mould but I really don't like the assumption that bi means I fancy men, I find the female figure massively sexually attractive by the way
Same for me - just find cocks attractive but wouldn't kiss another man
Same again. Find a good looking cock a turn on. But don't find men attractive - could never imagine kissing one. "
Have we met?
You look familiar |
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By *ealfunCouple
over a year ago
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The male half here.
Its always a bit of a dilemma for us to put straight or bi curious on our profile.
I have never looked at a guy and thought "I fancy him" but have had and enjoyed bi play as its a massive turn on for my lady and if it turns her on then it turns me on so to us its not a matter of straight or bi its just sexual.
Does that make any sense. |
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"The male half here.
Its always a bit of a dilemma for us to put straight or bi curious on our profile.
I have never looked at a guy and thought "I fancy him" but have had and enjoyed bi play as its a massive turn on for my lady and if it turns her on then it turns me on so to us its not a matter of straight or bi its just sexual.
Does that make any sense."
Indeed it does |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The male half here.
Its always a bit of a dilemma for us to put straight or bi curious on our profile.
I have never looked at a guy and thought "I fancy him" but have had and enjoyed bi play as its a massive turn on for my lady and if it turns her on then it turns me on so to us its not a matter of straight or bi its just sexual.
Does that make any sense.
Indeed it does "
Yes I understand, On our profile I sort of in a jokey way say that I am 89.99% straight which is a reference to people who adamantly state they are 100% straight grrrrrrr. The question is how can you be 100% straight if you enjoy watching your partner with other men and perhaps waving your cock in her face with other men or even enjoy DVP.
Surely if you do that you are perhaps 99%. 96.8% or 92.89% respectively
All done with tongue in cheek but can you see my point. No one is 100% straight if you are a swinger it goes with the territory to be a bit kinky. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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this is why i hate labels i am a fully bi lady and knew this the first time i snogged my best friend i prefer to call myself sexually indulgent liberated and greedy and i can help out at any party after all who wants to eat cornflakes every day when there is a whole world of brekki yummies out there to sample lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I am sexually open, not straight, not Bi curious or Bi sexual.
I do what I am comfortable with and what others are comfortable with
At a push for a label I am Bi friendly but don't get hung up on the whole label thing.
I just go with the flow |
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"I am sexually open, not straight, not Bi curious or Bi sexual.
I do what I am comfortable with and what others are comfortable with
At a push for a label I am Bi friendly but don't get hung up on the whole label thing.
I just go with the flow"
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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i always thought i was bisexual, i found some women attractive nut never got the opportunity until about 6 years ago to play with any..when i did i realised i was correct.. when i first joined here i put bicurious as i hadnt had a lot of experience, it was a way of taking the pressure off of myself to 'perform' or please well..
i wonder how many people put bi curious for the same reason x |
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Why do people insist on labels, particularly the levels of attractions to the same sex as well as the opposite sex? Bi, Bicurious, Bi-Tendencies, and Fab Straight, it's all too confusing for us. Poke a nice cock in our direction and we may well both play with it whatever badge you are wearing today.
If you feel guilty about being blown by a bloke, or infact blowing a bloke, then it's not really for you - although you might want to try it again just to make sure.
I heard you aren't gay or bi if you suck cock infrequently; in this case you are just helping us gayers out when we are busy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't feel the need to label people in specific ways as bi curious means exactly this or that, I rather take it as an indication of where to take a conversation with them about what they are looking for.
Myself I put bi curious for a long time until I had the nerve to actually go through with sucking my first cock. I put that because although the thought of it turned me on enormously there was still a part of my mind thinking I might not do it when faced with someone else's cock in front of me. For the record it wasn't an issue I sucked it right away.
Now I have no issues classing myself as bisexual, I like sucking cock, being rimmed, having my cock sucked by guys although I'd agree with the things said above its cock I find attractive not the guy. I'm not into kissing with guys etc but I'm still bisexual as I want cock play from time to time doesn't mean all the time I'm also open to Sex with females on their own.
It's females I fancy any female as long as she is confident in herself then I find that sexy as hell. I could never imagine being in a relationship with a guy, but a couple on the other hand I sure could.
Only thing I don't like is guys with straight in profile emailing asking for bi fun... Just no to that one. Be honest with yourself if you want people to know your being honest with them.
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"The male half here.
Its always a bit of a dilemma for us to put straight or bi curious on our profile.
I have never looked at a guy and thought "I fancy him" but have had and enjoyed bi play as its a massive turn on for my lady and if it turns her on then it turns me on so to us its not a matter of straight or bi its just sexual.
Does that make any sense.
Indeed it does
Yes I understand, On our profile I sort of in a jokey way say that I am 89.99% straight which is a reference to people who adamantly state they are 100% straight grrrrrrr. The question is how can you be 100% straight if you enjoy watching your partner with other men and perhaps waving your cock in her face with other men or even enjoy DVP.
Surely if you do that you are perhaps 99%. 96.8% or 92.89% respectively
All done with tongue in cheek but can you see my point. No one is 100% straight if you are a swinger it goes with the territory to be a bit kinky."
Here's a label that made us chuckle 'hetero-flexible' it kind've covers swingers to a degree |
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By *andemanMan
over a year ago
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Anouther name for Swinging is Adult Play.
Well i just like playing with all the toys. Lol
As I said and now some others are saying its not labels its about fun.
So lets all play nicely and have a shed load of Fun. |
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