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over a year ago
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curious as to how many other women say no to meeting couple's either as a couple or a single lady when the other woman is slimmer .. prettier... younger etc x
or am i just over sensitive... i dont meet guys who have all younger slimmer ladies on their verifications either..
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over a year ago
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I wouldn't turn someone down because they have a slimmer and younger partner,or had met slimmer and younger women.
My tastes are extremely diverse,I assume others' are too.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"curious as to how many other women say no to meeting couple's either as a couple or a single lady when the other woman is slimmer .. prettier... younger etc x
or am i just over sensitive... i dont meet guys who have all younger slimmer ladies on their verifications either..
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Rip your clothes off and get stuck in. |
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over a year ago
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Nope. I love seeing Marc with women who are absolutely beautiful, whether that be younger, older, slimmer, or curvier.
Attraction is important. I don't compare myself to other women in that way when I'm looking for a meet.  |
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"Nope. I love seeing Marc with women who are absolutely beautiful, whether that be younger, older, slimmer, or curvier.
Attraction is important. I don't compare myself to other women in that way when I'm looking for a meet. "
 woww can i just interupt and say that your body is amazing tho  |
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"Nope. I love seeing Marc with women who are absolutely beautiful, whether that be younger, older, slimmer, or curvier.
Attraction is important. I don't compare myself to other women in that way when I'm looking for a meet. woww can i just interupt and say that your body is amazing tho "
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"Nope. I love seeing Marc with women who are absolutely beautiful, whether that be younger, older, slimmer, or curvier.
Attraction is important. I don't compare myself to other women in that way when I'm looking for a meet. woww can i just interupt and say that your body is amazing tho
Thanks."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"curious as to how many other women say no to meeting couple's either as a couple or a single lady when the other woman is slimmer .. prettier... younger etc x
or am i just over sensitive... i dont meet guys who have all younger slimmer ladies on their verifications either..
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Yes I admit I do
Not the couple bit as I don't meet couples
But if a guy mails me and all of his verification are from slim/athletic woman I will turn him down saying I don't think I'm what he's looking for
I think a lot of guys send out bulk mail in the hope somebody will reply and I often think have these guys even looked at me or just block copy and pasting mail to all woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hence why I hide my verifications,
My tastes are quite eclectics and I meet women from all body types as long as there is an attraction somehow and we get on.
Yet I would hate myself to make someone feel inaquedate in her own skin due to my verifications. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"curious as to how many other women say no to meeting couple's either as a couple or a single lady when the other woman is slimmer .. prettier... younger etc x
or am i just over sensitive... i dont meet guys who have all younger slimmer ladies on their verifications either..
Yes I admit I do
Not the couple bit as I don't meet couples
But if a guy mails me and all of his verification are from slim/athletic woman I will turn him down saying I don't think I'm what he's looking for
I think a lot of guys send out bulk mail in the hope somebody will reply and I often think have these guys even looked at me or just block copy and pasting mail to all woman "
I've done exactly the same thing too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One of the reasons I would not meet a man may be because every pic he had was of him getting a bj off totally different women ... as that would be a total turn off  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hence why I hide my verifications,
My tastes are quite eclectics and I meet women from all body types as long as there is an attraction somehow and we get on.
Yet I would hate myself to make someone feel inaquedate in her own skin due to my verifications. "
Not a fan of nutella, I see? You are hard to please.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hence why I hide my verifications,
My tastes are quite eclectics and I meet women from all body types as long as there is an attraction somehow and we get on.
Yet I would hate myself to make someone feel inaquedate in her own skin due to my verifications.
Not a fan of nutella, I see? You are hard to please. "
Not if mixed with precum  |
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No it doesn't bother me. Since joining fab I've come to realise that I'm fortunate enough to have been blessed with a strong sense of self worth and that I'm also lucky to be in a relationship with a man who reinforces that, I've never seen any woman as a threat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like all body types and it doesnt bother me, cos we would be on the same level and same interest to keep fit and also we would have lots to chat about nutrition, training routines and as well what we think of kevin levrones return to mr o this year from the golden era of bodybuilding |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never feel threatened by younger slimmer veris...if I want to meet a guy enough I will regardless
That sounds as though you would be willing to kidnap him  "
Never needed to so far...and I always set them free when I'm finished with them  |
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I 'sort of' get what you mean - however, I'm not perfect, scars and a jelly belly etc, however.... I've had (in the past) guys who find me sexy and can't get enough of me when they have had thinner more toned previous partners. So, I really don't think body type comes into it. I think therefore that being sexy and attractive comes in all shapes and sizes. Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"curious as to how many other women say no to meeting couple's either as a couple or a single lady when the other woman is slimmer .. prettier... younger etc x
or am i just over sensitive... i dont meet guys who have all younger slimmer ladies on their verifications either..
