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"Shouldn't you mention that you have to be body beautiful to attend such events ........" you are, and she is, if both of you are in, I'll definitely come (no pun intended)  | |||
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"Shouldn't you mention that you have to be body beautiful to attend such events ........" I knew there'd be a catch  | |||
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"Shouldn't you mention that you have to be body beautiful to attend such events ........ you are, and she is, if both of you are in, I'll definitely come (no pun intended) "I got rejected as I don't look after myself | |||
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"Shouldn't you mention that you have to be body beautiful to attend such events ........" Not entirely true if the evidence I have seen is legit  | |||
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"Shouldn't you mention that you have to be body beautiful to attend such events ........ you are, and she is, if both of you are in, I'll definitely come (no pun intended)
I got rejected as I don't look after myself "You won't pull in enough punters they mean? Oh well,better places to be seen | |||
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"I know someone who was rejected because their build wasn't "good enough". So yes, the application is based on looks. " Really? that is just wow 
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"Shouldn't you mention that you have to be body beautiful to attend such events ........" Well you ARE body beautiful!!!! | |||
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"Shouldn't you mention that you have to be body beautiful to attend such events ........ you are, and she is, if both of you are in, I'll definitely come (no pun intended)
I got rejected as I don't look after myself "What do you mean that you don't look after yourself? I am sure you do! X | |||
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"I know someone who was rejected because their build wasn't "good enough". So yes, the application is based on looks. " I've seen photographic evidence and read a review on a profile that is contrary to that. Unless pot bellies are accepted as looking after yourself now. | |||
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"I know someone who was rejected because their build wasn't "good enough". So yes, the application is based on looks. Really? that is just wow
"Yup... He's in the army too so has to be physically fit!! | |||
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"Apply ... Sounds like a job interview, my c.v. Is on my profile if they'd like to invite me. "It was a tongue in cheek comment!! Lol!!! There are ways..... | |||
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"Shouldn't you mention that you have to be body beautiful to attend such events ........ you are, and she is, if both of you are in, I'll definitely come (no pun intended)
I got rejected as I don't look after myself
What do you mean that you don't look after yourself? I am sure you do! X"His words when I applied to attend. When I asked him to explain it was down to my size. | |||
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"I know someone who was rejected because their build wasn't "good enough". So yes, the application is based on looks. Really? that is just wow
Yup... He's in the army too so has to be physically fit!! "Sounds like a terrible place to go | |||
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"I know someone who was rejected because their build wasn't "good enough". So yes, the application is based on looks. Really? that is just wow
"I have been to several of these parties and that isn't actually true. They are a friendly fun loving crowd in my experience | |||
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"I know someone who was rejected because their build wasn't "good enough". So yes, the application is based on looks. Really? that is just wow
I have been to several of these parties and that isn't actually true. They are a friendly fun loving crowd in my experience "I'm sure they are
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"I know someone who was rejected because their build wasn't "good enough". So yes, the application is based on looks. Really? that is just wow
Yup... He's in the army too so has to be physically fit!!
Sounds like a terrible place to go "It's a shame you think that way
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"Shouldn't you mention that you have to be body beautiful to attend such events ........ you are, and she is, if both of you are in, I'll definitely come (no pun intended)
I got rejected as I don't look after myself "That's just crazy. You're very sexy. | |||
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"Haha. Fuck that. If they want me, they can ask me very nicely. Although, to be fair, given their conduct on the forums, the answer would consist of two words, the second being "off"..." I don't know about any conduct on the forums I am afraid | |||
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"Nah I don't do tests. "I was joking x | |||
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"Haha. Fuck that. If they want me, they can ask me very nicely. Although, to be fair, given their conduct on the forums, the answer would consist of two words, the second being "off"... I don't know about any conduct on the forums I am afraid " The green arrow is your friend. I dunno who/which of them osts on their behalf. but they have the personailty of a cheese sandwich. I wouldn't go - we'd argue. | |||
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"So.... you saying I am going alone then?????? "Sorry. Didn't mean to put others off. | |||
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"Shouldn't you mention that you have to be body beautiful to attend such events ........ you are, and she is, if both of you are in, I'll definitely come (no pun intended) "Well I am... and so should she! | |||
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"Haha. Fuck that. If they want me, they can ask me very nicely. Although, to be fair, given their conduct on the forums, the answer would consist of two words, the second being "off"... I don't know about any conduct on the forums I am afraid The green arrow is your friend. I dunno who/which of them osts on their behalf. but they have the personailty of a cheese sandwich. I wouldn't go - we'd argue. "LOL. ... you might be pleasantly surprised! | |||
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"So.... you saying I am going alone then??????
Sorry. Didn't mean to put others off. "It's OK, city slickers do a perfectly good job of putting people off all by themselves. | |||
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"Try being fat OP they aren't as friendly then" Well actually I have seen a few larger ladies there. They were dressed beautifully and looked very sexy indeed. | |||
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"So.... you saying I am going alone then??????
Sorry. Didn't mean to put others off.
It's OK, city slickers do a perfectly good job of putting people off all by themselves. "OK ok I get the message! Lol! | |||
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"Try being fat OP they aren't as friendly then" | |||
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"Try being fat OP they aren't as friendly then" That's the reason for my application to attend being rejected ....... Just because someone is big doesn't mean they don't look after themselves. | |||
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"Shouldn't you mention that you have to be body beautiful to attend such events ........" ... and not weigh enough to break the furniture  | |||
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"Try being fat OP they aren't as friendly then That's the reason for my application to attend being rejected ....... Just because someone is big doesn't mean they don't look after themselves. " I agree. Well I think you are beautiful! | |||
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"You are actually WELCOME to 'apply ' for an invitation to the private City Slickers Party next thursday! Thought you should know as singles guys are often given a bad press (sometimes deserved though!).. I love their summer party... BBQ...prosecco. ... outdoor hot tubs and outdoor heated pool...lots of gorgeous sexy people!!! Thing is..... are you up to the challenge??? "To be honest im not a fan of exclusive clubs...I'm not gonna feel better for saying I'm exclusive\better than someone else | |||
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"Apply ... Sounds like a job interview, my c.v. Is on my profile if they'd like to invite me.
It was a tongue in cheek comment!! Lol!!! There are ways..... "Tongue between the cheeks if you really want guys to come. | |||
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"I see the city slickers profile has been edited regarding body type... Perhaps I should apply. Then on second thoughts, if I'm going to me told I'm "too fat" I might not. " I'm blocked from viewing that profile - I'm clearly too fat and ugly to even lay my eyes upon their exacting high standards. | |||
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"I know someone who was rejected because their build wasn't "good enough". So yes, the application is based on looks. Really? that is just wow
"Lots about their events are just wow. And not necessarily on a good way | |||
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"You are actually WELCOME to 'apply ' for an invitation to the private City Slickers Party next thursday! Thought you should know as singles guys are often given a bad press (sometimes deserved though!).. I love their summer party... BBQ...prosecco. ... outdoor hot tubs and outdoor heated pool...lots of gorgeous sexy people!!! Thing is..... are you up to the challenge???
