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help for a larger lady???
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By *obblybits OP Couple
over a year ago
huddersfield |
I have put on a little weight in the last 6 months ((((who am I kidding I have put on a hell of a lot of weight))))
please ladies and men let me know some positions that are comfy for a bigger girl...
it is getting so hard to enjoy it fully all we seam to do is doggy stile and machinery (when my boobs are not suffocating my throat)
on top doesn't work for me or him tbh it doesn't seam to move right lol
we just want to have hot steamy sex again I have never been this big so its a first, I do hope some of you out there have some advice for me..
i will be googling names I do not understand and writing them down for us to try in the next few weeks or so...
hope I get some good replies as I am desperate for an orgasm and my husband is finding it hard to give me one when im this big.
hope you can help
happy humping
michelle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get a swing, doesn't matter waht size you are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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what size even! |
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By *obblybits OP Couple
over a year ago
huddersfield |
I think I would brake the ceiling lol but im sure my kids would be grateful for the swing lol
there is one in the club near us we could go on a quite night and just have ago on our own.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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michelle your husband is a fool you look gorgeous and there are loads of men outh there who would love to be in the potion of your husband and have the chance to spend time with you , as for positions try on your back with your legs on his shoulders takes weight of him off you leaves your boobs free and he has good access xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We think your gorgeous  |
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By *obblybits OP Couple
over a year ago
huddersfield |
thank you..
I have put on so much weight since the photos though, were just having difficulty finding a comfy position for us both, will have to find the kama-sutra |
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By *eetle201Couple
over a year ago
dunfermline |
both think you have a sexy body let us know what position you like beat? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"michelle your husband is a fool you look gorgeous and there are loads of men outh there who would love to be in the potion of your husband and have the chance to spend time with you , as for positions try on your back with your legs on his shoulders takes weight of him off you leaves your boobs free and he has good access xxx"
n a pillow under yer bum improves this position whatever size you are.  |
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By *obblybits OP Couple
over a year ago
huddersfield |
thats a good idea we had to do that whenever I was pregnant so will try that |
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"I honestly dont think ive ever struggled with a position because of my weight and im big but here are some of my favourite positions. I dont know any technical names for them so will describe them
Doggy
Legs over shoulder (or both shoulders)
Guy standing up
On side with one leg flat and other straight up in air
Sitting on guy facing away
spooning
reverse cowgirl
Theres just a few"
Err, cough, can you put a video on youtube, I'll be able to follow your instructions more easily  |
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lol i took the post of cause i was going to add to it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is machinary the same as missionary? If not, tell us what it is, sounds interesting and could be fun, lol.
We like cowgirl and reverse cowgirl, ie, girl on top, and girl lying down, legs up, and just go for it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you coukd try on your back legs up whe your man pulls on your legs to pull him inside, or you can bend over the side of the bed woth him fucking you from behind, close your eyes and enjoy getting plowed until you gush with satisfaction!!
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Sugar is quite a big girl, spoons works really well for us, she's usually fully satisfied in 15 minutes or so!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is machinary the same as missionary? If not, tell us what it is, sounds interesting and could be fun, lol.
We like cowgirl and reverse cowgirl, ie, girl on top, and girl lying down, legs up, and just go for it "
Machinery ????its the same as missionary but u get the battery powered toys involved ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"michelle your husband is a fool you look gorgeous and there are loads of men outh there who would love to be in the potion of your husband and have the chance to spend time with you , as for positions try on your back with your legs on his shoulders takes weight of him off you leaves your boobs free and he has good access xxx"
I think that's a bit harsh!
Why's her husband a fool?
She hasn't sais he don't find her attractive anymore or that he don't want sex, she's just asked for advice on better possitons for them  |
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i have to say that as a larger lady i dont find it that hard t have fullfilling sex in most positions. i do like doggy (nice and hard lol)
the main one i have problems with is standing up against a wall lol but all the others seem to work fine x |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"michelle your husband is a fool you look gorgeous and there are loads of men outh there who would love to be in the potion of your husband and have the chance to spend time with you , as for positions try on your back with your legs on his shoulders takes weight of him off you leaves your boobs free and he has good access xxx"
Thats a bit harsh isn't it, why is her husband a fool? I would have given you it with both barrels if you had called my hubby a fool for me asking for advice  |
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There are lots of variations on the spoons position which will allow comfort, access and most of all freedom for you both to be able to move and take the lead on pace, depth etc.
