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Some women on here confuse me. They do not want to be wine or dined or even too much conversation. Just the physical of a man. Surely that doesn't give you the best of sex does it? Don't you find it more attractive and sexy when a man can stimulate your mind before giving you the sex you enjoy? |
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over a year ago
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Beautiful face
Beautiful body
Beautiful soul
Beautiful voice
Funny, Sexy and sensual but also dirty
To be wined and dined and treated like a princess
Someone who you long to spend time with
Not a quick fuck round back of Argos and a greggs pasty |
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"I think wining and dining is for dating sites.."
Do you?
I always find that a little bit odd
Personally I see no harm in meeting for a drink or maybe a spot of lunch to have a chat and decide if you like somebody before you commit to shagging them
To me that's not a date its having a drink while I decide if I want to shag them  |
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I didn't say I wouldn't meet for a drink before deciding to shag them... I would also meet for a social over a bite to eat..
Personally it think the whole 'wine n dine' is a date thing..
Only what I think tho |
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"It depends on the mood, some men are great at sex and rubbish company. Others have the whole package, some are good company with no sexual spark."
Pretty much sums it up  |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Some women on here confuse me. They do not want to be wine or dined or even too much conversation. Just the physical of a man. Surely that doesn't give you the best of sex does it? Don't you find it more attractive and sexy when a man can stimulate your mind before giving you the sex you enjoy?"
It depends on the type of meet it is and what we're looking for at the time.
In general, we prefer meets with those we we get on socially with and can have a laugh/ chat before and after.
Sometimes, that's not needed and no names etc need to be exchanged. I just want their body.
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"Beautiful face
Beautiful body
Beautiful soul
Beautiful voice
Funny, Sexy and sensual but also dirty
To be wined and dined and treated like a princess
Someone who you long to spend time with
Not a quick fuck round back of Argos and a greggs pasty "
Come on, you love those pasties! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Beautiful face
Beautiful body
Beautiful soul
Beautiful voice
Funny, Sexy and sensual but also dirty
To be wined and dined and treated like a princess
Someone who you long to spend time with
Not a quick fuck round back of Argos and a greggs pasty
Come on, you love those pasties!"
Chicken bake  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you can have good sex with guys who can do NSA right.
so long as i'm not left feeling used and enjoyed myself (either he let me take the lead or made en effort for me) then i was happy enough to meet again. |
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"I think wining and dining is for dating sites..
Do you?
I always find that a little bit odd
Personally I see no harm in meeting for a drink or maybe a spot of lunch to have a chat and decide if you like somebody before you commit to shagging them
To me that's not a date its having a drink while I decide if I want to shag them "
This^^^ we love to meet for a social beforehand as it helps everyone relax and feel comfortable together but also gives a no pressure situation where people don't feel they have to play because they are there, if the spark isn't there in real life it's much more comfortable just to continue the social a bit longer and go your separate ways than if you are just straight meeting to fuck at a hotel or house.
And for us just because we aren't attracted to someone doesn't mean we won't invite them to a party we throw or something if we get on socially, others we know may be attracted to them!
But that is the beauty of the site, someone for everyone! |
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"Beautiful face
Beautiful body
Beautiful soul
Beautiful voice
Funny, Sexy and sensual but also dirty
To be wined and dined and treated like a princess
Someone who you long to spend time with
Not a quick fuck round back of Argos and a greggs pasty "
So you don't have The Pound Bakery near you? Greggs is a bit steep in price  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Fully in support of being wined and dined, or even just being out on the town having a nice time, as part of an NSA sexual relationship. But so many people stand in horror at it, saying 'this is a sex site, not a dating site'. I always get the best sex when there is a good lead up to the event. |
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I'm not the wining and dining type, never have been and never will be.