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I'd take it as a compliment but I don't meet couples.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Slightly different answer but on the same vein.
No, we don't rule out women who are slimmer or whatever than L. For 2 reasons:
1: L knows she is the one I want. She knows I had plenty of those sorts of girls chasing me when I was single and that I did indulge them, but she beat them all out. Yes they are attractive but L and I have a connection that's based on far more than physical appearance. It's more just a bonus that I find her beautiful as well. It was who she is as a person that won me over.
2: Our meets are primarily about indulging L's bi side. Don't get me wrong I'm probably slightly more of the driving force behind us being on the scene in the first place, but now she's in it she's grabbed the bull by the horns and is massively into the other girls. So it's actually in many ways more important to have a girl that L massively fancies. And we have a similar opinions on girls. In that we prefer, all things being equal, a slim waist, round arse, large-ish up top hourglass, preferably under 5'6. So we rarely quibble about who we want to meet because if she turns L on the odds are good she will turn me on. In the entire time we have been here there have been I think only 2 profiles that we have disagreed on in terms of attraction. And there were massive extenuating circumstances behind both.
What we do however do, is filter massively by the male half of the couple. It's a very narrow band we are prepared to meet of "attractive, but not too attractive". L is far more confident in her own skin than I am. And I do get paranoid about the other guy being bigger, buffer, more attractive and fit. Despite the fact most people consider me to be in great shape, certainly above average. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never feel threatened by younger slimmer veris...if I want to meet a guy enough I will regardless
That sounds as though you would be willing to kidnap him
Never needed to so far...and I always set them free when I'm finished with them "
Haha, so kind of you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on the person you're meeting. Some folk have a way of making you feel like the most beautiful person on the planet, even if you feel you should be walking around with a paper bag on your head. Those types you wouldn't feel awkward meeting.
But, if a fella I chatted to had a list of verifications from women who could have been on the cover of Nuts Magazine, then no - I'd definately not be his type and no point in meeting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Slightly different answer but on the same vein.
No, we don't rule out women who are slimmer or whatever than L. For 2 reasons:
1: L knows she is the one I want. She knows I had plenty of those sorts of girls chasing me when I was single and that I did indulge them, but she beat them all out. Yes they are attractive but L and I have a connection that's based on far more than physical appearance. It's more just a bonus that I find her beautiful as well. It was who she is as a person that won me over.
2: Our meets are primarily about indulging L's bi side. Don't get me wrong I'm probably slightly more of the driving force behind us being on the scene in the first place, but now she's in it she's grabbed the bull by the horns and is massively into the other girls. So it's actually in many ways more important to have a girl that L massively fancies. And we have a similar opinions on girls. In that we prefer, all things being equal, a slim waist, round arse, large-ish up top hourglass, preferably under 5'6. So we rarely quibble about who we want to meet because if she turns L on the odds are good she will turn me on. In the entire time we have been here there have been I think only 2 profiles that we have disagreed on in terms of attraction. And there were massive extenuating circumstances behind both.
What we do however do, is filter massively by the male half of the couple. It's a very narrow band we are prepared to meet of "attractive, but not too attractive". L is far more confident in her own skin than I am. And I do get paranoid about the other guy being bigger, buffer, more attractive and fit. Despite the fact most people consider me to be in great shape, certainly above average. "
That's sort of like how I would be if I had a partner. I'd want some big dicked stunning Adonis of a guy but my partner would only be able to fuck a buzzard of a woman because I'd get too insecure if she was better looking than me!
Actually no scrap that, I'm getting jealous at the thought and I don't even have a partner! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"curious as to how many other women say no to meeting couple's either as a couple or a single lady when the other woman is slimmer .. prettier... younger etc x
or am i just over sensitive... i dont meet guys who have all younger slimmer ladies on their verifications either..
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I have done a couple of times mainly if they've got quite a few veris and it comes across like they've got a very certain type |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive had women say that there preferences in a guy can change from one month to another. I guess some men do aswell or is that called any holes a goal for the guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive had women say that there preferences in a guy can change from one month to another. I guess some men do aswell or is that called any holes a goal for the guys "
I'd be the equivalent of an any hole's a goal man. My taste in men can't be defined physically. I've seen women called names for meeting men other women think are undesirable. It's called not being picky and fucking anything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"curious as to how many other women say no to meeting couple's either as a couple or a single lady when the other woman is slimmer .. prettier... younger etc x
or am i just over sensitive... i dont meet guys who have all younger slimmer ladies on their verifications either..