Try starting in the spoons position and when he is snuggly inside you bring your legs over him one at a time as you roll onto you back and he stays on his side.... you end up being at a 90 degree angle to eachother. You can interlink legs and try many different arrangements. |
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By *averiMan
over a year ago
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cut back on the pies? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She's asking for help and advice on her sexual positions not on her weight!! Funny how your profile says your not shapist!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There’s humour and sarcasm but that’s well out of order |
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"cut back on the pies?"
What a nasty thing to say to someone who is struggling with their weight. Think maybe you need to change the bit in your profile where it says your not siziest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh I do love a good spoon in the morning great way to wake up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Couldnt agree more diamonds and dogmeister!!! I'm not having the best of days and he's just furiated me more!! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She's asking for help and advice on her sexual positions not on her weight!! Funny how your profile says your not shapist!!!! "
I think I've just become 'gentist' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There’s humour and sarcasm but that’s well out of order "
Totally agree...sarcasm not required!!! |
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"There’s humour and sarcasm but that’s well out of order
Totally agree...sarcasm not required!!!"
I just want to start kicking my legs up in the air when i see your username lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"cut back on the pies?
What a nasty thing to say to someone who is struggling with their weight. Think maybe you need to change the bit in your profile where it says your not siziest."
OH NO ITS HIM AGAIN !!! if you remember he was damn rude about me a few months ago ...hes obviously not getting any..  |
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"cut back on the pies?
What a nasty thing to say to someone who is struggling with their weight. Think maybe you need to change the bit in your profile where it says your not siziest.
OH NO ITS HIM AGAIN !!! if you remember he was damn rude about me a few months ago ...hes obviously not getting any.. "
I quite like it when certain people post on the forums cause no matter what their profile says their true colours shine through on here |
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"cut back on the pies?"
nope - cant find that one in the Karma Sutra, cold you tell me what page its on please??? |
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"cut back on the pies?"
As you like to give advice, can you educate me on how one becomes a perfectionist? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"cut back on the pies?
nope - cant find that one in the Karma Sutra, cold you tell me what page its on please???"
page 69 ..after tie him to the bed and leave him there for a week ..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"cut back on the pies?
nope - cant find that one in the Karma Sutra, cold you tell me what page its on please???
page 69 ..after tie him to the bed and leave him there for a week ....."
Just a week?!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"cut back on the pies?
nope - cant find that one in the Karma Sutra, cold you tell me what page its on please???
page 69 ..after tie him to the bed and leave him there for a week .....
Just a week?!!! "
She's being kind |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"cut back on the pies?
nope - cant find that one in the Karma Sutra, cold you tell me what page its on please???
page 69 ..after tie him to the bed and leave him there for a week .....
Just a week?!!!
She's being kind "
Lol...why??? |
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hun u will have no probs in meets,i have found aswel there is alot of men that like the larger lady as i am big myself it can be daunting but honsetly u will have no prob,and also with the orgasms try vibrators while having sex,they get me there in 2mins flat lol |
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You'd think on a site like this people would be brimming over with ideas for positions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the highest platform heels you got and bend over a desk while you rguy takes you from behind...my fave posistion and he can play with your super big breasts as he's fucking you ! x |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"You'd think on a site like this people would be brimming over with ideas for positions."
Well I am a large lady and don't have an problems in any position.
So I am finding it difficult to think what to suggest. |
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"You'd think on a site like this people would be brimming over with ideas for positions.
Well I am a large lady and don't have an problems in any position.
So I am finding it difficult to think what to suggest."
Anything other than cowgirl, doggy and stuff involving machinery 
Any you're not that big Mrs Borg 7 of 9 |
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"the highest platform heels you got and bend over a desk while you rguy takes you from behind...my fave posistion and he can play with your super big breasts as he's fucking you ! x"
i knew there was a reason i keep buying platform heels |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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what an absolute moron he is. It's people like him that put me off wanting to swing altogether. I notice how he has no face pics, no wonder no one wants to meet him. Nasty piece of work. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"You'd think on a site like this people would be brimming over with ideas for positions.
Well I am a large lady and don't have an problems in any position.
So I am finding it difficult to think what to suggest.
Anything other than cowgirl, doggy and stuff involving machinery
Any you're not that big Mrs Borg 7 of 9"
I am and lol @ Mrs borg 7 of 9
Oh well then you see my fave is doggy but she is fed up with that.
