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Had a meet arranged for tonight not heard from the lady all day so guessing it's not happening
Chatted on the phone and whatsapp for weeks, even got told yesterday 'I want you' today nothing!!
Does anybody else get a huge confidence knock when this happens?
Playing with permission before anyone asks
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Have you tried getting in touch with her?
Or are you waiting for her to get in touch with you?
She might just be busy, changed her mind, nervous.. could be a number of reasons. If she doesn't get in touch, block and move on. X |
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over a year ago
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"Had a meet arranged for tonight not heard from the lady all day so guessing it's not happening
Chatted on the phone and whatsapp for weeks, even got told yesterday 'I want you' today nothing!!
Does anybody else get a huge confidence knock when this happens?
Playing with permission before anyone asks
Mickey "
Maybe she realised she was a single bloke and didn't have the vagina you were hoping for? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have text and whatsapp
Messages have been seen but no reply
Ah well"
she could at least do the decent thing and give an excuse but if not just block and move on...unfortunately its a common occurrence on fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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she could at least do the decent thing and give an excuse but if not just block and move on...unfortunately its a common occurrence on fab"
I wouldnt let you down |
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"Shame that said it before makes us genuine ones worse off"
No it doesn't.
It makes us adapt how we meet so as to avoid such disappointment. When I first started I watched, listened and learnt from others experiences and thereby adapted to suit me.
In seven years not had a no show. Some I wished had...but that's another thread.
Chalk it up to experience op and don't rely on this site to boost your confidence. |
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Too many people are in love with the fantasy and don't consider that they will actually have to do something on the day of the meet. Much easier to ignore the meeting, go online and wank again at the fantasy of another meeting. |
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"Eurgh. This has happened to me twice now.
Waste of makeup if I'm honest.
Fuck it. Clearly their not coming so get yourself on the piss instead. "
Wise words
Perhaps we should go on the piss together lol |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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What a shame OP especially with the cost is a hotel to.
I've been let down a few times but it's part of fab unfortunately. I never think they are going to show up until they are right there in front of me!!!!
Better luck next time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Had a meet arranged for tonight not heard from the lady all day so guessing it's not happening
Chatted on the phone and whatsapp for weeks, even got told yesterday 'I want you' today nothing!!
Does anybody else get a huge confidence knock when this happens?
Playing with permission before anyone asks
Mickey "
Yep |
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"What a shame OP especially with the cost is a hotel to.
I've been let down a few times but it's part of fab unfortunately. I never think they are going to show up until they are right there in front of me!!!!
Better luck next time "
Thankyou I have this very same thinking...I was right this time lol
Thanks to everyone for their input |
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"Eurgh. This has happened to me twice now.
Waste of makeup if I'm honest.
Fuck it. Clearly their not coming so get yourself on the piss instead.
Wise words
Perhaps we should go on the piss together lol"
I'd be game for a night on this piss like. It's Friday eve after all! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Numerous phone chats
No verifications as was new to the site
Ah well put it down to experience"
I guess as she was new, she got cold feet. That's very common. Bang out of order though as you went to so much trouble. I hate it when people don't really know what they want. |
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"Numerous phone chats
No verifications as was new to the site
Ah well put it down to experience
I guess as she was new, she got cold feet. That's very common. Bang out of order though as you went to so much trouble. I hate it when people don't really know what they want. "
Yep. Not a lot I can do now. Just move on |
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"Eurgh. This has happened to me twice now.
Waste of makeup if I'm honest.
Fuck it. Clearly their not coming so get yourself on the piss instead.
Wise words
Perhaps we should go on the piss together lol
I'd be game for a night on this piss like. It's Friday eve after all! "
Lol can't pm you!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Eurgh. This has happened to me twice now.
Waste of makeup if I'm honest.
Fuck it. Clearly their not coming so get yourself on the piss instead.
Wise words
Perhaps we should go on the piss together lol
I'd be game for a night on this piss like. It's Friday eve after all!
Lol can't pm you!!!"
Why?
Think bath might be a little far for a night out. |
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"Eurgh. This has happened to me twice now.
