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Breaking in newbies
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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could you just wrte a list so everyone could refer to it?? ts not hard to not be a knob really lol it's a shame really feel like men have been hit with a bit of a brush round these parts lool
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i meet quite a few newbies - think the key is to meet for a chat first and take time to explain some basic things about the site and how it works. i have had few problems whilst here  "
*nods agreement*  we like our newbies. |
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We to have had some great meets with newbies. We have found, just being very clear about things from the start & taking our time on a meet usually is enough.
Really great when you find the ones that realise they love it on a meet with you!
Of course there is the odd one or two that haven't talked it through properly etc etc. But then there's others like that to!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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just a thought should give newbies a chance to get use 2 the site restricted access
with out the bombardment of mail to them
a lot really dont hang around due it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"anyone????  "
I really should think before I type
I meant to say any female.want to break me in ?
Now all you blokes , tv 's etc can stick your tongues back in your mouth.
I only have eyes for the ladies .
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I think it's a bit different being a newbie couple looking to explore uncharted ground in their relationship.... to being a newbie single looking for a leg over.
For the couple it is new in so many ways.... for many singles it's just a new place to try and get some. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"anyone????
I really should think before I type
I meant to say any female.want to break me in ?
Now all you blokes , tv 's etc can stick your tongues back in your mouth.
I only have eyes for the ladies .
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Eyes for the ladies, arse for the men eh! Haha |
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"anyone????
I really should think before I type
I meant to say any female.want to break me in ?
Now all you blokes , tv 's etc can stick your tongues back in your mouth.
I only have eyes for the ladies .
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Don't worry mate not every tv bi man or gay man will be falling over themselves cause u said that lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"anyone????
I really should think before I type
I meant to say any female.want to break me in ?
Now all you blokes , tv 's etc can stick your tongues back in your mouth.
I only have eyes for the ladies .
Don't worry mate not every tv bi man or gay man will be falling over themselves cause u said that lol"
No, just 90% haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hope not .
It was just a way of explaining my earlier post , only when I read it back I realised how it sounded.
Most people make their own assumptions and I needed to clarify myself. |
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"anyone????
I really should think before I type
I meant to say any female.want to break me in ?
Now all you blokes , tv 's etc can stick your tongues back in your mouth.
I only have eyes for the ladies .
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oh dear you said it its in stone now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a newbie looking to be broken in, but's it's difficult to find people interested when other newbies ruin it for the rest.
I keep trying though, being polite and respectful, maybe i will find someone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a non-timewasting, mature newbie (and a single guy at that) its the ones who ruin it for the rest of us that really get me steamed up (and not in a good way!) Maybe some of the more experienced folk could work on their newbie-welcoming skills, but its not hard to see why they don't bother - especially if they get nuisance mail from 100 crude idiots every week....
Maybe we newbies just need to be more into the social side or at least the club scene (or social club scene). It easy to get lost in the sexy possibilities and forget the social relationship/getting on with people.
Still hoping that they'll be a lady or couple here somewhere to whip me into ashape (possibly literally) |
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specking of our first time it went a bit strange and I don't think were confident enough to help out a new couple in to the fold, and it must be so hard if you don't even no what to do.
we talked a grate deal before having a go |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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treat people as ud like to be treated urself! all folk have different reasons to try swinging, maybe a fantasy or just nervous? As for (breaking in) your talking about a human being with feelings , not an animal, no wonder people nervous apprehensive? Hope u enjoyed being broke in?  |
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"god bless the newbies !!!!! after all with out em wed have to go back to scarificing goats again at the socials and meetings ....... 
you mean we've stopped doing that???"
ohh sorry i forgot you missed the last meeting of devil worshipers and socials devients .ill forward you the news letter ! hehe !! |
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"treat people as ud like to be treated urself! all folk have different reasons to try swinging, maybe a fantasy or just nervous? As for (breaking in) your talking about a human being with feelings , not an animal, no wonder people nervous apprehensive? Hope u enjoyed being broke in? "
opps so turning up with a bridal and riding crop alil too much then???? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I've met many newbs and verified them after a successful meet. I have only regretted verifying a newb once, the rest I have met again.
We all had to start somewhere, and I have taken it upon myself to meet and enjoy a few new guys to make sure others aren't disappointed. Its a hard life sometimes.  |
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"I've met many newbs and verified them after a successful meet. I have only regretted verifying a newb once, the rest I have met again.
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I may have missed the point of the OP a bit,are we talking about noobs to this site or noobs to sex sites in general as in people who haven't used the internet to meet up with people for sex? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"I've met many newbs and verified them after a successful meet. I have only regretted verifying a newb once, the rest I have met again.
I may have missed the point of the OP a bit,are we talking about noobs to this site or noobs to sex sites in general as in people who haven't used the internet to meet up with people for sex?"
Good point! I assumed new to this site but it wasn't made clear. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well hey guys, we're newbies, ish, I guess now, I'm not sure when you lose the tag exactly lol.
But we threw ourselves into it. Some people like the badge of doing newbies, breaking them in, and some of the messages we have have had have made us feel like the new toy on the block.
But like in any situation in life, we want to meet genuine people too, that don't just want another newbie notch on the post.
We attended a party where we knew no-one, and ended up being the life and soul of the party, and initiating a six-a-thon - so please don't judge us all the same - just because we are new - doesn't mean we don't know how to tease, please and have an awesome time!!!
Our cherry poppers, (lol) have invited us back for more and couldn't believe we were new - our other social meet said it's been amazing to meet a genuine couple and cant wait to meet us again - so I also see that you get messed around a bit. And we'll have that to look forward to as well, cos we are not going anywhere!!! Loving it x x x |
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"Well hey guys, we're newbies, ish, I guess now, I'm not sure when you lose the tag exactly lol.
But we threw ourselves into it. Some people like the badge of doing newbies, breaking them in, and some of the messages we have have had have made us feel like the new toy on the block.
But like in any situation in life, we want to meet genuine people too, that don't just want another newbie notch on the post.
We attended a party where we knew no-one, and ended up being the life and soul of the party, and initiating a six-a-thon - so please don't judge us all the same - just because we are new - doesn't mean we don't know how to tease, please and have an awesome time!!!
Our cherry poppers, (lol) have invited us back for more and couldn't believe we were new - our other social meet said it's been amazing to meet a genuine couple and cant wait to meet us again - so I also see that you get messed around a bit. And we'll have that to look forward to as well, cos we are not going anywhere!!! Loving it x x x "
When it's right, it's right. Just how it should be.... Good luck guys glad your having soooo much sexy fun. Xxxx. |
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