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Tastes aren't always that narrow. Even if your lass is super slim and pretty that isn't the be all and end all of attraction. Older ladies with a bit of curves can be very alluring. A lot depends on how you carry yourself I think. Though that may be a little hard to tell from a picture on the Internet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ive had women say that there preferences in a guy can change from one month to another. I guess some men do aswell or is that called any holes a goal for the guys
I'd be the equivalent of an any hole's a goal man. My taste in men can't be defined physically. I've seen women called names for meeting men other women think are undesirable. It's called not being picky and fucking anything. "
Yes in there eyes but aslong as you fid them attractive let them carry on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not physically what you would describe as a tomboy, I wear make up and like dresses and all that bollocks but for most of my working life I've worked predominantly with men. My longest stretch was when I worked in the Bosch plant for 3 years, that was 3 years of working 5 sometimes 6 days a week for 10 or 12 hours a day and my department was 161 men and me, I tea breaker with them, lunched with them, smoked with them and obviously talked. What I found is men are personality driven really, underneath it all. The way that they spoke about women especially after a weekend and they'd pulled or whatever. I found that even the most stunning women (I saw pictures, some women really were stunning) if they had shit chat then they'd be sacked off or some of the best looking women would be quite prudish and wouldn't do certain things.
I don't even know what I'm on about now, what's the thread about again? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't meet couples myself but will only meet other bbw ladies like myself or larger size men I find I am more comfortable and attracted to men/women my own body size."
You should turn your fabs on for your pictures! The red boots picture is awesome! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is the perfect topic for me right now, i'm chatting to somebody and EVERY single verification is from a super hot slim and toned woman/couple. I'm feeling very intimidated.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is the perfect topic for me right now, i'm chatting to somebody and EVERY single verification is from a super hot slim and toned woman/couple. I'm feeling very intimidated. "
You honestly have no reason to be...plus they could have been shit shags! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think your being oversensitive Calli. Those women may be slimmer but they may not have such a beautiful face as you do.
Attraction is diverse, don't compare yourself negatively to others. Celebrate your own strengths, and you have many.
I'm a big girl and knocking on a bit in years but I know that I have class, intelligence, a nice face and boobs that get me far too much attention. I've gone to parties where I've been the largest lady and I haven't felt inadequate in the slightest. But then I do have a pretty big ego to go with it all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"curious as to how many other women say no to meeting couple's either as a couple or a single lady when the other woman is slimmer .. prettier... younger etc x
or am i just over sensitive... i dont meet guys who have all younger slimmer ladies on their verifications either..
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I must admit I am guilty of this!...I'm working on it though...well I'm working on myself really because the problem is with me not others or my mr x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"curious as to how many other women say no to meeting couple's either as a couple or a single lady when the other woman is slimmer .. prettier... younger etc x
or am i just over sensitive... i dont meet guys who have all younger slimmer ladies on their verifications either..
I must admit I am guilty of this!...I'm working on it though...well I'm working on myself really because the problem is with me not others or my mr x"
You are lush thou. Its only words to you but hopefully one day your know it aswell |
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"curious as to how many other women say no to meeting couple's either as a couple or a single lady when the other woman is slimmer .. prettier... younger etc x
or am i just over sensitive... i dont meet guys who have all younger slimmer ladies on their verifications either..
I must admit I am guilty of this!...I'm working on it though...well I'm working on myself really because the problem is with me not others or my mr x
You are lush thou. Its only words to you but hopefully one day your know it aswell "
It's my mission for my 30's  x |
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"must just be me then.. x "
Does that mean you consider all of the people that you have meet and played with (i.e. your veri's) to be Bigger, Uglier and Older than yourself?
I bet they are well chuffed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"must just be me then.. x
Does that mean you consider all of the people that you have meet and played with (i.e. your veri's) to be Bigger, Uglier and Older than yourself?
I bet they are well chuffed "
These threads are always funny like that. I bet people look to see whether they have been messaged or winked by the people commenting
In all seriousness, though, I don't think it's that black and white. |
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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago
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"curious as to how many other women say no to meeting couple's either as a couple or a single lady when the other woman is slimmer .. prettier... younger etc x
or am i just over sensitive... i dont meet guys who have all younger slimmer ladies on their verifications either..