To be honest im not a fan of exclusive clubs...I'm not gonna feel better for saying I'm exclusive\better than someone else"Exactly, I prefer inclusive, and bothering to find someone I like whilst there, and then you get to socialise with people who aren't up their own arses.. | |||
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Some girls have had there noses put right out of joint here, hehehehe, probably the same ones that delete 50 messages a day cause the singe men are not "body beautiful" or the ones that state "over 6ft only" or "7-8 inches or above" and all come back with the same response
"ITS MY PREFERENCE"
Well it seems that this clubs "preference" aint you this time so suck it up buttercup xXx
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"Hahaha, listen to everyone
Some girls have had there noses put right out of joint here, hehehehe, probably the same ones that delete 50 messages a day cause the singe men are not "body beautiful" or the ones that state "over 6ft only" or "7-8 inches or above" and all come back with the same response
"ITS MY PREFERENCE"
Well it seems that this clubs "preference" aint you this time so suck it up buttercup xXx
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"Hahaha, listen to everyone
Some girls have had there noses put right out of joint here, hehehehe, probably the same ones that delete 50 messages a day cause the singe men are not "body beautiful" or the ones that state "over 6ft only" or "7-8 inches or above" and all come back with the same response
"ITS MY PREFERENCE"
Well it seems that this clubs "preference" aint you this time so suck it up buttercup xXx
"Like everyone They can have whatever preference they like, they just don't have to be dicks about expressing it, unfortunately that's where they fail | |||
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"You are actually WELCOME to 'apply ' for an invitation to the private City Slickers Party next thursday! Thought you should know as singles guys are often given a bad press (sometimes deserved though!).. I love their summer party... BBQ...prosecco. ... outdoor hot tubs and outdoor heated pool...lots of gorgeous sexy people!!! Thing is..... are you up to the challenge???
To be honest im not a fan of exclusive clubs...I'm not gonna feel better for saying I'm exclusive\better than someone else
Exactly, I prefer inclusive, and bothering to find someone I like whilst there, and then you get to socialise with people who aren't up their own arses.. "Perhaps go and see for yourself before you assume this is the case? I think you would be really surprised. But then you do need a positive happy attitude first! X | |||
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"Hahaha, listen to everyone
Some girls have had there noses put right out of joint here, hehehehe, probably the same ones that delete 50 messages a day cause the singe men are not "body beautiful" or the ones that state "over 6ft only" or "7-8 inches or above" and all come back with the same response
"ITS MY PREFERENCE"
Well it seems that this clubs "preference" aint you this time so suck it up buttercup xXx
Like everyone They can have whatever preference they like, they just don't have to be dicks about expressing it, unfortunately that's where they fail "I truly have not seen where this has happened. What I am reading just not square up with what I have experienced. This is so odd! They couldn't be friendlier and nicer and NO I didn't play with the hosts!! Lol!! But they were nice to everyone! ! | |||
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"I see the city slickers profile has been edited regarding body type... Perhaps I should apply. Then on second thoughts, if I'm going to me told I'm "too fat" I might not. I'm blocked from viewing that profile - I'm clearly too fat and ugly to even lay my eyes upon their exacting high standards." Maybe a fall out on the forums? It sounds a shame. | |||
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"How does one apply "It's under clubs... City Slickers or message them directly.. | |||
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"You are actually WELCOME to 'apply ' for an invitation to the private City Slickers Party next thursday! Thought you should know as singles guys are often given a bad press (sometimes deserved though!).. I love their summer party... BBQ...prosecco. ... outdoor hot tubs and outdoor heated pool...lots of gorgeous sexy people!!! Thing is..... are you up to the challenge???
To be honest im not a fan of exclusive clubs...I'm not gonna feel better for saying I'm exclusive\better than someone else
Exactly, I prefer inclusive, and bothering to find someone I like whilst there, and then you get to socialise with people who aren't up their own arses..
Perhaps go and see for yourself before you assume this is the case? I think you would be really surprised. But then you do need a positive happy attitude first! X"Why would I? If you run an event or place where people are expected to socialise, you advertise for clients. On here, if you run a club and post on the forums, that is your professional image that you are projecting. I'd really have to be scraping the barrel for something to do if I went somewhere (anywhere, not just in the swinging world, but in outside - pubs, restauraunts etc) that had a bad reputation, just on the off chance that they were actually not as bad as they seemed..... | |||
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"Hahaha, listen to everyone
Some girls have had there noses put right out of joint here, hehehehe, probably the same ones that delete 50 messages a day cause the singe men are not "body beautiful" or the ones that state "over 6ft only" or "7-8 inches or above" and all come back with the same response
"ITS MY PREFERENCE"
Well it seems that this clubs "preference" aint you this time so suck it up buttercup xXx
Like everyone They can have whatever preference they like, they just don't have to be dicks about expressing it, unfortunately that's where they fail
I truly have not seen where this has happened. What I am reading just not square up with what I have experienced. This is so odd! They couldn't be friendlier and nicer and NO I didn't play with the hosts!! Lol!! But they were nice to everyone! ! "Unfortunately you won't now a lot of their comments were deleted by the mods on the thread in question, and rightly so. Aside from that It's also based on my personal experience, fat =doesn't know how to look after yourself or represent yourself with class apparently. | |||
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"Hahaha, listen to everyone
Some girls have had there noses put right out of joint here, hehehehe, probably the same ones that delete 50 messages a day cause the singe men are not "body beautiful" or the ones that state "over 6ft only" or "7-8 inches or above" and all come back with the same response
"ITS MY PREFERENCE"
Well it seems that this clubs "preference" aint you this time so suck it up buttercup xXx
Like everyone They can have whatever preference they like, they just don't have to be dicks about expressing it, unfortunately that's where they fail
I truly have not seen where this has happened. What I am reading just not square up with what I have experienced. This is so odd! They couldn't be friendlier and nicer and NO I didn't play with the hosts!! Lol!! But they were nice to everyone! !
Unfortunately you won't now a lot of their comments were deleted by the mods on the thread in question, and rightly so.
Aside from that It's also based on my personal experience, fat =doesn't know how to look after yourself or represent yourself with class apparently.
"If I recall correctly there were a few threads that had posts by them deleted... | |||
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"Hahaha, listen to everyone
Some girls have had there noses put right out of joint here, hehehehe, probably the same ones that delete 50 messages a day cause the singe men are not "body beautiful" or the ones that state "over 6ft only" or "7-8 inches or above" and all come back with the same response
"ITS MY PREFERENCE"
Well it seems that this clubs "preference" aint you this time so suck it up buttercup xXx
Like everyone They can have whatever preference they like, they just don't have to be dicks about expressing it, unfortunately that's where they fail
I truly have not seen where this has happened. What I am reading just not square up with what I have experienced. This is so odd! They couldn't be friendlier and nicer and NO I didn't play with the hosts!! Lol!! But they were nice to everyone! !
Unfortunately you won't now a lot of their comments were deleted by the mods on the thread in question, and rightly so.
Aside from that It's also based on my personal experience, fat =doesn't know how to look after yourself or represent yourself with class apparently.