Because I'm so shy I prefer socials to be as quick as possible and prefer the potential sex God to be witty, laid back and easy to be around. If he's super chatty that helps because it can be hard work getting me talking |
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"Some women on here confuse me. They do not want to be wine or dined or even too much conversation. Just the physical of a man. Surely that doesn't give you the best of sex does it? Don't you find it more attractive and sexy when a man can stimulate your mind before giving you the sex you enjoy?"
I think you're over thinking this .... Women have all the pussy and all the power. If they ask a guy to take them to dinner . Guys will do it
If they ask a guy to come straight to their hotel without a drink. Guys will do it.
Fab is run by women  |
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"I'm not the wining and dining type, never have been and never will be.
Because I'm so shy I prefer socials to be as quick as possible and prefer the potential sex God to be witty, laid back and easy to be around. If he's super chatty that helps because it can be hard work getting me talking "
Nothing wrong with talking to a pretty face, I could talk the hind legs off a donkey that might be because I'm an ass though  |
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"Some women on here confuse me. They do not want to be wine or dined or even too much conversation. Just the physical of a man. Surely that doesn't give you the best of sex does it? Don't you find it more attractive and sexy when a man can stimulate your mind before giving you the sex you enjoy?"
Different women go about meets in different ways...
If we were all the same and liked the same thing where would be the challenge in that?
It's up to you, as a prospective play partner, to figure out what it is that stimulates our minds...
Not for us to hand it to you on a plate |
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"I think wining and dining is for dating sites..
Do you?
I always find that a little bit odd
Personally I see no harm in meeting for a drink or maybe a spot of lunch to have a chat and decide if you like somebody before you commit to shagging them
To me that's not a date its having a drink while I decide if I want to shag them "
Fancy a spot of lunch in a nice pub tomorrow  |
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"I think wining and dining is for dating sites..
Do you?
I always find that a little bit odd
Personally I see no harm in meeting for a drink or maybe a spot of lunch to have a chat and decide if you like somebody before you commit to shagging them
To me that's not a date its having a drink while I decide if I want to shag them "
Likewise. If someone's personality doesn't turn me on then their body sure isn't going to do it for me |
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"Some women on here confuse me. They do not want to be wine or dined or even too much conversation. Just the physical of a man. Surely that doesn't give you the best of sex does it? Don't you find it more attractive and sexy when a man can stimulate your mind before giving you the sex you enjoy?
Different women go about meets in different ways...
If we were all the same and liked the same thing where would be the challenge in that?
It's up to you, as a prospective play partner, to figure out what it is that stimulates our minds...
Not for us to hand it to you on a plate "
that's a Two-Way street, it's called equality.. |
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"It depends on the mood, some men are great at sex and rubbish company. Others have the whole package, some are good company with no sexual spark."
really good ponts
but sex for me is always in the mind i dont sext or do mass build ups its all in the banter . hence why i dont do random meets .. i like te face t face tease x |
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"Some women on here confuse me. They do not want to be wine or dined or even too much conversation. Just the physical of a man. Surely that doesn't give you the best of sex does it? Don't you find it more attractive and sexy when a man can stimulate your mind before giving you the sex you enjoy?"
I am not interested in making any connection with a man I meet. I am just after the filth of the physicality of it, and that in itself is a turn on. If I wanted to get to know someone, I would go to a dating site. I have all of the conversation and stimulation from my friends and family ... don't need that from anyone here. |
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"Some women on here confuse me. They do not want to be wine or dined or even too much conversation. Just the physical of a man. Surely that doesn't give you the best of sex does it? Don't you find it more attractive and sexy when a man can stimulate your mind before giving you the sex you enjoy?
I am not interested in making any connection with a man I meet. I am just after the filth of the physicality of it, and that in itself is a turn on. If I wanted to get to know someone, I would go to a dating site. I have all of the conversation and stimulation from my friends and family ... don't need that from anyone here."
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The only person I enjoy being wined and dined by is Mark ...meets from here are stimulation of the mind via msgs or telephone or kik followed by actions at a meet  |
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