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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is this common? I've just met someone who was expecting me to blow them, nothing else.
They had said otherwise before meeting, I had no idea of their real intention.
Is this common? It's the first time it's happened to me (this person is not on my veris and it's the first - and only! - time I meet them).
I'm really irked, what a total waste of time.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Guys, no, we talked about fucking etc.
Gets to mine, all seems ok. Go to the bedroom, he's eager for me to suck his cock. So, I do. Then I notice he's not making any move towards me, not interested in kissing etc.
I just said "am I just gonna be sucking your cock all night?" He went all awkward and knew I wasn't happy.
He said "I should have made my intentions clear"
No shit!
I'm mad my mouth even went anywhere near his selfish cock.  |
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"Guys, no, we talked about fucking etc.
Gets to mine, all seems ok. Go to the bedroom, he's eager for me to suck his cock. So, I do. Then I notice he's not making any move towards me, not interested in kissing etc.
I just said "am I just gonna be sucking your cock all night?" He went all awkward and knew I wasn't happy.
He said "I should have made my intentions clear"
No shit!
I'm mad my mouth even went anywhere near his selfish cock. "
Did you kick his backside back out the door!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys, no, we talked about fucking etc.
Gets to mine, all seems ok. Go to the bedroom, he's eager for me to suck his cock. So, I do. Then I notice he's not making any move towards me, not interested in kissing etc.
I just said "am I just gonna be sucking your cock all night?" He went all awkward and knew I wasn't happy.
He said "I should have made my intentions clear"
No shit!
I'm mad my mouth even went anywhere near his selfish cock. "
Met a guy one time in one of my past profiles did the same thing .
He had traveled a fair distance to meet me
He lay back put the hands behind his head and said since iv had to do the traveling the least you can do is suck me off 
I said enjoy the journey home and walked out  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I kept my temper, but my face was like
He added "I don't always like to fuck, I've got a bad back". Fair enough, but like, tell me beforehand, so I can say no meet. Grrrr.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I kept my temper, but my face was like
He added "I don't always like to fuck, I've got a bad back". Fair enough, but like, tell me beforehand, so I can say no meet. Grrrr. "
He's got a bad back lol!! He knew what he was doing all along, a hole! |
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By *an Holo-Man
over a year ago
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"Is this common? I've just met someone who was expecting me to blow them, nothing else.
They had said otherwise before meeting, I had no idea of their real intention.
Is this common? It's the first time it's happened to me (this person is not on my veris and it's the first - and only! - time I meet them).
I'm really irked, what a total waste of time. "
He didn't even return the favour? You've gotta please lady before leaving.  |
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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago
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"Guys, no, we talked about fucking etc.
Gets to mine, all seems ok. Go to the bedroom, he's eager for me to suck his cock. So, I do. Then I notice he's not making any move towards me, not interested in kissing etc.
I just said "am I just gonna be sucking your cock all night?" He went all awkward and knew I wasn't happy.
He said "I should have made my intentions clear"
No shit!
I'm mad my mouth even went anywhere near his selfish cock.
Met a guy one time in one of my past profiles did the same thing .
He had traveled a fair distance to meet me
He lay back put the hands behind his head and said since iv had to do the traveling the least you can do is suck me off
I said enjoy the journey home and walked out "
Cheeky shit. .. love your reply |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"I kept my temper, but my face was like
He added "I don't always like to fuck, I've got a bad back". Fair enough, but like, tell me beforehand, so I can say no meet. Grrrr. "
That is quite incredible after chatting about your meet etc. I would of perched myself on his face and suffocated the selfish bastard!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I wish I'd both bitten his cock and suffocated the arsehole
Looking back at his messages, he talked of wanting to fuck multiple times. Lol.
I blocked him here as he went out the door.
Now I'm comfort eating Pringles I'd tried so hard to resist. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I kept my temper, but my face was like
He added "I don't always like to fuck, I've got a bad back". Fair enough, but like, tell me beforehand, so I can say no meet. Grrrr.