If I recall correctly there were a few threads that had posts by them deleted..."OK. Well I can only give my personal experience of actually attending several of their parties which I enjoyed. | |||
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"You are actually WELCOME to 'apply ' for an invitation to the private City Slickers Party next thursday! Thought you should know as singles guys are often given a bad press (sometimes deserved though!).. I love their summer party... BBQ...prosecco. ... outdoor hot tubs and outdoor heated pool...lots of gorgeous sexy people!!! Thing is..... are you up to the challenge??? "in innnnn | |||
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"I know someone who was rejected because their build wasn't "good enough". So yes, the application is based on looks. " Its only the same as you rejecting someone whos under 5.11" Its called preferences  | |||
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"Well I've applied to see if it's hearsay. Until then my judgement is reserved "Great!!!! | |||
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"Hahaha, listen to everyone
Some girls have had there noses put right out of joint here, hehehehe, probably the same ones that delete 50 messages a day cause the singe men are not "body beautiful" or the ones that state "over 6ft only" or "7-8 inches or above" and all come back with the same response
"ITS MY PREFERENCE"
Well it seems that this clubs "preference" aint you this time so suck it up buttercup xXx
"Not me. I questioned the event organiser regarding the men who attend who aren't on the payroll,asking if they are all young and hot,or along those lines. This was because he had been rude about a woman's dress size on the thread,insinuating she was too fat to be bought a dress by a man. His answer was yes. So I looked at pics on the profile and at who reviewed the club. He wasn't exactly telling the truth. The thread was about the body shape/sizing on here,he hadn't chosen the correct one for himself so wasn't in any position to comment on women giving themselves a fabulous body size. | |||
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"How does one apply "You want us to do all the bloody work for you?? (look in swinging clubs forums)  | |||
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"I've been accepted
Quite shocked lol "They can't be that fussy then
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"I've been accepted
Quite shocked lol "You really thought you would be turned down? | |||
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"I've been accepted
Quite shocked lol "Of course!!! | |||
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"Me & Kim got a knock back also but that could be our age or size lol, however glossy the parties are mud sticks as most of us normal undesirables will remember. Aiming for that small select audience of perfect people should be an uphill battle for any party organiser so i do wish you luck. " You wish ME luck??? Lol!!! It's not MY party! I am just a guest but hoping others will join! Or at least my intention was to try and encourage! Not very successfully lol | |||
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"They actually invited me to an event a couple of weeks ago, which I declined for other reasons. After seeing recent comments about women from that profile I'd far rather sit on my fat arse at home with some nachos and dip. "What's wrong with them? | |||
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"Ok now hang on everyone. A lot of you are going on hearsay... I have been to several parties of theirs and i can tell you confidently that it is NOT scene from Vogue nor Playhouse magazine! It is a place for 'well presented' happy sexy professional people to enjoy a good party. Not everyone is slim. I am yes. But I an not young. I am 47 years old. There are ladies and gentlemen who have far from perfect bodies and larger ladies DO attend . It's about how one presents oneself. I have been to some clubs where people turn up looking shabby and scruffy. Yes they are slim with good bodies etc but they wouldn't be allowed in City slickers parties because they look a mess!!! The people I see go to these parties dress nicely and are polite and respectful. The single guys behave respectfully to the ladies. There is always plenty of prosecco flowing with chocolates and great facilities. The host is always extremely welcoming and charming to everyone. No exceptions. Sometimes I think the forums can cause all of us to get wound up and misunderstood. Myself included. However I know that people would like me if they met me in person. I think some of you are missing out on a genuinely great nice which you would be welcomed with open arms. I know you wpuld because the people there are lovely. " May I ask how it's misunderstood when on one thread he told someone they wouldn't be welcome as they would break the furniture, another saying that 'blokes in frocks' weren't welcome, several others saying they don't like Ben's. Numerous threads posted over numerous weeks. Offering to talk to The Sun or other journalists in the wake of the Swingfields article, all in the name of self publicity. No offence, but whilst we probably would be welcomed, i prefer to go to places that promote inclusivity, not those that try to divide. However I respect their parties are for some people, so I hope those that do attend enjoy themselves | |||
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"I've been accepted
Quite shocked lol
You really thought you would be turned down?
"Yes I did... I'm plus size and what some would class as a BBW. I hate the term myself. | |||
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"Ok now hang on everyone. A lot of you are going on hearsay... I have been to several parties of theirs and i can tell you confidently that it is NOT scene from Vogue nor Playhouse magazine! It is a place for 'well presented' happy sexy professional people to enjoy a good party. Not everyone is slim. I am yes. But I an not young. I am 47 years old. There are ladies and gentlemen who have far from perfect bodies and larger ladies DO attend . It's about how one presents oneself. I have been to some clubs where people turn up looking shabby and scruffy. Yes they are slim with good bodies etc but they wouldn't be allowed in City slickers parties because they look a mess!!! The people I see go to these parties dress nicely and are polite and respectful. The single guys behave respectfully to the ladies. There is always plenty of prosecco flowing with chocolates and great facilities. The host is always extremely welcoming and charming to everyone. No exceptions. Sometimes I think the forums can cause all of us to get wound up and misunderstood. Myself included. However I know that people would like me if they met me in person. I think some of you are missing out on a genuinely great nice which you would be welcomed with open arms. I know you wpuld because the people there are lovely. May I ask how it's misunderstood when on one thread he told someone they wouldn't be welcome as they would break the furniture, another saying that 'blokes in frocks' weren't welcome, several others saying they don't like Ben's. Numerous threads posted over numerous weeks. Offering to talk to The Sun or other journalists in the wake of the Swingfields article, all in the name of self publicity. No offence, but whilst we probably would be welcomed, i prefer to go to places that promote inclusivity, not those that try to divide. However I respect their parties are for some people, so I hope those that do attend enjoy themselves "**bbw's not Ben's  | |||
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"love to quote nearly all the messages here, but just not the space to see that I think I have just seen the worst side of fab.... time to all step back and check our own profiles for things that might upset others. To small to old not my type to fat to thin amoker non smoker all preferences and all disappoint someone " I'm ok thanks,I'll fuck anyone | |||
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"I've been accepted
Quite shocked lol
You really thought you would be turned down?
Yes I did... I'm plus size and what some would class as a BBW. I hate the term myself. "Did you have to send a face and body pic? I'd like to know why one plus sized woman is accepted and another not. | |||
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"Ok now hang on everyone. A lot of you are going on hearsay... I have been to several parties of theirs and i can tell you confidently that it is NOT scene from Vogue nor Playhouse magazine! It is a place for 'well presented' happy sexy professional people to enjoy a good party. Not everyone is slim. I am yes. But I an not young. I am 47 years old. There are ladies and gentlemen who have far from perfect bodies and larger ladies DO attend . It's about how one presents oneself. I have been to some clubs where people turn up looking shabby and scruffy. Yes they are slim with good bodies etc but they wouldn't be allowed in City slickers parties because they look a mess!!! The people I see go to these parties dress nicely and are polite and respectful. The single guys behave respectfully to the ladies. There is always plenty of prosecco flowing with chocolates and great facilities. The host is always extremely welcoming and charming to everyone. No exceptions. Sometimes I think the forums can cause all of us to get wound up and misunderstood. Myself included. However I know that people would like me if they met me in person. I think some of you are missing out on a genuinely great nice which you would be welcomed with open arms. I know you wpuld because the people there are lovely. May I ask how it's misunderstood when on one thread he told someone they wouldn't be welcome as they would break the furniture, another saying that 'blokes in frocks' weren't welcome, several others saying they don't like Ben's. Numerous threads posted over numerous weeks. Offering to talk to The Sun or other journalists in the wake of the Swingfields article, all in the name of self publicity. No offence, but whilst we probably would be welcomed, i prefer to go to places that promote inclusivity, not those that try to divide. However I respect their parties are for some people, so I hope those that do attend enjoy themselves "To be fair... I just saw the post you referred to re breaking furniture which you have taken out of context. It was the lady who started that comment and the reply was clearly a joke. Be fair now. | |||
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"I've been accepted
Quite shocked lol
You really thought you would be turned down?
