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How important is the first message??

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Is it really important, especially for women and couples or you just ignore it and move to the profile and the photos?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

most women will check out a profile before even opening a message so initially its your profile, and it being apparent that you have read theirs as well that will hopefuly mean your message gets read..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

if you're highly physically attractive to the person you're message it shouldn't matter too much. but sometimes what you say can put that person off you.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I read the message first... If it doesn't work for me it's a deleted and if it's a good first message I look at the profile

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I Look at the profile before reading the message.

If there nothing there that I like, I sometimes don't even bother reading the message.

If the message is funny or articulate then I'll read and respond even if it's a no.

Generally it just depends on the feeling I get from the profile. Hope that helps!

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By *lighty1Woman  over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

Anything can be a deal-breaker. I might read the profile and look at the pics first (naff profile and 20 dick-pics have me reaching for the 'delete' button). But a crass first message also leads to a 'delete', as can over-explicit verifications.

Basically, you've got to have all your ducks in a row.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes because if you just say, I'm bored and horny, I think and? That's my problem how.

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge

If you're a hot woman, you can write anything in a message.

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By *ivinefoxWoman  over a year ago

Coventry

If your message showed that you had read my profile and that you were genuinely looking for something similar then I'd definitely reply.

However you need to have a good profile too.

A nice face pic sent privately is a big plus as well!

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