That is quite incredible after chatting about your meet etc. I would of perched myself on his face and suffocated the selfish bastard!!!! "
You can perch yourself on my face anytime! but please let me get some air  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've done blow & go, but it's usually when I need to be in a hurry. So my choice "
Nothing wrong at all with blow and go when everyone knows what's happening.
This douche has tried to trick me into it. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I had something similar years ago, met a guy from another site, wasn't very satisfying, he made a comment about that was all I was getting, told him to fuck off straight away, the look of shock on his face was a picture! Then he had the cheek to say he was joking, but his arse was straight out of my house! I take no shit  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've enjoyed blow and go in the past but always on my terms / at my request.... bit of a cheek that someone's lured you under false pretences though! "
Me too. Had one last night with an old friend and an ice cube. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've done blow & go, but it's usually when I need to be in a hurry. So my choice
Nothing wrong at all with blow and go when everyone knows what's happening.
This douche has tried to trick me into it. "
As much as I love a blow and go... That's just wrong..
I can make up for it if you want lol  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Kind of nice to know I'm not the only one who's dealt with a cheeky sod...Obviously not nice nice, you know what I mean!
Lol, another gem from this guy as he hurriedly got his stuff before leaving. "Awkward. This should make for an interesting veri". Wtaf. Why would I grace him with a veri?! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Am I the only one thinking "lucky bastard got his cock sucked"?
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Lol. It was for a minimal amount of time, he was nowhere near finishing. I'd be even madder if he had.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe he changed his mind when he got there and decided he was only happy to have his dick sucked? I've promised guys the earth in messages then upon meeting I've let them buy me a hot chocolate and that's it. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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Lol, another gem from this guy as he hurriedly got his stuff before leaving. "Awkward. This should make for an interesting veri". Wtaf. Why would I grace him with a veri?! "
What a catch!!!! It doesn't have to be a good one. It's best to be honest |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lol he'd never show what I'd write!
"Met this asshat tonight. Lay back leisurely and expected sucking to completion without lifting a finger himself. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is this common? I've just met someone who was expecting me to blow them, nothing else.
They had said otherwise before meeting, I had no idea of their real intention.
Is this common? It's the first time it's happened to me (this person is not on my veris and it's the first - and only! - time I meet them).
I'm really irked, what a total waste of time. "
Quite odd, indeed. He should have mentioned it before the meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just to clarify, I don't think there's anything wrong with blow and go. Just think it's wrong when someone deliberately misleads."
What would stop at just a BJ with you?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've enjoyed blow and go in the past but always on my terms / at my request.... bit of a cheek that someone's lured you under false pretences though!
Me too. Had one last night with an old friend and an ice cube."
Haha sounds fun! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Something similar happened to me a few weeks ago...i'd been chatting to this guy for a while, so we arranged to meet and when he got here, it turned out he was married and very nervous and in a nutshell wasted my time!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lol he'd never show what I'd write!
"Met this asshat tonight. Lay back leisurely and expected sucking to completion without lifting a finger himself. "
I'd still leave him one! "
I blocked him as he went out the door though! Lol.
"Something similar happened to me a few weeks ago...i'd been chatting to this guy for a while, so we arranged to meet and when he got here, it turned out he was married and very nervous and in a nutshell wasted my time!!! "
. I have a funny feeling this guy might have been married. It's guessing, but I wondered if he felt blowjobs aren't real cheating.
Several hours of my time wasted. The guy was only with me for minutes, but I'd spent ages getting ready (as I always do before meets). |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe he changed his mind when he got there and decided he was only happy to have his dick sucked? I've promised guys the earth in messages then upon meeting I've let them buy me a hot chocolate and that's it. "
This . Maybe he just wasn't into u |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe he changed his mind when he got there and decided he was only happy to have his dick sucked? I've promised guys the earth in messages then upon meeting I've let them buy me a hot chocolate and that's it.