Yes I did... I'm plus size and what some would class as a BBW. I hate the term myself.
Did you have to send a face and body pic? I'd like to know why one plus sized woman is accepted and another not. "Inbox me and I'll send you the pics I sent | |||
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Quite shocked lol
You really thought you would be turned down?
Yes I did... I'm plus size and what some would class as a BBW. I hate the term myself.
Did you have to send a face and body pic? I'd like to know why one plus sized woman is accepted and another not.
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"Ok now hang on everyone. A lot of you are going on hearsay... I have been to several parties of theirs and i can tell you confidently that it is NOT scene from Vogue nor Playhouse magazine! It is a place for 'well presented' happy sexy professional people to enjoy a good party. Not everyone is slim. I am yes. But I an not young. I am 47 years old. There are ladies and gentlemen who have far from perfect bodies and larger ladies DO attend . It's about how one presents oneself. I have been to some clubs where people turn up looking shabby and scruffy. Yes they are slim with good bodies etc but they wouldn't be allowed in City slickers parties because they look a mess!!! The people I see go to these parties dress nicely and are polite and respectful. The single guys behave respectfully to the ladies. There is always plenty of prosecco flowing with chocolates and great facilities. The host is always extremely welcoming and charming to everyone. No exceptions. Sometimes I think the forums can cause all of us to get wound up and misunderstood. Myself included. However I know that people would like me if they met me in person. I think some of you are missing out on a genuinely great nice which you would be welcomed with open arms. I know you wpuld because the people there are lovely. May I ask how it's misunderstood when on one thread he told someone they wouldn't be welcome as they would break the furniture, another saying that 'blokes in frocks' weren't welcome, several others saying they don't like Ben's. Numerous threads posted over numerous weeks. Offering to talk to The Sun or other journalists in the wake of the Swingfields article, all in the name of self publicity. No offence, but whilst we probably would be welcomed, i prefer to go to places that promote inclusivity, not those that try to divide. However I respect their parties are for some people, so I hope those that do attend enjoy themselves
To be fair... I just saw the post you referred to re breaking furniture which you have taken out of context. It was the lady who started that comment and the reply was clearly a joke. Be fair now."I don't believe that comment was a joke, neither were all the other comments on numerous threads, which when challenged by others, the organisers did not attempt to back down from their opinions. I think I was being very fair with my comments, judging on all the threads I have read over time. | |||
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"Ok now hang on everyone. A lot of you are going on hearsay... I have been to several parties of theirs and i can tell you confidently that it is NOT scene from Vogue nor Playhouse magazine! It is a place for 'well presented' happy sexy professional people to enjoy a good party. Not everyone is slim. I am yes. But I an not young. I am 47 years old. There are ladies and gentlemen who have far from perfect bodies and larger ladies DO attend . It's about how one presents oneself. I have been to some clubs where people turn up looking shabby and scruffy. Yes they are slim with good bodies etc but they wouldn't be allowed in City slickers parties because they look a mess!!! The people I see go to these parties dress nicely and are polite and respectful. The single guys behave respectfully to the ladies. There is always plenty of prosecco flowing with chocolates and great facilities. The host is always extremely welcoming and charming to everyone. No exceptions. Sometimes I think the forums can cause all of us to get wound up and misunderstood. Myself included. However I know that people would like me if they met me in person. I think some of you are missing out on a genuinely great nice which you would be welcomed with open arms. I know you wpuld because the people there are lovely. May I ask how it's misunderstood when on one thread he told someone they wouldn't be welcome as they would break the furniture, another saying that 'blokes in frocks' weren't welcome, several others saying they don't like Ben's. Numerous threads posted over numerous weeks. Offering to talk to The Sun or other journalists in the wake of the Swingfields article, all in the name of self publicity. No offence, but whilst we probably would be welcomed, i prefer to go to places that promote inclusivity, not those that try to divide. However I respect their parties are for some people, so I hope those that do attend enjoy themselves
To be fair... I just saw the post you referred to re breaking furniture which you have taken out of context. It was the lady who started that comment and the reply was clearly a joke. Be fair now.
I don't believe that comment was a joke, neither were all the other comments on numerous threads, which when challenged by others, the organisers did not attempt to back down from their opinions.
I think I was being very fair with my comments, judging on all the threads I have read over time."OK. Well as I say..it wasn't my intention to start world war 3! I only wanted to see if a few lore single guys were going lol!!!!!! | |||
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What Is The Challenge.. ??
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"Ok now hang on everyone. A lot of you are going on hearsay... I have been to several parties of theirs and i can tell you confidently that it is NOT scene from Vogue nor Playhouse magazine! It is a place for 'well presented' happy sexy professional people to enjoy a good party. Not everyone is slim. I am yes. But I an not young. I am 47 years old. There are ladies and gentlemen who have far from perfect bodies and larger ladies DO attend . It's about how one presents oneself. I have been to some clubs where people turn up looking shabby and scruffy. Yes they are slim with good bodies etc but they wouldn't be allowed in City slickers parties because they look a mess!!! The people I see go to these parties dress nicely and are polite and respectful. The single guys behave respectfully to the ladies. There is always plenty of prosecco flowing with chocolates and great facilities. The host is always extremely welcoming and charming to everyone. No exceptions. Sometimes I think the forums can cause all of us to get wound up and misunderstood. Myself included. However I know that people would like me if they met me in person. I think some of you are missing out on a genuinely great nice which you would be welcomed with open arms. I know you wpuld because the people there are lovely. May I ask how it's misunderstood when on one thread he told someone they wouldn't be welcome as they would break the furniture, another saying that 'blokes in frocks' weren't welcome, several others saying they don't like Ben's. Numerous threads posted over numerous weeks. Offering to talk to The Sun or other journalists in the wake of the Swingfields article, all in the name of self publicity. No offence, but whilst we probably would be welcomed, i prefer to go to places that promote inclusivity, not those that try to divide. However I respect their parties are for some people, so I hope those that do attend enjoy themselves
To be fair... I just saw the post you referred to re breaking furniture which you have taken out of context. It was the lady who started that comment and the reply was clearly a joke. Be fair now.
I don't believe that comment was a joke, neither were all the other comments on numerous threads, which when challenged by others, the organisers did not attempt to back down from their opinions.
I think I was being very fair with my comments, judging on all the threads I have read over time.
