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Partner doesnt like mmf?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Although it drives me mad horny my partner refuses to take up the idea of mmf even though ive angled it differently multiple times, advice if any? Aha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Two choices really
A Find a new partner who is into the same things as you
Or
B stop pestering the girl to do what she does not want to, respect goes a long way
Otherwise she may take up advice A |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Advice to spice up a relationship and everyone replies with stop asking? What great advice lmao... clearly not forcing it asking for advice.."
Your not asking for advice to spice up your relationship
You have already said he refuses to do MMF
What do you want us to say?
Are you waiting for somebody to tell you how to get her to do somethjbg she clearly don't want to? |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"Advice to spice up a relationship and everyone replies with stop asking? What great advice lmao... clearly not forcing it asking for advice.."
It's good advice. She's said no to that particular activity and to keep asking for it would annoy me in her position. You asked for advice, I applied empathy. Maybe if you stopped asking you could try other ways of spicing it up and eventually she might suggest it of her own accord. Patience, young padawan. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Advice to spice up a relationship and everyone replies with stop asking? What great advice lmao... clearly not forcing it asking for advice.."
You said you've asked your partner to take multiple cocks & she's told you to fuck off a few times so no wonder people have said stop asking , nothing about advice on spicing up a relationship.
Fucking hell it's hard fucking work on here sometimes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Although it drives me mad horny my partner refuses to take up the idea of mmf even though ive angled it differently multiple times, advice if any? Aha"
Respect her boundaries and stop pushing her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Although it drives me mad horny my partner refuses to take up the idea of mmf even though ive angled it differently multiple times, advice if any? Aha"
No, there is no advice she or he is not into mmf so it isn't going to happen. |
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"Advice to spice up a relationship and everyone replies with stop asking? What great advice lmao... clearly not forcing it asking for advice.."
To be fair your original post doesn't come across as asking for advice.
Talk to your partner and find out what she would like to try to spice things up and see if you can't find something you'd both enjoy. Best of luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Imagine someone pressuring you to do something sexual you feel uncomfortable with, not sexy, not fun. If you want to spice up your sex life do something you'd both enjoy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with the previous poster.
There are things i just would not do sexually, kids, animals, i find them repulsive and don't see how anyone could get off on them at all. Almost all of us have those same limits and you would not want to try to convince someone to change their view on those.
However, black and white is all you'll ever get on here from usually sarcastic people who don't bother to get to the facts.
I spent decades scared to get on a roller coaster but then i had to go on a little one leading to being braver bit by bit. Now i can do any of them and love the thrill.
Your partner isn't interested but does that rule it out totally? Who knows, that's down to how turned off she is and for what reason. Does she find it a "step too far", is she totally disgusted or is she worried it will cause the end of your relationship because one of you might get too caught up in it?
Maybe she's sexy and likes to play but that's just a step too far (which could change over time), or she's a total prude and won't even have sex with the light on...who knows?...no one on here that's for sure.
Asking people on here for advice about your partner or relationship is pointless because they don't know anything about either.
Just being honest! |
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