This . Maybe he just wasn't into u"
Fine, but don't try to get me to suck dick if that's all you're after. Tell me and let me make an informed decision.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd have been so arsy! And like you I'd feel furious that I'd given him any pleasure at all. The whole point of fab is to get what you need and desire and feel good about yourself (well, for me anyway) I'm certainly not here to service guys, end up feeling used and get absolutely nothing in return! What a shit. Onwards and upwards hun. The majority of fab guys are amazing. Its picking the right ones thats so tricky xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe he changed his mind when he got there and decided he was only happy to have his dick sucked? I've promised guys the earth in messages then upon meeting I've let them buy me a hot chocolate and that's it.
This . Maybe he just wasn't into u
Fine, but don't try to get me to suck dick if that's all you're after. Tell me and let me make an informed decision. "
This is a bloke we talking about |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd have been so arsy! And like you I'd feel furious that I'd given him any pleasure at all. The whole point of fab is to get what you need and desire and feel good about yourself (well, for me anyway) I'm certainly not here to service guys, end up feeling used and get absolutely nothing in return! What a shit. Onwards and upwards hun. The majority of fab guys are amazing. Its picking the right ones thats so tricky xx"
Thank you.
I've met loads of really great guys from fab, so I've not lost heart. Maybe that's partly why I'm so thrown by this, I've never had it happen before.
But yeah, I feel crap that this guy seemed to feel he could use me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe he changed his mind when he got there and decided he was only happy to have his dick sucked? I've promised guys the earth in messages then upon meeting I've let them buy me a hot chocolate and that's it.
This . Maybe he just wasn't into u
Fine, but don't try to get me to suck dick if that's all you're after. Tell me and let me make an informed decision.
This is a bloke we talking about "
Lol good point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He didn't even return the favour? You've gotta please lady before leaving. "
My thoughts exactly! I couldn't leave without at least giving the poor girl a good licking!
Blokes like that give us genuine single guys a bad name, so cheers for that you selfish twat! |
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"Guys, no, we talked about fucking etc.
Gets to mine, all seems ok. Go to the bedroom, he's eager for me to suck his cock. So, I do. Then I notice he's not making any move towards me, not interested in kissing etc.
I just said "am I just gonna be sucking your cock all night?" He went all awkward and knew I wasn't happy.
He said "I should have made my intentions clear"
No shit!
I'm mad my mouth even went anywhere near his selfish cock. "
I have bit him! |
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"Something similar happened to me a few weeks ago...i'd been chatting to this guy for a while, so we arranged to meet and when he got here, it turned out he was married and very nervous and in a nutshell wasted my time!!! "
I had the same thing. Very frustrating |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Should have straddled his face and made your intention clear as a whistle...
"Lick me til I tell you to stop" failing any response just sit down harder and smother him LOL |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol he'd never show what I'd write!
"Met this asshat tonight. Lay back leisurely and expected sucking to completion without lifting a finger himself. "
I'd still leave him one!
I blocked him as he went out the door though! Lol.
Something similar happened to me a few weeks ago...i'd been chatting to this guy for a while, so we arranged to meet and when he got here, it turned out he was married and very nervous and in a nutshell wasted my time!!!
. I have a funny feeling this guy might have been married. It's guessing, but I wondered if he felt blowjobs aren't real cheating.
Several hours of my time wasted. The guy was only with me for minutes, but I'd spent ages getting ready (as I always do before meets)."
You're probably right, especially if he's still fucking his wife and she won't give blow jobs.
I've been tricked into a blow and go once, and stopped sucking guys off first because of this. |
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I've had this's few times lately and really pisses me off the same as a lot of guys I find want oral then to fuck you but otherwise don't lay a finger on you, it's like they think getting fucked should be enough! Quite often left feeling 'what was in that for me' at the end of a meet and the infuriating thing is they don't seem to realise there is anything wrong either that or they don't care! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Maybe he was going to have sex but when you said "am I just going to be sucking your cock all night" he thought you were a bit brash. Maybe he was uncomfortable when your face was like fizz lol x |
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"I've had this's few times lately and really pisses me off the same as a lot of guys I find want oral then to fuck you but otherwise don't lay a finger on you, it's like they think getting fucked should be enough! Quite often left feeling 'what was in that for me' at the end of a meet and the infuriating thing is they don't seem to realise there is anything wrong either that or they don't care!"