OK. Well as I say..it wasn't my intention to start world war 3! I only wanted to see if a few lore single guys were going lol!!!!!!"And im sure you will find them. I hope you have a good time | |||
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"Vanity is an awful self promotion of a person with a shallow mind, Life is full of different choices and likes, We are all designed differently in our own individual way! But the media and societies perception of that is different, We are constantly dictated too about our appearance and how we should look, Slightly overweight people mentally ridiculed just because they struggle to lose the pounds, Being overweight is not because people are lazy! it comes in all sorts of forms genetics, a health condition, or a mental condition. So specially selected parties for body beautiful people can just fuck right off in my opinion . "Yeah yeah....but are you going to the party or not??? | |||
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"I've been accepted
Quite shocked lol
You really thought you would be turned down?
Yes I did... I'm plus size and what some would class as a BBW. I hate the term myself.
Did you have to send a face and body pic? I'd like to know why one plus sized woman is accepted and another not.
Inbox me and I'll send you the pics I sent
may I as well, just for educational purpose of course "Oh they would never let you in! ! Lol!!!! | |||
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"You are actually WELCOME to 'apply ' for an invitation to the private City Slickers Party next thursday! Thought you should know as singles guys are often given a bad press (sometimes deserved though!).. I love their summer party... BBQ...prosecco. ... outdoor hot tubs and outdoor heated pool...lots of gorgeous sexy people!!! Thing is..... are you up to the challenge??? "Where abouts is it exactly? | |||
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"You are actually WELCOME to 'apply ' for an invitation to the private City Slickers Party next thursday! Thought you should know as singles guys are often given a bad press (sometimes deserved though!).. I love their summer party... BBQ...prosecco. ... outdoor hot tubs and outdoor heated pool...lots of gorgeous sexy people!!! Thing is..... are you up to the challenge???
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"I wouldnt even want an invite sound like horrible people who think they are perfect But I AM perfect!!!!! "You'd be perfect sandwiched between me and my regular partner | |||
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"How does one apply "I have a personal invite .. Maybe you could come with me lol | |||
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"I've been accepted
Quite shocked lol
You really thought you would be turned down?
Yes I did... I'm plus size and what some would class as a BBW. I hate the term myself.
Did you have to send a face and body pic? I'd like to know why one plus sized woman is accepted and another not.
Inbox me and I'll send you the pics I sent
may I as well, just for educational purpose of course "You can send me as many pics as you have Beardy | |||
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"I'd go but I don't live near London, but more importantly, I'm prob not attractive enough "Oh I am bored with this theme of not being this or that!lol!! Go or don't bleedin go! Lol! !!! It's just a party! Not a mass exodus to the moon! I don't give two fuckity fucks whether any of you are fat or thin or whatever you are because I am not fucking any of you!!! I am sulking instead!!!! | |||
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"Are the parties held at AbFabs?" Yes.... but it's private so only open to guests of this party on that night. | |||
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"Are the parties held at AbFabs? Yes.... but it's private so only open to guests of this party on that night." Ok, and do you have to dress up for it? | |||
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"I've been accepted
Quite shocked lol
You really thought you would be turned down?
Yes I did... I'm plus size and what some would class as a BBW. I hate the term myself.
Did you have to send a face and body pic? I'd like to know why one plus sized woman is accepted and another not.
Inbox me and I'll send you the pics I sent
may I as well, just for educational purpose of course
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"hmmm once in a lifetime offer you say. Such kindness bestowed upon us mere mortals from up on high. I think I'll pass as I'm not worthy of such an honor. " I thought that too, it's quite demeaning terminology isn't it? | |||
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"Are the parties held at AbFabs? Yes.... but it's private so only open to guests of this party on that night. Ok, and do you have to dress up for it?" Perhaps look at the website or contact the organisers? I am just a guest x | |||
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"I'm too old. Like I give a fuck " I think you may find your the same age as the OP? | |||
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"I've been accepted
Quite shocked lol
You really thought you would be turned down?
Yes I did... I'm plus size and what some would class as a BBW. I hate the term myself.
Did you have to send a face and body pic? I'd like to know why one plus sized woman is accepted and another not.
Inbox me and I'll send you the pics I sent
may I as well, just for educational purpose of course
Oh they would never let you in! ! Lol!!!!
I bet I can get in easily and you know it "Soooooooo modest! Not Sue I DO know it! Do I? Was I sleeping at the time? | |||
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"I'm too old. Like I give a fuck I think you may find your the same age as the OP?" Ahem. I am 47 and proud! Nothing wrong with that! | |||
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"Vanity is an awful self promotion of a person with a shallow mind, Life is full of different choices and likes, We are all designed differently in our own individual way! But the media and societies perception of that is different, We are constantly dictated too about our appearance and how we should look, Slightly overweight people mentally ridiculed just because they struggle to lose the pounds, Being overweight is not because people are lazy! it comes in all sorts of forms genetics, a health condition, or a mental condition. So specially selected parties for body beautiful people can just fuck right off in my opinion . "well said | |||
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"I've been accepted
Quite shocked lol
You really thought you would be turned down?
Yes I did... I'm plus size and what some would class as a BBW. I hate the term myself.
Did you have to send a face and body pic? I'd like to know why one plus sized woman is accepted and another not.
Inbox me and I'll send you the pics I sent
may I as well, just for educational purpose of course
Oh they would never let you in! ! Lol!!!!
I bet I can get in easily and you know it
Soooooooo modest! Not Sue I DO know it! Do I? Was I sleeping at the time? "hahah oh I'm very modest ahahah want me to refresh your memory | |||
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"Are the parties held at AbFabs? Yes.... but it's private so only open to guests of this party on that night. Ok, and do you have to dress up for it? Perhaps look at the website or contact the organisers? I am just a guest x" Oh sorry, it's just that you have started two threads regarding the City Slickers Party so I thought you were part of it. I apologise. | |||
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"hmmm once in a lifetime offer you say. Such kindness bestowed upon us mere mortals from up on high. I think I'll pass as I'm not worthy of such an honor. I thought that too, it's quite demeaning terminology isn't it?" Ffs!!!!! Have you actually left your sense of humour somewhere???? It was a light hearted title to a forum thread!!!! Got YOUR attention didn't it? If it actually offends you then have a serious word with yourself! !! | |||
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"Are the parties held at AbFabs? Yes.... but it's private so only open to guests of this party on that night. Ok, and do you have to dress up for it? Perhaps look at the website or contact the organisers? I am just a guest x" Are you worried there won't be enough hot men? | |||
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"Are the parties held at AbFabs? Yes.... but it's private so only open to guests of this party on that night. Ok, and do you have to dress up for it? Perhaps look at the website or contact the organisers? I am just a guest x Oh sorry, it's just that you have started two threads regarding the City Slickers Party so I thought you were part of it. I apologise." Noooo.... I am just doing it for selfish reasons lol... as I am going with a female friend and she said there are too few single guys lol! But she isn't on this site and asked me to drum up business lol! !!!!!! | |||
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"Are the parties held at AbFabs? Yes.... but it's private so only open to guests of this party on that night. Ok, and do you have to dress up for it? Perhaps look at the website or contact the organisers? I am just a guest x Oh sorry, it's just that you have started two threads regarding the City Slickers Party so I thought you were part of it. I apologise. Noooo.... I am just doing it for selfish reasons lol... as I am going with a female friend and she said there are too few single guys lol! But she isn't on this site and asked me to drum up business lol! !!!!!! "Clearly my attempts at a light hearted attempt at this have fallen flat though lol! | |||
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"Would love to be invited and accepted but Surrey to Kent is a fair old way to travel .