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sadley this has happend to us many times over the years have got to house meets and k been treated like a lepper because of her tiny figure.at one meet a few years ago we where askedto leave a house party as the hostess was a bbw.and said all the men where after k .we dont care as long as personal hygine is good |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"curious as to how many other women say no to meeting couple's either as a couple or a single lady when the other woman is slimmer .. prettier... younger etc x
or am i just over sensitive... i dont meet guys who have all younger slimmer ladies on their verifications either..
Yes I admit I do
Not the couple bit as I don't meet couples
But if a guy mails me and all of his verification are from slim/athletic woman I will turn him down saying I don't think I'm what he's looking for
I think a lot of guys send out bulk mail in the hope somebody will reply and I often think have these guys even looked at me or just block copy and pasting mail to all woman "
No wonder all my messages get delete and I get blocked. They must be intimidated by all the hotties I have in my pics... I feel better now
Thank you all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't get jealous over people I meet meeting younger and slimmer ladies, but sometimes I look at who men I meet have met, and I have a moment of "oh she's older than me so she must be more sexually experienced" or "she has bigger boobs than me." Then I remember that who I meet does fancy me and likes me enough to meet me, which stops me from giving a shit about who else they meet. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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I think I've been lucky in those I've met that I've never felt the need to compare myself with others they've met in terms of how I physically (size and general attractiveness) stack up against them as it were. I'm pretty catholic in my tastes so rightly or wrongly work on the assumption that others are.
I do however have a slight niggle with the whole age thing. Entirely due to my own issues with it. For example, when a guy I'd met previously (who was a few years younger than me) rejoined he set his age filters to a narrower margin, which meant I was officially Too Old. That was a bit of a WTF?! moment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is the perfect topic for me right now, i'm chatting to somebody and EVERY single verification is from a super hot slim and toned woman/couple. I'm feeling very intimidated.
You honestly have no reason to be...plus they could have been shit shags! "
Thank you but I don't think you can tell I'm a size 20 from my photos! X |
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"curious as to how many other women say no to meeting couple's either as a couple or a single lady when the other woman is slimmer .. prettier... younger etc x
or am i just over sensitive... i dont meet guys who have all younger slimmer ladies on their verifications either..
Yes I admit I do
Not the couple bit as I don't meet couples
But if a guy mails me and all of his verification are from slim/athletic woman I will turn him down saying I don't think I'm what he's looking for
I think a lot of guys send out bulk mail in the hope somebody will reply and I often think have these guys even looked at me or just block copy and pasting mail to all woman
No wonder all my messages get delete and I get blocked. They must be intimidated by all the hotties I have in my pics... I feel better now
Thank you all"
No it's because your a sarcastic arse |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"must just be me then.. x
Does that mean you consider all of the people that you have meet and played with (i.e. your veri's) to be Bigger, Uglier and Older than yourself?
I bet they are well chuffed "
no they are all people ive felt equal too... not less than.
if we met a younger woman who hadnt had kids id feel i was going to be crap compared to that.
worst time was once my partner took a very slim lady into a room and told me after how he could lift her up. as she was a size 6 i didnt want him feeliny my squishy bits after..
and to be fair younger is also because i have children in their early 20s and it doesnt feel right...
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By (user no longer on site)
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I fancy the arse of quite a wide range of body types. So I don't check out the pics of potential meet's veris.
I'm very definitely in the bbw category, and I'm aware I get a lot of messages solely directed at my boobs. But those that get a bit further want more of my whole package. Which I think is an attractive all round one. |
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"curious as to how many other women say no to meeting couple's either as a couple or a single lady when the other woman is slimmer .. prettier... younger etc x
or am i just over sensitive... i dont meet guys who have all younger slimmer ladies on their verifications either..
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all depends on the preference I've lost 7 stone now and now I'm attracted to slim & curvy women and not intrested in bbws no disrespect meant X |
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"curious as to how many other women say no to meeting couple's either as a couple or a single lady when the other woman is slimmer .. prettier... younger etc x
or am i just over sensitive... i dont meet guys who have all younger slimmer ladies on their verifications either..
all depends on the preference I've lost 7 stone now and now I'm attracted to slim & curvy women and not intrested in bbws no disrespect meant X "
Ohh no |
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"curious as to how many other women say no to meeting couple's either as a couple or a single lady when the other woman is slimmer .. prettier... younger etc x
or am i just over sensitive... i dont meet guys who have all younger slimmer ladies on their verifications either..
all depends on the preference I've lost 7 stone now and now I'm attracted to slim & curvy women and not intrested in bbws no disrespect meant X "
But was you attracted to BBWs before or did you just meet them because you was over weight yourself and felt slim women wouldn't be attracted to you, where as now you have list weight you have more confidence to go for what you want rather than what you felt you could only get? |
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"curious as to how many other women say no to meeting couple's either as a couple or a single lady when the other woman is slimmer .. prettier... younger etc x
or am i just over sensitive... i dont meet guys who have all younger slimmer ladies on their verifications either..