That's grim! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get that a lot from Guys who wanted a BLOW Job only. I tell them I'm not a fooling gloryhole. Go and seek help from most guys who offer that on the site and their are loads in your area then I block them. BOOOM....Lol. Yes I'm harsh and nasty. Atleast I admit that...hahaha |
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"I've had this's few times lately and really pisses me off the same as a lot of guys I find want oral then to fuck you but otherwise don't lay a finger on you, it's like they think getting fucked should be enough! Quite often left feeling 'what was in that for me' at the end of a meet and the infuriating thing is they don't seem to realise there is anything wrong either that or they don't care!"
Yep, I've had this too. So annoying! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are a few couples who like blow and go meets with single males, these meets can also be good if a lady is on her period.
They do seem a slight waste of time - I enjoy exploring a lady more thoroughly when turned on, and yes that also means going down on her as well. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Maybe he was going to have sex but when you said "am I just going to be sucking your cock all night" he thought you were a bit brash. Maybe he was uncomfortable when your face was like fizz lol x"
I'll admit, my face was a definite boner killer, but that was only after I'd established what was going on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Lol he'd never show what I'd write!
"Met this asshat tonight. Lay back leisurely and expected sucking to completion without lifting a finger himself. "
I'd still leave him one!
I blocked him as he went out the door though! Lol.
Something similar happened to me a few weeks ago...i'd been chatting to this guy for a while, so we arranged to meet and when he got here, it turned out he was married and very nervous and in a nutshell wasted my time!!!
. I have a funny feeling this guy might have been married. It's guessing, but I wondered if he felt blowjobs aren't real cheating.
Several hours of my time wasted. The guy was only with me for minutes, but I'd spent ages getting ready (as I always do before meets).
You're probably right, especially if he's still fucking his wife and she won't give blow jobs.
I've been tricked into a blow and go once, and stopped sucking guys off first because of this."
That's gonna be my new policy from now on, no suck jobs before anything else.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've had this's few times lately and really pisses me off the same as a lot of guys I find want oral then to fuck you but otherwise don't lay a finger on you, it's like they think getting fucked should be enough! Quite often left feeling 'what was in that for me' at the end of a meet and the infuriating thing is they don't seem to realise there is anything wrong either that or they don't care!"
I've had that with people away from fab...one was a long term boyfriend. How I put up with that for over 2 years, I still can't explain. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is this common? I've just met someone who was expecting me to blow them, nothing else.
They had said otherwise before meeting, I had no idea of their real intention.
Is this common? It's the first time it's happened to me (this person is not on my veris and it's the first - and only! - time I meet them).
I'm really irked, what a total waste of time. "
Wow.....not sure i could of left you alone hehehehe |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is this common? I've just met someone who was expecting me to blow them, nothing else.
They had said otherwise before meeting, I had no idea of their real intention.
Is this common? It's the first time it's happened to me (this person is not on my veris and it's the first - and only! - time I meet them).
I'm really irked, what a total waste of time. "
Once a long time ago thats all a guy wanted, never since though and yeah was a total waste of time, we left without nothing happening. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe he was going to have sex but when you said "am I just going to be sucking your cock all night" he thought you were a bit brash. Maybe he was uncomfortable when your face was like fizz lol x
I'll admit, my face was a definite boner killer, but that was only after I'd established what was going on. "
You killed his bones...no wonder there wasn't any hanky panky x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe he was going to have sex but when you said "am I just going to be sucking your cock all night" he thought you were a bit brash. Maybe he was uncomfortable when your face was like fizz lol x
I'll admit, my face was a definite boner killer, but that was only after I'd established what was going on.
You killed his bones...no wonder there wasn't any hanky panky x"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe he was going to have sex but when you said "am I just going to be sucking your cock all night" he thought you were a bit brash. Maybe he was uncomfortable when your face was like fizz lol x
I'll admit, my face was a definite boner killer, but that was only after I'd established what was going on.
You killed his bones...no wonder there wasn't any hanky panky x"
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