So that rules me out "What???? It's not MY party! But it's nearer to you than me!!! | |||
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"Are the parties held at AbFabs? Yes.... but it's private so only open to guests of this party on that night. Ok, and do you have to dress up for it? Perhaps look at the website or contact the organisers? I am just a guest x Are you worried there won't be enough hot men? "Yes! Lol! Well as lovely as you ladies are. ..I am not bisexual! Although my friend who I am going with is lol.... | |||
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"Would love to be invited and accepted but Surrey to Kent is a fair old way to travel .
So that rules me out
What???? It's not MY party! But it's nearer to you than me!!! "Oh Oh oh! Hang on a minute then! I'm suddenly interested again
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"Is business that bad?" Business??? I don't run a business darling! I am a guest. Sometimes I regret staring this forum thread! !!! | |||
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"Would love to be invited and accepted but Surrey to Kent is a fair old way to travel .
So that rules me out
What???? It's not MY party! But it's nearer to you than me!!!
Oh Oh oh! Hang on a minute then! I'm suddenly interested again
Tell me more? "I AM NOT THE ORGANISER!!! Go to their website or message them City slickers. | |||
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"My gosh I thought this was a joke thread - couldn't think of a worse club to be in! Narcism at its finest! " So I'll see you there? | |||
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So that rules me out "It's held at a club. You'd still be going alone unless you went with someone. What's the difference between going to one of these parties or going to Kestrels or AbFabs on a normal day/night? | |||
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"Are the parties held at AbFabs? Yes.... but it's private so only open to guests of this party on that night. Ok, and do you have to dress up for it? Perhaps look at the website or contact the organisers? I am just a guest x Are you worried there won't be enough hot men?
Yes! Lol! Well as lovely as you ladies are. ..I am not bisexual! Although my friend who I am going with is lol...."You'd better get your skates on then,time us running out! | |||
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"Would love to be invited and accepted but Surrey to Kent is a fair old way to travel .
So that rules me out
It's held at a club. You'd still be going alone unless you went with someone. What's the difference between going to one of these parties or going to Kestrels or AbFabs on a normal day/night?"You get to wear a toga?  | |||
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"Are the parties held at AbFabs? Yes.... but it's private so only open to guests of this party on that night. Ok, and do you have to dress up for it? Perhaps look at the website or contact the organisers? I am just a guest x Oh sorry, it's just that you have started two threads regarding the City Slickers Party so I thought you were part of it. I apologise. Noooo.... I am just doing it for selfish reasons lol... as I am going with a female friend and she said there are too few single guys lol! But she isn't on this site and asked me to drum up business lol! !!!!!!
Clearly my attempts at a light hearted attempt at this have fallen flat though lol! "Oh OP.....humour on here is like the red arrows. Goes straight over their heads! | |||
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"Shouldn't you mention that you have to be body beautiful to attend such events ........ you are, and she is, if both of you are in, I'll definitely come (no pun intended)
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"I'm too old. Like I give a fuck I think you may find your the same age as the OP?" Ooh yay Perhaps I'll apply Oooh no perhaps I can't be arsed with club organisers that think they get to judge wether I'm hot or not based on size or age ..... | |||
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"Would love to be invited and accepted but Surrey to Kent is a fair old way to travel .
So that rules me out
It's held at a club. You'd still be going alone unless you went with someone. What's the difference between going to one of these parties or going to Kestrels or AbFabs on a normal day/night?
You get to wear a toga? "Most just wear a towel so they can use the pool and hot tubs | |||
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"Shouldn't you mention that you have to be body beautiful to attend such events ........ you are, and she is, if both of you are in, I'll definitely come (no pun intended)
I got rejected as I don't look after myself
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"I've been accepted
Quite shocked lol
You really thought you would be turned down?
Yes I did... I'm plus size and what some would class as a BBW. I hate the term myself.
Did you have to send a face and body pic? I'd like to know why one plus sized woman is accepted and another not.
Inbox me and I'll send you the pics I sent
may I as well, just for educational purpose of course
Oh they would never let you in! ! Lol!!!!
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"Are the parties held at AbFabs? Yes.... but it's private so only open to guests of this party on that night. Ok, and do you have to dress up for it? Perhaps look at the website or contact the organisers? I am just a guest x Are you worried there won't be enough hot men?
Yes! Lol! Well as lovely as you ladies are. ..I am not bisexual! Although my friend who I am going with is lol....
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"hmmm once in a lifetime offer you say. Such kindness bestowed upon us mere mortals from up on high. I think I'll pass as I'm not worthy of such an honor. I thought that too, it's quite demeaning terminology isn't it? Ffs!!!!! Have you actually left your sense of humour somewhere???? It was a light hearted title to a forum thread!!!! Got YOUR attention didn't it? If it actually offends you then have a serious word with yourself! !!" You seem angry? I never said I was offended. It may have been lighthearted, but it is typical of the cityslickers spiel portraying themselves as high class and implying people should be thankful to attend | |||
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"I've been accepted
Quite shocked lol
You really thought you would be turned down?
Yes I did... I'm plus size and what some would class as a BBW. I hate the term myself.
Did you have to send a face and body pic? I'd like to know why one plus sized woman is accepted and another not.
Inbox me and I'll send you the pics I sent
may I as well, just for educational purpose of course
Oh they would never let you in! ! Lol!!!!
I bet I can get in easily and you know it
With an attitude like that your surely get in. But i guess thats why many stay away aswell "And he was joking too!! Seriously people..I have tried hard to keep positive and happy but some of you really have no sense of humour at all and actually... THAT is what I find unattractive. .. not your size! | |||
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"I've been accepted
Quite shocked lol
You really thought you would be turned down?
Yes I did... I'm plus size and what some would class as a BBW. I hate the term myself.
Did you have to send a face and body pic? I'd like to know why one plus sized woman is accepted and another not.
Inbox me and I'll send you the pics I sent
may I as well, just for educational purpose of course
Oh they would never let you in! ! Lol!!!!
I bet I can get in easily and you know it
With an attitude like that your surely get in. But i guess thats why many stay away aswell
And he was joking too!!
Seriously people..I have tried hard to keep positive and happy but some of you really have no sense of humour at all and actually... THAT is what I find unattractive. .. not your size! "Are you sure about that? | |||
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"All these comments about you have to be body and face perfect. Just looked at the photos....meh I'm not over whelmed with feelings of "oh my god they're all so amazing" In any case I live too far away So your better then? " I didn't say that? I don't claim to be body perfect | |||
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"Would love to be invited and accepted but Surrey to Kent is a fair old way to travel .
So that rules me out
It's held at a club. You'd still be going alone unless you went with someone. What's the difference between going to one of these parties or going to Kestrels or AbFabs on a normal day/night?
You get to wear a toga?
