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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Anyone else always feel a little nervous that they may be carrying something nasty before the tests and while waiting for the text clear?
I always do. I've been a busy girl this year.  |
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"Anyone else always feel a little nervous that they may be carrying something nasty before the tests and while waiting for the text clear?
I always do. I've been a busy girl this year. "
I do even when I've not been busy and you know you're clear... It's all about tests. |
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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago
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"Anyone else always feel a little nervous that they may be carrying something nasty before the tests and while waiting for the text clear?
I always do. I've been a busy girl this year. "
no because I never do anything to put myself at risk, safe all the way |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Anyone else always feel a little nervous that they may be carrying something nasty before the tests and while waiting for the text clear?
I always do. I've been a busy girl this year. no because I never do anything to put myself at risk, safe all the way"
Condoms and barriers for oral too? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone else always feel a little nervous that they may be carrying something nasty before the tests and while waiting for the text clear?
I always do. I've been a busy girl this year.
no because I never do anything to put myself at risk, safe all the way"
Do you not go for tests then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone else always feel a little nervous that they may be carrying something nasty before the tests and while waiting for the text clear?
I always do. I've been a busy girl this year. no because I never do anything to put myself at risk, safe all the way"
Guessing you never have any sexual contact then?
Wow...that is safe!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone else always feel a little nervous that they may be carrying something nasty before the tests and while waiting for the text clear?
I always do. I've been a busy girl this year. "
Yeah regular
I work in a sex club which is why I get tested every 4 weeks
I do lots of gang bangs etc while at the club and not all guys there are respectful, even though is a condom only club some guys do try and sneak it in uncovered
Everybody who is sexual active should be awear they are not 100% safe its nieve to think because you use condoms your immune to such things, your not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I went though.. felt really on edge as she said so how long have you been with your partner.. 10yrs ..well you have had children and they would of checked you then so why do you want it done again Just because I do so do it lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone else always feel a little nervous that they may be carrying something nasty before the tests and while waiting for the text clear?
I always do. I've been a busy girl this year. no because I never do anything to put myself at risk, safe all the way
Condoms and barriers for oral too? "
I got laughed at and jeered on another post (bareback) when I suggested this.....It was actually staggering how many thought I was having a laugh and told me that if I didn't think that was an acceptable risk on here that I should leave as it's a "swing site". I raised the question about when and how often people who only have safe sex...ie with condom get checked as they can transmit through oral methods..... (note most on it were bi and actively seeking that demographic). The ubiquitous 'fab' straight comments also prevailed lol.
I get tested every 4 to 6 weeks.... All clear 10 days ago. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I went though.. felt really on edge as she said so how long have you been with your partner.. 10yrs ..well you have had children and they would of checked you then so why do you want it done again Just because I do so do it lol x"
That shocks me
I have never heard of such a thing, to be asked why you want a check is not even part of their job, its their job to ask questions to give you the best test to suit your needs and assist you in any way they can
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I went though.. felt really on edge as she said so how long have you been with your partner.. 10yrs ..well you have had children and they would of checked you then so why do you want it done again Just because I do so do it lol x
That shocks me
I have never heard of such a thing, to be asked why you want a check is not even part of their job, its their job to ask questions to give you the best test to suit your needs and assist you in any way they can
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"Anyone else always feel a little nervous that they may be carrying something nasty before the tests and while waiting for the text clear?
I always do. I've been a busy girl this year. no because I never do anything to put myself at risk, safe all the way
Guessing you never have any sexual contact then?
Wow...that is safe! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I went though.. felt really on edge as she said so how long have you been with your partner.. 10yrs ..well you have had children and they would of checked you then so why do you want it done again Just because I do so do it lol x
That shocks me
I have never heard of such a thing, to be asked why you want a check is not even part of their job, its their job to ask questions to give you the best test to suit your needs and assist you in any way they can
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That's what I though.. was horrible I went bright red and was like ummmm ummmm just want to be safe that's all like to get check that's all
Couldn't really say oo I sleep with other people etc x |
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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago
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"Anyone else always feel a little nervous that they may be carrying something nasty before the tests and while waiting for the text clear?
I always do. I've been a busy girl this year. no because I never do anything to put myself at risk, safe all the way
Guessing you never have any sexual contact then?
Wow...that is safe! "
I only have sex with one man and have done for a long long time, 6 monthly checks are always clean for us both, we don't play with others |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anybody go to admit to a negative result  "
Puts the screw in the works ...asking that in the middle of a thread with people admitting to being tested but could be read as having contracted...lol  |
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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago
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"Anyone else always feel a little nervous that they may be carrying something nasty before the tests and while waiting for the text clear?