Waste of makeup if I'm honest.
Fuck it. Clearly their not coming so get yourself on the piss instead.
Wise words
Perhaps we should go on the piss together lol
I'd be game for a night on this piss like. It's Friday eve after all! "
Lol can't pm you!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is why I only log on when I'm looking to meet. If more people would do this the time wasters would be gone.
But some people will still talk to people for months and still get let down...
It's a vicious cycle that will continue on fab until people stop the social non sense and get back to having NSA sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Eurgh. This has happened to me twice now.
Waste of makeup if I'm honest.
Fuck it. Clearly their not coming so get yourself on the piss instead. "
I HATE wasting my make on things haha
Bloody expensive and time consuming to look like this  xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guess so. Hotel wasted too!!
Oh never book a hotel for a first meet 
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Or get one with a free cancellation. Sorry you have been let down, block and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry for your wasted time hopefully it will be the last for a long while.
Could you speak to the hotel and ask for a rearranged hotel room so you can use it another time? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had exactly the same happen to us. Speaking for weeks before the meet, hotel booked, even said if she had cold feet to let us know and we wouldn't be upset or take offence.
Ended well though, we still used the hotel, advertised a meet there and met a lovely couple leading to a great night.
Said it a few times here, if you have expectations you'll be disappointed, if you have no expectations, anything that does happen is a bonus and pleasant surprise |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It often appears to us that the meets that you spend longest planning never happen; whereas the ones arranged at the very last minute always seem to go well. Maybe it is the lack of expectation or that time wasters love all the build up and never want to actually meet. We were let down twice at the weekend and then had a lovely meet by arranging something at the last minute. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It often appears to us that the meets that you spend longest planning never happen; whereas the ones arranged at the very last minute always seem to go well. Maybe it is the lack of expectation or that time wasters love all the build up and never want to actually meet. We were let down twice at the weekend and then had a lovely meet by arranging something at the last minute."
It works because both couples log on when they were horny and ready to meet.
Time wasters tend to find every excuse not to meet . But spend hours online daily  |
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It happens to me all the time especially from young couples who claim they are into cuckholding or new ladies and couples on the site.
They just stop replying, block you, ignore you, give shit excuse like they are on there way(one couple kept telling me all they that they were on there way for over 12 hours, and there profile said they were in Manchester.
Some couples profile, after planning a meet on the day of the meet they will tell u that 'the mrs is ill and u can meet only the fella'
Or like they are not sure they can meet when u are already on the train to meet them.
Im past letting it get to me now, but there were times i had upto 10 let downs a week.
Secret is: EVERYONE IS CLASSED AS A TIMEWASTER UNTIL YOU PROVE ME WRONG AND WE MEET.
Don't get me wrong there are some genuine people who something just came up or just decided not to meet. If they want to meet they will re-arrange but most times they are all bloody time wasters.
Mostly desperate 80 year old perveted men looking to just wank over pics lool.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yeah it's happened to us....chatting for weeks....the female alegidly booked a hotel.....she was messaging all the time...day before we were due to meet she wasn't replying (but changed her status) and was online....next day on I'm so sorry kids weren't well....fair enough but you were online and changed your status....just for a second tho....yeah ok doll (bullshit) different variations of this has happened with several different females...extremely sceptical now x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had the same happen to me today! Been chatting to a guy for ages on here and on kik, getting in really well and chatting on a daily basis until 2 days ago when he said couldn't wait for today!
Not heard off him since..... Needless to say he didn't show  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's quite a knock back when that happens but you shouldn't take it personally. It more boils down to the person not understanding the swinging life style |
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"Shame that said it before makes us genuine ones worse off
No it doesn't.
It makes us adapt how we meet so as to avoid such disappointment. When I first started I watched, listened and learnt from others experiences and thereby adapted to suit me.
In seven years not had a no show. Some I wished had...but that's another thread.
Chalk it up to experience op and don't rely on this site to boost your confidence. "
Yes, in three years I've never had a last minute cancellation or no-show. And in response to a post further up, I've often booked a hotel for a first meet.
Hope I haven't jinxed myself now |
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