Most just wear a towel so they can use the pool and hot tubs "It's a toga party,you're supposed to wear a hotel sheet | |||
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"hmmm once in a lifetime offer you say. Such kindness bestowed upon us mere mortals from up on high. I think I'll pass as I'm not worthy of such an honor. I thought that too, it's quite demeaning terminology isn't it? Ffs!!!!! Have you actually left your sense of humour somewhere???? It was a light hearted title to a forum thread!!!! Got YOUR attention didn't it? If it actually offends you then have a serious word with yourself! !! You seem angry? I never said I was offended. It may have been lighthearted, but it is typical of the cityslickers spiel portraying themselves as high class and implying people should be thankful to attend" I am not angry. I am also not part of city slickers. But I find it astonishing that you could feel demeaned because of the title of this thread. It was a light hearted attempt to see if I can get more single men to go. You sound bitter yet I doubt you even asked them if you can go. I just want a happy fun evening. | |||
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"Would love to be invited and accepted but Surrey to Kent is a fair old way to travel .
So that rules me out
It's held at a club. You'd still be going alone unless you went with someone. What's the difference between going to one of these parties or going to Kestrels or AbFabs on a normal day/night?
You get to wear a toga?
Most just wear a towel so they can use the pool and hot tubs
It's a toga party,you're supposed to wear a hotel sheet "They just suggest that to the men who are struggling to find something appropriate to join in with the dress theme. That's all. | |||
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"hmmm once in a lifetime offer you say. Such kindness bestowed upon us mere mortals from up on high. I think I'll pass as I'm not worthy of such an honor. I thought that too, it's quite demeaning terminology isn't it? Ffs!!!!! Have you actually left your sense of humour somewhere???? It was a light hearted title to a forum thread!!!! Got YOUR attention didn't it? If it actually offends you then have a serious word with yourself! !! You seem angry? I never said I was offended. It may have been lighthearted, but it is typical of the cityslickers spiel portraying themselves as high class and implying people should be thankful to attend I am not angry. I am also not part of city slickers. But I find it astonishing that you could feel demeaned because of the title of this thread. It was a light hearted attempt to see if I can get more single men to go. You sound bitter yet I doubt you even asked them if you can go. I just want a happy fun evening. " have a wonderful time _ubbykitten x | |||
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"I've been accepted
Quite shocked lol
You really thought you would be turned down?
Yes I did... I'm plus size and what some would class as a BBW. I hate the term myself.
Did you have to send a face and body pic? I'd like to know why one plus sized woman is accepted and another not.
Inbox me and I'll send you the pics I sent
may I as well, just for educational purpose of course
Oh they would never let you in! ! Lol!!!!
I bet I can get in easily and you know it
With an attitude like that your surely get in. But i guess thats why many stay away aswell
And he was joking too!!
Seriously people..I have tried hard to keep positive and happy but some of you really have no sense of humour at all and actually... THAT is what I find unattractive. .. not your size! "Oh and as for my size. Im in prime condition ty. 5 days a week in the gym sees to that. I just wouldnt wanna be around ppl that think there the dogs bollocks because they got choose to go to a sex party lol | |||
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"I've been accepted
Quite shocked lol
You really thought you would be turned down?
Yes I did... I'm plus size and what some would class as a BBW. I hate the term myself.
Did you have to send a face and body pic? I'd like to know why one plus sized woman is accepted and another not.
Inbox me and I'll send you the pics I sent
may I as well, just for educational purpose of course
Oh they would never let you in! ! Lol!!!!
I bet I can get in easily and you know it
With an attitude like that your surely get in. But i guess thats why many stay away aswell "haha bless you, ok I let you having the last word my love  | |||
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"Well,I'm certainly not going. I hate fancy dress "And all this time I was looking forward to seeing you there! | |||
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"I've been accepted
Quite shocked lol
You really thought you would be turned down?
Yes I did... I'm plus size and what some would class as a BBW. I hate the term myself.
Did you have to send a face and body pic? I'd like to know why one plus sized woman is accepted and another not.
Inbox me and I'll send you the pics I sent
may I as well, just for educational purpose of course
Oh they would never let you in! ! Lol!!!!
I bet I can get in easily and you know it
With an attitude like that your surely get in. But i guess thats why many stay away aswell
And he was joking too!!
Seriously people..I have tried hard to keep positive and happy but some of you really have no sense of humour at all and actually... THAT is what I find unattractive. .. not your size!
Oh and as for my size. Im in prime condition ty. 5 days a week in the gym sees to that. I just wouldnt wanna be around ppl that think there the dogs bollocks because they got choose to go to a sex party lol "LOL. .. not sure I petsonally made any comment about your size? I have no idea what you look like! Why should I care? | |||
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"I've been accepted
Quite shocked lol
You really thought you would be turned down?
Yes I did... I'm plus size and what some would class as a BBW. I hate the term myself.
Did you have to send a face and body pic? I'd like to know why one plus sized woman is accepted and another not.
Inbox me and I'll send you the pics I sent
may I as well, just for educational purpose of course
Oh they would never let you in! ! Lol!!!!
I bet I can get in easily and you know it
With an attitude like that your surely get in. But i guess thats why many stay away aswell
And he was joking too!!
Seriously people..I have tried hard to keep positive and happy but some of you really have no sense of humour at all and actually... THAT is what I find unattractive. .. not your size!
Oh and as for my size. Im in prime condition ty. 5 days a week in the gym sees to that. I just wouldnt wanna be around ppl that think there the dogs bollocks because they got choose to go to a sex party lol "Clapping with both hands | |||
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"I've been accepted
Quite shocked lol
You really thought you would be turned down?
Yes I did... I'm plus size and what some would class as a BBW. I hate the term myself.
Did you have to send a face and body pic? I'd like to know why one plus sized woman is accepted and another not.
Inbox me and I'll send you the pics I sent
may I as well, just for educational purpose of course
Oh they would never let you in! ! Lol!!!!
I bet I can get in easily and you know it
With an attitude like that your surely get in. But i guess thats why many stay away aswell
And he was joking too!!
Seriously people..I have tried hard to keep positive and happy but some of you really have no sense of humour at all and actually... THAT is what I find unattractive. .. not your size! "You take it on yourself to promote a club that you aren;t linked to but regularly is slated on the forums for it;s elitest views and then get annoyed when the thread goes just like all cityslickers threads go... | |||
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"hmmm once in a lifetime offer you say. Such kindness bestowed upon us mere mortals from up on high. I think I'll pass as I'm not worthy of such an honor. I thought that too, it's quite demeaning terminology isn't it? Ffs!!!!! Have you actually left your sense of humour somewhere???? It was a light hearted title to a forum thread!!!! Got YOUR attention didn't it? If it actually offends you then have a serious word with yourself! !! You seem angry? I never said I was offended. It may have been lighthearted, but it is typical of the cityslickers spiel portraying themselves as high class and implying people should be thankful to attend I am not angry. I am also not part of city slickers. But I find it astonishing that you could feel demeaned because of the title of this thread. It was a light hearted attempt to see if I can get more single men to go. You sound bitter yet I doubt you even asked them if you can go. I just want a happy fun evening. have a wonderful time _ubbykitten x" Thankyou! Nice to recieve a positive response. X | |||
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"I've been accepted
Quite shocked lol
You really thought you would be turned down?
Yes I did... I'm plus size and what some would class as a BBW. I hate the term myself.
Did you have to send a face and body pic? I'd like to know why one plus sized woman is accepted and another not.
Inbox me and I'll send you the pics I sent
may I as well, just for educational purpose of course
Oh they would never let you in! ! Lol!!!!