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I am the exactly the same XXX |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Obviously it's person depending but erm I think there's different types of bbws if you know what I mean,but in general now I do find slimmer girls and gym girls more attractive and I think because of the hard work I've done I never want to be overweight again because I'm so much happier now and all it depends on how you feel inside but me personally I know what I like but I wouldn't think less of someone regardless of size looks etc |
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"must just be me then.. x "
Remember only 2 or 3% of fabbers use the forums..they are often the more confident ones. There is a much higherb% who view and read the posts who actually might be more inclined to agree with you but won't admit it publicly on a post. My inclination is there are alot more women who hold your view. Most of those I've met or chatted with would certainly have that thought when viewing a profile. I would also look at who has veried someone...look at the type...their age...their profile and their pics and decide there and then if I have a chance...If I don't think so I'll make a note in their profile to that thought and then pass on by. |
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I would like to think when me and gf start having others join in they wouldnt feel lack of confidence with being with a younger woman she is xx We already said age and body shape doesnt bother us so long as the connection is there really xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never given it a thought!
I don't look at veris and wonder whether that person is slimmer or prettier than me.
Hubby is with me for more than how I look and whilst attraction is important and I try to look good it's certainly not the only thing that holds us together.
But I am pretty confident about how I look and there aren't many on here that are Adonis like we are all human.
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over a year ago
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"I think I've been lucky in those I've met that I've never felt the need to compare myself with others they've met in terms of how I physically (size and general attractiveness) stack up against them as it were. I'm pretty catholic in my tastes so rightly or wrongly work on the assumption that others are.
I do however have a slight niggle with the whole age thing. Entirely due to my own issues with it. For example, when a guy I'd met previously (who was a few years younger than me) rejoined he set his age filters to a narrower margin, which meant I was officially Too Old. That was a bit of a WTF?! moment."
I've had the age WTF moment too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hence why I hide my verifications,
My tastes are quite eclectics and I meet women from all body types as long as there is an attraction somehow and we get on.
Yet I would hate myself to make someone feel inaquedate in her own skin due to my verifications.
Not a fan of nutella, I see? You are hard to please.
Not if mixed with precum "
I'm convinced you make them up! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't turn someone down because they have a slimmer and younger partner,or had met slimmer and younger women.
My tastes are extremely diverse,I assume others' are too.
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This for me too. |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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I've had this happen.
I had a FWB I met off here (non exclusive) and she decided that I'd met some women to whom she felt she was inferior, looks wise and decided that she didn't want to see me any more.
Thing is, some people are better photographers than others and that aside, persnality is a very big part of attraction for me, and she was the only one I was shagging regularly, which should have told her something.
As it was, as far as I can seem she talked herself out of a good thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had this happen.
I had a FWB I met off here (non exclusive) and she decided that I'd met some women to whom she felt she was inferior, looks wise and decided that she didn't want to see me any more.
Thing is, some people are better photographers than others and that aside, persnality is a very big part of attraction for me, and she was the only one I was shagging regularly, which should have told her something.
As it was, as far as I can seem she talked herself out of a good thing. "
That's a real shame for her. Funny how women will reject themselves because they fear being rejected.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't turn someone down because they have a slimmer and younger partner,or had met slimmer and younger women.
My tastes are extremely diverse,I assume others' are too.
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i mean if all they have met is slim ladies.. i dont want to be the token fat girl |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had this happen.
I had a FWB I met off here (non exclusive) and she decided that I'd met some women to whom she felt she was inferior, looks wise and decided that she didn't want to see me any more.
Thing is, some people are better photographers than others and that aside, persnality is a very big part of attraction for me, and she was the only one I was shagging regularly, which should have told her something.
