1st meets are always socials for me.
The tricky bit is....getting to a 2nd meet. Even when they are super keen when they meet me, seldom get that 2nd meet. Why?
Is it because I am ugly? Err... no 
Is it because of my dull persona? Ha.... definitely not dull!
Did they simply not like me? Well if they didn't, they were bloody good actors! If that was the case, no problem. That would be easy!
But no. It's all the game playing and pussy (excuse the pun) around!
Guys. ...if you fancy her and want to meet again....just bloody well ask her! You don't need to make a dogs breakfast of it! Stop faffing around and get on with it!
Jesus! I am supposed to be submissive! Lol! But I can't be sub if guys can't even figure out the basics!!! ????????????
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"1st meets are always socials for me.
The tricky bit is....getting to a 2nd meet. Even when they are super keen when they meet me, seldom get that 2nd meet. Why?
Is it because I am ugly? Err... no
Is it because of my dull persona? Ha.... definitely not dull!
Did they simply not like me? Well if they didn't, they were bloody good actors! If that was the case, no problem. That would be easy!
But no. It's all the game playing and pussy (excuse the pun) around!
Guys. ...if you fancy her and want to meet again....just bloody well ask her! You don't need to make a dogs breakfast of it! Stop faffing around and get on with it!
Jesus! I am supposed to be submissive! Lol! But I can't be sub if guys can't even figure out the basics!!! ????????????
If only every single woman on fab had your way of thinking . Fab would be a much better and happier place. Unfortunately. Not everyone will agree with the way you have simplified things..
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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The second meets are often the best ones. After a social and all that build up and anticipation between you both.
OP you are a beautiful lady perhaps the men you are meeting a bit intimidated by you? |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"1st meets are always socials for me.
The tricky bit is....getting to a 2nd meet. Even when they are super keen when they meet me, seldom get that 2nd meet. Why?
Is it because I am ugly? Err... no
Is it because of my dull persona? Ha.... definitely not dull!
Did they simply not like me? Well if they didn't, they were bloody good actors! If that was the case, no problem. That would be easy!
But no. It's all the game playing and pussy (excuse the pun) around!
Guys. ...if you fancy her and want to meet again....just bloody well ask her! You don't need to make a dogs breakfast of it! Stop faffing around and get on with it!
Jesus! I am supposed to be submissive! Lol! But I can't be sub if guys can't even figure out the basics!!! ????????????
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Social meet second date your clearly asking for more than most men are will to give .come on hows a poor man going to make his social check stretch that far 
But in all seriousness I think its just a case of them not being sure if you felt any chemistry and because of that them fearing the rejection that may come about from asking you out right do you fancy another date . |
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"1st meets are always socials for me.
The tricky bit is....getting to a 2nd meet. Even when they are super keen when they meet me, seldom get that 2nd meet. Why?
Is it because I am ugly? Err... no
I'd love to get first meet with you, let alone a second xx
Is it because of my dull persona? Ha.... definitely not dull!
Did they simply not like me? Well if they didn't, they were bloody good actors! If that was the case, no problem. That would be easy!
But no. It's all the game playing and pussy (excuse the pun) around!
Guys. ...if you fancy her and want to meet again....just bloody well ask her! You don't need to make a dogs breakfast of it! Stop faffing around and get on with it!
Jesus! I am supposed to be submissive! Lol! But I can't be sub if guys can't even figure out the basics!!! ????????????
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have met most people more than once and all seems to go smoothly...I prefer 2nd meets too, when everyone is much more comfortable and relaxed, I find it flows better too |
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"1st meets are always socials for me.
The tricky bit is....getting to a 2nd meet. Even when they are super keen when they meet me, seldom get that 2nd meet. Why?
Is it because I am ugly? Err... no
Is it because of my dull persona? Ha.... definitely not dull!
Did they simply not like me? Well if they didn't, they were bloody good actors! If that was the case, no problem. That would be easy!
But no. It's all the game playing and pussy (excuse the pun) around!
Guys. ...if you fancy her and want to meet again....just bloody well ask her! You don't need to make a dogs breakfast of it! Stop faffing around and get on with it!
Jesus! I am supposed to be submissive! Lol! But I can't be sub if guys can't even figure out the basics!!! ????????????
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They must not have somthing right in there head |
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As the OP is submissive, she is likely most comfy if the man takes the lead. Every dynamic is different, but where I have had a social meet with a lady who is sub, I am even more likely than usual to politely make it clear whether I want to take things further...while wording it in such a way that she doesn't feel bad if she says "no".
When you have a social, one of the participants has to say something. |
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I find they TALK about meeting up again....a lot..... but never quite manage it
That is the confusing bit. If they didn't want to.... then it's easy !
Maybe I AM ugly! Lol!!! Bugger! Ha...
Or maybe they are scared??? As the first meet is a social...it's probably that? |
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"I find they TALK about meeting up again....a lot..... but never quite manage it
That is the confusing bit. If they didn't want to.... then it's easy !
Maybe I AM ugly! Lol!!! Bugger! Ha...
Or maybe they are scared??? As the first meet is a social...it's probably that?"
The problem might be that they can't get away from their wives or girlfriends. With school being out , it can be hard to get a free night.. Just wait until after Summer Holidays and the second meets will roll around  |
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over a year ago
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i started telling guys that 2 months (or longer) wasn't enough for me and that i didn't want to meet guys with such low sex drives. coz that's how long some guys take to ask for another meet. |
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haha you'll find single guys will meet you a 2nd time if they don't get to fuck u the 1st time. Married/cheaters are less likely to want to meet a 2nd time especially if they didn't get to fuck you the 1st time. Those married ones who will meet 2nd time are just greedy (which is the ones I always get). Always come back for more haha |
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"haha you'll find single guys will meet you a 2nd time if they don't get to fuck u the 1st time. Married/cheaters are less likely to want to meet a 2nd time especially if they didn't get to fuck you the 1st time. Those married ones who will meet 2nd time are just greedy (which is the ones I always get). Always come back for more haha"
ive found the opposite myself. that attached guys are more likely to want very regular meets (more than once a week) and will keep in touch when not wanting a meet.
i think they tend to prefer to meet less women but have more sex. and no i didn't know they were attached but when you meet that regular it comes out eventually. |
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