I always do. I've been a busy girl this year.
no because I never do anything to put myself at risk, safe all the way
Do you not go for tests then?"
I meant I don't get nervous because I know I haven't done anything to put myself at risk. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I went though.. felt really on edge as she said so how long have you been with your partner.. 10yrs ..well you have had children and they would of checked you then so why do you want it done again Just because I do so do it lol x
That shocks me
I have never heard of such a thing, to be asked why you want a check is not even part of their job, its their job to ask questions to give you the best test to suit your needs and assist you in any way they can
That's what I though.. was horrible I went bright red and was like ummmm ummmm just want to be safe that's all like to get check that's all
Couldn't really say oo I sleep with other people etc x"
Yes you can and to be honest you should
They can only do tests that suit your needs if your honest
They have heard it all before they really don't care |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone else always feel a little nervous that they may be carrying something nasty before the tests and while waiting for the text clear?
I always do. I've been a busy girl this year.
no because I never do anything to put myself at risk, safe all the way
Do you not go for tests then?
I meant I don't get nervous because I know I haven't done anything to put myself at risk. "
But the fact you go for tests means you know there's a risk you may have something
If you was 100% sure there was no way at all you had anything why would you get tested
If your sexually active there is a risk, as adult we know that and that's why we go for tests |
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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago
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"Anyone else always feel a little nervous that they may be carrying something nasty before the tests and while waiting for the text clear?
I always do. I've been a busy girl this year.
no because I never do anything to put myself at risk, safe all the way
Do you not go for tests then?
I meant I don't get nervous because I know I haven't done anything to put myself at risk.
But the fact you go for tests means you know there's a risk you may have something
If you was 100% sure there was no way at all you had anything why would you get tested
If your sexually active there is a risk, as adult we know that me that's why we go for tests "
we do it to make sure theres no chance of anything lying dormant from when we used to meet others which we were advised to do |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I went though.. felt really on edge as she said so how long have you been with your partner.. 10yrs ..well you have had children and they would of checked you then so why do you want it done again Just because I do so do it lol x
That shocks me
I have never heard of such a thing, to be asked why you want a check is not even part of their job, its their job to ask questions to give you the best test to suit your needs and assist you in any way they can
That's what I though.. was horrible I went bright red and was like ummmm ummmm just want to be safe that's all like to get check that's all
Couldn't really say oo I sleep with other people etc x"
Why not? I do. It's best to be honest about everything to get the right advice and tests. I've never come across a judgemental sexual health professional, plus they'll make sure you get extra packages of condoms and lube if they know you have lots of sexual partners.
Tested at the end of May and all good |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I went though.. felt really on edge as she said so how long have you been with your partner.. 10yrs ..well you have had children and they would of checked you then so why do you want it done again Just because I do so do it lol x
That shocks me
I have never heard of such a thing, to be asked why you want a check is not even part of their job, its their job to ask questions to give you the best test to suit your needs and assist you in any way they can
That's what I though.. was horrible I went bright red and was like ummmm ummmm just want to be safe that's all like to get check that's all
Couldn't really say oo I sleep with other people etc x
Why not? I do. It's best to be honest about everything to get the right advice and tests. I've never come across a judgemental sexual health professional, plus they'll make sure you get extra packages of condoms and lube if they know you have lots of sexual partners.
Tested at the end of May and all good "
She new I was comfortable saying.. but new that I wanted all the test etc so I was happen with that... how do you say I have been with my partner 10yrs married 4 year but I sleep with other people and he knows 
All test come back clear  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"About 7 months ago. All clear.
Which given the situation I found myself in, which was beyond my control, is a fucking miracle"
I think I hear what you're saying. Had that too. Glad you came out safe as well xx |
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We had ours last week and the all clear text 3 days later our clinic also offers the hep vaccines ( a and b, or just one or the other can never remember which) so we've had them done too, he'll we even walked out with something like 40+ condoms |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"We had ours last week and the all clear text 3 days later our clinic also offers the hep vaccines ( a and b, or just one or the other can never remember which) so we've had them done too, he'll we even walked out with something like 40+ condoms "
Wish mine did, tight sods gave me 8skyns  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She new I was comfortable saying.. but new that I wanted all the test etc so I was happen with that... how do you say I have been with my partner 10yrs married 4 year but I sleep with other people and he knows
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You will be surprised with how common swinging is and how not surprised sexual health advisors are when they hear it. It is best to be honest with them that way they can do all the right checks. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well that was interesting and quite fun.
It turns out the lady I saw is writing a paper on trans people and sexual health. We had a really interesting conversation while I was in there, swapped emails etc. |
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