As it was, as far as I can seem she talked herself out of a good thing. "
It wouldn't bother me if it was somebody I had met before
If I had met a guy and after meeting me he met somebody who was better than me that wouldn't put me off meeting him again because he's met me before he knows what I look like
I think it is the fear of that look of disappointment from somebody from a first meet that would make me weary meeting a guy who's previous meets have been better than me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think its down to how confident you are in yourself and whether you have hangups or not"
Yeah, I think confidence plays a big part & knowing your own self worth.
I'm older & larger than a lot of women on here & I won't allow myself to play the comparison game, what's the point? I assume (rightly or wrongly) men meet me because they find me attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had this happen.
I had a FWB I met off here (non exclusive) and she decided that I'd met some women to whom she felt she was inferior, looks wise and decided that she didn't want to see me any more.
Thing is, some people are better photographers than others and that aside, persnality is a very big part of attraction for me, and she was the only one I was shagging regularly, which should have told her something.
As it was, as far as I can seem she talked herself out of a good thing.
That's a real shame for her. Funny how women will reject themselves because they fear being rejected. "
I do it all the time
Even with guys who's verifications aren't on show
I get some real good looking guys message me, I just look at them and think...don't be stupid
I do have a habbit of looking at guys and deciding for them if they will like me or not and if I don't think they will I won't even entertain talking to them as I eel its wasting mine and their time |
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"Think its down to how confident you are in yourself and whether you have hangups or not
Yeah, I think confidence plays a big part & knowing your own self worth.
I'm older & larger than a lot of women on here & I won't allow myself to play the comparison game, what's the point? I assume (rightly or wrongly) men meet me because they find me attractive."
exactly seems pretty simple to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had this happen.
I had a FWB I met off here (non exclusive) and she decided that I'd met some women to whom she felt she was inferior, looks wise and decided that she didn't want to see me any more.
Thing is, some people are better photographers than others and that aside, persnality is a very big part of attraction for me, and she was the only one I was shagging regularly, which should have told her something.
As it was, as far as I can seem she talked herself out of a good thing.
That's a real shame for her. Funny how women will reject themselves because they fear being rejected.
I do it all the time
Even with guys who's verifications aren't on show
I get some real good looking guys message me, I just look at them and think...don't be stupid
I do have a habbit of looking at guys and deciding for them if they will like me or not and if I don't think they will I won't even entertain talking to them as I eel its wasting mine and their time "
I guess I sometimes wonder why they'd be interested in me as some have been beautiful.
I tend to get over it though and if on 6 months they're still asking than fuck it. There must be something they like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had this happen.
I had a FWB I met off here (non exclusive) and she decided that I'd met some women to whom she felt she was inferior, looks wise and decided that she didn't want to see me any more.
Thing is, some people are better photographers than others and that aside, persnality is a very big part of attraction for me, and she was the only one I was shagging regularly, which should have told her something.
As it was, as far as I can seem she talked herself out of a good thing.
That's a real shame for her. Funny how women will reject themselves because they fear being rejected.
I do it all the time
Even with guys who's verifications aren't on show
I get some real good looking guys message me, I just look at them and think...don't be stupid
I do have a habbit of looking at guys and deciding for them if they will like me or not and if I don't think they will I won't even entertain talking to them as I eel its wasting mine and their time "
I knew you wanted me
If only you liked straight men... I'd be your sex slave |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had this happen.
I had a FWB I met off here (non exclusive) and she decided that I'd met some women to whom she felt she was inferior, looks wise and decided that she didn't want to see me any more.
Thing is, some people are better photographers than others and that aside, persnality is a very big part of attraction for me, and she was the only one I was shagging regularly, which should have told her something.
As it was, as far as I can seem she talked herself out of a good thing.
That's a real shame for her. Funny how women will reject themselves because they fear being rejected.
I do it all the time
Even with guys who's verifications aren't on show
I get some real good looking guys message me, I just look at them and think...don't be stupid
I do have a habbit of looking at guys and deciding for them if they will like me or not and if I don't think they will I won't even entertain talking to them as I eel its wasting mine and their time
I knew you wanted me
If only you liked straight men... I'd be your sex slave "
I do like straight men
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"Nope. I love seeing Marc with women who are absolutely beautiful, whether that be younger, older, slimmer, or curvier.
Attraction is important. I don't compare myself to other women in that way when I'm looking for a meet. woww can i just interupt and say that your body is amazing tho come take it then
Thanks."
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"I've had this happen.
I had a FWB I met off here (non exclusive) and she decided that I'd met some women to whom she felt she was inferior, looks wise and decided that she didn't want to see me any more.
