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Met a guy who doesn't want me to play with anyone else
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Feel a bit unsure if I should see him again as I travel with work and post meets in other areas - mainly social. However he noticed I had one posted and said he was very hurt and thought I obviously wasn't keen enough on seeing just him.
Not sure if I should tell him to sod off. |
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"Feel a bit unsure if I should see him again as I travel with work and post meets in other areas - mainly social. However he noticed I had one posted and said he was very hurt and thought I obviously wasn't keen enough on seeing just him.
Not sure if I should tell him to sod off. "
Is *he* implying he's seeing you exclusively?
If so, he thinks you're his girlfriend.
If not, he's just a massively controlling dick.
Either way, think seriously about fleeing. |
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"Does it have to be 'sod off'?
Why not decide what you want and tell him and give him the option to decide whether it's for him or not 
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Yes, I was just going to say this. There does seem to be a bit of a climate of aggression on here about things like this, though reading the OP's profile it looks like that is definitely not what she wants and I would just say 'Sorry, that's not what I want'!!.
I have been exclusive with people on here - if they fulfill my needs that that suits me fine, each to his own. |
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Someone tried dictating to me what I should be doing only after two meets once. Now I wasn't actually interested in meeting anyone else at the time and told him I was on the forums just to chat,but when you have some one saying well why do you want to speak to stranger's on a forum alarm bells started ringing. We hadn't agreed in anything. I don't need someone being possessive after only two meets,we went around in circles so it ended before it had even begun. |
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"Feel a bit unsure if I should see him again as I travel with work and post meets in other areas - mainly social. However he noticed I had one posted and said he was very hurt and thought I obviously wasn't keen enough on seeing just him.
Not sure if I should tell him to sod off. "
Tell him to sod off you can be more diplomatic but the end result should be the same. I bet he won't be shagging anyone else? Huh! Dream on....
Do what you want to and don't let insecure or possessive men dictate to you what you do.
*gallops off on his white steed* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had this,
It wasnt pleasant to be reading messages having a go at me for uploading new photos without showing him first or publishing a verification of a cam/phone call/ social
He was extremely controlling and almost nasty when he spoke to me
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just for the record, I find ladies who have plenty of sexual partners and a healthy sex life are very sexy. "
I don't feel this site is for one person to be faithful myself personally. I like to meet different people and some folk obviously can't handle that |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"Feel a bit unsure if I should see him again as I travel with work and post meets in other areas - mainly social. However he noticed I had one posted and said he was very hurt and thought I obviously wasn't keen enough on seeing just him.
Not sure if I should tell him to sod off. "
Not necessarily. But you need to be absolutely clear about what you want and if that doesn't match what he's after then you're better off stopping contact now. |
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"Just for the record, I find ladies who have plenty of sexual partners and a healthy sex life are very sexy.
I don't feel this site is for one person to be faithful myself personally. I like to meet different people and some folk obviously can't handle that"
It's good to handle two people at once. |
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There's nothing wrong with wanting to meet no one else. Not everyone wants to bounce all over the site, me being one of them. I'm sure he's not looking for a relationship but maybe he's comfortable meeting just one or 2 people. I'm the same. I like kinky/filthy sex so having 1 or 2 playmates is a good way to keep it dirty and risk free.
If you don't want that then tell him, I'm sure he's grown up and can handle it but the uncertainty is probably what's confused him. |
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I personally would tell him that I am free to see others, as is he, and I will continue to do so. If he takes it well I would see him again. Should he start to strop like a 3yr old then that would be that.
But the choice is yours. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Feel a bit unsure if I should see him again as I travel with work and post meets in other areas - mainly social. However he noticed I had one posted and said he was very hurt and thought I obviously wasn't keen enough on seeing just him.
Not sure if I should tell him to sod off. "
Tell him you aren't keen enough on seeing just him, then ask him when you said you was?
I'm assuming this wasn't an agreement you made by this post |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Feel a bit unsure if I should see him again as I travel with work and post meets in other areas - mainly social. However he noticed I had one posted and said he was very hurt and thought I obviously wasn't keen enough on seeing just him.
Not sure if I should tell him to sod off. "
What part of swinging doesn't he understand. If it were me I would show him the door. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think the op loves drama! Every thread is about some bloke this...Some bloke that!  "
Nah...just like to hear people's thoughts...sadly I lead a very quiet humdrum existence! Not enough drama! |
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