But to be honest, any position,
surely anyone can do,even if it has to be tweaked a bit to suit.... although the machinery one I am not sure about, as it depends on the machinery  |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"cut back on the pies?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You'd think on a site like this people would be brimming over with ideas for positions.
Well I am a large lady and don't have an problems in any position.
So I am finding it difficult to think what to suggest."
wouldnt call you a large lady ruggers, you look dammed fine from what i can see xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being a lover of all things curvy, I'd say thumbs up to doggie (but not literally unless you facy that!) and the pillow technique. Getting those legs up on high also works for us: Tucked under the (clean!) armpits, on the shoulders, or pushed and held as vertical as possible by your guy (sounds painful but actually worked great with quite a few ladies).
"Snuggle" is also good (probably callde 'playing the mandolin' or something in teh Karma Sutra, I name it after Homer and Marge): Lay on your back and raise one leg, then your guy can cuddle into your side, curving his hips until his throbbing man-thing penetrates you. Unlike mish, your dude will also have you within easy reach both up and down for playing.
As an afterthought... I've found trying lots of positions but changing frequently also works. Had some great fun with a cooking timer/alarm and shouting "CHANGE PLACES!" like the Mad-Hatter before switching over
Obviously, I'm available to nip round for any demonstrations required!
Also: Ignore the nasty comments above. Beauty doesn't come with a dress size or age limit. Sadly, neither does being an ass. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also: Ignore the nasty comments above. Beauty doesn't come with a dress size or age limit. Sadly, neither does being an ass."
Change that "comments" bit to "comment" and you've hit the nail in the head |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"thank you..
I have put on so much weight since the photos though, were just having difficulty finding a comfy position for us both, will have to find the kama-sutra"
Maybe you could consider updating your pictures, especially as you carry the flag verification icon on your profile. |
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"thank you..
I have put on so much weight since the photos though, were just having difficulty finding a comfy position for us both, will have to find the kama-sutra
Maybe you could consider updating your pictures, especially as you carry the flag verification icon on your profile."
Why???? |
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"thank you..
I have put on so much weight since the photos though, were just having difficulty finding a comfy position for us both, will have to find the kama-sutra
Maybe you could consider updating your pictures, especially as you carry the flag verification icon on your profile.
Why????"
might not be relevant to the thread as she was askign for positions etc and not for meets but he does have a point, if the OP has changed in appearance that much maybe up to date pics are needed.
how many times have we seen people moan about people who turn up looking tnothing like their pics etc? |
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By *obblybits OP Couple
over a year ago
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hello and thank you for all your comment (but one)
I think most have said what I would have said to him.
we are going to have a go at some of the positions spoke of. sorry for the unusual spelling I use google spell checker when not working so just click on the one that looks right.
your right on the photos BUT we were not meeting anyone right now so if anyone wanted to meet we would of course send up to date pictures to those who we were meeting.
on our profile it referes to my weight gain twice in the first few centences so no one is miss led ((although I was hardly skinny before ))
thank you for all the posts.
me and hubby of course still find each other sexy it is just hard for us right now finding the position as I am big and he is short so together we are against two barriers.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think your beautiful, big IS BEAUTIFUL.
You can still do all the positions you want, just takes time to realise what you have to do.
I am very good friends with a larger lady and beleive me she has ni trouble in having sex.
She lives foggy and getting in top, but spoons ( on side man behind) she lives and comes like a broken dam.
You need to experiment with what you know and adapt to your needs.
If you have any problems, I'd be happy to help x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"
Maybe you could consider updating your pictures, especially as you carry the flag verification icon on your profile."
and where are YOUR pictures exactly??? |
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Maybe you could consider updating your pictures, especially as you carry the flag verification icon on your profile.
and where are YOUR pictures exactly??? "
Ditto.....irony eh? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I agree I certainly should have photos, I'll just browse through my collection and be certain to select a range for you all.
Can you please specify a year that my images were taken or perhaps a past weight ?
I will then upload them for 'Picture Verification' anything to help the forums run smoothly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I agree I certainly should have photos, I'll just browse through my collection and be certain to select a range for you all.
Can you please specify a year that my images were taken or perhaps a past weight ?
I will then upload them for 'Picture Verification' anything to help the forums run smoothly."
1997 and 180lbs approximately ??? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Mmmm I love the taste of sarcasm in the evening. |
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"Yes I agree I certainly should have photos, I'll just browse through my collection and be certain to select a range for you all.