Thing is, some people are better photographers than others and that aside, persnality is a very big part of attraction for me, and she was the only one I was shagging regularly, which should have told her something.
As it was, as far as I can seem she talked herself out of a good thing.
That's a real shame for her. Funny how women will reject themselves because they fear being rejected.
I do it all the time
Even with guys who's verifications aren't on show
I get some real good looking guys message me, I just look at them and think...don't be stupid
I do have a habbit of looking at guys and deciding for them if they will like me or not and if I don't think they will I won't even entertain talking to them as I eel its wasting mine and their time "
As I've said prevously - I remember you from when you used to chat/cam, and as far as I'm concerned you are pretty bloody attractive. I think you underestimate yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had this happen.
I had a FWB I met off here (non exclusive) and she decided that I'd met some women to whom she felt she was inferior, looks wise and decided that she didn't want to see me any more.
Thing is, some people are better photographers than others and that aside, persnality is a very big part of attraction for me, and she was the only one I was shagging regularly, which should have told her something.
As it was, as far as I can seem she talked herself out of a good thing.
That's a real shame for her. Funny how women will reject themselves because they fear being rejected.
I do it all the time
Even with guys who's verifications aren't on show
I get some real good looking guys message me, I just look at them and think...don't be stupid
I do have a habbit of looking at guys and deciding for them if they will like me or not and if I don't think they will I won't even entertain talking to them as I eel its wasting mine and their time
I knew you wanted me
If only you liked straight men... I'd be your sex slave
I do like straight men
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Well it must be because I'm black  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had this happen.
I had a FWB I met off here (non exclusive) and she decided that I'd met some women to whom she felt she was inferior, looks wise and decided that she didn't want to see me any more.
Thing is, some people are better photographers than others and that aside, persnality is a very big part of attraction for me, and she was the only one I was shagging regularly, which should have told her something.
As it was, as far as I can seem she talked herself out of a good thing.
That's a real shame for her. Funny how women will reject themselves because they fear being rejected.
I do it all the time
Even with guys who's verifications aren't on show
I get some real good looking guys message me, I just look at them and think...don't be stupid
I do have a habbit of looking at guys and deciding for them if they will like me or not and if I don't think they will I won't even entertain talking to them as I eel its wasting mine and their time
As I've said prevously - I remember you from when you used to chat/cam, and as far as I'm concerned you are pretty bloody attractive. I think you underestimate yourself. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had this happen.
I had a FWB I met off here (non exclusive) and she decided that I'd met some women to whom she felt she was inferior, looks wise and decided that she didn't want to see me any more.
Thing is, some people are better photographers than others and that aside, persnality is a very big part of attraction for me, and she was the only one I was shagging regularly, which should have told her something.
As it was, as far as I can seem she talked herself out of a good thing.
That's a real shame for her. Funny how women will reject themselves because they fear being rejected.
I do it all the time
Even with guys who's verifications aren't on show
I get some real good looking guys message me, I just look at them and think...don't be stupid
I do have a habbit of looking at guys and deciding for them if they will like me or not and if I don't think they will I won't even entertain talking to them as I eel its wasting mine and their time
As I've said prevously - I remember you from when you used to chat/cam, and as far as I'm concerned you are pretty bloody attractive. I think you underestimate yourself. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had this happen.
I had a FWB I met off here (non exclusive) and she decided that I'd met some women to whom she felt she was inferior, looks wise and decided that she didn't want to see me any more.
Thing is, some people are better photographers than others and that aside, persnality is a very big part of attraction for me, and she was the only one I was shagging regularly, which should have told her something.
As it was, as far as I can seem she talked herself out of a good thing.
That's a real shame for her. Funny how women will reject themselves because they fear being rejected.
I do it all the time
Even with guys who's verifications aren't on show
I get some real good looking guys message me, I just look at them and think...don't be stupid
I do have a habbit of looking at guys and deciding for them if they will like me or not and if I don't think they will I won't even entertain talking to them as I eel its wasting mine and their time
I knew you wanted me
If only you liked straight men... I'd be your sex slave
I do like straight men
Well it must be because I'm black "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had this happen.
I had a FWB I met off here (non exclusive) and she decided that I'd met some women to whom she felt she was inferior, looks wise and decided that she didn't want to see me any more.
Thing is, some people are better photographers than others and that aside, persnality is a very big part of attraction for me, and she was the only one I was shagging regularly, which should have told her something.
As it was, as far as I can seem she talked herself out of a good thing.
That's a real shame for her. Funny how women will reject themselves because they fear being rejected.