I bet I can get in easily and you know it
With an attitude like that your surely get in. But i guess thats why many stay away aswell
And he was joking too!!
Seriously people..I have tried hard to keep positive and happy but some of you really have no sense of humour at all and actually... THAT is what I find unattractive. .. not your size!
You take it on yourself to promote a club that you aren;t linked to but regularly is slated on the forums for it;s elitest views and then get annoyed when the thread goes just like all cityslickers threads go..."LOL! !! Whatever! | |||
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"I've been accepted
Quite shocked lol
You really thought you would be turned down?
Yes I did... I'm plus size and what some would class as a BBW. I hate the term myself.
Did you have to send a face and body pic? I'd like to know why one plus sized woman is accepted and another not.
Inbox me and I'll send you the pics I sent
may I as well, just for educational purpose of course
Oh they would never let you in! ! Lol!!!!
I bet I can get in easily and you know it
With an attitude like that your surely get in. But i guess thats why many stay away aswell
And he was joking too!!
Seriously people..I have tried hard to keep positive and happy but some of you really have no sense of humour at all and actually... THAT is what I find unattractive. .. not your size!
Oh and as for my size. Im in prime condition ty. 5 days a week in the gym sees to that. I just wouldnt wanna be around ppl that think there the dogs bollocks because they got choose to go to a sex party lol
Clapping with both hands "as apposed to clapping with one? | |||
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"I've been accepted
Quite shocked lol
You really thought you would be turned down?
Yes I did... I'm plus size and what some would class as a BBW. I hate the term myself.
Did you have to send a face and body pic? I'd like to know why one plus sized woman is accepted and another not.
Inbox me and I'll send you the pics I sent
may I as well, just for educational purpose of course
Oh they would never let you in! ! Lol!!!!
I bet I can get in easily and you know it
With an attitude like that your surely get in. But i guess thats why many stay away aswell
And he was joking too!!
Seriously people..I have tried hard to keep positive and happy but some of you really have no sense of humour at all and actually... THAT is what I find unattractive. .. not your size!
Oh and as for my size. Im in prime condition ty. 5 days a week in the gym sees to that. I just wouldnt wanna be around ppl that think there the dogs bollocks because they got choose to go to a sex party lol
Clapping with both hands "Just like a performing seal | |||
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"I've been accepted
Quite shocked lol
You really thought you would be turned down?
Yes I did... I'm plus size and what some would class as a BBW. I hate the term myself.
Did you have to send a face and body pic? I'd like to know why one plus sized woman is accepted and another not.
Inbox me and I'll send you the pics I sent
may I as well, just for educational purpose of course
Oh they would never let you in! ! Lol!!!!
I bet I can get in easily and you know it
With an attitude like that your surely get in. But i guess thats why many stay away aswell
And he was joking too!!
Seriously people..I have tried hard to keep positive and happy but some of you really have no sense of humour at all and actually... THAT is what I find unattractive. .. not your size!
Oh and as for my size. Im in prime condition ty. 5 days a week in the gym sees to that. I just wouldnt wanna be around ppl that think there the dogs bollocks because they got choose to go to a sex party lol
Clapping with both hands
as apposed to clapping with one? "hahah depends on your mood | |||
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"I've been accepted
Quite shocked lol
You really thought you would be turned down?
Yes I did... I'm plus size and what some would class as a BBW. I hate the term myself.
Did you have to send a face and body pic? I'd like to know why one plus sized woman is accepted and another not.
Inbox me and I'll send you the pics I sent
may I as well, just for educational purpose of course
Oh they would never let you in! ! Lol!!!!
I bet I can get in easily and you know it
With an attitude like that your surely get in. But i guess thats why many stay away aswell
And he was joking too!!
Seriously people..I have tried hard to keep positive and happy but some of you really have no sense of humour at all and actually... THAT is what I find unattractive. .. not your size!
Oh and as for my size. Im in prime condition ty. 5 days a week in the gym sees to that. I just wouldnt wanna be around ppl that think there the dogs bollocks because they got choose to go to a sex party lol
Clapping with both hands
Just like a performing seal "just for you cariad | |||
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"I've been accepted
Quite shocked lol
You really thought you would be turned down?
Yes I did... I'm plus size and what some would class as a BBW. I hate the term myself.
Did you have to send a face and body pic? I'd like to know why one plus sized woman is accepted and another not.
Inbox me and I'll send you the pics I sent
may I as well, just for educational purpose of course
Oh they would never let you in! ! Lol!!!!
I bet I can get in easily and you know it
With an attitude like that your surely get in. But i guess thats why many stay away aswell
And he was joking too!!
Seriously people..I have tried hard to keep positive and happy but some of you really have no sense of humour at all and actually... THAT is what I find unattractive. .. not your size!
Oh and as for my size. Im in prime condition ty. 5 days a week in the gym sees to that. I just wouldnt wanna be around ppl that think there the dogs bollocks because they got choose to go to a sex party lol
Clapping with both hands "Id be more impressed if you were clapping with one | |||
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"hmmm once in a lifetime offer you say. Such kindness bestowed upon us mere mortals from up on high. I think I'll pass as I'm not worthy of such an honor. I thought that too, it's quite demeaning terminology isn't it? Ffs!!!!! Have you actually left your sense of humour somewhere???? It was a light hearted title to a forum thread!!!! Got YOUR attention didn't it? If it actually offends you then have a serious word with yourself! !! You seem angry? I never said I was offended. It may have been lighthearted, but it is typical of the cityslickers spiel portraying themselves as high class and implying people should be thankful to attend I am not angry. I am also not part of city slickers. But I find it astonishing that you could feel demeaned because of the title of this thread. It was a light hearted attempt to see if I can get more single men to go. You sound bitter yet I doubt you even asked them if you can go. I just want a happy fun evening. " I'm not goung to ask to go to a party where the organiser will decide if I'm hot enough to go. As a veteran of countless swinging and fetish clubs, I really don;t need to bother with that sort of crap to have a good night out And there is a delightful irony that these exclusive parties are so poorly attended you need to drum up business. Says it all. | |||
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and down to earth
Prob the wrong kind of looking after yourself | |||
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"I've been accepted
Quite shocked lol
You really thought you would be turned down?
Yes I did... I'm plus size and what some would class as a BBW. I hate the term myself.
Did you have to send a face and body pic? I'd like to know why one plus sized woman is accepted and another not.
Inbox me and I'll send you the pics I sent
may I as well, just for educational purpose of course
Oh they would never let you in! ! Lol!!!!
I bet I can get in easily and you know it
With an attitude like that your surely get in. But i guess thats why many stay away aswell
And he was joking too!!
Seriously people..I have tried hard to keep positive and happy but some of you really have no sense of humour at all and actually... THAT is what I find unattractive. .. not your size!
Are you sure about that?
"I am sure about the fact that a lack of sense of humour is unattractive yes. I am most certainly sorry for those people who say they had negative responses from the organisers. But that is nothing to do with me . I am just a guest who was using the forums to try and get more single guys to go. I have been before several times so it's more if there is a mixture of people. They recently published who is going and when I looked a few days ago, there were very few single guys so I took it upon myself to try and improve the numbers in a fun way . That's all. If people don't like it. Fair enough. But not actually my fault. | |||
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