Can you please specify a year that my images were taken or perhaps a past weight ?
I will then upload them for 'Picture Verification' anything to help the forums run smoothly."
Somehow i think the forums will run just fine without your photos |
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By *obblybits OP Couple
over a year ago
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oh and the photos I have are only from last year not like years ago. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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side by side - you both facing each other, but one of your legs is over his - kinda like side by side scissors. You get really close and not too much exertion for either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I agree I certainly should have photos, I'll just browse through my collection and be certain to select a range for you all.
Can you please specify a year that my images were taken or perhaps a past weight ?
I will then upload them for 'Picture Verification' anything to help the forums run smoothly."
We don't need to look at photo's to make our mind up about someone with a stinking attitude thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hi hun
Im a lot bigger than you and I go with the flow on what feels good. I enjoy spooning(side on side) and my partner can play with my breasts/pussy while inside. or lift my leg for deeper penetration.
Like you on top doesnt work for me...or him...plus I risk 2 black eyes+ my knees are shot!
if your boobs are bouncing..bind them up with silk rope...works for us and its sooo horny!!
The trick is feel comfortable. If men want to meet they like what they see...!!
good luck + your gorgeous!! x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I agree I certainly should have photos, I'll just browse through my collection and be certain to select a range for you all.
Can you please specify a year that my images were taken or perhaps a past weight ?
I will then upload them for 'Picture Verification' anything to help the forums run smoothly.
We don't need to look at photo's to make our mind up about someone with a stinking attitude thanks "
So the fact that this profile can message others that have blocked people without the flag verification in place, because after all, the site message filters are there for a reason.
Perhaps your comment would also, by way of my agreement with admin, include them as having a "stinking attitude" ?
Lets reverse this situation:
A person that has afforded themselves the added advantage of Picture Verification, loses, a considerable amount of weight. Would they leave their outdated pictures on site or change and re flag verify ? |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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Actually Crack Attack has a point, if someone started a thread about people being different from their pics when they met I bet lots of people would say that is so wrong to do that.
( I am just talking in general ) |
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"Yes I agree I certainly should have photos, I'll just browse through my collection and be certain to select a range for you all.
Can you please specify a year that my images were taken or perhaps a past weight ?
I will then upload them for 'Picture Verification' anything to help the forums run smoothly.
We don't need to look at photo's to make our mind up about someone with a stinking attitude thanks
So the fact that this profile can message others that have blocked people without the flag verification in place, because after all, the site message filters are there for a reason.
Perhaps your comment would also, by way of my agreement with admin, include them as having a "stinking attitude" ?
Lets reverse this situation:
A person that has afforded themselves the added advantage of Picture Verification, loses, a considerable amount of weight. Would they leave their outdated pictures on site or change and re flag verify ?"
I left my outdated pictures on after loosing four stone with a note on my profile. Ive now taken them of and put one on, dont plan on changing my new picture until ive lost a few more stone |
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The OP has text on her profile to state that she has put on weight since the photos were taken.....all this nit picking about peoples profiles and profile photos is getting very tiring.
Makes it even more ridiculous when the people doing the nit picking don't even have photos on their own profile. |
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By *obblybits OP Couple
over a year ago
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are you just not listening ?????
(((((((((((((((((before reading just wanted to say michelle (me) is a lot bigger than she was in the photos just so no one is being miss-led
hello we are michelle and martyn we have been married for a long time and are still very happily married
.(I now look different that most of pics due to weight gain I do not like to be called a lire))))))))))))))))))))))))
this is the first thing you see when looking at our profile!!!!!!!!!!!!
when we are looking we will put some new pictures on our profile!!!!!!!!!!!!
and tbh you bloody really if you read the bit of my profile above and still think I am the size I am on the photos (((tough shit)))
we are not messaging anyone for meet nore are re getting any so what is your problem.
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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Ok, I think this has run it's course now.
Thread shut. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"side by side - you both facing each other, but one of your legs is over his - kinda like side by side scissors. You get really close and not too much exertion for either. "
Hmmmm, I'm not convinced with this position, as I'm sure the belly would be in the way...unless the man has a two foot dick!
Try having your partner on his back, feet on the floor, straddle and sit on him. You can control how deep you go and no strain on kneed. Variation on doggy: kneel at edge of bed, have partner standing behind you. You can get a deep pounding from that position! |
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