I do it all the time
Even with guys who's verifications aren't on show
I get some real good looking guys message me, I just look at them and think...don't be stupid
I do have a habbit of looking at guys and deciding for them if they will like me or not and if I don't think they will I won't even entertain talking to them as I eel its wasting mine and their time
I knew you wanted me
If only you liked straight men... I'd be your sex slave
I do like straight men
Well it must be because I'm black
Fuck off "
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over a year ago
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"I've had this happen.
I had a FWB I met off here (non exclusive) and she decided that I'd met some women to whom she felt she was inferior, looks wise and decided that she didn't want to see me any more.
Thing is, some people are better photographers than others and that aside, persnality is a very big part of attraction for me, and she was the only one I was shagging regularly, which should have told her something.
As it was, as far as I can seem she talked herself out of a good thing.
That's a real shame for her. Funny how women will reject themselves because they fear being rejected.
I do it all the time
Even with guys who's verifications aren't on show
I get some real good looking guys message me, I just look at them and think...don't be stupid
I do have a habbit of looking at guys and deciding for them if they will like me or not and if I don't think they will I won't even entertain talking to them as I eel its wasting mine and their time
I knew you wanted me
If only you liked straight men... I'd be your sex slave
I do like straight men
Well it must be because I'm black
Fuck off
I didn't want you anyway "
Well you could have told me that before I booked my flight |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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"I've had this happen.
I had a FWB I met off here (non exclusive) and she decided that I'd met some women to whom she felt she was inferior, looks wise and decided that she didn't want to see me any more.
Thing is, some people are better photographers than others and that aside, persnality is a very big part of attraction for me, and she was the only one I was shagging regularly, which should have told her something.
As it was, as far as I can seem she talked herself out of a good thing.
That's a real shame for her. Funny how women will reject themselves because they fear being rejected.
I do it all the time
Even with guys who's verifications aren't on show
I get some real good looking guys message me, I just look at them and think...don't be stupid
I do have a habbit of looking at guys and deciding for them if they will like me or not and if I don't think they will I won't even entertain talking to them as I eel its wasting mine and their time
As I've said prevously - I remember you from when you used to chat/cam, and as far as I'm concerned you are pretty bloody attractive. I think you underestimate yourself.
Fancy a shag then? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would take it as a compliment if an attractive female wanted to have an ffm with us....I'm confident enough in myself to not feel jealous and just enjoy the moment x |
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"Hence why I hide my verifications,
My tastes are quite eclectics and I meet women from all body types as long as there is an attraction somehow and we get on.
Yet I would hate myself to make someone feel inaquedate in her own skin due to my verifications. "
I need to see these before we meet then lol |
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I admit I look at who a guy has met and if they are gorgeous and slim and just perfect I don't bother. Won't want him to look at me and think 'wtf is that?' |
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"Hence why I hide my verifications,
My tastes are quite eclectics and I meet women from all body types as long as there is an attraction somehow and we get on.
Yet I would hate myself to make someone feel inaquedate in her own skin due to my verifications. "
Your verifications won't make anyone feel inadequate, the person themselves feels inadequate anyway and uses outside influences to confirm their feelings about themselves. Its a shame but it's never going to change. |
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"I admit I look at who a guy has met and if they are gorgeous and slim and just perfect I don't bother. Won't want him to look at me and think 'wtf is that?'"
What makes her perfect? I think this is the one place women go wrong...they thing they understand they guys mind. I'm a Sapiophile and Sapiosexual....generally what the woman looks like beyond her smile and 'womanly figue'....has little impact compared to her mind... has she got witt, sarcasm, can she hold her own in banter, has she a controlled dirty filthy mind...does she have confidence and does she want me without being too obvious about it....does she want a man to take initiative at the meet... Is she only looking for one meet or multiple...These are the things I look at...then finally can she kiss.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Attitude and outlook are far more important than age or body type. One of the best things about swinging is variety, so on a tactile level playing with someone younger or fitter is part of the fun and experience.
Equally while my 6 Pack is firmly in the potential stage, if C wanted to play with someone that is well ripped then i dont feel threatened by that as i am confident in how she feels about me. If he is well endowed i am confident i can press her buttons much better than he can.
I just find the more open minded we are the more likely we are to have fun. She does not mind me admiring young attractive ladies and the reverse is true. Beauty is to be admired in all its forms.
Then those that really know it and like to strut around like peacocks will never get remotely close to us. Back to the attitude and outlook thing again. |
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